The relationship is registered in the registry office or not.
How does the presence of a legal relationship affect a man’s final irritation? It's simple! If wife cheats on you during marriage or in the pre-marriage stage (that is, at the moment when you have applied and are preparing for the wedding), there are plenty of reasons for dissatisfaction. The fact is that during this period you impose on yourself a list of certain obligations, in fact, just like her. So in the case of betrayal, obligations are violated and it cannot be forgotten and forgiven overnight.
In the case when your wife began to cheat at a time when you are not married and have been living together for about 1-2 years, but have not proposed marriage, many psychoanalysts come to the following verdict: this is not cheating. Of course, our team does not approve of such conclusions. If a wife has another man , this is always cheating. The point is different - the man, during the period of cohabitation, never took responsibility and did not take a step towards starting a family. Again, situations are different, for example, you strive to quickly climb the career ladder in order to get married, have children and live without knowing troubles... It is important to talk as often as possible about the prospects for the future, so that the female psyche does not collapse and start searching relationships on the side .
If your wife’s infidelity did occur, but during your time together you have not acquired any property and you have no children, moreover, the marriage has not been formalized, it is better to separate.
It often happens that the betrayal of a common-law wife, on the contrary, pushes one to start a marriage - this happens because of a man’s fierce reluctance to lose a woman forever. This is mistake! It’s still impossible to justify betrayal, and besides, this fact may begin to put pressure on the psyche in a few years, when the “heat” of the relationship has been exhausted.
Age of the spouses.
Here the question is “How to behave if your wife cheated ?” will disappear by itself. The fact is that it is age-related opportunities for creating a new family (starting a new marriage) that can play a colossal role. First, let's look at a woman's age capabilities.
If a woman’s age borders on 40 or more, then by divorcing her, you will leave her only hope for the future. The fact is that many women over the age of 35 suffer menopause (the death of childbearing function), moreover, if her appearance is not greatly envied by fans, she may be left alone and regret her misdeed for the rest of her life.
If a woman is under 35 years old, but you do not have children together, then the probability of creating a new marriage is quite high - about 65%, but at least she will be able to find a spouse who does not bother with anything, in particular, the fact that she can change him too. This type of man does not succeed in anything, therefore, she will look for her happiness for a long time, which will be a reason for you to grin a little.
