Most men prefer a girl to have not only good external data, but also developed intelligence and the ability to reason. Spending time in bed with a beauty is, of course, good. But how to further build a relationship if your companion is not inclined to think about her actions? After all, family life is not only sex, but often problems that only a woman can solve.
If a woman did the wrong thing in some situation, a man, as a rule, asks her one question: “What were you thinking?” It is then that the male sex begins to firmly believe that girls are not able to think seriously and logically, and, in general, beauties think only about money, clothes and other material values.
Perhaps a certain percentage of girls think so, but all representatives of the fair sex are different, and therefore their thoughts are different. What can the head of the fair sex do? What do girls really think?
How women think
It is not correct to say that a woman is a stupid creature and a man is the smartest, because this is not true. Men and women think completely differently: the former build a logical chain using the left hemisphere, while the latter draw images and build cumbersome combinations. It is these intricate combinations that break men's logical chains.
When making an important decision, a woman may also think about completely extraneous and insignificant things. Sometimes men, hearing a woman's thoughts out loud, are ready to fall from the chair they were sitting on. Only a woman can ask her partner about his work or something like that during sex.
It seems to a woman that she must control everything not only in her life, but also in the affairs of her beloved. She is not at all embarrassed by the fact that she is collecting information at the wrong moment. She simply combined thoughts from different areas in her head at the same time, and without hesitation, asked the questions that interested her. This once again proves that a woman can think about many completely different things at the same time.
If women did not smooth out the rough edges with the help of their beautiful appearance, then men would have gone crazy long ago. But, thanks to the uniqueness that lies in female charm, beauty and sexuality, gentlemen go crazy about seductresses, without focusing on their actions.
It is worth noting that the objects of women’s thoughts depend on the woman’s age. With age, women become wiser, and their thoughts acquire more specific frameworks. There is also another moment in the beauty’s life that changes the direction of her thoughts - marriage. Single girls and married people already think differently, and their priorities in their thoughts also change.
“I think the phone is ringing!”
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A woman spends her whole life waiting for a phone call. The girl in love painfully thinks why he doesn’t call. A married lady is waiting for her husband to call and tell him whether he will be late today, and whether she can definitely count on it. The mother of the family expects an SMS from her child, and the businesswoman expects a call from the supplier. In the soul, this anticipation becomes a hundred times more acute - after all, the sounds of pouring water drown out calls and message signals! As a result, every minute she rushes to her lazily jingling phone to find on it another spam from the body correction center. One awkward move and the phone slips behind the sink, and she has to jump out of the shower wet and take a long time to pull it out. But she has to go to work, and her head is still... well, the boss will survive the sight of her with unwashed hair. In the end, he saw something other than that.
Thoughts of unmarried girls3
- Sex
Sex is a very voluminous female thought. This includes thoughts about the man with whom the girl wants to be alone, about the process itself, about its consequences. As soon as the thought of sex creeps into your pretty head, your rich imagination draws a passionate picture, similar to a scene from a Brazilian TV series. And this picture may not leave the female consciousness for a very long time, periodically displacing ordinary thoughts. Even work cannot prevent sexual thoughts.
Thoughts about sex can have both pleasant and sad connotations. The first option exists when a girl has an object of carnal pleasure, and their meeting is close. Then the thought of sex is bright, exciting, anticipating pleasure. The second case speaks of a lack of sex and an unknown time of its occurrence in the girl. In the second case, the girl begins to think more about the man with whom she would like to have sex. Perhaps at such a moment the thought of seducing a man will appear in order to achieve the main goal. A girl's thinking can simulate a whole story of an insidious trap for a lonely guy.
Thoughts about sex visit an unmarried girl more often. In marriage, sex happens by itself, there is no need to think about it, unless there is a delay between lovemaking. Then the entire feminine begins to think intensively about the reasons for the long pause. Such thoughts can have unpleasant consequences for a man. He may be accused of betrayal, loss of interest in his partner, and so on, even to the point of impotence.
What do girls really think when they want to have sex? Of course they think about their appearance. Girls think about how they can lose weight, pump up their butts, dye their hair, do their hair, put on eyelashes, grow nails, get waxed, go to a solarium, buy a new perfume, put on jewelry, choose an image and, as a result, turn into a sexy beauty.
After resolving the issue with their appearance, girls think about how to seduce a man: how to speak, what to ask, how to behave, what gestures to show.
During physical contact, a girl can mentally sum up her correct actions, thereby increasing her self-esteem. After sex, a girl may think about whether the guy liked making love to her and whether she behaved correctly in bed. Here she may be overcome by doubts and even panic. She is not always able to dare to ask her partner intimate questions.
- Man
What do girls really think when they see a handsome young man?
The girl becomes interested in everything: how old is he, who does he live with, does he have a girlfriend, is he in love with someone, what kind of girls does he like, where does he work and how much does he earn, does he have a car and what kind of car does he have? his hobbies, etc.
In addition to superficial questions, thoughts of a more intimate nature may also arise in a girl’s head. For example: does he like to have sex and in what positions, how many partners has he had, what does he smell like, what kind of body does he have, what kind of intimate organ does he have. And all these thoughts can flash through a girl’s head in a matter of minutes. Of course, when meeting someone, she will not dare to immediately ask the guy everything that interests her - he can immediately run away from her. And she will be thinking about this meeting for some time.
After sex with a man, a girl practically imagines him as her husband. She begins to think: about the wedding, meeting her parents, a romantic trip, where and with whom they will live. She is already painting a picture of her happy future with this young man.
By running ahead so quickly and far, a girl runs the risk of not actually getting her wishes and of being very disappointed in both life and men. Considering the guy already her boyfriend, the girl already begins to show jealousy when she sees him communicating with other girls. Thoughts about jealousy settle in your sweet head almost along with thoughts about a man.
- Girlfriends
To prevent a girl from building castles in the air, she needs sound advice from her friends. From the outside they see a slightly different picture of what is happening to their beauty. After spiritual gatherings with friends over a bottle of wine or champagne, the girl “digests” the information received in her mind for several days. Having put everything in its place, she calmly continues the relationship, without getting ahead of herself.
- Job
Thoughts about work are not pleasant for people, especially girls. Work prevents her from doing more interesting things: going to boutiques, salons, cinemas, etc. Rather, thoughts about work are a forced measure, and are quickly driven out of your head in order to think about something more pleasant.
- House
Thoughts about home visit the minds of girls who live on their own more often. Since a woman is the keeper of the hearth, she needs to create a cozy home nest so that a man wants to stay in it. When organizing a romantic evening, a girl thinks about: how to prepare a delicious dinner, create the appropriate atmosphere and lighting background, how to choose music for the evening, how to behave and what outfit to choose.
- Children
While a girl doesn’t have children, she doesn’t think about them so often. Her thoughts are from the category of desires about children: who would she like, how many children, with what difference, how to raise them, what to name them.
- Parents
Thoughts about parents arise: when support from them is needed, when their birthdays are approaching, when their health is deteriorating. Everyone understands that you cannot forget about your parents.
Trap 1
If a man shows attention to me, seeks my company, if his eyes light up when he meets me, then this means love.
We will get married and live happily ever after. Paradox:
If a man is in love, it usually has very little to do with who the woman really is. Falling in love is a state when a man sees a reflection of his ideal in his beloved, and most of what he is in love with is his fantasy, and not at all the woman herself with her feelings, views, and inner world. If a man finds a woman attractive, he does not necessarily consider this relationship to become serious. When a man is not in a state of conscious search for a candidate to build a family, he usually looks for female company in order to enjoy it and have a good time, preferably at no extra cost. And very often a woman who evokes passionate feelings and impulses does not at all coincide with the image of the woman whom a man sees as a potential wife. At the beginning of a relationship, when feelings are intense, it is very important to remember the difference between the concepts of “infatuation” and “love”, and to be able to distinguish between their manifestations. Love implies respect for the personality of another person, consideration of his feelings and needs, and leaves him the right to some imperfection.
Thoughts of married women4
- Children
In marriage, a girl has children, and she becomes a woman. Married women spend all their time taking care of children: how to dress them, when to go to the hospital, feed them, take them for a walk, change them, wash them, play, put them to bed. Accordingly, they think about children from morning to evening. In short breaks they remember their husband.
- Man
A man for a woman is the second priority object of her thoughts. The wife needs to think about what to cook for lunch and dinner for her beloved husband. Also, don’t forget to go to the grocery store, tidy up your spouse’s clothes, and ask about his progress at work. A wife does not forget to think about her husband’s salary, especially when she is on leave to care for a small child. He even thinks about where he will spend his spouse’s salary that has not yet been received.
- House
A married woman has more thoughts about home comfort. She needs to clean up the house every day so that her husband comes home from work in comfort and coziness. A woman thinks that she needs to: water the flowers, wash the floor, wash the dishes, buy kitchen supplies, wash the curtains, etc.
- Sex
Over the years of married life, the topic of sex gradually fades into the background, as do thoughts about it. A woman’s passion fades, sex becomes routine. During sex, she may think about the need for repairs in the apartment, and not about how to get an orgasm. Although, the thought of the need to satisfy her husband’s sexual needs still sometimes arises in her head. Very often, thoughts about sex are problematic. The woman is not satisfied with her husband’s temperament, timing of sex, positions, etc. These problems remain in the wife's head, and, as a rule, do not reach the man's ears. During this period of time, a woman may have thoughts about having another sex with another man. Where this can lead depends on the moral principles of the spouse.
- Girlfriends
Regarding girlfriends, there are no special changes in the thoughts of single girls and married people. She also thinks that she needs to meet with her friends and complain about life, her spouse, children and dump other everyday problems on them. It would be even better if they took her out somewhere to dance and relax. She thinks that she needs all this, otherwise there will be an explosion in her head.
- Job
Rarely does a woman's work bring her pleasure. She thinks that this job of hers will fail, and her husband should provide for her. If the husband cannot support the family alone, then the woman thinks about where else she can get money to cover all the family expenses. He thinks about possible dalliances, loans, loans from friends.
In addition to thoughts about the main objects in a girl’s life, there are also a huge number of thoughts that fly through her head. Happy girls have the best thoughts.
Trap 4
If a man deceives me, cheats on me, or is otherwise disrespectful, I have to put up with it, because I chose him this way, and this is the cross I need to bear.
True love is measured by the sacrifice we make for the person we love. Paradox:
The more a man feels impunity, the less he values his woman. A woman’s reaction to humiliation of her personality is an indicator of how much a woman values herself. That is, first a woman must learn to value and respect herself, and only then will she be able to transmit this attitude to a man and the rest of the world.
If this sense of inner value is weak, the woman has a strong fear of being alone, without a relationship, and there is a high motivation to adapt. Because of such fear, a woman can often abandon her own psychological territory - interests, hobbies, self-care, communication, mastering new skills. Although a man unconsciously strives to completely master a woman so that she gives all her energy to him, and only to him, when this actually happens, it is not harmony and happiness that comes, but boredom and emptiness. When a woman stops developing as a person, she ceases to be unpredictable, in some ways unattainable, and novelty and freshness disappear from the relationship, the need for which is always present in a couple.
What do girls really think when they are happy?5
When a girl is happy, it can be seen in her cheerful eyes, radiant smile, and confident gait. What is going through her head at this moment?
The girl thinks about how infinitely happy she is. Now she can't think about anything serious. In her head: wind, sun, sea, sand, birdsong, children's laughter, beloved man. Her friends should be the first to know about her excellent mood.
She thinks that some will burn with envy, while others will remain indifferent to her happiness. All problems are going to hell. Nothing can ruin her mood. She wonders if all people are as happy as she is now. There is a willingness in your heart to share your happiness with everyone. There are only words in my head: “I am the most beautiful, smart, charming and the happiest!”
