Betrayal is a terrible blow to trust. We can say that this is a real betrayal on the part of the spouse. And of course, such behavior causes a whole flurry of negative emotions - anger, hatred, resentment, self-pity, a sense of injustice. And the desire for revenge. All you have to do is figure out how to take revenge on your husband for cheating, and it will become a little easier for you. It's true?
Is it worth taking revenge on your husband?
The first reaction is usually the same for all women. And immediately thoughts of revenge appear, a desire to hurt the husband more, so that he at least partially experiences similar feelings. Punish him for betrayal and deceit.
But when emotions subside, you will have to live with the consequences of your revenge.
- How to save a marriage when you have done something unpleasant to your husband?
- If someone finds out about your actions, they may condemn you.
- You yourself may be unpleasant about what you did.
It's nice to think that punishment for cheating will help you get over this pain faster. But usually you only become more fixated on the offense and are unable to move on.
First of all, with revenge you will make things worse for yourself.
Although sometimes a woman cannot move on until she “gives back” to the traitor. They even begin to take revenge on their ex-husband a few years later in order to survive the betrayal. The choice is yours. But it’s better to take a short break so that strong emotions have time to pass. Then you will definitely be confident in your decision to take revenge on your husband for cheating.
Cold revenge
A devoted partner is capable of literally anything. After days, weeks and even months of despair, someone comes up with the idea of sweet revenge. Women don't forgive. An example of this is the case when a girl hid a bowl of shrimp and caviar in a house that was being renovated. My ex-husband moved there with new furniture and a new girlfriend.
Over time, the house began to stink. They tried everything! They washed and searched the entire house. We made sure there were no dead mice in the ventilation and cleaned the carpets. An air freshener was hung in every corner. Nothing worked. Eventually, in desperation, they had to move out. The house was hard to sell.
How not to take revenge for betrayal
It is clear that in a state of passion, only after learning about betrayal, a woman is capable of anything. But you always need to think about the future, about morality, about other things besides revenge. After all, sooner or later the pain from betrayal will subside, and you will have to live with the consequences of revenge.
When emotions are at their limit, it is easy to do something stupid.
Under no circumstances should you:
- Physical injury. Under no circumstances should you fight with your husband or mistress, pull out hair, attack with a knife or anything like that. Hiring strangers to teach your husband a lesson is also illegal.
- Damage to property. Scratch a car, break a laptop, puncture tires, break a windshield, cut up expensive suits, write swear words on a car. You can’t - it’s illegal, the husband can go to the police.
- Set up children. Take them away, forbid them to see each other, tell terrible things about him and put him in a bad light. First of all, this will have a bad impact on the children themselves. And the husband can then regain custody with the help of the court. It's not your children's fault that your husband cheated on you.
- Kick out from the joint or his apartment. Change the locks, throw all the things out the window, leave the traitor on the street. But he has the same right to live in the apartment as you do. He can contact the police to return home. Even if you don't like it.
- Edit to answer. Don't stoop to his level. Later, you will be most disgusted by your action, because women perceive intimacy completely differently than men. But if you have a handsome man in mind, you can afford this little thing. Then you and your husband will be even and you will be able to save the family.
In addition, remember that it is the man who needs to take revenge. After all, he did not keep his promise to be faithful to you. A stranger doesn't owe you anything. Although sometimes emotions run high, and deceived wives punish their mistress.
Revenge for betrayal using magic
The magical method of revenge is very popular among women. To do this, it is not at all necessary to look for a professional fortune teller or witch. There are simple spells that everyone can use. Let's describe the two most effective:
- Conspiracy against cheating on your husband and reunification with your wife. Magic can help not only take revenge on your ex-husband and mistress at a distance, but also bring him back. The next conspiracy will make it so that a man’s sexual contact and passion will become possible with only one woman - you. Copy the following lines onto a piece of paper: “I love you more than life, but I want to take revenge. Believe me, I don’t want to destroy you. I invite the devils and tearfully pray to let you know, let me sin cruelly. You will suffer for lies and betrayal so that you understand how to cause pain. You will feel disgusted in your soul, weak in your body, and sick from fear in a strange bed. All this will last until you understand that you will not come to me with pure repentance. Let it be so!" Read every day for 7 days, as many times as you can. Hide the sheet securely from prying eyes.
- Impotence conspiracy. If your husband has a mistress, and you no longer plan to ever get together with him, you can hit where it hurts the most - male power. To do this, you need to weave a braid from cotton threads, 1 cm wide and 3 cm long, fold it in half and tie it (“witch’s fist”). Next, you should whisper over her: “I’m taking away your male powers. Just as a braid is tied, twisted, tied, so will it be for you, (Name). There is power in my words, it will be done as ordered! Neither lapels nor potions will help you suffer, (Name), until your fist comes loose. Let it be so!". Then the scythe needs to be hung or buried in the ground.
You cannot tell anyone about the rituals performed. The secret will need to be kept for the rest of your life, otherwise you will have to answer for the magic with hardships and troubles.
Little domestic meanness
Sometimes you have to keep your family together because of children, financial dependency, or other reasons. But anger eats from the inside, so you want to take revenge on the cheater as he deserves. And at the same time not get caught cheating.
The above methods may affect your husband's work. Because of which he could be fired. Are you ready to lose your income for revenge?
Laxative
A very everyday way to punish a husband for cheating. Not serious, but still makes your soul a little lighter.
A safe portion of laxative is added to any dish or drink. Before work. And in the office, the unfaithful husband gets sick to his stomach, which his colleagues will undoubtedly notice.
The main thing is to get rid of all the medicine packages right away so that he doesn’t catch you. Then you can answer all his accusations with “probably his stomach was upset from a feeling of guilt.” He won't be able to prove anything.
The missing
Things get lost all the time, so if a few important items disappear at the worst possible moment, no one will be surprised. But how unpleasant it will be!
It's unpleasant to discover that something you need is missing.
What can suddenly evaporate?
- Keys to the apartment when my husband is going somewhere.
- Passport before travel.
- Documents or flash drive with information.
- The second sock from all pairs - let them go in different ones.
- TV remote.
- His glasses.
Be careful with work issues, since not everyone can teach her husband a lesson for cheating at the cost of her own financial well-being. Be sure to think about the consequences.
Unnoticeable damage to things
It is necessary to exchange his usual things for broken items or a smaller size. The second option is suitable for men who watch their weight.
- Insert dead batteries into the remote control. And there shouldn’t be anyone working in the house.
- Buy a belt like his, but a size or two smaller. So that he can't fasten it.
- Have his favorite clothes sewn in the atelier.
- Throw his glasses in the place where he likes to sit down in a big way. It will break itself.
- Tweak something in his gamepad, keyboard, piano so that the device looks normal, but does not work.
- Pour vinegar over his favorite plants.
- Upload a virus to his laptop or computer. Pre-save information that is important to you (for example, photos from your vacation).
Little troubles like this will haunt him, and you will tease him, “It’s all karma, honey.”
Household items
Sometimes you can take revenge on the cheater as if in passing:
- Spit in his tea or coffee.
- Clean the toilet with a brush, rinse it, and put it back in place.
- Sprinkle red pepper on his underpants, iron and shake off excess.
- Replace sugar with salt and don't warn him.
- “Forget” to buy important household items: toilet paper, his favorite coffee, shaving foam, etc.
He may not notice such trifles, only suspect something is wrong. But small troubles will cause irritation and nervousness to grow, so you will ruin his life a little.
Spend his stash
Maybe he was saving for a new car, a good fishing boat, or another expensive accessory for his hobby. You need this money more.
Buy something you've been dreaming about for a long time, but never got around to. Dresses, cosmetics, a cool camera, a trip to a resort alone, etc.
To any complaints, answer “I wanted to take my mind off your betrayal.” It is unlikely that he will find something to answer. After all, he feels guilty.
To take revenge or not to take revenge, that is the question
If a man has realized the wrongdoing and is begging for mercy, it may be better to give him a chance for forgiveness. Revenge does not always bring the expected relief. It dries up the soul, leaving behind a scorched field of devastation. This serves as an obstacle to new sincere feelings and building harmonious relationships in the future.
It is worth taking revenge only in cases where a man acted unforgivably rudely and humiliatingly disgraced a woman’s dignity. Although from the point of view of Christian morality this is not encouraged.
It happens that the desire for revenge haunts you, preventing you from living peacefully further. But if such an idea arose by chance or was given to you by friends on a forum, then it is not so important to you. Before you embark on actual revenge for betrayal, sit down and think carefully about whether you can live without it. Weigh the pros and cons. Whatever weighs on your personal scale, do so.
The main rules of revenge
When developing a cunning plan to take revenge for betrayal, a woman needs to remember three main points:
- Don't lose your dignity.
- Do not cross the line of the law.
- Don't turn a man into your worst enemy.
From the last point it follows that if your offender is an insidious, vindictive person, carefully calculate the options for the development of events before deciding on outright war. Try to take revenge on the man for the offense as anonymously as possible, so that he does not guess about the true author of the revenge. Take your time. In this case, it will be very difficult to connect the unpleasant events occurring with your person.
Changes in behavior
Natural consequences are the best way to punish a man for cheating. At a minimum, they will not cause surprise or anger in a man. Because he himself understands why your behavior suddenly changed.
But you should not drag out such punishments too much, because the husband may get tired of this and leave the family. In the end, you will only make things worse for yourself.
Stop caring about him
In Russian families, 95% of household chores are performed by women, as a rule. Now it's time to make adjustments to your daily routine.
- Cook only for yourself and your children, preferably dishes that your husband doesn’t like. For example, if he cannot eat without meat, give preference to salads and cereals.
- Stop washing, ironing, and hemming his things. Let him do it himself or walk around unkempt.
- Respond to his complaints, dreams, stories about the past day with indifference.
- If you suddenly get sick, you don’t need to rush around with a traitor like a small child. Do only the essentials - bring food, water, pills. Only if he is unable to serve himself.
It will be unpleasant for him to feel such alienation, which will be a good lesson. Show him what he can lose if he cheats again.
Denial of intimacy
Few people are immediately ready for intimacy with a traitor, so your refusal will be absolutely normal in this situation.
Revenge can be used in different ways:
- Completely refuse, arguing for his betrayal: “I can’t relax after what you did.”
- Demand that he undergo all STD tests to ensure his health. Men in general don't really like going to the doctor, so this will already be an unpleasant experience. And such a trip will remind him what the consequences of betrayal can be.
- Later, you can punish the traitor with a sharp refusal of intimacy. At first everything goes normally, but as soon as it starts, suddenly remember that situation and refuse. For example, “in what positions did you do this?”, then get up as if upset and go into another room.
- Demand more affection, longer foreplay, lie down together, etc. It's time to instill new habits in your husband.
If you really have problems with your sex life after cheating, go to a family psychologist or sexologist. A husband and wife without intimacy are simply cohabitants.
Cold War
A man will be uncomfortable in the company of a wife who completely ignores him. This behavior hurts his pride, pride and selfishness.
90% of women take revenge for betrayal by coldness.
Practical tips for carrying out this revenge:
- Answer in monosyllables: yes, no, clear, understandable, good. When asked or questioned about your behavior, shrug your shoulders with the meaning of “I can’t help you.”
- Don't initiate conversations. If you need him to do something around the house (buy bread, take out the trash, pick up the child from kindergarten), write a note and leave it in a visible place. Or send SMS.
- In your free time, go about your business as if it doesn’t exist. Turn on the music louder, watch your show on TV, go for a walk without asking his permission.
- Go to bed in another room so that you don’t hug him out of habit out of sleep.
It is enough to stay in this mode for several days. Don't delay. When he reproaches himself, apologizes, begs to forgive him, encourage this with your behavior. Give him a smile, say “I’m glad you realized everything.”
There is no point in tormenting him for too long - he may lose the motivation to stay at home.
Cause jealousy
Women, as a rule, behave quite modestly in the presence of their husbands. Yes, and outside his gaze too: “a married woman should not flirt with others.” Now you have nothing to fear: all your advances were not even close to what your husband did.
Now, in the presence of your husband, do not be afraid to smile pleasantly at other men, flirtatiously shoot your eyes and give compliments.
You can even pretend to be happy in your personal life to offend your husband. Receive late calls (from an alarm clock), go to “talk” in another room, say “I can’t talk, I’ll call you back later.” Buy yourself flowers when you get home. Go on a sudden business trip, actually going on vacation.
Play with his nerves so that he goes crazy with jealousy and is in your place.
In fact, it can actually change. He has already denigrated the sanctity of your marriage, so there is nothing holding you back. If you are carried away by someone, you don’t need to restrain yourself - give in to the impulse. And no guilt.
Maybe over time you will agree on an open relationship, and betrayal will no longer cloud your thoughts.
How to take revenge on the person who offended you
When a person decides to take revenge, he needs to know how to do it correctly. The main rule is to cool down the initial ardor and act wisely. Otherwise, you can mess up so much that existing problems will only multiply.
Basic rules of revenge
- The rush to take revenge is completely unjustified
. The more clearly the plan is thought out, the greater the chances of success. In addition, after time has passed, the offender may think that he has been forgiven and there will be no response from us. The enemy will relax, lose his vigilance, and then it’s worth striking! - Revenge will require cunning, flexibility and a clear plan from us
. By acting hastily and straightforwardly, we can fail, plans will be disrupted, and we will lose all opportunities. - Several methods of revenge should be prepared
. The more of them there are, the more reliable the choice will become. We will use the most promising ones, and reject the stupid and dangerous ones. - Study of the enemy, his habits, environment, preferences and passions
. It is necessary to feel the “koshcheevo egg”, a person’s weak point, his pain point. This is what is best hidden from prying eyes and reliably guarded. - There is no need to “mirror” the harm
. That is, if you were robbed, you don’t have to steal; if you’ve been cheated on, you shouldn’t jump into bed with the first person you meet. Perhaps such retaliatory moves will not be perceived as evil by the enemy. - Look for allies
. Surely the offender has them - people with whom he is on bad terms. If a person harmed you personally, then he could have harmed someone else. By joining forces, you will achieve your goal.
Aerobatics is revenge “by someone else’s hands”, the ability to pit one’s enemies against each other, like spiders in a jar. Let them destroy each other!
Attention!
The purpose of revenge is to gain peace of mind and comfort. If revenge will lead you to repentance, remorse, and guilt, then why was it needed at all? There is no need to aggravate your negative mental state.
Remember the Count de Monte Cristo. For many years in prison, he hatched a plan for revenge, but he took revenge on all his many enemies so delicately that it was worth it.
How to take revenge on your husband for cheating: practical advice
You can come up with many ways and gracefully take revenge on your husband. On forums you can find dozens of pages where deceived women discuss various options and give each other practical advice. Among them there are absolutely crazy, illegal, funny, and absurd ones. But if you want, there are also some pretty good ones.
Hurt with words
You have lived together for many years, shared doubts and fears, so you know exactly all your husband’s weak points. Now it's time to hit them directly.
- Make fun of his excess weight, hanging belly, shiny bald head, huge nose, short height, lack of muscles. Develop an inferiority complex by focusing on his external shortcomings.
- Make fun of his weaknesses in bed: small penis, short duration, his laziness, “rate of fire” and so on.
- Make a comment about his financial viability: “It seems like we have more money, is your mistress providing for you?”, “It would be better to spend this time on work, maybe I would achieve something in life.”
- To say that you stopped loving him a long time ago and lived out of habit or out of pity, thank him for the impetus to action. And get divorced.
- If your husband’s mistress is your friend, you can say that “so that’s who she was complaining about, that the new guy (insert any sore spot of her husband), she didn’t immediately guess.”
Make sure that the words cannot be translated to your address. They should ridicule him, present him in an unsightly manner, and cause self-doubt. And you stay on top.
Defame in the eyes of friends
People want to look better than they really are. Your husband is no exception. But you can reveal the whole truth to his loved ones.
If he pretended to be an exemplary family man and despises infidelity, you can play on this. Cry to everyone he knows about his betrayal, his affairs with his mistress, his deception and hypocrisy. Family people may turn away from him out of solidarity. Colleagues and boss will treat him worse - he cheated on his wife, maybe he will let him down at the company.
Make a recording of him slinging mud at his acquaintances and leak the information to them. Or forward the correspondence where he insulted your mutual friends. In both cases, the relationship will be ruined. He will be left completely alone, without support.
Phone calls
Give several advertisements with his number. The text should be very tempting: give away an expensive item for free, intimate services, a promising job, selling a good apartment cheaply, etc.
Soon he will hate his phone.
Now my husband’s phone will ring all day, which will simply drive him crazy. It is impossible to work in such a stop, and if the sound is turned off, you may miss an important call.
At the very least, you will get on his nerves.
Take revenge magically using a conspiracy
An offended woman is capable of much, especially if she feels her own helplessness. Then conspiracies, damage and black magic can come into play.
You can cast a spell on your husband, remove a love spell from your mistress, or, conversely, bewitch him to yourself. However, there are also more serious spells that can seriously ruin a husband’s life.
It is impossible to predict how serious the magical effect will be, what consequences will be in the future.
Over time, you will cool down, but the damage with the help of the conspiracy will already be done. It cannot be canceled. We'll have to live with it.
If you decide to take revenge on your husband for cheating and betrayal with magic, wait. Take a short break to let your emotions subside. Use other methods of revenge. If all else fails, turn to witches or look for suitable conspiracies.
Don't use serious magic - it's not worth it.
How to take revenge on an offender using magic - a simple way
Magic offers the most unusual methods of satisfying your vengeful desires. Witches and sorcerers, whose advertisements are full of newspapers and Internet pages, offer you endless opportunities to gain moral satisfaction from revenge. This is a slander, an evil eye, damage, retribution to the offender.
Find out more: How to find out if I have damage or the evil eye on myself - important points in parapsychology
Magical methods of retribution
Many believe that this is not a deception, and the curses sent will overtake the person. But is it worth taking on such a grave sin?
Magic rituals will help us:
- Deprive a person of a promising job.
- Cause discord in family relationships.
- Affect your health for the worse.
- Contribute to the emergence of money problems.
But do not forget that these actions are very dangerous. And for you too. Therefore, turn to the help of sorcerers only if there is really no other way out, you have been beaten, seriously set up or deprived of what is most precious to you.
We present to your attention examples of the impact on the human psyche with the help of spells and witchcraft rituals.
Conspiracies against offenders
| Name | How to implement |
| Using the doll |
Seeing his exact copy, he will think about the inconvenience caused to you. His subconscious will tense like an outstretched string, and you can breathe easy, your goal has been achieved. If you want the punishment to come in the form of reduced health, then you must do the actions with the doll yourself. Inflict certain injuries on her, and you will see that the well-being of the person being punished will also gradually worsen. |
| Whispers on the water | Your tossing around in search of how to take revenge on your offender, clever ways of revenge, does not arise immediately. Resentment accumulates for days, or even years. We are trying to direct some of the negativity towards our enemy so that he feels at least a little bit of what we ourselves are experiencing. To do this, remember the right words. They need to be said over a bowl of water, which you place on the Bible near the mirror. |
Spell from evil
| How to protect yourself from an abuser | Ritual for protection:
Further actions depend on the purpose for which you are performing this sacrament:
In any case, you will receive excellent armor from any hostile enemies and protection from possible harm. |
Cast the following spell
How to take revenge on your ex-husband
If he is an ex, then revenge has already taken place - he has lost you. But if you still haven't quenched your pain, then you can ruin his life a little.
- If a man likes to park incorrectly, take a photo of the car and send it to the traffic police.
- If he does not pay taxes and hides some income, also report this to the relevant authorities.
- Sprinkle a handful of seeds or bread crumbs on the roof of your car to encourage birds to scratch and dirty your car.
- Send him stupid items to work by courier - huge women's panties, toys for adults, medicines for unsightly diseases. You can pay the courier so that he loudly reports what exactly has arrived at the addressee.
- Call your work and ask them to tell your ex-husband that he must report to the drug dispensary every week and take tests, and that he must not disappear without warning. Or pretend to be his supervisor in Alcoholics Anonymous. The main thing is to act out the call as if you are simply concerned about his loss and cannot contact him directly.
- You can take revenge on your ex-husband who lives with his mistress. Buy a lot of SIM cards and send a lot of SMS to his phone. Confessions of love, compliments to his manhood, proposals for new meetings, etc. Perhaps this will cause discord in the new couple - he has already cheated once, so the girl will take such messages very seriously.
The most important thing is not to use children for revenge. You cannot prohibit your ex from seeing them or participating in their lives. Don’t say unnecessary things about him - this will have a very bad effect on the children. Don't drag them into your quarrels.
Methods of punishment
Psychologists advise not to play cat and mouse, but to openly express your grievances. But this only works when a man adequately perceives criticism addressed to him, enters into a constructive dialogue, or is ready to change. It is extremely difficult to meet such a person, so usually all conversations end in silence, protest, mutual accusations or scandal. What can a woman do who cannot express her grievances in words? That's right, describe this resentment with action.
In positive psychotherapy, N. Pezeshkian divides punishment into the following spheres: the sphere of achievement (boycott, refusal to perform household duties), the “bodily” (ignoring a partner, coldness), the sphere of reason (disrespect, slander) and contact (indifference, severance of relationships).
Let's consider punishment options from all four areas. So, how to punish a man for being offended.
Ignoring
Ignoring is one of the most effective ways to punish a negligent man for his grievances. Do you live in the same territory with him and are already tired of chronic disrespect in your direction? Tell him that from now on you will stop entering into dialogue with those who allow themselves to offend the woman they love. Keep your word. If you want to say something, write notes or SMS. Men's psychology is such that they need live communication, support, affection, and attention. If this is not given, it knocks the ground out from under even the strongest male.
If you have been betrayed, gather all your will into a fist. Your weapon is complete disregard for human existence. What could be worse for a self-confident man than admitting there is emptiness in his life. You must lie down, but become a successful, beautiful, independent, happy girl. You need willpower and cunning. Ignore any attempts by your once beloved boyfriend to talk to you, call you, write to you, or see you off. Punish the man with a disinterested look.
Book a photo session with a photographer, change your image, lose weight. Maintain your page actively, update it only with positive songs, pictures and statuses. Upload more pictures of you surrounded by young people, in new places, with a full expression of delight on your face. Believe me, men are only pretending when they express skepticism about your changes. In fact, everything inside them is seething with the thought that you are doing just fine without such a cool, successful, irreplaceable chosen one.
Yes, it will be harder done than said. However, remember that you will only punish a man for being offended when he feels disappointed. He knows that you lead an active life, don’t cry into your pillow, have made new friends, and have stopped holding on to the past. Now the once strong chosen one is crushed, offended and punished.
If you want to punish a man for inattention, then ignore sexual intimacy. An intimate boycott is a great way for representatives of the stronger sex to quickly realize their mistakes and prevent them from happening in the future.
Indifference
Such punishment differs from ignoring it in that in this case you have no intention of attracting the attention of the offender. Ignoring is manipulating a person through deliberate avoidance. Indifference has greater power. All you need to do to punish a man for the offense he caused is to live your life. Yes, you work on yourself, but you don’t put it on display. On social networks, post statuses that show your neutral mood: “Thanks to Dasha for the new manicure,” “Coursework on marketing is unexpectedly promising!”, “Vaska again decided to sharpen his claws on a new chair.” Your strength is in serenity and carefreeness!
If you had to go to an event where there will be a careless companion, behave as calmly as possible. Say hello to him if the situation requires, smile, don’t be afraid to look him in the eyes. But... this look should be the only one, then move on with your life. Chat with people, laugh, just behave as naturally as possible. Believe me, he will be fully punished by your indifference!
If you live with a man in the same territory, it would be appropriate to leave home. Your goal is to teach a lesson, punish a man, show the possible outcome of such behavior/attitude towards you. When your chosen one realizes his mistake, do not immediately run towards him, let this be an instructive lesson in the future.
If there is still love between you, be careful when choosing this punishment tactic. Be fair, otherwise you risk destroying the union.
Mirroring
The mirroring method is effective in all cases except adultery. It consists in letting a man feel pain, resentment, and disappointment through similar behavior. For example, an unfulfilled promise in return will help to take revenge on a guy for an unfulfilled promise. If he lied, you will have to do the same. “Oleg, I was dishonest with you. I said that the corporate party ended late, but in fact my colleagues and I just went to the club, and I didn’t keep track of the time at all.” There is nothing terrible in this news, but the man will experience resentment and other angry feelings for deception. Later, reveal the truth, emphasizing the importance of trust in the alliance. Explain that his pain is your pain. This is how it should be in a union.
Agree to switch roles for a day. This is a great way to see and understand each other's mistakes. Hang up on a man’s calls, just as he does to you, show up from work a couple of hours later, skip a swear word during a conversation, and occupy your computer with a game for the whole evening. Yes, the husband can become angry, angry, offended, twitchy, but sometimes the best way to punish for insults is to use the “mirror”. Your goal is to make him feel like he is in the shoes of his other half.
We hit where it hurts
When a man whom a woman loves with all her soul causes serious damage to her mental health, out of resentment she wants to hit back as painfully as possible. To punish, you need to know what the offender values. If his reputation is important to him, create a page on social networks on behalf of some girl with whom he spent a drunken night of love 3 years ago. Tell him that you gave birth to a child from him, let him worry. You can chat, or you can quickly disappear, in any case, you have already punished the irresponsible ladies' man.
If he is a gambling addict, lower the rating in his favorite game, sell the tank that the man has been building for a month, introduce a harmless virus into his laptop. If the car is of great value to him, valerian or bread crumbs will come to the rescue. Let cats and birds also fall in love with the offender’s car. You can also lose fishing hooks, a PC stylus, or an important work document.
If your spouse offends you, you can punish him by giving him a comic certificate for special self-improvement training. Do this with the words: “Darling, I read in a psychology book that only self-doubt (childhood trauma/infancy/inability to rational thinking) makes men offend their chosen ones. I give this to you and hope for your speedy healing.” Of course, your husband will be angry at such a joke, but your words will have the desired effect.
"Coincidence"
This type of punishment is suitable when a man is too vulnerable/aggressive or you simply don’t want to spoil your relationship with him. To do this, it is enough to adjust situations when he experiences discomfort for reasons beyond your control. For example, he greatly offended you by making you out to be a bad housewife. Let the migraine overcome you in a couple of days. Severe, prolonged headache, for which neither pills, nor massages, nor injections help. Let it last for 3 days, and the man remains in charge of the house. He has a responsibility, whether he wants it or not.
Let your back catch you or your boss load you up to your neck with work. Of course, there can be no talk of sex or bathing children. “I’m sorry, dear, that I can’t help you now. I am very grateful for what you are doing” or “I ask you, take a walk with your daughter outside, I need to lie in silence for a couple of hours.” And the relationship is not damaged, and you will take it out on him for all the grievances.
Small dirty tricks
“I have no idea how this happened!” - this is what helps to take revenge on a man for all the insults caused! You didn't do it on purpose, did you? Quite by accident, my favorite white T-shirt ended up in the washing machine with a red towel! Why does my husband have an intestinal disorder, since everyone ate from the same pan? “Why did half of the body turn chocolate color? Oh, I should have confused massage oil with self-tanner yesterday! Sorry, forgive me!”, “Is the casserole too salty? Wow, you’ve been asking for it for so long!”, “Where did the shoelace go? Richard probably stole it, but don’t punish the tailed prankster too much”...
If the offense is too deep and you want to properly punish the man, place advertisements of various types on numerous resources with the phone number of your chosen one. Advertisements/sections can be absolutely diverse: sushi delivery, handyman, volunteering, master of any complexity, buying Pekingese puppies, wedding photographer, etc. Of course, he will be beside himself with numerous strange calls.
Low blows
Low blows are suitable for those ladies who have seriously suffered at the hands (and not only) of a dishonest man. Damaging your partner’s sexual/business reputation will help you vent your grievances and punish the offender.
There are several ways to do this:
- if you have access to a man’s workplace, throw magazines on his desk that are of interest to people with non-traditional sexual orientation;
- call work from the skin-vein dispensary and ask such and such an employee to appear for a second examination;
- print and hang photographs of your chosen one around the area with a phone number and an offensive signature;
- send pictures to colleagues that would compromise the reputation of the offender in the team (Photoshop to the rescue);
- tell all your mutual friends that you and your man had problems of an intimate nature (unsatisfactory size, impaired sexual function of the organ, inexperience of the partner, perverted fantasies);
- create an advertisement on sexual minority websites on behalf of the offender, and distribute the offender’s number to persistent suitors.
You can simply create a page on a dating site with a real photo of your ex and a phone number, writing in the status: “Ready to be a slave” or “I’m 39, looking for someone with whom I’ll know love,” “I’m looking to meet a mature lady. I’m ready to provide for her.”
But psychologists strongly advise against resorting to this option of punishing a man. This is unsafe for the offended woman, plus it can seriously harm the man’s health and reputation. Don't take on this burden of responsibility.
Remember that insults can cause a lot of trouble, and it’s not for nothing that revenge is called a cold dish. If you have not yet cooled down from negative emotions, do not waste your energy.
How to take revenge beautifully
Instead of stooping to small dirty tricks, it is better to play big.
- Don't show your grief.
- Competently separate from your husband (see below).
- Become 100 times better than you were when you were married.
- Find a new man who is better than the previous one in everything.
This is the best revenge on your husband for cheating - he will greatly regret that he missed such a gorgeous woman. It will also be a blow to his pride that you were able to find a more successful, handsome and handsome man.
Your happiness is the best revenge.
This is not easy to do, but direct all the power of your anger towards achieving such a goal. Only this option will allow you to take revenge on your husband and at the same time be in an advantageous position.
Complete indifference as a way of revenge
The reaction to men's drunkenness and cruelty is often a woman's indifference. If a lady does not want to ruin her marriage, but at the same time wants to teach her partner a lesson, a silent boycott is her ideal choice.
It is necessary to ignore your lover with all your might, not to react to his insults, curses or reciprocal silence.
Psychologists recognize that such actions are very effective as part of a well-thought-out revenge. A man needs attention, support, love, but a woman deprives him of it. Gradually, the partner realizes that without his soulmate he will have a hard time. He realizes how wrong his behavior was before and wants to apologize.
The policy of indifference should be abandoned only if the woman has received real evidence of positive changes.
Best punishment for cheating: divorce
This is not about a standard separation, when you take some of your things and children out of anger, and then move to live with your parents. What kind of punishment is this if a traitor can enjoy freedom?
No - act more prudently.
At first, do not give any sign that you are going to get a divorce. Otherwise, he will begin to prepare, withdraw finances, and transfer property. And you need to take him relaxed.
First of all, go to a lawyer and consult about your rights. Discuss with him the best way to rob your unfaithful husband completely. Or at least seriously ruin his financial situation after the divorce.
Start putting some money aside in your personal account.
File for divorce when he needs you most. For example, when problems arise in business, his best friend betrays him, or he develops health problems.
Revenge is a dish best served cold.
When the betrayal seems to be behind you, you will strike back. And this will make it even more painful.
Psychologist's advice
When this mixture of negative emotions (anger, resentment, self-pity, etc.) is raging in you, it is advisable to go to a psychologist. He will help you intelligently sort all your thoughts into categories, and you will deal with them without revenge.
Just realize that this is not the case. Revenge will not make you feel any better, but instead of experiencing grief naturally, you seem to be frozen in it. Constantly plotting, thinking over plans for revenge, you feed your hatred again and again. But you need to get rid of it - these are negative emotions. They don't bring anything pleasant.
You need to learn a lesson from a bad situation. Calmly find out the reasons for the betrayal, what prompted him to change in you. And then develop, become better for your man. Either this one or the next one.
Without working on yourself, playing the offended girl, you only reinforce negative traits in yourself.
The advice is simple - either completely forgive your husband, or let him go and don’t suffer. Usually, after a month, if you don’t push yourself too hard, the woman will calmly reason and move away from the betrayal. He even thinks about saving his family and may regret hasty decisions.
So it’s better not to rush; you can do a lot of unnecessary things in a hot head, which you will regret.
We're leaving beautifully
So, you found out that your beloved man is cheating on you. Many girls become depressed, try to relax with the help of alcohol, throw hysterics, and break dishes. But, according to psychologists, this does not help much. In a difficult situation, you need a sober mind, a steely character and a “cool” head.
First, it’s worth understanding treason. They are also different:
- Random connection
. Men are polygamous; they may agree to have contact with an unfamiliar girl for several reasons, but the most common is drinking too much alcohol. This type of infidelity is considered the most harmless; - Constant lover
. In this case, you need to act immediately. In 40% of marriages break up. Having learned about a strong connection on the side, decide for yourself whether you have the strength to win the war. If the answer is no, it is better not to spoil your nerves and leave immediately.
The fact of treason has been established. You understand that you won’t be able to forgive a person. In this case, further actions should look like this:
- Don't cut from the shoulder. Try to calm down. If you can’t do it yourself, trust your best friend or visit a psychologist. This helps in 90% of cases. You can’t keep all your experiences to yourself, and you’re not far from a psychiatric hospital;
- Weigh everything well. If you decide to divorce, there should be no turning back. Otherwise, your husband will think that in this way you were simply intimidating him. The situation may repeat itself again;
- Look for evidence. It’s one thing to catch your husband in bed with his mistress, and quite another to hear about it from a friend or acquaintance. Make sure that the situation took place;
- Well, now let's get to the fun part. Hire a lawyer who can help make your divorce process quick and profitable for you;
- Try to get the most out of a man. Many girls are disapproving of this point, but in vain. You shouldn't feel sorry for the guy. He is a traitor who not only trampled your relationship, but also turned out to be a traitor. Empty his credit card, spend money on yourself to feel like a real queen.
Girls, remember, first of all, you need to love and respect yourself. Don't let men turn you into trash.
