Why do some people deliberately not answer the phone?

Why is the called party not answering?

Let's look at the reasons in more detail.

Phone battery power is exhausted. This is one of the most common reasons for a person’s temporary absence from the mobile network. This problem can be solved by purchasing an auxiliary charger, such as a Power Bank. You also need to constantly maintain the phone's charge level in order to answer calls on time.
Leaving the network coverage area. In this case, the user is in a place where the signal from cell towers is either very weak or completely absent. This is why the subscriber cannot answer an incoming call. Such places are found both in megacities and in suburban areas. To solve this, you just need to get out of such a zone.
The man turned off his phone for personal reasons. For example, during a meeting in almost all companies it is necessary to turn off phones for a certain time so that the call does not interfere with the discussion of issues. Turning off mobile devices is required in many places to avoid interrupting work or entertainment, such as in a movie theater. Therefore, it is recommended to wait a while and then make the call again.
The gadget may be broken or stolen. Similar situations with mobile devices occur quite often - they can be dropped on the asphalt, accidentally dropped into water, or doused with something. In addition, there are often cases of theft, in which case it is enough to just remove the SIM card and calls to the phone will not be received. After such incidents, it will be impossible to contact the subscriber until he purchases a new device.
User on a trip abroad. Due to the fact that using your number in international roaming mode is quite expensive, many subscribers purchase temporary SIM cards from local mobile operators. At the same time, communication costs will decrease, but there will be a problem with answering calls.
The subscriber did not have time to pick up the phone. In this case, voice mail can be connected to the number. Therefore, if the call button is not pressed within 20 seconds, the answering machine starts working and will offer to leave a message after the signal.
The mobile device is in airplane mode. The phone system will block incoming calls. The caller will also hear a prompt to leave a message after the beep.

The subscriber can simply add a person to the black list. That is, he does not want to communicate with the person who called, which is why he added him to the ignore list. This issue can only be resolved personally; the network is powerless here.

There are many reasons why a subscriber may not have access to a phone. The caller needs to either make the call later or meet the caller in person.

Voice messages

Statistics show that there are fewer people who like voice messages than those who are annoyed by them. Audio messages always require permission to send, and the recipient has every right to say that he cannot listen to it at the moment and respond when it is convenient for him.

Exact data (address, time, place, names, numbers, etc.) are not indicated in the voice message. A person should be able to access them without listening to the recording.

The meaning of standard autoinformant phrases

The answering machines of various cellular companies use several standard offers in cases where it is impossible to establish a connection with a specific number. They look like this.

The phrase “Subscriber is temporarily unavailable, call back later” is used in cases where the subscriber’s mobile device suddenly turns off. However, the signal to leave the mobile network was not sent to the station. This usually occurs due to lack of charge or a broken phone.
The sentence “The subscriber’s device is turned off or is out of network coverage” means that the person being called turned off the phone on their own. In this case, the device will send a warning message to the station. This phrase can also be used when the user has left the network coverage area.
The voice message “This person is currently unable to answer your call” may sound because the device is turned off or is in an area with poor signal reception.
The phrase “Subscriber is temporarily blocked” will be used if the call is made to a blocked number.
The “Wrong number dialed” prompt will appear because the user is calling a number that is not assigned to the subscriber or is dialed in the wrong format. It is necessary to correct the error in the number symbols.
The message “Network is overloaded” can be dictated on holidays or when a person is present at a crowded conference or other event. Mobile networks cannot serve all customers on days like these. Therefore, some of them may hear this phrase. It is recommended to repeat the call after some time.

In almost all cases, you can make a follow-up call and get back to the person. This is due to the fact that contact is restored within a short period of time.

Rule #5 Don't call him and rarely call him back

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If you strictly follow the “Rules”, then you will have no reason to call a man. It is he who should call you - again and again, until he gets you to agree to a date.

By calling a man, you are being intrusive, and this is absolutely against the “Rules”. A man will immediately understand what you like and may lose interest! Another reason not to call is the danger of distracting the man from something. He can watch football, deal with accounts, chat with friends, and just sleep. In such a situation, he will not want to talk to you at all. Why tempt fate?

When you

call a man, he may hang up first or end the conversation too quickly.
And you may mistake his busyness for lack of interest. You
might even think he's with another woman!
Naturally, you will feel empty and nervous until the very moment when he finally calls you himself. That kind of nervousness might make you call him again
and ask, “Is everything okay?” or “Do you love me? Are you bored without me? This is how you break several “Rules” at once!

So that a man doesn’t know how much you love him, how sad and lonely you are without him, never call him! If he left a message asking you to call back, try not to do this. Call back only if there is a change in plans for a date or another event. But never call a man just to chat.

You don't call and it makes a man want you more. He wants to see you even more and, naturally, calls you himself. If you call, he will find out everything about you too quickly and will get bored. In addition, when you call rarely, every call you make is an event.

Don't worry about seeming rude. When a man loves you and really wants to communicate with you, he will never consider you rude. He will decide that you are busy and difficult to achieve. Men always call again.

Have you ever noticed that when a man calls himself, the conversation goes better? This happens because it was the man who picked up the phone and dialed the number. He missed you at this very moment. Right now he wanted to hear your voice. When a man calls, he is an aggressor. He's the one thinking about what to say. He was the one who took the time to talk to you. It's available!

In such a situation, the “Rules” are effective, because you may not be at home, and then the man will have to wonder where you went and call back. When he calls, you may be busy, and then you politely end the conversation. When he calls himself, it's easier for you to follow rule #6: Always hang up first.

But we are all not saints. In fact, each of us at least once called a man back. Of course, she didn’t call herself, but she called back. If for some reason you need to call a man back, try waiting. Don't call right away. And when you call back, don’t talk for a long time. The conversation should be polite but short. Do not tell the answering machine what time or day you can be reached. Do not voluntarily give out sensitive information. You will make things too easy for a man and seem quite intrusive. Let him seek a meeting with you. Remember: you are a “Rules” girl and you are very busy! The "Rules" girl usually comes home and listens to her answering machine for an hour, choosing a man to meet on the weekend.

What should you do if a man left you a message on Tuesday night and you're dying to spend Saturday night with him? Do I need to call back on Tuesday? The answer to the “Rules” is very simple: NO! It will become very clear to the man that you are calling to arrange a date on Saturday. It is better if he calls you back on Wednesday evening (this is the deadline) and suggests meeting on Saturday.

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It's better to spend a Saturday evening alone than to get used to calling a man for any reason.

“The Rules” will help you find not just someone to spend Saturday with, but a man for life. It's not worth winning one battle just to lose the war.

Remember: the “Rules” were not created to cause you pain and suffering. We don't want you to suffer unnecessarily. There is already enough pain in life to add more voluntarily. We can't control cancer or drunk drivers. But we can restrain ourselves and not dial the coveted number. If you call and the man doesn't call you back or ask you out on a date, you'll be crushed. If you call him, he will assume that you are quite accessible and not worth trying too hard. If you call a man, he won't get used to asking you out at the end of every meeting. He must learn that if he does not invite you during the meeting, then he may not get through to you later - and then he will have to do without your company for a week, or even two. No, it is possible to reach you by phone , but it is very difficult!

Remember: you are very busy with your own affairs and other dates. You make plans in advance. But don't scold the man for not calling you sooner. Forget the sacramental phrase:

- If you had called earlier...

Just say:

– I would really like to go, but I can’t.

And he himself will understand that he should have called earlier.

If a man is in love, then in order to make a date on Saturday, he will start calling on Monday or Tuesday. If he doesn't love you, he won't call again and again.

But don't be surprised if after the first date the man doesn't call for a week or two. He may have a lot to do. He may date other women. He may be trying to fit you into his schedule, but he doesn't know how yet.

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Remember: before he met you, he had his own life! Don't be intrusive!

Just mind your own business (at least so as not to think about him 24 hours a day). Give the man space, wait for him to

will call.

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Here's a good example of how you should handle a situation like this. Our friend Laura, after her first date with David, waited two and a half weeks for his call. David was recently divorced and needed some time to think before starting a new relationship. “Rules” girl Laura gave him that time and space. Unlike most women, she did not call to find out “how he was doing,” or for some other far-fetched reason:

“I think you said you wanted to meet my accountant?”

Of course, Laura was unpleasant, but she met with friends and went on blind dates. She was a pragmatist. She knew that David would definitely call if he liked her. If he doesn’t call, then that’s his problem! She will find someone else! When David finally called, Laura was nice and friendly. She didn't bother to find out why he didn't call earlier and didn't want to talk about it. They dated for ten months and then got married.

Another note about the phone: sometimes we want to call the man we're dating, not to talk to him, but just to hear his voice. It seems to us that if we don’t hear this expensive, sexy voice immediately, we will simply die! And this is understandable. Try calling him at home when he is at work. You will hear his voice on the answering machine, and then hang up without leaving a message. A very effective technique!

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When a subscriber is temporarily unavailable

The subscriber may be unavailable in the following cases:

the most common reason is that the user simply left the network coverage area, ended up in an area where the signal does not reach or where it is too weak to make a connection;
a network error in which the answering machine is interrupted and sends a signal that the subscriber is unavailable;
The phone number is entered in the wrong format, for example, instead of the number 8 or +7, 7 without the plus sign is entered.

In addition, there may be station congestion. This happens on holidays. In this case, both the user and the connection will be unavailable, since the towers are overloaded.

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Desires - no, goals - no

It doesn't matter if you had one date or several. Women have one incredible feature that is not subject to male influence - the creation of an illusory world around themselves. While you have come to the decision that you are ready to date a man and build a serious relationship, your potential partner could change his mind and choose a suitable life partner.

Representatives of the fair sex can decide in a few minutes whether a partner is suitable for her or not. Men, on the other hand, can doubt, compare, choose and analyze for a long time. For the stronger sex, connecting your life with someone is a serious step that cannot be taken thoughtlessly and hastily.

What to do? This is the first reason why a man doesn’t call. The man’s view of this situation is quite simple: give him time. A girl shouldn’t sit idly by either. One call is enough to understand whether the chosen one is in doubt, or has completely cooled off towards you. If there is still a spark, then there is no need to impose or push. Learn to be patient and the wait will soon pay off.

Lack of interest

If a man does not respond to messages and calls for a long time, this may be a reason to seriously think about it (especially if you have known each other only recently). It is possible that he is not interested in you. Unfortunately, not all people are tactful and well-mannered enough to politely explain the situation and, without offending, refuse to communicate. Many people simply prefer to ignore persistent ladies.

This disappointing option should never be dismissed. However, you must have self-esteem. Stop calling your man and bombarding him with messages. By doing this, you not only irritate him, but also expose yourself in an unsightly light.

Could be better

There is a main reason in psychology why a man doesn’t call. The man’s view is quite simple: he just didn’t like the sex. It doesn’t matter whether coitus happened on the first date or a few months later. This situation is divided on two fronts: the man is dissatisfied with you and was not fully satisfied; the man blames himself and believes that he could not satisfy you. In any case, a representative of the stronger sex does not admit this to a woman; it is much easier for him to ignore calls.

What to do? Calm down and analyze the situation. You will be lucky if a man is frank with you and admits what exactly did not suit him. In other cases, you just need to remember all the details of the evening. Perhaps, in a passionate outburst, you did not notice how you hurt your chosen one, or during sex you thought only about your pleasure, forgetting to give unforgettable moments to your partner.

Playing on thin strings

Let's figure out why the man doesn't call. A man’s gaze is sometimes incomprehensible to the fair sex. Due to their naivety, girls sometimes do not notice the cunning game of cat and mouse. In this situation, you need to understand that the guy knows perfectly well that you are ready to reveal your soul to him, so in his eyes you are nothing more than a fragile but tasty mouse that needs to be played with before dinner. Such men behave confidently and experiencedly. They manipulate your patience and trust, deliberately ignoring the promise to call.

What to do? Don't forget about pride and self-esteem. Your man, who is ready to devote his whole life to you, will never play with you, and certainly does not want to see you in the role of a victim. Manipulators must be cut off immediately.

How to respond to silence

What should a woman’s reaction be if a man does not immediately respond to messages and calls (or does not answer at all)? You definitely shouldn’t get all worked up, get offended, and accuse your gentleman of all mortal sins. Here are some recommendations you should listen to:

Analyze your message and call history. How often do you write or call your man? How often does the initiative come from you? It is possible that you are too persistent and even intrusive. Some men find this unpleasant, and some are simply put off by it.
Think carefully about what to write, reread the message several times before sending. An incoherent or overly emotional flow of words is not the best way to start a correspondence. Even if you are overly excited or angry, try to express your thoughts briefly and clearly. Although if a man ignores incomprehensible messages without trying to clarify their meaning or put you at ease, think about it. Perhaps he doesn't take you seriously.
Don't rush to conclusions. When your boyfriend does get in touch, you shouldn’t attack him with accusations. Calmly and politely try to find out the reason for his silence, motivating him with excitement. Perhaps there really is an objective explanation for this behavior, which absolves the “defendant” of all blame.
Call back. A short signal about a message may simply not be heard if the phone is in a pocket, bag or another room. Perhaps, instead of languishing while waiting for an answer, you should just call.
Try to smooth things over. If the reason for your boyfriend’s silence is a quarrel, think about whether this situation is your fault. It may be worth putting pride and principles aside, asking for forgiveness for words spoken in the heat of the moment.

Why doesn't a man answer messages and calls?

You are not the center of the earth

There is a clear opinion in psychology about why a man doesn’t call a woman. The man’s gaze proves that he simply does not need a representative of the fair sex. If you are dear to your partner, and he really values you, worries and cares, then he will always be able to find a few minutes in his busy schedule to notify you that he is busy and leave good news. The same goes for girls. If she doesn’t call, then you shouldn’t have false hopes and build illusions - your partner is simply indifferent to you. Rest assured, even if a man was abducted by alien creatures, his phone was dead, and there was not a single soul within a radius of 100 kilometers, he would still be able to warn you.

What to do? Be patient and set yourself “waiting hours.” Perhaps a representative of the stronger sex really had an accident and there is no way to contact you. This means that after some time he will definitely make himself known. Your task is to pacify the anger and ardor within yourself, not to let anger and hatred flare up into a blue flame. If a call from your chosen one exceeds the “waiting hours,” then most likely the man has simply lost sight of you. In this case, you just need to take a deep breath and exhale and realize that there is one less manipulator and indifferent partner in your life.

The real truth

Now you know why a man doesn’t call or write to a woman. A man's gaze is not always pleasant and sweet. However, being of a conscious age, you must understand that pride and pride can save you from unnecessary ballast, which certainly cannot give you real happiness and love.

Learn to accept the truth as it is, even if it is bitter and unpleasant. There are no reservations - you either inspired a man or you didn’t. If a representative of the stronger sex likes you, he will give you all the jewels of the world, wrap you in silk and give you warmth. If you are not satisfied with your potential chosen one, then he can play with you, because you are a comfortable woman who is always an example, who will feed and comfort you when a man needs it. Love yourself and respect your feelings, then you will be able to meet a worthy person who matches you.