They say love doesn't exist. But for some reason everyone stubbornly continues to look for love, and not, for example, “bird's milk.” Therefore, this is not such a mythical concept. Why do men stop loving?
It often happens that some time after finding so-called great and pure love, women are faced with problem number one: “my man doesn’t love me anymore.” And such women ask the question “Why? What did I do wrong?” To suffer again? Wouldn’t it have been easier for me to just “wash the elephant,” as in that joke?
In such situations, I want to think. Was it love on both sides? Can true love end suddenly and bring insurmountable pain? What if these feelings turned out to be just a substitute for love? For the ardent man, love turned out to be an ordinary passion. And for a woman, a vulnerable and very emotional creature, it is an ordinary dependence.
Reasons why women initiate a breakup
There is an opinion that girls more often strive to preserve their family and relationships than men. In fact, about 70% of breakups occur on their own initiative. Many continue relationships in the hope that everything will change, or quietly hating and dreaming of leaving, especially if there are children together or the fear of being left without financial support.
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There are several reasons that may lead a woman to decide to break up:
- The desire to feel equal. If your partner does not allow you to develop, earn money, does not take into account your interests and does not respect you, then it’s time to break up.
- Marriage is beneficial for a man. In modern society, guys get more benefits from relationships than their girlfriends. Women not only work and raise children, but also take on household responsibilities. In addition, they try to care for their loved one and keep themselves in shape in order to keep him. This relationship model does not lead to happiness. Discontent accumulates in a woman, and as a result she may not be able to stand it.
- Problems in relationships. Many girls react sharply to difficulties. If a guy cannot provide financially, does not strive for the best, if he humiliates, beats, starts drinking or takes up other bad habits, then an affair with him will not bring joy.
When a guy doesn’t want to change for the sake of a successful relationship and doesn’t treat his beloved with respect, the relationship is unlikely to reach marriage. If partners live in a marriage, then there is a high risk of its dissolution at the initiative of the woman.
Fall out of love with candles
To get rid of feelings for your loved one, there is one wonderful ritual, it is simple and very effective. To implement it, purchase blue wax candles (3 pieces), it is important that they burn for 5 hours, so choose large candles. They can be purchased at a magic shop.
Get ready for the ritual, hold the candles in your hands, ask them to help you forget the guy. Take a needle and scratch the following spell on them:
“Spiritual pain, leave me”;
“Melancholy, get away from me”;
"Suffering free my heart"
Now burn the purchased candles every day, 1 piece at a time, and first sit by the candle and meditate on the desire to stop loving a person. And then go about your business.
After the ritual, take the cinders to a trash can in the morning, and it is advisable to choose one that is located far from your place of residence. When you are free of all 3 cinders, the feelings will pass.
Ways to provoke a guy to leave his chosen one
There are several ways to get a man to end the relationship first. They concern changes in behavior, actions, and changes in habits. You can also change externally to such an extent that the young man will definitely think about breaking up.
Change beyond recognition and do everything out of spite
Guys like it when they have a well-groomed, stylish and bright girl next to them, whom they can show off to their friends. If up to this point you have been trying to live up to his demands, then it's time to change that. Become an ill-mannered girl, you can even start swearing when meeting him, and humiliate a man in front of his friends. This will anger your chosen one and push him away from you.
Despite the man's prohibitions, start visiting entertainment venues, allow yourself to meet and flirt with other guys. If your chosen one doesn’t like the fact that you smoke, temporarily start doing it to spite him.
You can deliberately stop taking care of your appearance and radically change your hairstyle and wardrobe. Most likely, the guy will become embarrassed to spend time with you in public, will avoid dating and leave you.
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Go for treason
Come up with an affair on the side and make the man guess about it. You can even “let it slip” about what a good time you had in the arms of another. Talk about how much better he is than the current man about his intimate abilities. True, you should be careful so as not to regret your action later. A wounded guy may hit you and begin to take revenge.
It is unlikely that such behavior of the chosen one will leave a man indifferent. Most likely, he will want to stop all communication. Pride will not allow you to continue this relationship further, and you will achieve your goal.
Move away
The easiest and most definitive way to make an annoying guy leave you is to stop answering messages and calls. This option is suitable, for example, if a man is currently serving in the army. Writing and calling yourself is also prohibited. If the conversation does take place, say that you don’t have time to communicate right now. Even your plans together can be canceled at the last minute.
Try to make communication very superficial and not touch upon important personal topics in the conversation.
You can pretend that you are uncomfortable around a young man, that you are bored. If he decides to find out what annoys you, then ignore his attempts to talk. You can just laugh in your face. Soon the guy will realize that he is not interested in you. Most likely, he himself will decide to break off the relationship.
Create scandals
When communicating with a former loved one, try to provoke him into a scandal every time. Every word he says can be twisted to make him look bad. It’s worth looking for a reason to quarrel out of the blue. If you are late for a date, do not forget to express your dissatisfaction and ridicule him for his lack of punctuality. If you brought a gift, be sure to make a dissatisfied face and make it clear that this is not at all what you dreamed of.
Start teasing and speaking negatively about your boyfriend's hobbies. Don’t try to smooth it over later; on the contrary, incite conflict. If a guy wants to explain something to you, don't listen. Reduce the conversation to the fact that you consider him wrong and incompetent. You can even call me names.
Don't talk about love
If a young man says that he loves you, you cannot reciprocate. This will be fair, because you intend to break up with him. When a guy asks about his feelings, answer with a disinterested, “Uh-huh” or “Yeah,” and then move the conversation to another topic. Don't be afraid to offend. Let him feel that you can’t wait to get rid of him. Most likely, the young man will soon decide that he, too, has stopped loving you.
Deny sex
Under any pretext, refuse the guy intimacy. Repeat the phrase “No mood” and do not explain what caused it. Moreover, keep any touching to a minimum. Start moving away, stop hugging, kissing your chosen one, don’t respond to his kisses. If your boyfriend is just trying to take your hand, don't let him do it. You can pretend that you have no time. A man will quickly suspect something is wrong and understand that he is unpleasant to you. Perhaps he will decide that you have someone else.
Conspiracy to cool feelings
You can part with unnecessary feelings quite simply and without consequences. The following magical ritual, which has existed for hundreds of years, will help with this. It should be carried out in a bath with water, which is used to wash the whole body.
During the ritual, a person not only gets rid of mental torment, but also from all accumulated negativity. New love will only come to those who are waiting for it and where there is room for it.
Considering the living conditions of modern man, the ritual can be performed in the shower. But before you go to the bathroom, you should prepare a special herbal decoction, which includes:
Chamomile;
St. John's wort;
Acacia flowers.
Herbs are taken in equal proportions - one tablespoon each, and poured with one liter of boiling water. It is at this moment that the following conspiracy is pronounced:
“Luckily for me, sadness and bad weather go away!”
The broth is cooled, filtered and poured onto the head. But first, it is important to pour water on yourself (either warm or cold), saying the following words:
“Living water, wash away misfortunes from my body. Living water, take away bad weather from the soul. Let the misfortune disappear in the dark rivers, and let fate return happy. Amen".
The plot is repeated 7 times, only then the decoction is poured on the head. Please note that you should not wash yourself with water after this. You can only dry yourself with a towel and go to bed, after turning off your phone and turning off the Internet, since the guy may try to make contact.
In order for the conspiracy to achieve maximum effect, three days before the ritual, all communication with the object of unrequited love should be stopped. Even better - don't even think about it.
How to do it yourself
If your feelings for a young man have long cooled down, but he continues to love, you don’t need to endure it. There are surefire ways to hint to a man that it’s time to break up, and not feel guilty about it.
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Hint
Find a way to let your guy know that you don't see a future in this relationship. Refuse invitations to go to a movie or concert. Say that you will definitely be very busy that day.
If a young man starts asking questions about joint plans, show that this annoys you. Let him not think that he has the right to ask what you will do on the weekend and find out about any step. You can also say that you want to relax with your friends or look for vacancies in another city. Give a hint that you definitely do not intend to spend time with him.
Say it straight
It would be correct and honest to directly tell the young man that you want to end the relationship. Not every girl is capable of this. But if you decide to do this, you will immediately feel relief.
Explain to the man that you no longer want to be with him and think that it is better to break up now than to waste time in an unhappy relationship. Tragedy will not happen, because everyone still has the opportunity to find love. Most likely, your boyfriend will understand you. This way you will part without scandals and mutual negativity. Tell your guy that you will remember only good things about your relationship.
Types of conspiracies
There are many known situations in which love spells and secret rituals are used.
They help to return love, strengthen it, direct this feeling from one person to another, remove love attraction, etc. At the same time, it is important to understand that when using unconventional methods of influencing human relationships, the destruction of a person’s fate and karma occurs.
Violent influence directed at another person will certainly return in the opposite direction. And then the consequences can be unpredictable. Although most rituals and ceremonies of white magic are considered only a request for help from the Higher Powers to facilitate the fulfillment of a certain desire or intention.
Those who tried a conspiracy to stop loving a man were freed from unnecessary feelings and changed their lives in the direction of happiness. Because such unconventional methods always have a two-way impact on the person to whom it is used and on the one who uses it. If a girl wants to get rid of the feeling of an obsessive guy, she influences both him and herself.
A conspiracy is often used to make a man stop loving a woman. For example, a wife wants to return her unfaithful husband to the family. Hobbies with young girls often lead fathers of the family astray, cloud their heads and provoke them to commit stupid, reckless acts. It is clear that a loving woman wants to help him get through this period and not “break the woods.” Conspiracies and rituals make it possible to influence his consciousness and restore confidence to the wife that her beloved will remain with her.
What to do if a couple lives together
If you live with a young man, breaking up is more difficult. In this situation, you cannot simply stop communicating, stop picking up the phone, leave and not return. After the breakup conversation, decide which of you should move out. If this is you, then decide on a date and don’t delay. When a man moves, he may have to start looking for a new roommate.
If after a breakup you will have to stay in the same territory for some time, re-negotiate the division of responsibilities. Now you are just roommates, so you will have to give up your old habits.
Discuss when you can invite guests. Remember that, despite the separation, each other's personal space must be respected.
Call him as often as possible and leave as many “traces of betrayal” on him as possible.
A mistress who has decided to stop loving her married man should forget about the basic rules of behavior and call him as often as possible. These may be very early or very late calls. Don't hesitate to make calls in the middle of the night. You need to “get it” as much as possible. Then he will leave her himself.
It is very simple to explain this behavior to him: “I miss you very much.” An unfaithful husband will get the idea that the girl is suffering from some kind of mental illness, and he himself will try to avoid her. Which is good for the mistress herself.
As often as possible, he should appear in places where he is with his family. You don't have to be noticed. You should watch what the girl destroys. She will stop meeting, and everything will work out between him and his wife.
A copious amount of perfume or bright lipstick on the chosen one’s clothes will only confirm the wife’s suspicions. At home she will make a scandal for him, throw a tantrum with the words “either family or mistress.” And he will have to choose a family. Otherwise, during the divorce, she will sue him for everything. And if there are children in the family, then he will have to pay a tidy sum every month to pay child support.
Is the girl ready to give away half the amount from their total budget for the rest of her life? After all, sooner or later children will appear in their family. But the point is not so much about the money, but about the fact that the “new” offspring will have to share their dad with the “old” ones. Which will create many additional problems and unpleasant situations.
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Therefore, you need to stop loving a married man and start building your personal life from scratch. After all, being married to a man who left another woman for a new passion is unpleasant. This realization can only come after some time.
Simple magic rituals
You can also influence your destiny with the help of magic. Choose a ritual that is suitable for you, which can be performed at home. To avoid negative consequences, follow all rules.
In order for a guy to leave you, you need to read the drying spell for a week. At midnight, take fresh nettle or its dried leaves. Pour some water into a small bowl and place the herb. Read the words of the lapel:
“Mother nettle will burn out all the love (name) has for me with fire! Just as this grass will soon wither, so this man will soon stop loving me. And within three days there will be nothing left!” In the morning, the remaining broth should be poured under a tree not far from the annoying guy’s house.
There are many options for breaking up with a young man you no longer love. Whichever one you choose, try to remain honest and not insult your ex. This will allow you to break off relations and not become enemies.
Strong rite
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This separation spell can be used not only by the husband’s wife, but by one of his closest relatives. In order for a man to leave a couple, stock up on his photo:
- Use only images with your husband - no one else should be in the photo.
- For the plot to work, take a new photo (no older than a year).
- The husband should not be completely visible, the main thing is his face, especially his eyes.
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Conspiracies using photographs are considered the most effective; the following will also help get rid of a man:
- A candle bought in a church;
- Flat metal bowl;
- Matches;
- A clean table without foreign objects.
Let the photo burn out. To complete the lapel, throw the remaining ashes out the window and watch them drift away with the wind.
The benefit of this conspiracy with the effect of turning away from family life is the subsequent peaceful separation, amicable divorce, and all this within a month. All that remains is to enjoy the result: your man has left and has no complaints, and you have achieved your goal.
To be read three times, it is advisable to learn the text of the lapel by heart, read it without hesitation, out loud. The ritual is simple, but works quickly, this is facilitated by the waning moon along with your strong desire.
