Why is it so difficult to admit your mistakes and what to do about it?

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There is only one way to eliminate information about mistakes made from the Information Fields: this method is awareness.

Pills, medical procedures, esoteric practices, psychotechnics, etc. cannot remove from a person’s Information Fields information about the mistakes he has made. This can only be done through awareness - remember about evolution: you understand, you realize - you move further in your development, if you don’t understand - you are marking time.

And pills and practicing techniques only aggravate a person’s problems. After all, having received relief from their use, a person hopes that this will continue. While the lump of unconscious, misunderstood errors in his Information Fields (IF) continues to grow.

The more information a person has in his IP that he does not realize, the more pains and problems he has.

A remarkable property of Information Fields


When a person understands, realizes his mistake and repents of what he has done, the destruction of negative energy-informational cause-and-effect relationships occurs. As a result, information about the mistake made is removed from the Information Fields of this person and overwritten.

This means that the error is no longer there and the cause of the disease is no longer there!

And the process of recovery and normalization begins.

The property of information to be rewritten upon awareness is inherent in the process of development of all living things in our World. It’s simple: until an individual has mastered the next skill, until he understands how to act correctly (from the point of view of the laws of energy-information exchange), he will not be able to move further in his development, and may even begin to degrade.

But as soon as an individual understands, realizes what he was wrong about, and begins to act correctly (from the point of view of the laws of energy-information exchange), he can move on.

The same goes for the mistakes a person has made in his life. Until a person understands his mistake, until he realizes it, information about it is displayed in his IP. And a person in life will constantly be offered situations and information to understand and realize these mistakes. If a person does not analyze such situations and does not realize his mistakes, he begins to have problems in life, including with health.

You see, everything is simple: having realized his mistakes, a person removes records about them from the individual entrepreneur - that is, removes the cause of his problems and illnesses. And normalization begins, recovery begins.

A guy's mistakes when trying to get a girl back: a list

Instead of making peace with the girl and starting over, you can, on the contrary, worsen the situation. In order not to mess things up and alienate your beloved from yourself even more, completely losing respect, you should not:

  • become depressed, offended by the whole world
  • trying to sort things out with your ex, insulting her
  • lie on the couch all day long, washing down your grief with alcoholic drinks
  • beg to come back, press for pity
  • call 100 times a day
  • cry, showing your weakness
  • stalk her on the way to work or school
  • try to “bless” your beloved with flowers and gifts, proving your love


A guy's mistakes when trying to get a girl back: a list
Whether you should follow these instructions is up to you to decide. The tips collected here will most likely help you achieve success, but do not forget that each couple has their own story and their own relationship. And if one girl decides to return, having learned that her ex is planning a new love, then the other will consider this “the end” and silently leave, so as not to stand in the way of her once loved one.

The process of recognizing mistakes is both simple and complex.

Simple - because when a person realizes his mistake, illnesses and problems easily go away on their own.

Difficult - because it is easy to see the mistakes made by other people, it is much more difficult to see your own mistakes. And oh, how difficult it is to admit to yourself that you were wrong, made a mistake or were stupid.

But the most difficult thing is not to repeat the mistake again, to resist temptation.

Realization does not always come quickly. Sometimes it happens that a person seems to have realized his mistake, but not completely, and awareness does not come. And throughout life, across the Field of Events, this person continues to form situations for awareness.

There is an important principle in eniology: do not get attached to the result. Therefore, if awareness does not come for a long time, you just need to continue to work with your mistakes and remember that with each understanding you get closer and closer to awareness, and therefore to normalization. Remember: awareness is a process.

Apologies to the girl

I was rude, I was wrong... Forgive me for my terrible temper! I agree, yes: I am a boor, an impudent person! Just forgive me finally, please forgive me, baby! How I repented - hear! We are on the same path in this life, You can’t leave!

Honey, please forgive me! I know I'm very wrong. I'm so sorry, I want to repent so much that I'm ready to run headlong to you.

Sorry, my dear sunshine, smile as before to me, please! I love you, I'm very sorry, I can't stand being apart!

Forgive me, my love, I know that I was wrong. Forgive me, calm down the heat of the fire, I realized where I was wrong.

In your destiny I am a blind hermit. Sorry it turned out like this. For you, I’m like Monday, flown by somehow in a hurry.

I am like an unexpected sky, And I burst into everyday life like thunder. I promise: no matter where you are next, I will become your life-saving umbrella!

I see your heart is crying, you won’t tell anyone about the insult. I know that the reason is me, Because I didn’t understand you then.

I'm sorry, my love, I'm sorry, let go of the offense back. I apologize to you now, because I definitely can’t live without you.

I ask you, my love, forgive my guilt with your tender soul, let go of your offense like a bird - let it dissolve in the boundless blue.

I admit that I am very guilty, But the apology is also full of hope - That the warm gaze of My desired affection and forgiveness will give me.

I am infinitely guilty, Before you, dear, You say I’m a scoundrel and a bastard, That I’m playing with my feelings.

Forgive me and don't execute me, I realized my mistakes! Kiss and hug, Warm with your smile!

How to deal with your mistakes

1. Remember any mistake you have made.

2. Remember that you are responsible for all your actions (mental, emotional, physical) and for their consequences.

3. Analyze your actions. Try to understand why you made this mistake (look for the reasons in yourself), what benefits (not only of the material plane) did you want to receive for yourself?

4. Think about what you should have done in that situation.

5. Mentally ask everyone for forgiveness:

— who could have suffered from your actions;

— whom you provoked to such actions;

— whom you condemned for such actions.

6. Forgive everyone who could harm you through such actions.

7. Let go of the situation that you have already analyzed and understood - that is, forget about it: switch to other things.

Not everyone is able to realize their mistakes and stupidities, but there is no other way to become healthy and prosperous. You understand: the processes and laws of the Universe are not a toy... You can't change them to suit yourself.

So: either here or there. There is no third.

It is on a person’s awareness that his survival depends.

Healing and normalization without a person’s awareness of the causes of his problems and illnesses are impossible.

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Roza Absalyamova replied to the topic 25 Sep 2020 14:07

THANK YOU SO MUCH, VICTOR, FOR YOUR BOOK, THAT YOU OPENED OUR EYES TO SEE THE WORLD IN A NEW WORLD!! EVERYTHING BECOMES SO SIMPLE AND EASY TO LIVE WHEN YOU REALIZE YOUR MISTAKES AND CAN HELP YOUR NEIGHBOR.. MAY IT ALWAYS BE GOOD FOR YOU TOO

Anonymous replied to the topic 01 Dec 2020 14:04

thank you for helping your loved ones, I received some shock from the book I read, digested everything, now I tell everyone I know and don’t know about this book and the author - all people on the planet should know about this in order to survive and more!!!! Thank you for being!!!!

Authors: Master's students of Togliatti State University Anastasia Artemenko and Artyom Abushik

Imagine: you missed a deadline, got nervous during a speech and started stuttering, had an unpleasant conversation on the phone, or maybe even worse. Surely now you will have a sleepless night, hours of which you will devote to self-flagellation and experiencing this unpleasant event again and again. Or will you still allow yourself to be shown compassion and move on?

The way you behave will have a serious impact not only on your well-being, but also on your health. In the literature, you can find a variety of examples of how useful it is to treat yourself with the same compassion with which we treat a close friend. Moreover, psychologists note that self-forgiveness and self-compassion are qualities that can be learned.

Self-forgiveness and self-compassion seem at first glance to be similar concepts, but they should still be separated.

Self-forgiveness is essentially a stress-coping strategy that helps overcome guilt, shame, disappointment and other feelings that arise when there is a conflict between expectations and what happened in practice.

Self-compassion is more than just allowing yourself to make mistakes. It may also be acceptable in situations of more serious emotional upheaval.

According to the concept of American psychologist Kristin Neff,

self-compassion has three important elements.

• Self-kindness.

Instead of beating yourself up and completely immersing yourself in a situation of failure, Neff suggests accepting the inevitability of the existence of imperfections in our activities and treating ourselves with a kind of leniency.

• Acceptance of oneself as part of society.

People often feel isolated when things don't go as they planned. But each of us faces certain setbacks. Understanding that all people make mistakes is an integral part of our life experience.

• Objectivity.

We often react to negative events by exaggerating them and thereby suppressing ourselves. Objectivity, as opposed to this approach, allows you to extract certain experiences without self-judgment.

Some people believe that self-forgiveness is selfish. Others believe that such irresponsibility will lead to a decrease in their motivation and nothing will force them to do anything better. But it is not so. Self-forgiveness allows you to reduce negative feelings, but in no way leads to a decrease in determination and repetition of this negative experience again. To learn self-compassion, try to imagine how you would feel towards a close friend who, by the will of fate, found himself in the same unpleasant situation. And then try to transfer all these feelings to yourself.

Improving academic performance

Self-compassion can be a great help in your studies. Consider, for example, procrastination, a very well-known problem for everyone: from schoolchildren to students and professionals. Traditionally, the phenomenon of procrastination is usually associated with the inability to control one’s time, as well as with the fact that people tend to give preference to immediate benefits rather than something more valuable, which requires much more time to achieve. But all studies lack the emotional component, which is so important in this context. One recent study found that procrastination is associated with low levels of self-compassion and high levels of stress. From the outside it looks like students are just sitting on VKontakte and having fun, instead of studying. But in reality, there may well be confusion and disorder in their heads. Procrastination can be a way of coping with the unpleasant and scary task they need to complete. And these negative emotions only intensify when students begin to criticize themselves for not completing the task.

It is necessary to understand that blaming yourself does not contribute in any way to completing the task. This will only increase the desire to avoid it.

Self-compassion can help reduce negative emotions, which in turn makes the task more manageable.

When someone suffers because of us

Self-forgiveness can help when we hurt others. Many people find it difficult to forgive themselves, whether it is a deception from a loved one, a mistake made while working with a client, or the moment when we take our anger out on family or friends.

Self-forgiveness is a way to separate the actions we regret from our inner self, which in turn helps us find the strength to move on.

This entire process consists of four steps.

It all starts with accepting responsibility for any harm we cause to others.

Then we need to admit that we regret it, but it is very important not to let the feeling of shame take over.

Next comes restoration, when we seek to repair all the harm caused and again recognize and recognize our values.

The last step is rebirth. It is moving forward with a newfound sense of self-confidence and self-acceptance.

Let's do it right

Self-forgiveness and self-compassion, if used incorrectly, may well have the opposite effect: when a person stops doing anything altogether, because he feels very sorry for himself and forgives himself everything. For example, some people use what is called “pseudo-self-forgiveness,” where they forgive themselves for mistakes and failures without actually accepting responsibility for everything they did wrong. For example, a student who has not written an essay on the topic assigned to him easily forgives himself, but deep inside he blames the teacher for setting such an incredibly short deadline, which, in his opinion, is not enough to write the work. Such a student is wasted in not taking responsibility to the full extent that he should.

Another potential pitfall is premature forgiveness. For example, when we are talking about a smoker who is constantly trying to quit this addiction, but continues to smoke. In this case, a person simply forgives himself for the fact that he cannot refuse it, thereby getting rid of negative emotions and feelings towards himself. And yet he still continues to smoke.

True self-forgiveness should be a process that begins the moment you have stopped doing something that you would like to get rid of. As with the same smoking. You need to quit first, and only then, if a cigarette suddenly accidentally gets into your mouth, understand why this happened, and take this into account in the future.

Forgiving yourself before you have stopped doing something unpleasant is completely counterproductive, experts say.

The material was first published in the newspaper “ Speechka” No. 2 (80) dated 02/09/2017.

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