For every normal representative of the stronger sex, it is very important that his girlfriend belongs only to him.
It will be very unpleasant for a partner if he witnesses how his beloved communicates nicely with other men.
But some girls cannot live a day without flirting. Why do they need this? We suggest you look into this topic in more detail.
She lacks male attention
Even married women can feel that they lack attention from men. It is for this reason that they begin to make eyes at passing guys in order to somehow attract attention to themselves.
This happens in those families where the other half spends very little time with his beloved. For example, he constantly disappears at work or plays computer games. She gets little attention from her beloved man, so the lady begins to do everything to compensate for his absence.
If your wife has another man
Another man Cheating is the surest and most painful path to breaking up relationships, especially family ones, because husband and wife took a vow of fidelity before the altar. The discovery of infidelity by the other half either breaks the marriage, or, on the contrary, unites it - it depends only on the strength of love and trust of the spouses in each other.
As a rule, cheating indicates that a woman is dissatisfied with her partner or that she is looking on the outside for what, in her opinion, the relationship lacks. Do they seek good from good? Would a completely happy woman seek solace in the arms of another man?
Trust is a great thing, and not trust in your partner, but trust in yourself and your intuition. You may have felt a change in your relationship or noticed how your other half's behavior has changed.
No one deserves to be cheated on, whether you're going through a relationship crisis or not. If you suspect your girlfriend or wife of cheating, then it’s time to dot all the i’s and confirm your suspicions or, conversely, dispel them.
First of all, pay attention to the obvious things - how your friend dresses, whether she has a desire to look better, whether her communication style or work schedule has changed. Perhaps she frequented the gym? Or hides phone calls and emails from you? Or maybe intimacy has disappeared in your relationship? Or has there been an unusual tension? At the very least, you can follow her, right?...
A wife's infidelity can cause a man serious emotional trauma from which he will not recover for a long time, not to mention the fact that infidelity can destroy a family.
Signs of female infidelity to her husband Here are a few signs that will tell a man that his girlfriend is unfaithful to him.
Suddenly changed my habits, changed my image. For no apparent reason, a woman begins to work hard on her appearance. Every morning she chooses clothes and accessories with great care, spends a lot of time in front of the mirror; She goes to the hairdresser several times a week and even purchased a membership to a fitness club, although she had never particularly cared about her appearance and figure before.
Emotionally distant. Previously, you shared all your problems and experiences with your wife, and suddenly she lost interest in your life. She does not want to discuss intimate problems with you, withdraws into herself and is reluctant to talk about her life. A girlfriend (or wife) is not enthusiastic about the proposal to have sex, remains cold in bed and generally prefers to sneak out of the house at the first opportunity.
He's hiding . She no longer shares her worries and worries with you, or talks about events at work. Perhaps she is avoiding you because she feels guilty? However, don’t turn into Othello and paranoid - ask directly if everything is normal and why she’s been acting so strange lately.
Lost interest in family affairs. If your wife no longer greets you at the door after work, but continues to do her own thing in the bedroom, it is possible that your family life is under threat. If your other half urgently needs to leave, try to find an excuse to accompany her. If she refuses your company, try insisting to see how much your company bothers her.
Argues less often and does not get into quarrels. Previously, to piss her off, the smallest reason was enough - for example, your refusal to go to a cafe with her friends. Now the wife is an example of meekness and humility. She agrees with everything you say. Previously, you had to watch your every step, but now she doesn’t even react to dirty socks and ashtrays overflowing with cigarette butts scattered throughout the apartment. Do not relax - such a change in attitude does not bode well for you.
Communicates more by phone and email. She spends more and more time on telephone conversations, and speaks in a whisper or ends the conversation as soon as you enter the room. She may even have opened a new email account without telling you. Or perhaps she even bought a new mobile phone without informing you. Ask directly if she is cheating on you. If your friend (or wife) responds to you with accusations rather than denial, then she is truly unfaithful to you.
Constantly late . She never came home late before, but now it happens more and more often. Most often, the wife (friend) explains her lateness as a rush at work. Or another option - he goes shopping and returns five hours later. This is a real cause for concern.
Adultery is not as easy to hide as it seems at first glance. The feeling of guilt that the unfaithful half experiences will definitely manifest itself in some way - in avoidance of serious conversations and intimacy.
She's used to talking to other men
There are some ladies who find it much easier to be friends with men than with women. Among their relatives it is difficult to find a female person. At the same time, the girl never thinks about cheating on her husband.
Men will always be good friends for her. There are times when it is much easier for a woman to talk about something or ask advice from someone else’s man than from her own. This type of woman is simply not capable of cheating. The male sex will always be their “girlfriend”.
Is there friendship between a guy and a girl?
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Is there friendship between a guy and a girl ? From the girl's side - yes, from the guy's side - no. What does it mean?
Look, a girl can really perceive a guy as a friend who she thinks just wants to spend time with her, listen to her, listen to her stories. And for her this is completely normal. She does not perceive him as a potential sexual partner. Moreover, she may be very surprised if her boyfriend suddenly wants to move on to the next stage of the relationship.
For a girl, guy friends are necessary to raise her self-esteem, because she can pour out her negativity to them, complain, cleanse herself internally and then just leave, because “we are just friends.” This is completely normal for a girl. However, few of the girls realize that in the opposite camp at the same time they are preparing to storm the fortress or, in other words, the guy is preparing to get you, slowly, gradually changing the status of “just a friend” to the status of “more than a friend.”
|| If a guy is guaranteed to have nothing in store in the end, he will never be friends with a girl “just because.”
A guy will never be friends with you if you don't attract him sexually. They are either using you to boost their self-esteem, or they are planning to have sex with you in the near future. Friendship between a guy and a girl is false. False because the girl perceives this as real friendship, when the guy is ready to be there for free at any moment (“after all, he’s just a friend”). And the guy, being nearby at any moment, wants to receive a reward, because in his head he behaves like a gentleman. However, at the same time, he is afraid to hint to the girl that he likes her sexually, since there is a chance of ruining everything altogether: losing the opportunity to have sex with you.
She needs her lover's reaction
Some representatives of the fair sex deliberately communicate with other men to see how their partner will react to this. These ladies are sure that the greatest manifestation of love is jealousy. A woman is ready to flirt with anyone.
For her, there is nothing more important than the reaction of her beloved. It is worth noting that such a partner will drive her partner crazy until he starts yelling at her. It seems that they really like it.
The best proof of their love on the part of a man for them is a violent reaction to her defiant behavior. A woman needs to be careful with this, otherwise she can drive her lover to the point where he will raise his hand against her.
The consequences may not be the most pleasant. After this, the woman will definitely no longer intentionally communicate with other men.
Why should a girl be friends with a guy?
- There is no competition between friends of different sexes, no constant comparison.
Any friends, even the oldest, good, cool ones, always focus on each other in at least some way. In life, it very often happens that a girl, albeit not openly, but at the subconscious level, compares herself with her friend and sees which of the two is more beautiful, who has more respectable fans, who has a more successful personal life and career. In conditions of such competition, especially when losing, a girl cannot or does not want to trust all her secrets to a woman close to her. But for a man it’s easy. The guy is not a competitor - he simply cannot compete with the girl on any of the above points. By building and developing friendships with a man, a woman can feel confident. - A young and handsome guy can be an excellent companion for going somewhere.
By appearing with a handsome man at a corporate party, a girl can annoy her gossiping employees. In addition, this is a great way to prove your attractiveness and sense of taste: by coming with a chic gentleman, a woman also shows that she was able to interest him in something. And it’s no longer so important that this companion is actually not an enthusiastic admirer, but a friend - they won’t know about it. In addition, appearing at an event with a nice guy can make someone jealous: it often happens that the presence of another gentleman, that is, a competitor, makes a man act more decisively. - A man has a different psychology, so he can give advice in a situation in which even his best friend would be powerless. Moreover, in many life situations, the most useful thing is the opinion of a guy who looks at a girl objectively, and not through the prism of a love relationship. So, a friend can calmly say that this blouse doesn’t suit you, that you need to lose weight or gain weight. With him, a woman will at least know how men perceive her.
- It’s convenient to be friends with a guy, if only because of the variety.
When your girlfriends get bored with all their problems, it’s just nice to chat with a person who has other concerns. It’s no secret that men have other interests, so you can always find new topics for conversation with them. In addition, guys are more relaxed about communication: you don’t need to call them every day, they won’t be offended if you forget to ask how they are doing today. It often happens that friends of different genders do not meet or talk to each other for quite a long time (for example, a week, two, three). But when they start communicating, there are always enough topics for conversation, and two people get real pleasure from sharing news and opinions. - For many girls, being friends with a man is also convenient from a practical point of view. You can always ask the guy to nail a shelf, make a socket, move cabinets and other heavy furniture. A friend will not refuse help, and in return you can feed him a delicious lunch or dinner. And rest assured, relationships based on practicality are most often strong, rather than strained and cool. This is exactly the case when violent passions are replaced by even feelings of affection and respect.
In a word, friendship with a guy is convenient for a girl - it can easily arise and last for a long time, almost her entire life. But you need to understand that such relationships also have their pitfalls. It happens that circumstances arise between a guy and a girl that destroy the strongest friendship. Therefore, you need to pay attention to the possible nuances of such relationships.
Under what conditions does it occur?
Friendships begin according to one single principle: they involve a guy and a girl who have something in common. They cannot arise between two complete opposites. When a man and woman complement each other like pieces of a puzzle, this often leads to the emergence of sexual interest.
Just a century ago, it was difficult to imagine how an elegant lady from high society, who enjoys singing, embroidery and dancing, could make a male friend. Women and men lived in completely different worlds, between which a clear boundary was drawn. Now this line has been completely erased. Today, people's need for friends is much greater than before.
For many, the main point of support in life is precisely those close people with whom they are not related by blood. In some cases, friendship has even replaced family. For its occurrence, only one condition must be met: a common denominator, which becomes the point of contact between a man and a woman. Its role can be played not only by hobbies and hobbies, but also by work, acquaintances, relatives, and even the past, present, and future.
Men love with their eyes
Everyone knows that men always choose a partner based on their appearance. If a girl is beautiful, charming and sexy, a man will do everything to make her his. But sex and relationships are one thing, but when it comes to marriage, that’s where the brain starts to turn on. Men are beginning to understand that beauty is good, but it is not the main factor. If things start to get closer to the wedding, the man begins to analyze:
1. Skills of the future wife.
For example, if a girl is less beautiful, but she is an excellent housewife and creates comfort in the house, who will he choose?
2. For men, the main thing is stability.
And many beautiful girls are used to being capricious or showing their character. Who needs this if you can choose a simpler and more understandable wife?
3. Intelligence and common interests.
When choosing with their eyes, men will not look at anything else. But since a wedding is a responsible process, many try to choose a friend and faithful comrade for themselves.
4. Conflict.
Constant arguments over trifles and incomprehensible demands from beautiful people do nothing good. But the fact is that all men understand perfectly well: after the wedding, desires will become stronger and there will be more conflicts.
And strangely enough, it is easier for men to choose simpler life partners, even if they are less beautiful. Logic comes into play here, and often they turn out to be right, because a wife is not only a mistress, but also a friend, a loved one and the keeper of the hearth.
