And although since ancient times, human society has regularly reminded men that they should not seduce ladies who have already found a life partner, this still happens due to boredom, passion, true love and thousands of other reasons. Seduction most often acts as an intermediate stage. But now, the moment has come, and a single man wondered how to seduce a married woman. In fact, there are no particular difficulties. If, of course, you draw up her portrait correctly and understand what this woman is missing in her life.
If the girl you are interested in recently got married, it is better not to even try to seduce her. Nothing will come of it, but there is a good chance of ruining the relationship with everyone if she or her husband understands something.
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What should you not do?
When building a relationship with a married woman, it is important, if there is sympathy on both sides, to outline the goals and prospects of such a relationship. That is, the first thing you shouldn’t do in a relationship with a married woman is to indulge yourself and/or her illusions and deceptive hopes. Does it make sense to encroach on the role of her new chosen one, to destroy the family, if the man does not strive for a serious relationship?
The second thing not to do concerns talking about her spouse. A man does not need to interfere in her family life, speak negatively about her husband, or compare himself with him. The time spent together should be devoted only to each other, try to listen to the girl more than to overwhelm her with interrogations. The third thing that is extremely contraindicated in building a relationship with a married lady concerns putting pressure on her, pushing her to break up with her husband.
Is she really unhappy in her marriage?
Do you want to know how to make a married woman fall in love with you?
Then watch her more. Try to understand as much as possible how she feels with her current chosen one. It is necessary to understand the feelings, and not to identify the reasons for separation. The moral, physical or financial characteristics of a partner do not greatly influence the disappointment of the other partner. However, this can still be the basis for a woman to seek attention on the side. To take away a married woman, it is worth identifying the reasons that still connect her with her current partner. Typically, they still stay together for the following reasons:
- They don't break up because of children. Girls are ready to do anything for their children. That is why they are often ready to tolerate any shortcomings of their partner;
- Financial dependence. It is quite possible that the husband earns very well, which allows her not to deny herself anything and completely focus on creating comfort, without paying attention to her partner’s shortcomings;
- She is afraid to be alone. This fear is characteristic of almost all representatives of the fairer sex, even if we are talking about young girls who can still easily find a new guy;
- Condemnation of society. We are often very dependent on the opinions of others. Girls, being not the most mentally strong creatures, are even more susceptible to this deficiency;
- It is a misconception that absolutely all men are the same.
If you correctly determine the reason, then it will become much easier for you to fall in love with a married woman.
What kind of guy attracts girls?
To answer the question of how to make your ex-girlfriend fall in love with you again, we suggest talking about what kind of guys attract the fair sex. The main qualities that a young man should have are independence, inner strength and masculinity.
Next to such a person, the girl understands that she will be protected from all life’s adversities. You should also know that a girl sees in a man not only support, support and a provider. She often perceives him as the carrier of the best genes for her own child. If you don't fit this description, it's likely that the girl simply won't want to be around you, even if you start using all the methods listed below. What to do in this case? Change yourself: start taking responsibility, improve.
Confidencei
Self-confidence is confidence in your choices. The girl feels special if she was chosen by such a strong and self-sufficient person, without complexes and insecurities. She will be very grateful for the feeling that a worthy man is taking care of her, and the guy will become a “positive hero” for her.
Moreover, a natural instinct will awaken in her that it is not scary to build a family with this man.
The only catch for guys who lack self-confidence is that there is no one quick way to acquire this quality. It takes years to develop. It is necessary to develop internally and externally, to work on yourself in every possible way. Seducing women is also on this list. Literature on the psychology of women and special training from men who are successful in this regard are suitable.
Alan Pease (“Mr. Body Language”) said that a person’s feelings are instantly manifested in non-verbal (facial expressions, gestures, postures, etc.). Why not use the reverse method?
To begin with, you can advise the guy to simply appear confident, even if everything inside is shaking with excitement. It is enough to straighten your shoulders, watch your posture and look directly into people’s eyes when communicating with them. Your sense of self will change immediately!
About love and falling in love, what is it?
It is common for everyone to fall in love, break up and date. Everyone believes that they deserve the best, and no one wants to settle for mediocrity. It’s just hard to be the best; it’s much easier to think that you’re already good enough to have the right to vote to want more. In this case, the girl is your best reward and reason for change.
Small people surround themselves with even smaller ones in order to appear in such a friendly environment a little taller and more capable than others. Strong and high, reach for even higher ones in order to realize the real height of your flight and once again not be mistaken about yourself.
Relationships are the same level of gambling - whose friends are better? It's embarrassing to admit that your boyfriend or girlfriend can't do anything, but only complain or blame. Some leave, come to others, a constant movement, the goal of which is to find not only the best, but also the loving one.
Necessary or not
Decide on a goal. Are you sure that you want to fall in love without fail, or maybe this girl is just for fun? It is possible that you have a passionate feeling for your chosen one, and not something more. In such a situation, over time, “love” will evaporate, and the girl, who has already fallen in love, will suffer.
The second thing you need to pay attention to is whether you ever want to start a family with this young lady, do you see a common future?
If you are sure that you have true feelings and dream that the girl will become your wife and give birth to children for you, then you need to try to win her heart. If you are convinced that you just want to add to the list of your victories, then you do not need to play with the feelings of another person.
Is it important to know what a married woman wants?
Even the strongest marriage gradually collapses due to everyday difficulties, monotony, family quarrels and periods of crisis. Women are so tired of the family routine, constantly staying at home with troubles and worries that they literally dream of going out, putting on makeup and a beautiful outfit, dating and romance. As a rule, in long-term relationships, any efforts of a woman often go unnoticed by her husband.
The second reason that leads to the breakdown of families is lack of passion. Over the years, spouses have sex more and more often; it becomes more of a duty than a desire of the partners. Men often turn away immediately after the finale to sleep or play games when a woman would like kisses, caresses and a release of emotions. In connection with these reasons for family breakdowns, psychologists name the main points that married ladies need, namely:
- romance;
- compliments;
- passion;
- holidays in life;
- sources of positive emotions.
Expert opinion
Elena Druzhnikova
Sexologist. Family relations expert. Family psychologist.
For most girls, marriage eventually turns into duties and a mountain of responsibility on her shoulders. Therefore, from her lover she expects lightness, euphoria, a fountain of joy and positive emotions, the absence of hassle and maximum attention from him in her direction.
Complete ignoring
After your ex-girlfriend sees you in the company of another beauty, stops tearing her hair out and having fun with her guinea pig at home, she will try to call or write to you. Hmmm... And you, in turn, will cut off all ties with her and begin the “ignore” campaign. Let him think that everything is stellar with you and that you have found your new happiness. This step will make the young lady who once loved you quite nervous. Only recently extinguished jealousy will return again, dragging behind it a sense of ownership and renewed sympathy.
Of course, this cannot continue for long. And what the hell, he’ll take it and find himself a new lover out of revenge for you, such a cable. One week of light frost will be enough for feelings to begin to warm up.
Nice memories
When asked how to make a girl fall in love with you again, psychologists recommend being as gentle and friendly with her as possible. However, they note, nice communication about nothing is, of course, good, but sooner or later it stops helping. Try to casually remember your first date, an exciting trip, joint activities that brought you pleasure and joy. It's hard to imagine a better way to renew a relationship than pleasant shared memories. Your ex-girlfriend must understand: you not only had many bad moments, but also many positive and pleasant ones.
