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Before we dive into such a fascinating topic of conversation, let me make an important note.
Make sure that the girl is jealous of you in reasonable doses. Pathological jealous people are not to be trifled with. Your main task is not to drive her crazy, but to make her perceive you as a guy who other women like, moreover, who is in demand.
Just by being a little overzealous, you can ruin everything and acquire in her eyes the lifelong status of a moron and a womanizer. It's a girl. She will think of everything for you, you just need to push her, but not in any way traumatize her.
It is better to proceed from her behavior:
- vulnerable
- don’t rush; - jealous
- the same thing; - long-term relationships
- especially since jealousy should be in small doses.
So, now about the first method of seduction that causes jealousy.
Side effects
In psychology, there is such a thing as abuse - when one of the partners exerts significant moral pressure on the other. In order not to abuse your influence, not to manipulate a girl and to use jealousy within reasonable limits, you need to approach this issue with caution, adhering to the golden mean.
READ Female jealousy: causes, symptoms, ways to get rid of it
To experience jealousy means to experience a whole range of contradictory emotions, far from positive: doubts, fear, pride, envy, selfishness. Therefore, if you overdo it in your desire to tie a girl to you, the relationship will not last long. Or vice versa, they will become painful for both sides.
Chat with another girl in front of her
The easiest way to prove to a woman that she underestimates you is to demonstrate it to her. “Look what a beauty is chatting with me. Hey, open your eyes! I’m still a piece of fruit!”
No one suggests that you pick up another girl in front of her, it’s too harsh. It’s enough to agree with your pretty friend to start a friendly conversation in front of everyone. Maybe your loved one will catch you having a cup of coffee or at a party. Even if it is artificial, competition has been created. Let's move on to the fourth point.
Long term relationship
You can make a girl jealous in different ways. It all depends on personal preferences, the characteristics of your friend’s behavior and your personal plans. Remember, you shouldn't go too far, especially if you want your relationship to develop in a positive way.
With a thorough check and questions or a change in mood for the worse, you can be sure that she is looking closely at you and does not want to lose you.
Rate another girl
Yes, as you already guessed, we are talking about that very appraising look for which our brother got a lot from his other halves.
The method is quite fun to implement. You are sitting, for example, in a cafe. Your crush goes to the toilet, and upon returning she watches you looking at another girl. The situation will be just perfect if the young lady you were looking at notices this and gives a positive reaction.
The chosen one will be challenged, she will involuntarily join in the fight for the male. Don't overdo the looks. Firstly, the sight of a carnivore can simply scare away the victim, and secondly, the object of flirtation, which is absolutely superfluous in this triangle, may perceive everything inadequately. You can’t wash yourself away from a male dog’s reputation. It's time for the sixth method.
Signs of female jealousy
To know exactly what a girl is experiencing and whether she is jealous of others, study this list, which will allow you to accurately determine what signs indicate what is on her mind?
- Increased interest
As soon as a woman begins to be obsessively interested in how you spent the day, where you were and who you talked to, know that you have seriously made her jealous!
- Craving for attention
The girl begins to try in every possible way to attract attention. These can be stupid antics like: Oh, I accidentally deleted your favorite song! So and more sophisticated ones like: Today I’m going to the cinema with my friend, can you pick me up after the screening?
- Memories of the Past
Stories about how once upon a time you tried to get her attention. How original and interesting you were then, and how she would like to experience that again!
- Uncertainty in decisions
It becomes difficult to understand what exactly the girl wants and what she is trying to say. She is afraid of making the wrong choice in almost everything, since your attention depends on it. Sometimes the question is: Honey, will you have some coffee? – can put you in a slight stupor.
- Discussion with friends
Since she can’t figure out all the thoughts in her head on her own, the girl begins an active discussion of your behavior with her friends. In particular, she is interested in whether you are flirting with someone from her circle behind her back?
- Excessive frankness
Deep questions begin about your relationship, about what you think about her and whether you love her at all? A girl may think that you are no longer interested in her; her desire to find out the reason is quite logical.
Compliment her friend
The main rival in any woman’s life is her friend.
So give your friend a compliment! Don't overdo it for several reasons:
- A friend shouldn't fall for you. Things could turn out too badly. The chosen one, as a sign of solidarity, will put a “cross” on you.
- You risk jeopardizing their friendship.
- and, of course, you are not a sadist to torture the girl you like like that.
That is why we are moving slowly, as if in a minefield.
First, compliment her appearance, something like, “You're super beautiful today.” Then, in a conversation with your chosen one, “rejoice” at the next evening together with that same girlfriend. Rest assured, you will touch a nerve. And then the seventh technique will help you.
How to make a girl jealous of you?
- Flirting with others
When walking together, take the opportunity to chat with other women, while easily flirting with them, making it clear that you can easily find her replacement, and moreover, that it is not difficult for you to find topics for conversation with strangers.
- Use another as an example
In a conversation, focus on the appearance or dignity of another woman, on a feature that your lady does not have. She must understand that she is not ideal, she must see where she should strive, especially when there is this unknown that you mentioned in the conversation.
- New hobby
You don't always need someone else to be jealous; sometimes the thing that takes you the most time can make a girl start to get nervous. If meeting with friends or playing football is more interesting and enjoyable for you, then well, this is a specific problem for your companion, since she cannot interest you in herself.
- Disappear for a while
Coming from work later than usual or disappearing for a couple of days without warning about it can greatly agitate and stir up anyone. There should be something unknown in your life for a girl, that mystery that she will want to know.
- Chatting with beautiful friends
These are attractive women whom you can invite to visit or go on “business” with. Women who are better in some way and can compete with yours can cause a certain feeling of envy, which is a sign of jealousy. Flirting is not even needed here, their mere presence is enough. Your chosen one will do everything herself.
- Password for phone or laptop
As soon as such little things as call history and messages are no longer available, the thought of the existence of someone else will immediately flash through your head.
Why are men jealous of women?
For some men, jealousy is a way to increase the tone in a relationship, unless the feeling clouds the brain. The line between normality and pathology is determined by the reasons that cause jealousy, namely:
- Due to their polygamy, men believe that women are prone to cheating to exactly the same extent as she herself. Statistics show that this is far from true.
- All people tend to compare themselves with others, and if this property is supported by self-doubt, such a man will constantly be jealous of his girlfriend over more successful and attractive competitors.
- Due to dissatisfaction with himself and his life, a man can assert himself against the background of his girlfriend. Jealousy can be caused by selfishness, the spirit of competition, demonstration of one's power and dominance over the girl.
- Fantasy and imagination work no worse in men than in women. Therefore, against the background of self-doubt and his partner, he will see betrayal in any lateness from work or talking on the phone.
- The fear of losing a girl and being lonely also often gives rise to other fears, including jealousy.
In fact, all of these reasons can be corrected; psychologists insist that men deal with them on their own. Otherwise, it will not be possible to avoid negative consequences; sooner or later, groundless jealousy will lead to a break in the relationship.
What should I do to make her jealous?2
- Stories about rivals. A win-win option for making a woman jealous is to talk about others. This could be a story about a colleague, friend, mutual acquaintance, seasoned with details of success, creative fulfillment, or praise for special talents. Even if outwardly it looks like being ignored, a volcano will definitely flare up inside, ready to explode!
- Change of style. The first sign that a man is moving to the left is a change in style. New shirts, ties, supposedly given as gifts at work, a new perfume, and maybe even a hairstyle will become a reason to think about your rival. In response to this, the woman will begin to closely monitor every change in appearance, while at the same time thinking about who such changes are happening for.
- The classic way to make a woman jealous is to stay at work longer than usual. If you work in shifts and you can’t stay longer than a certain time, then you can take a walk periodically, go to your favorite cafe and drink coffee, while hanging up calls.
- The most important way to make your significant other jealous is to refuse sex. At first, the woman will objectively come up with reasons for the refusal to calm down in the form of problems at work. It all depends on how willing a man is to use this method. After such a turn of events, you shouldn’t be surprised if one day there will be a reason for a serious heart-to-heart conversation. It will be necessary to explain that all this was done to provoke jealousy.
- Quite harmless online communication can provoke an attack of rage and jealousy. Charming girls with candid photographs on the pages can provoke even the calmest girl into an explosion of emotions.
- Forgotten things of a “friend” 100% guarantee a scandal with a showdown, and in the case where the woman is impressionable, then a divorce. Random women's little things forgotten in the car or in your pocket will become fertile ground for a showdown in a raised voice.
- Take the phone with you, block the laptop and in every possible way prevent the woman from having access to personal contacts and correspondence. A new round of attacks of jealousy is guaranteed!
Before trying one of the methods, a man must understand how far he wants to go. It’s easy to play into intrigue, create an aura of mystery, the impression that there is a woman on the side. It will be difficult later to prove the opposite, to regain the trust of the partner, to renew the relationship that has cracked.
But how to make a man jealous, you can find out in our article further on the link.
How jealousy ruins relationships
Manic jealousy of a partner is a clear manifestation of selfishness. It is very difficult to withstand such an onslaught from a loved one, especially if the guy has a wild imagination; the slightest reason is enough for a scandal.
If you do not deal with feelings of jealousy, relationships will quickly collapse for the following reasons:
- There will be disappointment. No girl would want to date someone who is pathologically jealous. To get rid of constant control, she will insist on breaking up.
- Love will leave the relationship. A girl in love looks at her chosen one as an ideal. But unfounded accusations and fantasies of a man will make girls think that other guys are really better, more interesting. She will want to fall in love with someone else or get back with her ex.
- Treason. A jealous man himself provokes betrayal. A girl tormented by suspicion will take this step in order to break up with a guy or really fall in love with another.
- Children are suffering. In families where dad is incredibly jealous of mom about the past, friends, and work colleagues, chaos reigns. Children witness scandals, quarrels, even fights. They develop complexes and phobias. Psychologists notice that jealous men grew up in families where the husband did not trust his wife and suspected her of cheating. And in the future the boy copied his father’s behavior.
Many people, men and women, confuse love and jealousy. They believe that constant control of a partner and suspicion are the most obvious manifestations of love. This is a big mistake.
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How to make a girl jealous
Although jealousy cannot be called a positive feeling, some guys still try to develop a mild form of this green monster in their girlfriend. And, as a rule, they justify this by the desire to make their girlfriend much more passionate than she is at the moment.
But either they manage to do this very weakly and ineffectively, or they go so far with provocations that the girl turns into the caretaker of the prison camp where she places her lover, or simply leaves this traitor. Naturally, in such cases we not only do not get what we want, but also lose absolutely everything.
That’s why in this article we will offer you ways that will not only help you get your girlfriend hot, but will also help you avoid an inappropriate reaction in the future. After all, you don’t want to lose a girl because of the advice of guys who simply say “that’s cool! She'll start."
What can you get from a jealous girl?
One direction. Once a girl begins to be jealous of you, she begins to spend all her resources (time, energy and connections) to find some kind of dirt on you. At this moment, she not only completely focuses on you, but also penetrates your life. This is necessary in moments when you get the impression that the girl is absolutely not interested in your life and hobbies. Believe me, after such an outburst she will know all your friends and all your “tricks”. However, if she finds incriminating evidence on you, the consequences can be critical.
Passion in bed. You must understand that passion caused by a girl's temperament and feelings and passion caused by jealousy are not the same. In the first case, she is reinforced by the desire to get maximum pleasure from the opportunity to be with you, and in the second case, the girl seeks to take revenge on you for your infidelity and show that you are not worthy of her. It is zealous passion that is accompanied by bites, nails, blows and other domination. Those. it's actually not such a good passion.
Increase your importance in the eyes of a girl. If you think that a girl has stopped appreciating you and has started treating you as a given, then there is an opportunity to show her some of the insecurity of this situation. With the help of jealousy, you can make her again appreciate and worry about your mood, affairs and overall satisfaction. Those. make her bend under you so that you don't leave.
What you can't get from a jealous girl
Stable relationship. A girl cannot date a guy for a long time if she is constantly depressed that her boyfriend is “hanging around” with someone else. Therefore, if you want to constantly enjoy her fear and jealous sex, then this will not happen for long. Sooner or later, the girl will burn out and either completely lose interest in you, or begin to “eat your brain.”
Revenge and retribution. Guys believe that if a girl starts to be jealous of them, then they can teach her a lesson or take revenge on her. There may be a short period of time during which the girl will be mired in the abyss of suffering and thoughts. But revenge won’t work; the girl will quickly “block” and cool down. These are the women who don't really suffer!
How to make a girl jealous
Passion and business. Many of us actually spend most of our time at home within four walls, sitting in front of the computer. We don't have many interesting and exciting things to do. This applies to both girls and boys.
And imagine that at one point you stop surfing the Internet all the time, and start going to the stadium, riding a bike, going to the gym or something else. Those. the girl understands that you have some kind of activity that not only captivates you, but also completely absorbs you.
At first the girl is neutral about this, and then thoughts appear:
- “Why does he go there so happy?”
- “What is he doing there?”
- “Are there any women there with whom he’s flirting behind my back?”
As soon as she starts having such thoughts, you follow a two-pronged strategy:
1) Assure your girlfriend that you are faithful to her and there is really nothing there. You love only her and cannot imagine anyone else in your arms.
2) You continue to bombard the girl with phrases about this hobby, that it’s great and cool. You just found meaning in life, and this activity helps you.
The girl will begin to be jealous, watch and worry every time you go there. After you achieve what you want, you just need to stop talking about this hobby and the girl will cool down.
Girls and attention. The most common and dangerous method that guys often use to provoke jealousy. It consists in the fact that a guy begins to communicate with other girls, maintaining warm relationships with them, and creates a “threat” for his girlfriend.
You must clearly understand that you must communicate with a large number of girls at the same time, so that the “threat” is from everyone, but in small batches. If you start communicating with just one friend, then your girlfriend will perceive this as pure betrayal, and irreparable things will happen.
Try to always keep such communication light and relaxed, preferably either openly on the Internet or in a large group of friends. If you start pouring out your soul to your friend, or going out with her just the two of you, then again this will be too much for your girlfriend.
You will need to avoid calls and any explicit messages so that the girl does not see in them an obvious “threat”, that some other woman is trying to get into her territory. Then the girl will do everything possible to destroy either you or her, or all together. And no one needs this.
Therefore, your choice: easy communication with a large number of girls, so to speak, “the life of the party” and nothing more.
Reduce intensity. This method is that you reduce the number of meetings with a girl, but at the same time increase the brightness of each meeting. You actually teach that every meeting with you is a real holiday and the girl begins to prepare for it in advance and wait!
But at the same time, you don’t see her so often, thereby forcing her to think and worry: “What if you give such a holiday to someone else?” You know how much girls love to be possessive towards guys.
This method can be practiced exclusively in relationships that have lasted at least 5-6 months. Since at the beginning of a relationship, in order to win a girl, you do almost the same thing. And then gradually the spirit of the hunter disappears from you, and you become comfortable and boring. This method actually simply imitates your behavior when “winning” a girl.”
How not to make a girl jealous
Intimacy and sex. You shouldn't make changes to sex with your girlfriend so that she doesn't start to stress herself out about the fact that you've found someone else. After all, this is a thing that cannot be joked with. This is serious, a huge number of guys got burned by this.
Stealth and hide and seek. Your girlfriend should have a clear idea of what you do approximately and where you are now. If you start speculating on this topic, the girl will also decide that you are cheating on her with someone. Then you will either return her, or you will receive feedback from her in the form: “I thought we broke up, but you started disappearing and hiding, so I found myself another guy, sorry.”
Falling in love with your girlfriend. Often guys start using some girl to make him jealous, and then suddenly fall in love with her and ruin everything. Therefore, you must clearly understand that either you are initially looking for a new girl, or you do not cross the line of available topics. Remember this before asking intimate questions to your provocateur friend.
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Long distance relationship
It happens that your communication occurs only through the Internet and phone calls. It’s okay, if you lack the spark of jealousy, then you can lightly rekindle it, incl. for long distance relationships.
In such a situation, methods for ordinary relationships are also suitable. Again, a couple of compliments to another lady and undisguised admiration can work. You can spend time in the company of girls, taking general photos. The meeting or admiration can be fictitious, the main thing is to communicate about it in correspondence. And then your girl will think of everything for herself, starting to be jealous.
If the girl is far away, then social networks will become the most powerful weapon for jealousy.
You can start creating a specially unknown beauty, add her as a friend and check in with a couple of likes and comments on your personal page. This fake page will not escape the attention of your crush. It is not forbidden to create a real page with a girl, but this is already more fraught with consequences.
Your friend will not forget to notice the appearance of a new photograph with a positive assessment of external data and the wealth of the inner world and a caption that she is your new colleague. Your photo together with this girl will receive special attention.
Often a guy starts writing and sending hearts and emoticons at the same time, for example, after the end of the working day. You can try to write to the girl later. Such a delay will alert your partner and help her understand that you have your own life, where you have your own interests. Your authority in her eyes will inevitably increase.
The fact that several new representatives of the fairer sex appear among your friends, without specifying their personalities, will also cause jealousy. This will prompt your friend to do her own research to find her rival and evaluate her personal positive and negative qualities.
It is important not to overdo it with provocations, although fantasy is also appropriate here. And at the end of the experiments, do not forget to tell your girlfriend about your feelings. Then the relationship will be given a new impetus to further development.
