How to flirt with a guy by correspondence: tricks and example phrases

Why is it important to start dating correctly?

The answer is simple: because further communication depends on it. You can't make a first impression twice, and you can't beat an acquaintance. We form a primary opinion about a person within 15 seconds of interaction, and everything else is simply layered on top of it. Of course, there are situations when the first impression is deceiving, but you need to at least earn a chance to prove it if the acquaintance goes wrong.

How you look, how and what you say is the main thing that a girl remembers about you at the very early stage of dating. For the first time, it is this image of you that will be fixed in her mind. And if this image is not good enough, you will not get a chance to continue acquaintance.

This is the importance of an original, competent and catchy first phrase. Even if it does not provide half of the success, then it depends entirely on it whether there will be an opportunity to show one’s best side. Try to make a good impression on the girl right away - and in the future communication will be much easier.

The benefits of flirting with a guy via SMS

If you are just preparing for a serious relationship, then your goal is to interest a young man so that he begins to dream about you and constantly flip through all your phrases in his memory. Flirting on the phone with a guy is great for this.

The advantages of such correspondence are as follows:

it does not require too much time;
you can simultaneously flirt with several young people at once;
you are not embarrassed to say things that you wouldn’t say to a man’s face.

If you are determined to flirt with a guy via SMS, let's figure out whether there are any rules that regulate what you can write to your interlocutor and what you need to refuse. Otherwise, there is a risk of losing the attention of the chosen one.

List of the best phrases for meeting a girl

If you are lost and don't know what to say to a girl when you first meet her, you have two options. Focus on the situation, train communication skills and learn to make acquaintances, or use ready-made template phrases. In the first case, you will certainly be cooler, but the second will give results faster.

Here is a list of good phrases to start a conversation with a girl:

Keep smiling - I'm falling more and more in love!
You are so charming that I completely forgot what I wanted to ask you.
You have such a warm look - will you give me a little tenderness?
I was staring at you so much that I forgot to introduce myself. Let's try again!
What is the secret of your always amazing appearance?
Can I walk you home? At least with a glance.
I'm sorry. Tell me, please, what is the shortest road to your heart?
Do you believe in love at eleventh sight?
Girl, please tell me what time is it? Free. You.
I thought my smile was irresistible, but yours seems to rival it.
Your name is the only thing I couldn’t read in your eyes. Help fill this gap.
I can't remember my phone number. Maybe yours will work better?
Which gods should I pray for you to be as interested in me as I am in you?
Wow! I didn’t expect to meet the girl from my dream in real life!
Are you experiencing delays? Because I'm worried that I'm late in meeting and feeling for you, and someone else has already taken my place.
I spent several evenings exploring local cafes. And now I know where we can enjoy coffee together!
Help me, girl, what are you worth? Don't you see, I'm drowning in your eyes!
There are at least two people in this place who are lucky today. And that's us.
What stunningly beautiful legs you have, girl! I'm even jealous!
Is it okay that I approached with such a self-confident look?
Oh, girl, do you smile so radiantly at everyone, or only at those you like?
You probably have no end to suitors. But I am the best of them. Do you want me to prove it?
Girl, don't look at me like that. My own thoughts make me blush.
Smile, please, it's dark outside.
That's so beautiful! Are these your legs?
Girl, do young people regularly crawl at your feet?
Have you already turned off many people today? I have four so far. Well, let's go brazen girls!
You're like a museum piece, girl. You can’t touch it with your hands—yet, but you want to watch without stopping.
Girl, do you want to get married? No! Great - then I'm at the right place.
Young woman! Did you just pinch my butt? No? It's a pity, a great pity.

Examples of phrases for dating on the Internet

It’s easier to be brave on the Internet, but it’s often difficult to find reasons to meet people. You’ll have to come up with something unusual for the girl, because sitting down with her and making a joke or asking what she’s doing won’t work.

If you don’t know what nice things to write to a girl and how to start an interesting conversation with an unfamiliar woman, this list is for you (and this one). I tell you how to meet a girl on the Internet, and what compliments to write to her when meeting her through correspondence. For convenience, I will divide all phrases into three categories.

Original and unusual phrases

Hello, can I chat with you? And then all sorts of women pester here...
Hello. What will you do tomorrow evening, after our date?
Girl, only you can save me. I don’t know at all how to cook dumplings, and I’ll come and dine with you if you don’t tell me.
Do you think I like you more than you like me?
Today is such a wonderful day that I cannot leave you without a good mood.
I'm tired of waiting for you to write first. Hello!
One glance was enough for me to understand that we simply had to meet.
You dreamed about me a couple of days ago, remember?
Maybe we can flirt?
Hi, for my research I need to know what it's like to be a completely charming girl. Can you help?

Funny and cool phrases

So, are we going to exchange likes, or are we going to get to know each other?
Until I looked at your photos, I was sure that you were gay.
I offer an exchange: I give you my free time, and you give me your communication.
Who is your boyfriend? Let me be there!
If I were such a nice girl like you, I would definitely meet myself.
Are you dating someone? Or maybe we need someone better?
You have very beautiful eyes. Especially the right one!
This is the mouth - I would look and look. You have a magnificent mouth.
They say whoever you hang out with, that's how you'll gain. I want to get some from you. Be with me, please.
Have you ever ridden an escalator? Let's take it to the breeze!

Beautiful and romantic phrases

You seem like a wonderful person. I've always dreamed of meeting someone like this.
I'm surprised that such a beautiful girl is doing in our city and not in Hollywood. But I think it's luck. Let's get acquainted?
Yesterday I saw a star fall from heaven. And today I came across your profile. I don't think this is a coincidence!
This day seemed incredibly sad to me, but your photos changed everything dramatically.
I have a piece of happiness lying around here, I’m looking for a beautiful girl to give it to. You seem to be a perfect fit.
I assumed that on a dating site you could meet a dazzlingly beautiful girl - but not so much! Smitten. Not expected.
I read a ton of advice on how to start a conversation with girls, but one look at your photos and I don’t remember anything. Let's just get to know each other?
You look like the girl I've been looking for all my life. Shall we celebrate? I found it!
Girl, be careful! We almost missed the opportunity to meet a cool guy.
You know, you are very similar to my first wife! I haven't seen her yet.

You can also see a list of affectionate words that make girls melt.

Finally - an unusual technique

Let's do a thought experiment.

Imagine that you have the superpower to “read” men. It’s like Sherlock Holmes: you look at a man and you immediately know everything about him and understand what’s on his mind. You could get any man and have an ideal relationship, and you would hardly be reading this article now in search of a solution to your problem.

And who said that this is impossible? Of course, you can’t read other people’s thoughts, but otherwise there is no magic here - only psychology.

We advise you to pay attention to the master class from Nadezhda Mayer. She is a candidate of psychological sciences, and her technique has helped many girls find ideal relationships and feel loved.

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Innocent or, on the contrary, playful and even depraved flirting with your husband via SMS? Why not. After all, how wonderful it is to refresh your relationship, flirt with your loved one and make a few hints.

And if your relationship is just beginning, the ability to flirt will help attract a young man, intrigue him and take communication to a more serious level. In addition, flirting on the phone is a very exciting activity that can restore confidence in your feminine attractiveness.

Psychologists assure that partners talk about their feelings only a few times a year: on Valentine’s Day, birthdays and, for example, March 8th. On other days, the spouses remain deprived of attention, although, perhaps, they simply are not told about love.

This needs to be fixed urgently! Not every woman can do this, but in some situations one SMS message can affect a guy’s mood and behavior. In correspondence with a beloved man, there are two ways to express feelings.

Method number 1. Regular SMS, without sexual overtones

Not all men like to flirt on the phone, considering such behavior not entirely decent.

However, when communicating with the woman you love, even average poems sent from her number begin to seem really sweet and spontaneous.

Regular SMS can express simple words, for example, “I love you,” “I’m looking forward to it,” etc. Some girls look for inspiration in classical works or give free rein to their own imagination, which certainly looks more touching.

Method number 2. Sexual SMS

A special category of flirting is messages with sexual overtones. However, psychologists recommend following important rules so as not to turn a slight shade of eroticism into ordinary vulgarity. Here are examples of win-win erotic SMS:

while waiting for your loved one from work, send him a message in which you hint that you are waiting for his arrival, since you have come up with several ideas for the upcoming evening;
Hint to your husband that you are naked in a jacuzzi with foam, or make a subtle hint that you are not wearing underwear right now.

Some married couples prefer to flirt by correspondence while being nearby at a party or at an evening reception. And they don’t care that those around them look at them with misunderstanding, because very soon they will be able to make their fantasies come true.

Phrases for dating offline: anywhere and anytime

Situational dating can be difficult, but in most cases it turns out to be the most interesting and fun. Check it out for yourself! And I’ll tell you what phrases to flirt with a girl, no matter where you see her.

On the street

Girl, have you dropped your smile?
Girl, is it you who dropped the smile? Not you? Please reserve it, I really need it.
Well, with such legs, you can’t walk on busy streets! Aren't you ashamed of causing accidents?
It doesn’t matter when the trees bloom - you will decorate any street a thousand times better.
I look at you and think: why are they erecting monuments to Lenin in squares, but not one has been erected to your beauty yet?
Girl, it's so cold! Can I walk next to you for a while? Your charm warms.
I love charity. Can you donate coffee to the owner of the brightest smile?
I was looking for interesting things to see in this area and found you. Where are you going? I haven't looked into it yet.
Girl, I need your help! Be my navigator. A navigator is a good start, don't you think?
I have never seen such beautiful sights as you in any place on the planet.

In transport

Girl, are you leaving next? And after one? Or maybe you can get off at my stop?
This bus should become special - after you have taken a ride on it.
You look so stunning that I can’t figure out if it’s the wheels of the train that are knocking—or my heart.
My day will be wasted if I don’t pay your fare and buy you coffee.
Girl, you are so charming, but so tortured. Let me get you out of this stuffy metal monster and fix your mood and evening?
I would not be as happy about a trip in the same limousine with the Queen of England as I am about a trip with you in the same trolleybus.
Girl, be careful, don’t blind the driver with your beauty!
What do you do in transport? I thought heavenly creatures hover above the earth themselves!
Girl, it seems that you are uncomfortable holding the handrail. Try my shoulder - it is no less strong!
How do you walk in such heels? Maybe you can sit down to rest? You can kneel directly to me.

In the shop

Girl, help me with my choice, please. I want to trust you more than a consultant.
Do you know what is the most valuable thing in this store? No? And I’m looking straight at the most valuable thing now.
Girl, teach a bachelor how to choose vegetables.
What, are you confused? The showcase is large. Come on, I'll show you what's best here.
Tell me, do you know the best way to boil risotto? …Thank you. Can I always ask you?
Doesn't it bother you that such a handsome guy is standing next to you in line?
Girl, there's no price tag here: how much is your smile worth?

In the cafe

Girl, do you see that table? Just look how many empty chairs there are. Help me fix the situation - take one of them.
If I were the cook in this cafe, I would feed you for free. Well, not really - for a smile before and after dinner.
I see you have already ordered coffee. Can you handle two servings? I can't help but treat you.
Do you often visit this cafe? Yes? Then I found the best cafe in the city.
Girl, what do you think is the most delicious here? I see that the best thing in this cafe is you, but suddenly there is something worthy from the food.
If you were me, would you treat yourself to coffee?
Wow! I see the main course was served before I even ordered!
I came here so hungry, but one look at you and I don’t have a single thought about food. Work miracles, girl!
I thought that the foam on the coffee was the most delicate thing I could get in this cafe. But maybe I can get something a hundred times more tender - your smile, for example?
Girl, you whet my appetite! And it seems it's not just about food.

In cultural places

Friends warned me that it was beautiful here. But until I saw you, I didn’t understand what they were talking about?
Girl, aren’t you ashamed to outshine all the sights of this square with your beauty?
If I had known that you could meet people like you in a museum, I would have loved going there as a child.
Girl, could you step back a little? It's hard to admire the Impressionists when there's something much more beautiful nearby.
Do you know which architect designed this fountain? I do not know either. But, without meeting you, he really didn’t understand anything about beauty.
Girl, let's help each other: you explain to me how to understand these works of art, and I will show you where the best coffee in the area is.
Did you happen to sit for this portrait? In reality, of course, it’s much better, but on canvas it’s nothing.
I don’t understand how and why watch the play if I can watch you for the entire hour and a half.
Girl, do you like opera? Do you know what is the best thing to do after the opera? Drinking coffee in a cozy cafe with a new acquaintance from the theater.
I've been told that the architecture here is great. The architecture is truly remarkable, but you still managed to outshine it.

On the beach

Girl, you could work as a lighthouse - such dazzling beauty is visible from afar. And ships too.
Aren't you afraid to swim? I would hang around somewhere nearby, even if I were the most dangerous predator in the water.
Girl, help me squeeze out my trunks, please.
Girl, with such hips, you should be more careful when walking past old people - you never know, maybe you'll have a heart attack. Walk past me, I have a strong heart!
I would never have thought that you could look so seductive in fins and goggles.
Girl, are you good at diving? I don’t know how at all, but my swimming trunks seem to have sunk. Will you help a forced nudist?
Oh, it seems that it’s people like you who run to kiss the sand. Where were you today? Maybe I should kiss there? Sand, grass, asphalt. I’ll go and kiss any trash for your sake—I can even kiss your husband.

I hope you now have enough good phrases to start a conversation with a girl. Now go to the rating of the best dating sites and start communicating!

Which ones did you like the most?
How is it more convenient for you to meet people: to conquer with romance or to make people laugh?
Now do you have the courage and ideas to experiment?

Let's discuss in the comments

Man's weapon - romantic relationships

There is an opinion that a man should create and maintain a loving relationship for the woman he loves. Yes. He does this, but mainly until you are together, either “quickly” or for a long time. It all depends on your and his goals.

A man subconsciously understands that romantic relationships are “doping”

for woman. Men are pragmatists. For them, building such a relationship is a stepping stone to their goal of winning you over. He got what he wanted. For some time he will enjoy the victory. But time will pass and he will calm down. Men are not as emotional as we are. They are reserved.

Sorry

, I’ll say roughly, they are even “dumb.” But this in no way detracts from their merits. They are warriors. Hunters. Sometimes they just can’t “emotion.” They are in control of the situation. Men set goals and win. They see the game, set a snare and catch it.

In my opinion, let them think so. That they set snares and stretch the nets. And their networks are warm relationships