In order for a relationship with a girl to always be on a positive and romantic wave, a man needs to show his feelings with good deeds, reinforced with pleasant words. It's no secret that girls love with their ears, so words play no less a role than deeds. But chatter alone won’t get you far, so psychologists offer some interesting ideas on how to please a girl.
Any relationship periodically goes through stages of fading passion and feelings, and only strong couples with real feelings overcome these situations. Wisdom and patience are required from a woman, and ingenuity, good deeds and pleasant words that stir up emotions are required from a man. The main thing is not to wait for an opportunity or a good reason to please the girl you love, since the most memorable actions are those that happen unexpectedly.
Words and actions
Even the largest and most unexpected pleasant surprise will not be so memorable and touching for a girl if it is presented dryly without emotion. Psychologists probably know how you can win women’s hearts, win them over to your partner, and also with what actions you can make amends, establish a romantic mood between a couple, and surprise your chosen one.
Any girl wants to periodically hear words about how loved, desired and attractive she is to her man. It's like caring for a flower that needs to be constantly watered so that it blooms and exudes fragrance. By nature, women are very sensual and emotional, so they especially need positive emotions. There are several demonstrative actions for the sake of your beloved:
- fighting your bad habits;
- gifts in the form of flowers;
- self-development and passion for new activities;
- developing all kinds of creative ideas for dates;
- handmade gifts;
- showing care (help in any difficult situations), etc.
Girls cannot imagine their relationship without attention to their person from their chosen one. Attention is manifested by pleasant SMS messages and calls, compliments about a new hairstyle, outfit or makeup, manicure. All efforts on the part of a man in the form of actions and pleasant phrases will be compensated by a good attitude on the part of his beloved.
A little dressing up
Perhaps the wife has several dresses from a sex shop. Moreover, this option is not at all surprising. But if a man comes up with some kind of suit for himself, it will look bold and unusual. The chosen one will definitely appreciate such a gesture. After all, a creatively minded man can truly awaken desire.
Here you need to focus on the tastes of your partner. Perhaps if her chosen one wears Santa Claus's fur coat or a loincloth, she will like it. But there is a risk that she will not want to have anything to do with, for example, a bunny. Therefore, a man does not have to purchase a special suit if he is thinking about how to surprise his wife. This option also exists, but not every woman will like her husband dressed in a suit from a sex shop.
Pleasant trifles
You can make your beloved girl very nice to a man without any financial costs or special efforts. If a girl sincerely treats him and has feelings, she will be pleasantly surprised by every little thing on his part. Psychologists advise periodically pampering your lady with symbolic romantic souvenirs, cards, balloons, flowers, and most importantly, sweets, because most girls have an avid sweet tooth.
Expert opinion
Elena Druzhnikova
Sexologist. Family relations expert. Family psychologist.
The stereotype that a girl can be conquered and surprised only with expensive gifts and constant presents is actually wrong. If there is true love in a relationship, the girl’s approach to choosing a gift, symbolism and attention from the man will be important.
When presenting such gifts, a man should say some pleasant words, confess the depth of his feelings, and emphasize the outer and inner beauty of his chosen one by hugging her. Psychologists note that women are not able to resist tactile contact, which strengthens the fullness of emotions and feelings between partners. It is better to show such signs of attention in everyday life, when she least expects it.
Offer a massage
If a man is thinking about how to surprise his wife in the evening, then he can do an erotic massage. This is simply a wonderful option; every woman will be glad to relax from the touch of a loving person.
Also, don’t forget about all the romantic paraphernalia. Of course, the first thing that comes to mind is a room with candles. But if a man considers this option trivial, then it is quite possible to take care of soft electric lighting. The main thing is that beautiful music sounds and pleasant smells are present. To do this, it is best to take care of the availability of aphrodisiac massage oil. Therefore, if a loving husband decided to surprise his wife, then the named method is more than successful.
In particular, geranium oil sets the mood for gentle and romantic caresses. But vanilla awakens sensuality and instincts. Cloves increase the duration of orgasm. Jasmine liberates and gives confidence in personal attractiveness. That is, a man needs to choose an oil that awakens exactly those qualities that he wants to receive from his wife in the evening.
Do what she loves
Due to the fact that most girls actively maintain pages on social networks, you can once again please her with recognition on VK or on another site by sending a postcard, a song that is associated with pleasant memories, poetry and prose. In the same way, you can show attention in SMS messages; basic wishes of good morning and good night will show how much a man cares about her.
You can emphasize how attentive a man is to her interests and passions by giving her tickets to a concert of her favorite performer or to a theater, gallery or museum, it all depends on what the chosen one gravitates towards more. If a girl loves sweets, you can surprise her by preparing a dessert. No woman can resist a romantic date organized personally for her.
Nice gift
In addition to verbal confessions, you can emphasize the seriousness of intentions and the depth of feelings with the help of pleasant gifts. A gift from a loved one is an integral part of a romantic story, which is made up of memories and pleasant impressions. Psychologists offer the top 5 ideas for nice gifts for your girlfriend; the following things are included in this list:
- your own T-shirt, which will be an ideal thing for sleeping and getting even closer to the girl;
- a paired souvenir or decoration, for example, personalized bracelets, keychains with joint photos, pendants, etc.;
- flowers in a bouquet or in pots according to the girl’s preferences;
- jewelry, if a man can afford such expenses, be it a bracelet or a ring;
- a photo album with joint photographs collected in it and signed dates, events, memories.
Do you like to give gifts?
Not really
Gifts need to be given in doses, since many girls, due to the fact that a man pampers them, over time begin to perceive gifts as proper things.
Poses that girls like
All sex positions differ in that in each of them the vagina is stimulated differently (the penis enters at a different angle, stimulating one point or another). Here are examples of poses that give girls the most pleasure:
- Knee-elbow pose (doggy style). According to statistics, many women achieve orgasm in this position, as there is the deepest penetration. Additional simultaneous stimulation of the clitoris (with your hand, crossing your legs, or asking your partner) will help bring orgasm closer.
- Half-bridge. It looks almost the same as the regular missionary position, only the woman's back is arched and her pelvis is slightly raised, while her shoulders rest on the surface. This position allows your partner to penetrate deeper, thereby bringing you to the peak of pleasure.
- Cowgirl (a woman sits on top of a man). The wider the partner's legs are spread, the deeper the penetration will be. A man can help a woman by lifting her with his hands and moving to the beat.
- Advanced missionary - a woman lies down and throws her legs over her partner's shoulders. This position will ensure deep penetration. If you stimulate the clitoris with your hand during the process (or ask your partner), then orgasm will not take long to arrive.
Prepare something for her
To amaze a girl with creativity and originality, when flowers and sweets are already boring, a man can do something with his own hands. For example:
- a diary with photographs of the girl and a description of her beauty with various compliments;
- making her favorite dessert with her own hands;
- learning to draw and draw her portrait;
- writing your own poetry or writing a love letter;
- organizing a flash mob;
- an inscription on the asphalt with a declaration of love and much more.
The best thing a man can prepare for his chosen one is a romantic date. This could be a picnic in nature in some beautiful place, dinner on the beach at sunset, or dinner in a restaurant by candlelight and live music. Much depends on what the girl likes, what interests and hobbies she has.
Method No. 1. An unexpected declaration of love and 7 minutes of hugs
- Everyone knows that a woman loves with her ears. And it is not just words. This fact has been scientifically proven. A woman’s psychology is designed in such a way that she has better audio perception. In men, on the contrary, visual perception is stronger. Therefore, women more often need kind words, encouragement and compliments
- A man must understand that women and men are built completely differently. And, if a man has enough of a lady’s actual care, her silent support, then this is not enough for girls
- Moreover, many women are sure that if a man does not talk about his feelings, then they simply do not exist. There is a scientifically proven fact: families where spouses regularly talk about love to each other are stronger and happier.
- Therefore, offering compliments and words of love can be a great way to improve personal relationships. Also, don't neglect hugs. Hugs are an important action that lets a person know that they are loved.
Do something for her parents
You can surprise a girl without any money in your pocket by being smart. The best approach to her heart is her parents, the most sacred thing every person has. The man must please her mother and father, showing seriousness of intentions and a good attitude towards the girl. When meeting mom, you definitely need to give compliments, for example, saying “Now I understand who my girlfriend is so beautiful.”
From time to time you need to give flowers not only to your beloved girl, but also to her mother, emphasizing your respect and gratitude for your daughter. You can give your father a gift in the form of a bottle of good alcohol or other things taking into account his type of activity and hobby. You can also periodically arrange family gatherings, outings, dinners together with your parents, emphasizing your respect.
How to make acquaintances?
Should you try to find a girlfriend on social networks? Today, groups are popular in which teenagers are looking for online friends - like-minded people to communicate with. And the most frequent surveys are from 12-14 year olds. It is possible that serious acquaintances develop between a boy and a girl, starting with Internet correspondence, but more often than not they quickly fade away. It's difficult to be friends at a distance.
The easiest way to meet a girl is at school. Or maybe you already know each other because you study in the same or parallel classes? There just isn’t enough determination to come up and... get to know each other. Not as with a classmate, but as with a friend. You can find many reasons to talk, for example, ask;
- what was assigned to the house;
- does the girl have the book that the teacher talked about in class?
Word by word, a conversation ensued. Therefore, difficulties in how to meet and like a 12-year-old girl at school usually do not arise.
If she plays sports, sign up for the section. Not necessarily the same one. If you meet more often at the sports complex, you will have the opportunity to get acquainted, find common topics for conversation, and go home together. Athletes often go on vacation to training camps and sports camps. Common interests, training and discos - this is where true friendship can begin.
Summer, as you know, is the best time for romantic relationships, and in the camp there are no questions about how to please a girl at 14 years old. There, acquaintances and relationships are established easily: the age and environment are conducive to love. A common squad, common events, evening bonfires evoke romantic dreams in girls. A disco is the perfect excuse to meet a girl. A couple of glances previously cast in the direction of your chosen one are enough, and she will understand that she has aroused your interest, so the acquaintance will be easy.
Tip four: Don’t be afraid to show the girl that you like her and want to get to know her.
