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What feelings does your ex still have towards you? If you are asking such a question not out of idle curiosity, then most likely
, they themselves retained very, very warm feelings towards their ex-man.
Perhaps they are so warm that they would not mind restoring old relationships.
But how do you know if he wants the same thing? In this article we will tell you about 15 signs
, which may indicate that your ex still loves you.
He is sincerely happy when he meets you
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Perhaps your ex is just a very cheerful and positive person who is always happy when he meets someone he knows. However, if you act defiantly cold
, pretending that you don’t care about his joyful emotions, but he continues to rejoice every now and then, like a child, when he sees you, which means that the love in his soul has not completely died out.
In other words, if a man, despite your coldness, literally blossoms when he sees you, becomes extremely courteous, demonstrates elements of flirtation (and, even more so, if he is sincerely happy
who sees you and doesn’t hide it at all), then the likelihood that your ex still has warm feelings for you is very high. And, apparently, he is not averse to restoring old relationships!
He reacts to you differently every time
One day your ex acts very cold towards you, showing complete aloofness. Another day he talks to you as if you were his good old friend
, with whom he has an excellent relationship. On the third day, your ex is openly annoyed when he meets you. On the fourth - he is soft, fluffy and very, very courteous.
No, this does not mean that your ex-man is not all right in his head! This only means that, most likely, not much time has passed
after the end of your relationship, and he still hasn't sorted out his feelings.
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There's a good chance that your ex is feeling very bad about the breakup; It is quite possible that he would be happy to restore the old relationship, but he is tormented by doubts
. In any case, such behavior indicates that your ex still has some feelings towards you. And quite strong.
But even if this is the case, you shouldn’t delude yourself too much by giving both of you a chance to reunite again if not much time has passed since the breakup. First, you need to deal with your own emotions
; secondly, your ex definitely needs this. The best thing you can do in this situation is to give him (and yourself) time to figure it out.
When enough time has passed, your ex-man will finally decide how to deal with you on a permanent basis.
: to be cold and unfriendly or soft and courteous.
Signs She's Bored
It is necessary to carefully analyze changes in the girl’s behavior. At first she may get angry and avoid communication. But after a while, if she wants to return, the girl will change her behavior. There are 5 sure signs that she is bored.
- I started calling more often. Has the girl started calling more often to chat about trifles? Sends funny pictures in messages and communicates with you as if nothing happened? This is a very good sign, meaning that her feelings are as strong as before.
- She gets offended when she is ignored. If immediately after breaking up she hung up on herself and didn’t want to talk, now she’s offended and ready to throw a scandal if you don’t pick up the phone for a long time. You need to treat such a reaction with understanding. This means that the girl is trying to become an important part of your life again and is afraid that you no longer want it.
- Tries to cause jealousy. A girl can provoke by deliberately appearing in crowded places with another guy. She hopes that you will find out about it and be jealous. It is important to react correctly here. Show that you are jealous, but don't go overboard. Don't make scandals, don't quarrel with her. Show that you are better than any other man and no one can replace you. Start courting her as if you just met, and she will be delighted.
- Reacts violently to other girls around you. If the opposite happened: a girl saw you in the company of another, she may begin to be jealous of you. Jealousy always means that feelings are still alive.
An important point: if a girl is not sure that a guy is interested in a relationship, she may be afraid to take the first step towards reconciliation. You need to invite her to a meeting yourself. This way she will understand that feelings still remain, and she will not worry about being rejected. But if the conversation doesn’t go as you expected and ends in a quarrel, you don’t need to try to keep the girl. It's better to let it cool and try again.
If you cannot understand whether the girl still has feelings or you are simply wishful thinking, contact a psychologist-astrologer. The specialist sees the situation objectively. He will not only help you resolve your doubts, but will also advise you on how best to behave in order to get your relationship back.
He reacts too emotionally to your appearance
When he is infinitely happy about your appearance on the horizon, everything is quite clear. It's a completely different matter when your ex suddenly becomes noticeably nervous.
when he accidentally meets you. And here it’s not so important what this emotionality ultimately results in - aggression, friendliness or a depressive mood - what’s important is that you still care about him.
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This sign almost unambiguously indicates that with you and your ex-lover, as the poet said, everything can be, everything can happen... By the way, the feelings of a man
, reacting emotionally to his ex, it is not so difficult to check, making sure that it is she who causes such a noticeable reaction in him.
You can, for example, let him know that you have a new relationship. Or even arrange a meeting with your ex in such a way that another man
showing you signs of attention. An emotional person who has retained feelings in his soul will begin to be jealous instantly.
However, be prepared for the fact that the reaction may be too violent and unpredictable - even jealousy ! Or will you be more upset by indifference?
Seek Love
Why do we always remember our exes when we try to meet new people?
Why do our thoughts sometimes wander to our exes even when we're with new partners?
A fairly common situation is when a person tries to date a new partner in order to forget about his former love, but still remembers her when he sees a new passion.
The reason why this happens is simple and don't worry, your ex was not unusual or unique, but it's all about how your subconscious mind works.
When you meet a new person, even if that person was just a friend, your mind will always compare them to your ex. If you met someone with the intention of entering into another relationship, then these comparisons will be much more powerful.
If your ex won in comparison, then you are likely to miss him, and if your ex lost in comparison, then you are unlikely to miss him.
Why do we miss our exes when we meet new people?
Does this mean that your ex was such a big part of your life that no one can compare to them?
Of course not, it just means you're making one of the following mistakes:
1) You are trying to forget : you met a new person in order to forget about your ex, not because you really liked him. In this case, your subconscious will understand this trick and make you miss your ex.
2) You never ended the relationship properly : Proper closure can help you recover quickly and be ready for a new relationship.
3) You've lowered your standards : If you've lowered your standards after a breakup, or if you're desperate for approval to prove to yourself that you're still worthy of love, then you may miss your ex when you meet other candidates who aren't good enough.
4) You broke up a few days ago : If you broke up a few days ago, then everything is fine and for now it is normal to remember your ex-love. But it's worth remembering that the recovery process requires you to break the ties that developed between your ex and the various places you went to together. This process takes some time and cannot happen overnight.
5) You meet people who don't meet your needs : We fall in love with people who can help us meet our most important needs. No matter how significant the people you date are, if they don't help you meet the right needs, you will still miss your ex.
How to solve this problem?
First of all, you should understand that it is quite normal to remember your ex from time to time, but if you have done the right things and avoided the mistakes listed above, then these memories will soon disappear.
End the relationship properly, then try to find people who can help you meet your important needs. When you do this, you will no longer miss your ex and you will feel much better about yourself.
He's trying to get your attention
If your ex still has warm feelings for you in his soul, he will probably try to somehow make you understand that hope for a reunion is still alive inside him. At the very least, he will try his best to get your attention.
to your person. Including publishing certain photos too actively on social networks.
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For example, in these photographs your loved one can be in the company of different women, having fun with friends, and generally showing in every possible way how good and successful
develops without you. In fact, there is no point in a person behaving this way soon after a breakup.
By posting photos like this, your ex is most likely trying to make you feel jealous. Or really hopes that this will happen. However, these may be completely different photos and posts
. For example, in photographs your ex may be alone, sadly looking into the distance. He shows you that he is suffering, that he is lonely, that he is worried.
Various posts with meaningful statements from all sorts of sages about the meaning of life, or simply statuses informing everyone (but primarily you!) about his experiences. If you and your ex had a very trusting relationship
, and he has always shared his deepest thoughts and desires with you, then he will try to do this through social networks, including sending messages to you personally.
Such behavior is highly likely to indicate that your ex still has warm feelings for you. However, do not rush to rejoice, as he may act by inertia
. And it won’t show itself in any way if you suddenly make it clear that this worries you. Therefore, let time pass, which will show how long your ex will last.
A toxic partner has become the center of the universe for you
When you're in love, it's normal to spend a lot of time and effort getting to know the person or trying to make them happy. However, in a toxic relationship, one or both people can go too far and become obsessed with their significant other. As a result, you may be left with a gaping void when the relationship ends.
If you feel dependent on your partner, you may have taken on too much responsibility for that person's emotions. There is also a chance that you have mentally based your entire life and even your personality on trying to solve your partner's problem. For example, if you were in a relationship with a drug addict, then your main daily task was to push him to overcome his addiction. If you break up as a result, you may still be tormented for a long time by the desire to start dating again in order to resume work on rehabilitation.
He always talks nostalgically about the old days
Robert Kneschke
Exes sometimes meet, communicate, have lunch or dinner together - there is nothing so unusual about this. If you and your ex continued this habit
, then listen to how he speaks about the period when you were together. If your conversations never go back to the old days, that's one thing.
It's completely different if your man constantly remembers the times when you were together; fun situations come to his mind
and good moments. In such conversations, his nostalgia for past relationships is clearly visible. It looks like he really still loves you.
Does this mean recovery is possible? Take your time. Let's say he's really overwhelmed by nostalgic feelings. But at the same time, he may not think at all about restoring the old relationship.
. Perhaps he is simply pleased to remember that carefree time that has sunk into oblivion. However, it is worth trying to check your guesses by directing communication in the necessary direction.
Try to support his nostalgic conversations. If you are not ready to say something like “how nice it would be to relive all this again
together !”
, then thicken
the intensity of nostalgia
to such an extent until he himself says something similar. This will definitely happen if he still has feelings for you.
He presses for pity
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This is not about your ex catching you on the street or coming to your home to tearfully beg for forgiveness and get you back. Although such manifestations are possible! We are talking about some indirect signs
. For example, when your mutual friends meet you, they casually talk about how your ex has become haggard, lost weight, doesn’t eat anything, and is generally deeply depressed.
Your friend may tell you, for example, that she met your ex by chance the day before, and that “he had such a sad look and a pitiful look...”
.
Well, you can, of course, rush to your ex in order to support him
and bring him back to life, since you decide that he is suffering so much because of your breakup, while still harboring deep feelings for you.
But he can look pathetic for other reasons too! For example, after an illness. Or going through bad times
for other objective reasons that have nothing to do with you.
Consider also this: our friends are people who usually want the best for us (ideally). And often they themselves can become very upset because you are experiencing pain.
parting. They may treat both of you equally well, and therefore may try to bring you together again in this way. Or they even see something that is not really there.
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It’s another matter if you received information about the pitiful state of your ex, allegedly caused by separation from you, through a person who is certainly far from wanting to solve your problems
, to bring together or mislead someone. In this case, you can give your ex some time to suffer, and then you can go and try to restore the relationship.
I really miss my ex
It’s one thing when you meet, but another thing when you also manage to live together. It's much harder to get this out of your head. After all, everything reminds of him. You wake up in the morning and, while making yourself tea (coffee), you remember how he loved to greet the morning. This immediately spoils the mood and brings on a lump of sadness. Yes, a great start to the working day. What if it's a day off? And now you are feverishly going through your head about what to do with yourself. Basically, it doesn't matter how you spend your day off. Some people like to hang out at a club with friends, some like to relax more actively, some just sit at home, watch a movie and lie on the couch. Everything will remind you of him. To ensure that this never happens again, 6tu4ka.ru. invites you to read this article and take advantage of our advice.
He always catches your eye
This situation is very specific, since it is difficult not to get noticed, for example, if you study or work together. It's a completely different matter if you don't work together, study together, or even live in different areas. What if your ex suddenly starts showing up to you
? For example, I started visiting the same gym where you go; began to frequent your favorite establishments, although he had never been there before; I started using a new route for jogging, which allows me to run into you as if by chance.
But who knows what could happen?
In a word, if you suddenly notice with surprise that you have begun to see your ex almost more often than before, perhaps he really really misses you and your relationship, the old days. He wants to see you more often
, and express his emotions, but he is afraid of rejection. You can try to start over, but first you should make sure that this was not some kind of accident (for example, he moved into the neighboring house purely by chance!).
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Deleting all his contacts
First of all, you should delete all his phone numbers, so that in moments of weakness you don’t break down and call him, and don’t say the word “I miss you” to your ex. Next, you should remove him from your friends list on all social networks so that you will not be able to write to him.
It is recommended to delete his friends by pressing the Delete key. Because photos of them together may periodically appear in the event feed. And this, at least at first, is not at all pleasant to see. And besides, you will want to find out from them how he is, where and what he does. And this is strictly prohibited.
He went through a bad breakup too quickly
amount of time to get over a breakup that was extremely difficult, long and painful.
. The chances that in a couple of weeks you will wake up in the morning with a light soul, completely forgetting everything that happened, are almost zero.
Therefore, it’s worth thinking about if you suddenly found out that your ex suddenly began to lead an overly active life almost immediately after the breakup, as if nothing had happened. an ultra-short time he
a new passion has appeared. There is almost no doubt that he deliberately started a new relationship in order to drown out the feelings remaining from the old relationship.
A man can plunge headlong into work, starting to disappear at his workplace 24 hours a day. Why suddenly such an unprecedented ability to work, and even after a short time after he was completely exhausted and mentally exhausted?
tormented by his feelings about breaking up with you? In fact, he is simply trying to lose himself in his work, to drown out the pain.
Such behavior may indicate that your lover still has feelings for you. Perhaps he continues to love you. But it may turn out that these feelings are far from the most positive.
, so once again analyze all the circumstances of your separation before rushing into his open arms again.
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After all, your ex may well show such activity in order not to drown out his love feelings
, but in order to quickly erase from memory everything that connected him with you!
How to make your ex-girlfriend miss you and come back
How to make your ex-girlfriend miss you and come back
You may be trying to convince your ex-girlfriend to come back to you. Unfortunately, it's not easy. If you overdo it, she may think you're desperate. This will make her resist. On the other hand, you can't be too passive. You cannot afford to sit idly by. Therefore, the key to renewing a relationship is to find a middle ground.
Talk less, work more.
A breakup always has a reason. Perhaps there is something that doesn't suit her about you. So you promise to change if she comes back. Most guys do this to start over.
Unfortunately, this doesn't work. This act causes distrust in you. She thinks that you will do any lie just to get her back. If you want a second chance, show that you have already changed.
Try to understand how female psychology works.
If you want to increase your chances of getting your ex-lover back, learn more about female psychology. Without knowing anything about women, you can easily make a lot of mistakes. But once you understand how a girl thinks, you can easily make her think about you all the time.
Don't you want your ex to think about you all the time? Well, there is something that will help you. You need to send her mixed signals about your intention. For example, contact her from time to time just to say hi.
Don't talk to her too often. Don't make your intentions to get her back obvious. Otherwise, she will understand that you are desperate. Receiving mixed signals from you, she will constantly think about your true intentions. If she still has any feelings for you, this is a good way to make her think about you.
If you really want your girlfriend to miss you, don't keep in touch with her for a while. Why on earth would she be bored if she constantly hears about you? Give her a chance to start missing you.
The best way is not to communicate with her for at least 30 days. This will make her curious about what happened to you. She will be surprised that you are not contacting her.
After 30 days, you can contact her again and you will be surprised how friendly she is with you.
He has no new relationships, although a lot of time has passed
No matter how difficult the breakup of your relationship is, no matter how long you worry, there is always a necessary period of time
in order for the passions to subside, the pain to dull and an irresistible desire to live on to arise. Live and start new relationships, of course.
But if more than enough time has passed, but your ex is still as lonely as immediately after your breakup, this is a reason to think about it. Perhaps he never found anyone who was better than you
? Or has he never let you go from his heart, despite the passing months or even years? This theory can only be tested experimentally!
However, you must be sure that he really did not start a new relationship after you!
He constantly calls you when he's drunk
Calling your ex while drunk is a classic of the genre, of course. However, these calls gradually fade away as time passes
. And only over the strongest feelings time has no power. Only alcohol has power, because, as you know, what is on the mind of a sober person is on the tongue of a drunken person.
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And if your ex, as soon as he gets drunk, constantly calls you, most likely he still loves you and misses you. And alcohol only helps him remove obstacles
who do not allow you to express your feelings in a sober manner. Perhaps the two of you should consider trying again?
The main thing is that his alcohol addictions are not the very reason why you broke up!
He constantly monitors your activity on social networks
As soon as you publish any photo (especially your own!) or post on any website, your ex turns out to be one of the first among those who liked it
or commented on your activity. This means only one thing - your ex-man is closely monitoring any of your actions on social networks.
There is also a situation where your ex may not comment on your posts and photos, but constantly visit your page. Not all social networks
allow you to see guests of your page, however, in some social networks you can enable this function (sometimes for a fee).
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You can spend a little money and do this if you are really interested in knowing about your ex's feelings. And if it turns out that he is a frequent visitor
on your page (not to mention if he is overly “active” there), then it is possible to say with a high degree of probability that he still has feelings for you.
Someone may be quite skeptical about such “persecution”: they say, if a person had real feelings, he would find an opportunity to make it clear in real life
, and not via the Internet. However, we should not forget what century we live in! Nowadays, many take communication on social networks very seriously, without particularly separating activity in life and on the Internet.
Therefore, the actions of such people on social networks can very accurately convey their mood and reveal their character.
It keeps in touch with your family members
Situations, of course, are different, but it is not always the case that a man or woman, after a breakup, maintains good relations with their partner’s family members. And especially not everyone
will try to use any excuse to communicate with them. This looks especially strange when your ex does not and cannot have any common affairs with anyone from your family.
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However, if such communication occurs, it may well be that he does not lose hope of getting back together with you. Finding out is quite simple - you can talk to those members of your family
, with whom your ex actively communicates. Ask them to express their point of view; finally ask what your ex is talking to them about - maybe about you?
Do not rush to regard this step of your ex as a sign of remaining love for you, if your relationship
lasted so long that he simply became close friends with one of your family members.
He will definitely congratulate you on all holidays
It’s one thing when your ex-man behaves quite actively, trying to catch your eye more often, acting through mutual friends
, or your family members, making it clear that he still cares about you.
Such restrained behavior looks completely different when your ex shows “signs of life” exclusively on holidays, but does so consistently
. New Year, your birthday and the birthdays of your loved ones, March 8, Easter - there are, in fact, many holidays in our lives.
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But if your ex regularly sends you congratulatory messages these days, this may indicate that he still has warm feelings for you in his soul. One can assume, of course, that he is just a very polite person
. However, in this situation, it is recommended to take into account the circumstances under which you separated.
If the breakup was difficult, and after the breakup you made it clear that you did not want to see or hear from him, but he constantly makes himself known with congratulatory text messages, you still have a chance of getting back together
. In this situation, if you want to check whether simple politeness is his motive, it is recommended that you also start congratulating your ex on all holidays and responding to his congratulations.
A man who wants to reconnect with you will probably stop limiting himself
with just congratulatory messages, and will begin to be more active.
He is always ready to help you
There are situations in life when we are in such dire need of help that we don’t really have to choose from whom to accept this help and from whom not. And the fact that your ex readily responds to such calls
, can only indicate that a good relationship has remained between you, and it is not a burden for him to sometimes support you.
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However, the key points are the circumstances in which this support occurs; in that zeal
that your lover shows; how often does he do this?
You need to borrow money, you are sick, you are choosing new furniture, you are facing problems at work, you just want to vent
- your ex drops everything, rushes to you and solves all your issues. In this situation, we are hardly talking about politeness and pure altruism alone.
Most likely, he still loves you and does not give up hopes of a reunion. Once again, when you need to support it
, say something like
“what would I do without you”
,
“it’s so good that you are always there”
,
“I so appreciate your help”
. Look at his reaction, pay attention to what he says in response.
If it seems to you that he is motivated by something more than simple altruism
, then it makes sense to try to develop the relationship again.
Ex-Partner Had Several Good Qualities
There are only a small number of people in the world who are completely evil. Perhaps your ex, although toxic, had some positive qualities. Otherwise why did you fall in love with him? You can safely admit that your ex made you feel like a truly happy person at times. However, this does not change the fact that it has a harmful influence, so you did the right thing by cutting it out of your life.
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