How to put your husband in his place and save the marriage

A woman's contribution to her husband's loss of respect for her

The reasons why a husband stopped treating a woman with tenderness are varied. Conventionally, they can be divided into

Ungroomed wife

Everyone knows that women love with their ears. But often the weaker sex forgets that men also need to nourish their love feelings, and the appearance of the other half plays an important role in this. Before the wedding, girls carefully look after themselves, trying not to lose their boyfriend, and after marriage a metamorphosis occurs.

Of course, in family life a couple faces many worries - small children, work, financial difficulties. But even if you don’t have the opportunity or desire to visit expensive salons, you can always find time to wash and style your hair and put on clean, neat clothes. After a difficult day at work, a man still deserves to see not an aunt in a dirty robe, but a beloved woman who cares about her appearance.

Communication style

This point is similar to the previous one, only we will talk not about external, but about internal filling. If for a long time a man has heard nothing but discontent and “sawing” at home, over time his wife’s speech will cause him nothing but irritation.

No matter how much he loves his wife, he will not be able to resist negative feelings. As in the famous proverb: “A drop wears away a stone.” He will either remain silent or answer questions sharply.

But in your desire to please with words, you shouldn’t go too far. Of course, you should always try to smile when you meet and greet your husband affectionately. But in case of fatigue or illness, it is important to be able to show your condition and express your desires.

If you couldn’t restrain yourself, for example, because of problems at work, words of apology will come in very handy.

Problems in intimate life

For men, sex is a very important part of life. Quite often, women, knowing this, try to manipulate their husbands through intimacy. They either have a “headache” or simply have no desire.

We must remember that such behavior is akin to walking on the edge of an abyss. Of course, it is important to defend your point of view and not forget about your desires, but not with the help of the weak points of a loved one.

Hostility on the part of the husband can also arise if the wife does not want to lead a rich intimate life. Sex as a scheduled duty quickly kills any desire for this particular person, which in the future can lead to a search for pleasure on the side.

Lack of self-development

Even if a woman is in order with all of the above points, the risk of losing respect from her husband remains. It is associated with what is called self-development, or rather with its absence.

Women who, due to circumstances or by choice, stay at home are more susceptible to this condition. They may get carried away by monotonous TV series, stupid talk shows and similar activities, which is why they lose topics of conversation.

But in many ways this development of events is determined by the internal state. A working woman will justify her reluctance to learn new things by being tired, and her interests may very soon narrow. If she has abandoned common hobbies with her husband and has not found new ones, he may lose interest in his wife.

Method 5: Leave room for a riddle

You earn good money, occupy a high position, but your wife has lost respect for you? Stop spoiling her. It is clear that you are ready to fulfill any whims, but in everything you need to know when to stop. It’s not for nothing that Pushkin wrote “The more we love a woman, the less she likes us...”. Don’t run forward to fulfill all your beloved’s wishes, leave room for some mystery, you are not an open book. Let the lady ask for a favor, showing her need. This way you can gradually remove the crown from her.

Did your spouse give you a beautiful (totally unnecessary) writing pen for your birthday? Reciprocate.

Is the girl in no hurry to share family stories? And you shouldn't amuse her with stories about the events that happened last weekend.

As a rule, wives stop respecting their husbands because of their own considerations. Some are dissatisfied with the lack of attention to their person, others want to live like queens, and others do everything themselves without outside support. Identify the true motives of behavior and begin to act. Where the carrot is powerless, try the stick.

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If the reason is in the husband

Unfortunately, it happens that a wise wife has analyzed her behavior, corrected her shortcomings and is trying with all her might to maintain peace in the family, but the husband does not change his attitude. In this case, we need to talk about whether the cause of the discord is in the spouse himself. What points are we talking about?

Selfishness and infantilism of the husband

Psychology believes that selfish behavior is rooted in the lack of independence and immaturity of the individual’s psyche. Such a person is accustomed to having someone else make all the important decisions for him.

He lives only for his own pleasure, avoiding any unpleasant moments. Therefore, when his wife does not agree with his opinion and offers another solution to the problem, this greatly irritates him.

By and large, an egoist respects no one but himself. No matter how patient the other half is, it will not be easy for them to get along. Only strong love and acceptance will help smooth out the rough edges in such relationships.

Sometimes this gives results, and the infantile person finally begins to think about responsibility and not blame everyone around him for failures. He gains respect for his wife for tolerating his shortcomings. But whether his half’s feelings will disappear during this difficult time, the question remains open.

Financial dependence on a man

In our country, a common family model is where the man is the breadwinner and the woman takes care of the house. Many couples like this position. It allows a man to feel like the head, the master of this small world, where everything depends on his decision.

This situation relieves women of financial responsibility and the need to be torn between home and work.

It would seem, what could be the catch if the spouses are happy with everything? In fact, a woman in such a relationship, due to financial dependence on her husband, also becomes psychologically dependent.

Something happens in a man’s life - problems at work, he liked another woman, or his own wife simply began to irritate him - all this will affect his wife. Most often she has nowhere to go, especially with children; finding a good job without experience is also unlikely.

Aggression

This aspect of male behavior is worth special consideration, because a woman’s response to it should be quick and unambiguous.

If in the case of selfishness there is hope of finding a common language, especially if the husband himself is ready to improve, and financial dependence can be prevented from the beginning, then aggression cannot be changed on one’s own.

Often violence, including physical violence, is accompanied by alcohol abuse and drug addiction.

Many women mistakenly believe that if they are patient, the situation will improve. But the experience of psychologists, social services and law enforcement agencies shows that male aggressors do not find the strength to stop immoral behavior.

You should not expect either respect or fear of losing your spouse from such a partner - if it appears, it will be until the next outburst of anger.

Mental illness

Many mental illnesses manifest themselves quite early - in childhood or adolescence. But what if such a disease began when the person was already married?

In this case, is it worth looking for ways to make a husband respect his wife and be afraid of losing her?

Without a doubt, it is painful to realize that a loved one periodically turns into someone alien and often aggressive. I want to return everything, endure it and wait for a happy ending. Sometimes, in cases of indolent disease, this tactic works for a while.

But, for example, schizophrenia is dangerous because of its unpredictability and obsessions. Therefore, it is important to make the right decision in time and put the safety of yourself and your children, if any, first.

Specifics and causes of marital jealousy

To use jealousy as a means of strengthening family relationships, you need to have a good understanding of what this phenomenon is, what its causes and characteristics are. In psychology, jealousy is understood as a complex, negatively colored emotional and sensory state that develops in a situation of direct or imaginary threat of loss of familiar ties with an important person. The condition manifests itself in the form of various combinations of primary feelings - fear, mistrust, resentment, grief, anger, etc. The specific nature of the manifestation of the condition depends on various factors - gender, age, social status and character traits of the participants.

There is an opinion that the disturbing phenomenon in question is inextricably linked with love. This is not true. A jealous person may experience the condition in question towards a person without love. Often in families, jealousy arises in response to the threat of losing comfortable and stable living conditions. The state of mistrust is also a mechanism of competitive struggle between competitors: a girl is jealous of a young man only because of the threat of defeat in the rivalry. She doesn't feel any love.

Causes

Jealousy of a wife in the family is a disturbing mental state of a woman caused by the fear of losing personal, love, household or material ties with her spouse. Various factors can cause it. It is important to understand the mechanism that influences the development of jealousy in a wife.

Reasons for jealousy towards your husband:

Strong feeling of love, affection. The husband is perceived by his wife as the ideal man. She doesn't see anyone else next to her.
Psychological trauma. A woman has negative experiences with men in the past. She was deceived and abandoned by her former partner, and previously deceived by her current husband. Betrayal by the father towards the mother, observed in childhood, can also traumatize the psyche. Negative experiences create a girl’s fear of confronting the horror she has experienced. She considers all men to be traitors and deceivers. The husband is no exception, even if he is not involved in past suffering.
Worldview, social attitudes. The woman grew up and lived in an environment where jealousy, mistrust, betrayal and deception are common occurrences and the norm.
Lack of independence. The girl does not have the necessary skills and education to independently provide for her usual standard of living. Limitation breeds fear of losing a spouse.
Low self-esteem. The woman is not confident in herself; she believes that no one will pay attention to her if she loses her husband. The spouse will easily find a better companion.
Selfishness and possessiveness towards your spouse. The husband is perceived not as a self-sufficient subject of the relationship, but as an object that complements the life and everyday life of his wife. Selfish aspirations are aimed at completely suppressing a man’s independence. Any deviation from the idea of living together is met with a defense mechanism - jealousy.
Excessive impressionability, developed imagination. It is typical for the spouse to inflate any suspicions too much. The girl transfers gossip, TV show plots, and horror stories about cheating onto her family life. I was late from work and took a mistress. Didn't answer the call - he was with someone else. The husband is too attentive to his appearance - he fell in love with another woman.

Harm or benefit

To make your wife jealous, you need to create a situation in which conditions will be provoked to form a compelling reason for the development of fear or mistrust. The husband's knowledge of the psychology of his companion is key.

Every woman has vulnerabilities that can give rise to fears. And these feelings are the deepest reasons for any female jealousy.

Separately, it is worth considering the problem of the benefits of jealousy for family relationships. Under certain conditions, provoking uncertainty in a partner has a fruitful effect on the nature of interactions - a shake-up occurs, the gray, boring everyday life is diluted with bright colors, feelings are again filled with the same sensations, connections are strengthened, relationships reach a higher level.

This is the approach we will consider so that, due to the provocation of jealousy, your marriage becomes stronger. For fear of loss to have a fruitful effect, you need to approach the problem carefully. This method involves a large number of risks that can lead to irreversible negative consequences.

Factors to consider when considering jealousy as a means of fruitfully influencing your relationship with your wife:

A woman must be psychologically stable, developed, mature and self-sufficient. Provocation aimed at a weak, unstable personality will lead to the development of psychological problems.
The relationship between the spouses should be strong and stable; the husband and wife should experience strong mutual feelings of love, sympathy, trust, respect and affection.
It is important to put pressure on the partner’s vulnerable area, which is well known to the man. An error in assessing the personality of a companion will lead to disastrous consequences.
Provocative actions must be done with caution. It is important to maintain boundaries and stop putting pressure on your partner in time.
A man must clearly understand the purpose of his actions. Once the problem is solved, the provocation should be stopped immediately. It's important not to play around.

The goals that the husband pursues, causing the jealousy of his wife:

make you afraid of losing;
attract attention, regain interest;
shake yourself and your companion, take the relationship to a new level;
check for feelings and interest in relationships;
revenge (the lowest but most common reason).

Why are caution and measures the most important factors in provoking anxiety in a spouse?

Jealousy is a state that has a negative connotation. In the vast majority of cases, mistrust and fear in family relationships lead to disastrous results:

development of psychological problems and disorders in a jealous person;
trusting and sincere relationships are terminated;
the pure feeling of respect and affection goes away;
the family is destroyed;
Those around you suffer - children, relatives, friends.

In addition to jealousy itself, ill-considered provocation can cause negative consequences. This must always be remembered.

Possible negative consequences of provoking jealousy in a wife:

the spouse will respond in a mirror way - she will have a lover, commit adultery;
a principled, self-respecting woman with a strong character will not tolerate bullying - she will choose a complete severance of relations;
paranoid behavior of a companion - endless calls, regular unexpected visits to work, scandals in public places, complaints to family and friends;
total control of all areas of life, loss of trust and respect;
deterioration of attitude on the part of the wife’s relatives and friends.

Shows of disrespect

Just recently, the husband was gentle and caring, but now a woman increasingly feels uncomfortable in communicating with him. Sometimes she cannot fully understand that her husband has ceased to respect her and, apart from irritation, feels nothing.

Let's list the clear signs that feelings have cooled.

Constant reproaches and reproaches, expressions of dissatisfaction.
There are few or no tender words in speech.
A man can insult his wife with obscene and offensive language.
The husband does not seek to hug or caress his wife.
Conversations in such a family do not go well; they are short, to the point, or with irritation.
A man is bored with his wife, he strives to spend more time outside the home, in the company of friends.
Ridicule or lack of interest in the wife's hobbies, work and hobbies.
Disrespect for a woman’s moral values, constant teasing on this basis.
A man who does not respect his wife allows himself to humiliate her not only with words, but also with actions. Often this is expressed in the use of force to fulfill his whims.
Depending on the character, the spouse either begins to completely control the woman, her communication, work, travel, or is absolutely indifferent to her and is not interested in her life.
In the presence of his wife, a man who has lost respect for her does not hesitate to show signs of attention to other women. In private, he also constantly compares her to someone he considers prettier, and regrets getting married.
Subsequently, the spouse takes active action and seeks joy on the side, which leads to betrayal.

Lucky girlfriend

As cynical as it may seem, the discord between one of your girlfriends and her boyfriend can be safely used for your own purposes.

go to her place for the night, citing the need to calm and support a loved one;
go and have fun together at a nightclub;
spend as much time with her as possible.

Surely, even after the first night spent away from home, your husband will finally tear himself away from his “tanks” or football and present you with well-founded complaints. Don’t lay out all your cards at once - let the jealousy simmer inside him a little more. After all, this is exactly what you wanted, isn’t it?

How to make the right decision

Living in such an environment often becomes unbearable, and the woman thinks about how to change the situation. There are two ways out - either leave such a man, or try to regain his respect for yourself. Each option has its pros and cons, the main thing is to understand which is more.

In the case when a woman tries her best to save her family, endures her husband’s attacks, takes every action to bring love back into the relationship, but all in vain, it makes sense to think about divorce.

Marriage is not a game of one goal, it is a home that two people build. This especially applies to violent men with addictions and mental illnesses. But sometimes even an adequate man can become offended or change his life attitudes so much that it becomes impossible to return love.

But, fortunately, most men also want to build trusting and close relationships. Anything can happen in life: resentment, fatigue, problems. But even a frozen heart can be thawed again if you choose the right behavior. Let's talk about this now.

How to make your ex jealous

There are several effective methods to make your ex-girlfriend or spouse jealous.

Take care of your image

Put on a show. You don’t have to resort to drastic changes—get plastic surgery or dye your hair a different color. It’s enough to buy a couple of creative things, shoes, and sign up for a gym to lose or gain weight, if necessary. It won't hurt to have a beautiful and attractive hairstyle. And be sure to change the scent of your perfume.

Seeing you in this form, your ex-wife or girlfriend will simply be shocked. She will understand that after the breakup your life did not go downhill, but on the contrary, it became even better. This turn of events will make her jealous and want to get you back. If you also want to renew the relationship, you need to meet halfway and show gestures of attention.

Find another

The most effective method to feel the jealousy of your ex-wife or girlfriend is to start dating other representatives of the fair sex. It doesn't have to be a serious relationship. It's better to just flirt. It will help you get your loved one back if he really has feelings for you.

Seeing you attracted to someone else, your ex will immediately begin to show jealousy, and you will definitely notice it. The more often you date someone, especially in front of her, the more she will think about why not me, but another girl became number 1 for him.

Your task is not to enter into a relationship, and certainly not to bring communication to intimacy, but to let your beloved know that you are very popular, attractive and many women are simply crazy about you. In modern psychology this is called pre-selection. The more popularity you gain among the fair sex, the more it will grow in the eyes of girls. This is how our subconscious works. Therefore, feel free to gather your friends and go to the club to meet new people.

Be socially active

Social networks will be a good way to make your ex-wife or girlfriend jealous. Even after breaking up, be sure that she periodically visits your page. If you are not on her blacklist, you can use this tool and make her jealous.

Take more pictures with friends, other girls, show that your world is filled with interesting, exciting people, fun and diversity.

Remember: any actions towards your ex-wife or girlfriend must be carefully considered. In this matter, extreme caution is needed, since the result is not always expected.

How can a woman regain her self-respect?

Before taking any action, it is important to understand what caused this situation. The result will then be achieved faster, and this will happen again later.

Women who are prone to introspection find it easier to understand themselves and understand whether she has provoked a man with her actions.

At the same time, knowing his weaknesses, the wife can develop certain behavioral tactics that will make the man afraid of losing his wife.

First

The first and basic rule is that no one will respect a woman if she does not respect herself. Now the husband is taking out his irritation on her, then it will be the children. You need to find your strengths and focus on them.

Perhaps it’s culinary skills, or maybe organizational skills. It is important to have your own “territory” that no one can enter without permission. A woman who is tired after work has the right to rest, and a woman working from home has the right to silence.

Second

When a woman learns to respect herself, it will be easier for her to teach her husband to do the same. Basic gratitude for a delicious dinner or cleanliness in the house should not be something extraordinary.

A man needs to realize that his wife performs her household duties voluntarily and can stop doing so at any time. For example, because I haven’t heard “thank you” addressed to me for a long time.

Third

Self-love also manifests itself in taking care of your body. This is why it is difficult to sympathize with sloppy women who, due to laziness, do not take care of their figure and appearance.

No matter how much a man loves his wife at the beginning of the relationship, it will become increasingly difficult for him to maintain strong feelings if she is not well-groomed.

The fight against excess weight, a beautiful hairstyle, a fresh look and suitable makeup, stylish clothes - you cannot do without this in search of self-respect.

Fourth

The inner world is no less important than the appearance. A woman may look like a model, but there is nothing to talk to her about. In addition to purely feminine hobbies, such as needlework, for example, it is not a bad idea to share hobbies with your husband.

Many women go with their husbands to sports matches or fishing, but traveling and skiing together will be an excellent bonding link. If active recreation is not interesting, most often you can still find a compromise and common topics, if you wish.

What do men themselves think?

Representatives of the stronger sex have their own answer to the question of how to make a husband jealous and afraid of losing his wife. It’s worth listening to them, because who, if not the men themselves, know the psychology of their own kind. Firstly, according to their advice, you need to spend a certain amount of time separately, pursuing your personal interests. This buffer time zone is a great break from each other, a period when you can get bored. Secondly, there is no need to pester your spouse with questions about where he was and with whom. He will tell you himself if he deems it necessary. By being tactful, you will become the most desirable to your husband. After all, men love it so much when they are understood.

When does it make sense to fight for a relationship?

Before you begin the journey of seeking respect from a given man, you need to answer the question: how necessary is this?

There are several relationship options when you shouldn’t waste time:

a man does not respect and never has respected his wife. He was initially determined to dominate and humiliate, for which he looked for a wife with low self-esteem.

No matter what she does, he will always be dissatisfied; this is how he affirms himself at her expense. If this repeats from year to year, then it is better to break this pathological connection;

on the other hand, it is necessary to clearly determine whether a woman has “victim syndrome”, which appears from living together with an aggressor.

Sometimes this can only be determined by a specialist, because it can be difficult and embarrassing for women to admit this. Working with a psychologist will help you break out of the vicious circle;

sometimes the reason may be a woman’s avoidance of responsibility. She understands that in the event of a divorce, she will have to make all the decisions herself.

No matter how difficult it may be to live together with such a spouse, she cannot decide to break up. Perhaps these are the fruits of upbringing, mentality, character traits. Over time, she gets used to disrespect, and her determination disappears completely.

Effective rituals for wife's love

On the picture

The ritual will require a red candle.

There is a conspiracy that is effective for the husband, which is carried out using photography. It can be done at home without seeking the help of specialists. Wait until evening, light a red candle. Place a photograph of your wife in front of you and read the following words three times:

“Brother Kolovrat and his son, the one who is rich in soul and heart. Look at me, lower your eyes. Darken the sky for centuries, return my beloved to me. Give your instructions to the flies and snakes, let them fly and crawl quickly, let them return my wife to me. Even if she doesn’t walk on other people’s paths, cities and villages, she loves me more than life itself, she just wants to be with me. Let it be as I said in this bright hour, let these words, coming from a pure heart, attract my beloved to me as quickly as possible. I can’t live, eat, sleep or drink without it. Let him only be next to me, only in me he sees his beloved man.”

Blow out the candle. The next day in the evening, perform the ritual again. And so on for several days in a row, until only one stub of candle remains. Take it to the crossroads and leave it there, go home silently and without looking back.

For a wedding photo

The wedding photography ritual takes place in the evening.

There is an effective conspiracy in the photo that will help so that your wife will always be faithful to you and never cheat on you. In the evening, place your wedding photo on the table. Light a church candle nearby and say the following words seven times in a row:

“A snow-white dove and a dove flew over the black clouds, singing songs of love to each other. Those holy songs spread over the world. And these are not songs, but prayers so that families do not fall apart, so that the union is strong, so that the wife never stops loving her husband. To preserve marital fidelity forever, so that you don’t step on crooked paths. And whoever was nice would get a lapel. Let her not give her hand to anyone, with whom she has not taken an oath before God. Let it be as it was sung and prayed for by those doves.”

Let the candle burn out completely. Very soon you will see the first results of your efforts.

For a wedding ring

The wedding ring cannot be removed after the spell

Take your wedding ring and say the following words on it:

“The birds are sitting on the branches, looking around. Wherever they looked, they would immediately fly there. They have no family and relatives, they have neither a home nor a threshold. But there is only a free road. And my beloved (name) has a home, she has relatives. I’m waiting for her, calling her to me, inviting her into the family.”

Put the ring on and don't take it off.

On the mirror

The mirror must be new

Buy a new mirror, look into it and say the following words three times:

“I look in the mirror and admire myself. Other people look at themselves, admire themselves. So let my wife, beloved (name) look at me, but she can’t stop looking at me, she rejoices at me and she can’t be happier. He comes to me joyfully, never screams or grumbles. Let it be so".

Wrap the mirror in a piece of white fabric and hide it in a secret place.

On a candle

Buy a thick candle from the temple. Wait until evening, light it and say these words:

“The flame burns, the fire flares up, so let my wife (name) be inflamed with a strong desire for me. Doesn't leave me, always comes back to me. Both night and day it always stays with me. Let it be so".

Let the candle burn out completely.

On the water

You need to take water immediately after waking up

Early in the morning after waking up, draw water and hide it until the evening. When all family members go to bed, go to an empty room with this water. Hold it in your hands and say:

“Free birds do not live without the sky, forest animals do not live without the open spaces of the forest, wild flowers do not live without the earth, so may my wife (name) never be able to live without me. So let it always be. So that she would be bored and grieve, would not see the world, could not live even for an hour without me, servant of God (name).”

Spray all corners of your house with the enchanted liquid, paying special attention to the bedroom.

On shoes

To ensure that your wife never cheats on you, perform a ritual on her shoes. Take boots or shoes, wipe them with a wet rag, saying:

“Steel is strong, my love is strong. Let her tie my wife (name) to me, God’s servant (name). Just as these shoes have heels, so may we become inseparable from her forever. Let him always want and desire only me. Just like these shoes are a pair, we will remain a pair forever.”

On a thread

The thread must be green and thick

Take two thick green threads. Tie them with three knots, and cast a spell on each of them:

“May God's servant (name) be next to me, may she not leave me either in sorrow or in joy, neither in wealth nor in poverty. May we remain together forever and there will be no barriers or obstacles to our love. I lock my words with a key, I will throw the key to the very bottom of the deep swamp. No one will interrupt my words or change them. Let it be so".

When you finish reading the plot, set the threads on fire.

To the birds' nest

If your beloved repeatedly cheats on you, but you want to maintain the relationship, perform the following ritual. Find a bird's nest with chicks in it. Stand over him, make a finger lock and say three times:

“Just as these birds built a nest, so we created a family. Just as these birds remain inseparable forever, so we will forever remain faithful to each other. And my beloved (name) will never walk again, she will only be mine. It will be so from now on and forever and ever and not otherwise. Amen!".

It is recommended to perform this ritual once a month, three times in a row.

On underwear

The conspiracy with linen is carried out in the evening

Take your wife's nightgown, a church candle, a photograph of your wife. Wait until evening, light a candle. Hold your wife’s underwear in one hand, and take her photograph in the other. Close your eyes and say:

“My beloved, the light of my eyes, you were given to me by fate and promised by heaven. Only let your body, your thoughts and your soul be with me. Only next to me you find happiness; you will never betray me in your life. Come back to me, into my tender arms, without you I feel very bad. I call my beloved to come to me. May you not be able to eat, sleep and live without me. I send my love to you, I attract you to me.”

Drip wax onto your beloved’s nightgown, onto a photograph and say:

“I sprinkle you with passion, energize you and entice you.”

Return the nightgown to its original place. After a week, you can repeat the ritual.

On a rose

Buy a red rose with large petals during the waxing moon. In the evening, light a red candle and pick up a rose. Tear off one petal at a time, saying:

“There is no rose without thorns, so you (name) will not exist without me. Petals, fly to her, carry my love, call her to me.”

Throw away the remaining roses in a deserted place.

How to avoid mistakes

The pressure on jealousy should be insignificant, otherwise you can completely destroy trust in the relationship and aggravate the situation. If you overdo it, the following consequences are possible:

your current or ex-wife will completely lose interest in you, deciding that you have gone all out;
seeing your constant communication on social networks and correspondence, she may follow your example;
if you increase your disappearances from home, she will begin to control your every step, inquiring about your location every minute;
by intriguing her with smiles to messages on her phone, you will push her to start digging into calls and accounts;
regularly staying late at work, be prepared for the fact that she may unexpectedly show up at your workplace, real meetings with partners or gatherings at a bar with friends;
by regularly refusing intimate relationships, you can push her to cheat;
without paying attention to her, to everything she does for you, a woman can be driven to despair, after which she will look for ways out of the relationship;
When communicating with other girls in front of your ex-wife, do not bring the matter to intimacy, in which case she will definitely not return to you.

When choosing methods of influence, take into account the characteristics of her character. Don't overdo it, otherwise your efforts will backfire.

Specialist help

By his natural essence, a man is obliged to protect and protect a woman. Do not hit under any circumstances. If violence occurs, then such a man needs the help of a specialist, a psychologist. Not a woman's help, not the help of a friend or wife, but the help of a professional. It is possible that the man has psychological problems, childhood mental trauma, etc. Only a person who knows a lot about these issues can figure it out.

Solution: talk to your man, refer him to a consultation with a specialist. For him, the problem may not exist, but in fact it does. And the sooner the psychologist starts helping, the faster the opportunity to help the relationship.