6 proven ways to make your husband jealous

Indifference and lack of initiative of a man in the family appear due to loss of interest in his woman. Household responsibilities, routine everyday life, quarrels and misunderstandings - all these factors influence the formation of a prejudiced attitude and the loss of the former spark. Psychologists say that you can add color to any relationship if you use some influence techniques and advice. Making someone jealous is an effective manipulation that will help awaken interest in your wife.

New hobby

Of course, we are not suggesting that you take a lover, although in certain circumstances this option should not be discounted. Everything is much simpler - sign up for some courses, for example, English. Or driving. Even better is a dance club or an intellectual book club. In general, this should be a place full of men - and contact with them is inevitable, just like a frightening rumble of thunder after a flash of lightning. Don’t forget to inform your beloved about this, otherwise the whole idea will only result in a waste of precious time.

Additional advice: exchange phone numbers with some handsome guy and be sure to have him call you in the presence of your husband.

Let your beloved see that someone is very interested in your person. Rest assured: after a couple of such calls, jealousy can be drained from your husband in buckets. True, caution on your part will not hurt: you only want to make your husband jealous, and not fall in love with your boyfriend, right?

Just a lover

Being a lover for a male is a convenient option. He feels safe because... He is completely deprived of responsibilities to a woman, but he is also capable of being jealous of the object of his desire.

An advantage for a girl in such a relationship is the opportunity to manipulate. For example, skipping meetings, explaining this behavior by a sudden change in mood or meeting with friends. On a date with your lover, repeatedly mention what a wonderful evening you spent without him (not directly, but in passing). The more colorful a woman describes her time spent in the company of other people, the greater the chance of getting the expected result.

You can use the help of a friend who will call or send a message from an unfamiliar number. Act surprised and happy at the unexpected notification. Showing a man the text of a message or retelling a conversation is not worth it. He must be at a loss as to who, besides him, his beloved gives a smile to.

Think carefully about each maneuver so that games with your partner do not end sadly for the relationship. Before manipulation, make sure that your partner really likes you, and not just an object of sexual desire. A lover may not fall for provocations and leave the young lady who creates uncomfortable conditions for him.

Mysterious admirer

This plan will work flawlessly if you think carefully about the scenario. The task is made easier by having a real fan, for example, at work, who tirelessly showers you with compliments, regularly showers you with emoticons on social networks and clearly hints at strong sympathy on his part. Then all you have to do is play along with him at the right moment. But if such a man is absent, then it doesn’t matter: you can always arouse jealousy in your husband, even with the help of an illusory admirer.

persuade your friend to call you several times late at night - move away to talk away from your husband’s eyes;
from the left male account, put characteristic comments with a bunch of hearts under each of your photos on social networks, and do not skimp on likes;
call a courier with flowers from an anonymous person to your house - make sure that your husband is at home at that moment, and even better, that he opens the door and receives a bouquet;
Somehow, inadvertently leave the phone in his sight, and go to the bathroom yourself - let your friend call at this moment, but hang up when answered.

Of course, jealousy will not appear immediately. And he can react extremely condescendingly to an avalanche of hearts on social networks. But if you consistently implement your plan, then soon indifference will give way to suspicion, and then it’s not far from outright jealousy.

Alina Olegovna Sverchevskaya, practicing psychologist, 5 years of experience, Moscow:

— Making your spouse jealous is actually not a difficult task: the hunter gene in men is very well developed. And if he usually dozes, lulled by the confidence that the prey will not go anywhere, then at the slightest hint of the appearance of another hunter nearby, he immediately awakens. Therefore, the idea with a fan is one of the most effective. The male consciousness awakens, and the husband himself, sensing something is wrong, loses his sense of comfort and begins to perceive the world around him as full of danger. This is the mechanism of jealousy. But you need to activate it only if you know for sure that you are capable of returning a man to a state of mental comfort. Otherwise, his concern will become chronic, which will ultimately affect your existence.

Risks and consequences of causing male jealousy.

I’ve told you how to make your husband jealous, and I’ve given advice from a psychologist; then I’d like to talk about the risks and negative consequences of women’s careless actions. First of all, pay attention to your attitude towards your spouse, how much you hate him that you decided to resort to the actions described above. The reasons why I outlined this desire from hatred are the following, they are also the consequences:

The formation of a man’s mistress (being disappointed, he will begin to look for a new companion or run off to the side to raise self-esteem);
Excessive, meticulous pestering with constant interrogations about the location, purpose and meaning of going to this or that place, about activities and people staying next to you (at the extreme stage of jealousy, a person loses contact with the outside world, paranoia follows him at every step, so he always it will seem that you have a boyfriend);
Testing for inclination to betrayal, surveillance, overprotection, total control;
By causing male jealousy, you can strengthen yours;
Constant self-inflicted moral pressure, from which you want to escape (a man can be driven to extremes, where a psychologist cannot be avoided; the result of such situations is sad: suicide, alcohol, illegal substances, neurological, oncological and cardiac diseases);

The pressure of jealousy is a psychological blow, that is, it is inflicted on the brain through interaction with a loved one. In 80% of cases, women make a mistake and become martyrs themselves, so I do not guarantee a positive outcome.

"My head hurts!"

If you regularly tried to surprise your husband in bed with interesting experiments, seduced you with revealing outfits and demonstrated genuine sexual interest in every possible way, then the man has already formed a certain intimate image of you in his head.

Don’t know how to make your husband jealous in this case? It's simple: change this image.

Become extremely frigid, refuse sex under the pretext of a headache, menstruation, an injured back - or whatever. And at the same time, you don’t need to conquer Hollywood with your facial expressions - a man should see that you, in general, are just coming up with excuses to avoid sex. Usually in such cases, husbands ask close friends for advice, and the latter often make an a priori verdict: “Yes, she has a lover, obviously!” Oh, these drunken men's conversations - they are so stupid if you look at it that way, but sometimes they play into our hands. True, this method is only good if you don’t get too carried away with it. Otherwise, it is quite possible that one fine evening you will be denied intimacy - and the likelihood that your husband’s very real mistress is to blame for this is very high.

Alexey Petrovich Salimyanov, sexologist, professor at Samara State Medical University:

- Playing hard-to-get with your man can do a disservice in the end, as it directly affects the formation of male self-esteem. If you ignore your partner sexually, you risk provoking erectile dysfunction in him based solely on his lack of confidence in his sexual attractiveness. The likelihood of this greatly increases if a man has already experienced similar problems before.

Career

This method is extremely effective, since a man is always acutely worried when a person nearby suddenly moves away for various reasons. Even if it is completely objective. Do you regularly have business trips at your job that you previously refused? Confidently accept offers! It’s best if you’re accompanied by a male colleague, and an evening banquet awaits you at your destination. Skillfully conduct your husband from a distance, warming up his jealousy to the right temperature.

However, you should not get carried away: if you lose control, you will never regain the broken trust.

And then you will remember your idea with bitterness and annoyance. In cases where business trips don’t bother you, a good alternative is working outside of class hours on a fresh project. Take on as much responsibility as possible, work hard until late, so that your man begins to put different facts and circumstances in his head. This option is also good because it allows you to kill two birds with one stone:

make your husband jealous;
really achieve career growth with all the ensuing joyful consequences.

What are you really missing?

Jealousy is a disease that stems from low self-esteem and is destructive to the person experiencing this feeling. Since it is directed only to the object of love, then he suffers too. Isn't it advisable to abandon the idea of learning how to make a husband jealous of his wife and understand what is missing in your relationship?

Answer the following questions:

Has he been jealous of you before?
If so, is the cessation of aggression associated with an increase in the coefficient of trust and love? Most men who know about their wife’s past visualize non-existent betrayals; sometimes the pain from ex-girlfriends remains for years or the mother did not give enough love in childhood. Having created their own family, men recover psychologically.
Do you get enough of the romance your spouse provides?
If not, is this not caused by the presence of problems, unresolved tasks and household responsibilities? When a spouse asks for leisure, and the husband refuses, citing weighty arguments, it is better to give him free rein and not interfere.
Are you often alone?
If so, wouldn’t it be more advisable to do something useful in his absence or help him with basic matters? Most female infidelities are committed out of idleness. However, this is the last stage of transformation of their behavior; it should not be brought to this point.
From the age of 16 to 25, did men run after you in droves?
If so, don't you think you've gotten used to it and assumed that marriage is about the eternal pursuit of you? Arrogance and selfishness are born in female representatives every time they receive a “portion” of love from the male public. When selfishness begins to go off scale, you will become callous and calculating, and no one likes such people, which is why most beautiful ladies remain single after 40.
Has your man given you any reason to doubt his integrity?
If so, are you the problem? Or does he really copulate left and right in your absence? If a man is polygamous, you shouldn’t expect jealousy from him. The feeling of genuine love is alien to such people; it is hidden there - below...

Take care of yourself

Surely, your husband has already formed a very definite image in his head regarding you: all dressed up in sloppy home clothes, constantly in the kitchen or busy cleaning, all conversations are entirely on everyday topics - and not a bit of improvisation. Could you be jealous of such a woman yourself? We are sure not, so urgently move away the frying pans, broom and other household utensils - and arm yourself with a cosmetic bag, perfumes and everything that beauty bloggers are so actively promoting to the masses.

different hairstyle;
new make-up;
complete wardrobe change;
regular jogging at the stadium.

The list goes on and on. The goal of all these manipulations is extremely clear - to draw your husband’s attention to you as a full-fledged sexual object.

As soon as he sees that you can not only cook in the kitchen, but also cause a completely unambiguous reaction from men, he will immediately begin to be wildly jealous and literally follow you on your heels.

Lucky girlfriend

As cynical as it may seem, the discord between one of your girlfriends and her boyfriend can be safely used for your own purposes.

go to her place for the night, citing the need to calm and support a loved one;
go and have fun together at a nightclub;
spend as much time with her as possible.

Surely, even after the first night spent away from home, your husband will finally tear himself away from his “tanks” or football and present you with well-founded complaints. Don’t lay out all your cards at once - let the jealousy simmer inside him a little more. After all, this is exactly what you wanted, isn’t it?

Ex-boyfriend

When a relationship ends and a girl still has feelings for a guy, getting him back through jealousy is an effective method. There are such ways to attract the attention of an ex-boyfriend:

self improvement. This concept includes: changes in behavior (relaxedness, sociability), appearance (changes in clothing style, original makeup and hairstyle), and other hobbies.
a change of scenery. Getting to know a different company and having at least 2-3 new friends of the opposite sex will help get your ex-boyfriend emotional faster.

Not all young people will want to renew their relationship after experiencing feelings. Therefore, you should not despair, but it is better to take a closer look at your new acquaintances, maybe among them there is the one.