The ability to enjoy being alone with your loved one is an important factor in a strong marital relationship. However, sometimes it is not so simple, because over time the partners’ feelings fade away. What to do? First of all, you need to diversify your sex life and try to please the man.
A good way is to experiment and give him new, unforgettable emotions that will push for the further development of your intimate relationship. After all, representatives of the stronger sex love initiative and the desire for something new.
It's never too late to learn
Are your hands sensitive, dexterous and capable of giving your partner intense pleasure and a powerful orgasm? But you don’t have enough skill and skill to completely satisfy your man with this method and leave him with a feeling of achieved pleasure?
Today's challenge is to add this skill to your sexual repertoire, and then pay particular attention to the benefits of bringing the manual method of satisfying a man back into your bedroom.
We're going to help you by showing you that touching a man goes beyond the one-step wonder you might use, and we'll give you tips to help you learn how to make a man feel good with your hands.
First, forget everything you think about manual methods of satisfaction. Forget about simple and crazy up and down movement. This norm does not give complete satisfaction to any man.
Touch your man with creativity and curiosity and use your hands to create the widest range of sensations for a man.
Here are some basic tips to help you get started.
Why is masturbating yourself good?
Starting from the first touch of your fingers to your intimate areas, your global journey into the world of your body began. The first awkward clitoral orgasm, attempts to feel the entrance to the vagina, fingers inside, the feeling that everything is compressing “there”...
The more you touch and explore yourself, the better you feel the body: what touches excite you, what caresses and methods of stimulation bring the most pleasure, what you want to try in the future. You can feel the most sensitive areas of the body.
Self-exploration will also help in sex - you will know how to tighten your toes, which way to turn, or even help yourself to make it easier to achieve orgasm.
Another argument in favor of masturbation: every woman has moments when it seems that she has no strength to fight arousal.
Some go for a five-kilometer interval run, others go to a nightclub in search of casual sex, and others “eat up” their sexual desires with chocolates and cakes. Although there is a solution - and it is masturbation. Sometimes you need to relieve tension, relax, breathe out.
Use lubricant
If you think that simply moving your hand up and down your man's penis is all you need to do, you're wrong. Lubrication is an absolute necessity. It prevents skin from cracking and makes the process more enjoyable.
Lubricants allow your hands to glide over his sensitive skin without painful friction. Oil reduces friction and increases pleasant sensation. Only with the help of lubricant can you learn how to make a man feel good with your hands.
Surprise a guy on February 14th?
Your first Valentine's Day together, no matter how and where you spend it, will be remembered forever.
But every year the holiday will be given less and less importance, and it may happen that there will be nothing to remember. To prevent this from happening, you need to use your imagination and come up with something exciting for the celebration.
- Extreme. If your boyfriend loves extreme sports, then on Valentine's Day you can invite him to skydive together. The endless sky around you, you hold hands and soar hundreds of meters above the ground - what could be more unusual? If you prepare for the event in advance - find parachutes in the shape of hearts, write your names on them, prepare and decorate the landing site, you can make the holiday truly unforgettable. By asking someone to film the entire process, you can return the pleasant moments you experienced at any moment.
- Game of strip. A gambling young man can be offered to play strip cards. If you wear sexy lingerie, stockings, an open T-shirt and short shorts under your everyday clothes, then every time you lose and take off some of your clothes, you will surprise and delight your loved one. Just remember that you don’t have to win this time, so you can give in to your partner.
- Quest. If you celebrate not alone, but with mutual friends, you can organize a kind of romantic quest. You should prepare prompt questions in advance, and distribute notes with them among friends. During the game, a man in search of his beloved will move from one friend with a hint to another until he finds you, for example, at the place of your first date.
A romantic quest can be arranged at home. To do this, you just need to draw arrows in advance and stick up pieces of paper with them so that they indicate the path to your door.
On the porch of the house, you can leave your loved one a note in which you suggest following the arrows in search of “treasure,” collecting identification marks (your jewelry and clothes) along the way. The prize in this quest will be to give the man the opportunity to dress you in the things he found the way he wants, or vice versa - to not put anything on you...
- Romantic dinner. For more conservative lovers of romance, a romantic dinner would be an excellent option for spending the evening on February 14th. Gourmet dishes, burning candles, classical music - all this will help create an appropriate atmosphere for the occasion. Think through all the details. So, the music should be quiet, the food should be light, the aroma of candles should be unobtrusive. In addition, you definitely need to decide on an outfit in advance. A long evening dress with a deep neckline on the back will not leave your chosen one indifferent. The look will be complemented by perfume with pheromones purchased the day before in a sex shop.
Whatever celebration option you choose, the main thing is to do everything so that the attention of your significant other is focused exclusively on you - his beloved.
Use strong pressure
Many women are afraid of causing pain to the penis and use light, gentle pressure. Try to use a strong hand, it is the use of your strong hand that can create a tight squeeze along the entire length of his penis, which will increase the degree of pleasure for a man. Then alternately apply the full range of pressure, from gentle to very strong.
The easiest way to get an idea of how much pressure you can use is to wrap your hand around your guy's penis and begin to gently increase the pressure. Ask him to let you know when he starts to feel uncomfortable. You'll probably be surprised at how hard you can squeeze his dick.
How to please yourself with sex toys?
The sex toy industry offers a whole variety of devices that help women get vivid orgasms without sex, and without any participation from a man. Clitoral selectors, dildos, masturbators, anal plugs, vibrating panties, vibrating finger attachments...
And this is not to mention the fact that the shapes, vibration modes, sizes and materials of the toy can be chosen purely for yourself. You can use the devices anywhere, even during your lunch break at work. No one will notice your slightly flushed cheeks and swaying hips, but your mood will improve!
Don’t spare money on your first vibrator: let it have the ability to regulate the speed and intensity of vibration, and let the material be high-quality silicone. Use toys with water-based lubricant if you feel dry.
A pleasant bonus will be the waterproofness of the masturbator - after all, sometimes you really want to plunge into a hot bath with foam, drink a glass of red semi-sweet and give yourself pleasure.
But the journey into the world of self-satisfaction does not end with fingers and vibrators.
