What is he
Mister Perfect. A materialist to the core and a rare bore. An intellectual and an “unfortunate intellectual”, he is also a damn esthete, which makes him completely unbearable. Reasonable to the point of disgust and just as calculating. He always understands everything better than all the other signs of the zodiac (which is true), which infuriates everyone incredibly (true!). He would have been a standard killing machine if the Heavenly Office had “showed” him a little anger, but she didn’t (for which many thanks to her).
Aries
Aries are known for their directness and openness. And a man of this sign is unlikely to languish you in ignorance for long. Most likely, he will prefer a frank conversation. But you yourself may notice alarming symptoms. The fact is that Aries share literally everything with their beloved. They need their chosen one to share his interests and hobbies. If you start to notice that the Aries man suddenly doesn’t invite you to football or fishing anymore, then you can start sounding the alarm. He gradually began to move away from you. And he no longer has the same feelings for you.
Positive traits
The standard Mr. Darcy from the Bridget Jones movie: polite, noble, successful, wears a classic suit as if he was born in it. He doesn’t like to attract attention to himself, but for some reason it’s his lap that strangers, hyperactive children and blind kittens from the trash heap rush to climb into. A model man in the best sense of the word: he said it and did it. He shows no more signs of a man - only the signs of a true gentleman. A pleasant conversationalist and a subtle psychologist. Pathologically true.
Recognizing a crush
The mysterious Virgo man does not openly demonstrate his sympathies, preferring to first get to know the girl better. But he is not able to control his behavior on all counts. Thanks to this, you can calculate his flared feelings.
Changes in appearance
The psychology of a Virgo man in love is such that he certainly wants to look like a superstar. But he does not intend to rush to extremes, so there is no point in expecting extravagant images from the earth sign. The guy will only slightly improve his usual look, focusing on an elegant style.
Virgo men prefer classics in clothes: basic shades and standard styles. But in order to conquer a girl, a guy is ready to buy a stunning suit of a classic cut, designed for special occasions, which, in combination with a white shirt, will make him irresistible. Classic jeans in a beautiful dark blue color combined with a polo T-shirt or thick trousers with a pullover can replace a suit.
As for accessories, representatives of the sign are not particularly fond of them. Various scarves, umbrellas, and hats are used in exceptional cases. Virgo will try to impress her beloved with the help of a stylish watch, an expensive belt or cufflinks.
A man who is modest by nature will not experiment with his hairstyle. He will begin to take more careful care of his hair, visiting the hairdresser on time.
Changes in behavior
Representatives of this sign do not like to show off their feelings. But you can unravel their hidden sympathies by looking closely at changes in behavior. Clear signs of falling in love:
- During a conversation with the woman he loves, a man often becomes embarrassed, gets a little worried and even blushes, and absurd comparisons and inappropriate expressions slip into his speech. The usual timbre of his voice changes to a more subtle one.
- Virgo tries to be cheerful and cheerful in the presence of the object of passion. He tells funny stories and witty jokes, trying to bring a smile to his beloved's lips.
- The guy looks in the mirror more often and carefully takes care of the cleanliness of his shoes and clothes in order to amaze the girl with his irresistible appearance.
- A man in love casts many ardent glances towards his chosen one. But he does it unnoticed, so that the woman does not guess his feelings ahead of time.
- An earth sign always tries to help a girl in any matter. He will easily agree to take his chosen one to the office early in the morning, and in the evening he will pick her up from work. If necessary, go to the store for groceries, walk the dog, and help deal with everyday problems.
- Some Virgos show their sympathy by being desperately jealous of their beloved for other admirers. The man tries in every way to show his competitors in an unsightly light in the eyes of the girl.
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A man usually does not hide his love from close friends. If a girl notices that a guy treats her in a special way, then she can carefully find out from his inner circle the reason for this behavior. The information will tell her how to behave correctly in order to push Virgo to confess her romantic feelings much faster.
Negative qualities
The reference Mr. Darcy from the Bridget Jones movie. Nerd. Whiner. Cheapskate. Capable of throwing a scandal because someone moved his perfectly folded underwear. A real maniac of cleanliness and order - I want to shove all his cotton swabs into a certain hole, with which he cleans the spout of the teapot. Teapot, Karl! Angry critic. Boo-boo-boo, boo-boo-boo. His favorite delicacy is the tender brains of those around him, which he prefers to eat out with a sharpened coffee spoon. He doesn’t know how to swear: instead, he conducts stuffy, hours-long conversations, sucking the last blood out of the victim. He is secretive and keeps everything to himself. One fine day, when nothing foreshadowed, suddenly the hippopotamus mode turns on, aka the “let’s take a ton of manure and throw it into an industrial fan” mode. He firmly believes that everyone is around pipidastra, and he is only D'Artagnan, as a result of which he has no friends, but he has girlfriends. Cerebral. I mean, into the brain. Life friend gets it especially.
a lion
It’s simple to understand that a Leo woman no longer loves: she stops taking the initiative in relationships. There will be no more proposals to sit together by the light of a fire or spend the weekend together. It is difficult to destroy the love of this woman; she never makes a choice spontaneously. The chosen one can get on her nerves for a long time and a lot, and she will endure it. But in an instant this girl will look at her chosen one with a different, “cold” look, and that will be the end of everything.
If a Leo man has lost interest, his chosen one will know about it immediately. He will stop giving expensive gifts, greeting her from work and will no longer kiss her hands in the evenings. It is difficult to lose this man; he holds on to the relationship with all his strength, looking for justifications for his actions and the actions of his chosen one. He will be disappointed in his partner if he sees that she does not value him - neither his impulses, nor his desires.
Love
Chicken imprinting: the one he saw first is the “mother”. When he is disappointed in love in general and in women in particular (which is completely natural with such a style of choosing a partner), he will delightfully suffer for several years, simultaneously making those unfortunate people with whom he has an affair for consolation suffer. Then, having gained life experience and taking into account past mistakes, he will find himself a new permanent woman. Exactly the same as the first one.
She looks after you in the style of a “caring mother”: there will be no flowers or diamonds, but she will bring tea (at the right temperature), cake (her favorite) and a warm blanket in her teeth.
They put their career first
Virgos are distinguished by their pragmatism. They love to set goals for themselves and confidently achieve them. And here stereotypes burst into everyday life. Virgo women usually prioritize creating a family and a home. Men, on the other hand, are usually obsessed with their careers. It's not just about high salaries. It is important for them to realize themselves and achieve career heights. Such men want to prove that they are much more capable and talented than other people. Therefore, Virgos will always work hard to achieve their goals. This does not mean that they will avoid relationships. It’s just that for them they will always be in the background. Therefore, do not be surprised that a Virgo man will easily refuse a planned date if he is asked to stay late at work.
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Sex
It all depends on the first permanent lover: if you come across a sophisticated one, Virgo will quickly learn everything and will continue to carry the light of truth to all her other partners. If you come across an inexperienced flower, Virgo will open an anatomy textbook and strictly follow the paragraph “sexual intercourse.” Anyone who comes across a Virgo after an inexperienced flower should be patient: the patient is being trained, but slowly and sadly.
Marriage
The ideal husband: earns good money, cooks great, doesn’t shy away from a vacuum cleaner, and is the best at raising babies. A Virgo husband is a reliable partner who will never betray, an attentive and gentle lover and a best friend who does not need to explain anything. And now - the terrible truth: due to her boundless inner nobility, Virgo always marries the most hopeless case, because: “This fool will be lost without me.”
What to expect from a relationship with a Virgo
The relationship is developing smoothly, a little slowly. But the more time passes, the better the girl gets to know her Virgo partner, discovering more and more new sides of his character: sharpness of thinking, sense of humor and versatility. He becomes not only a good lover for a woman, but also an indispensable interlocutor with whom you can discuss exciting topics. A man knows how to listen and hear his chosen one, giving practical advice.
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Virgo takes marriage very seriously, taking on the leading role. A caring and attentive husband tries to protect his wife from everyday problems, but resolves all important issues with her together. He is in no hurry to become a father, but he is happy about the birth of children and is responsible for their upbringing.
Virgo values comfort and a pleasant family atmosphere, so she will do her best to support the home idyll, demanding the same from her wife. He is not prone to scandals, but will not tolerate unfounded criticism and groundless accusations of treason. A woman should think about the idea several times before speaking out.
Compatibility
Virgo + Aries
A Virgo man is rarely stupid enough to lay his seat on the mouth of an active volcano on his own. But this still happens. What can I say: let him fly! (With)
Virgo + Taurus
The best thing these two can do is get together immediately, quickly, before it starts! Because they coincide perfectly in all areas, but both are unable to believe their happiness: why, was it possible?!
Virgo + Gemini
Alarm! Gemini should immediately summon their inner army of bare-bottomed Iroquois and make them polish their tomahawks: Virgo is the only sign that poses a serious danger to Gemini. These two will immediately lock tongues in every sense, and they will have to tear it off with meat. And it will have to in any case, because Virgo will sooner or later cut off Gemini’s oxygen.
Virgo + Cancer
An ideal union, full of tender care for each other. Both will enthusiastically check whether the tea in their partner’s cup is hot enough and whether he forgot to put on his hat. And they will never suffer from their partner’s criticism: they will enjoy it. You can criticize to your heart's content in response!
Virgo + Leo
If the Virgo is not mute, he should immediately wrap himself in a white sheet and at least begin to lie in the direction of the cemetery, because there will be no other outcome: as soon as he opens his mouth, the Lioness will blow off half of his head with a slight movement of her paw. Because he opens his mouth mainly for criticism, which, as everyone knows, is fraught.
Virgo + Virgo
Paradoxical but true: the longer these two are together, the happier and more serene their union is. Probably, many years of mutual eating of the partner’s soft, tasty brains still produces its effect. Almost like a lobotomy.
Virgo + Libra
Imagine that Virgo is such a stern and powerful service dog, “Mukhtar and I are on the border.” Now imagine that Libra is a charming and very restless three-year-old girl. Now imagine that the dog was assigned to guard the girl, and she constantly pulls his tail. Did you imagine? Well, here we go. It’s not necessary to imagine the martyr’s expression on a dog’s face—your heart will burst with pity (and for Libra, we’re sure, even Libra’s pulse hasn’t quickened right now).
Virgo + Scorpio
Everything is bad: at first these two will revel in their intellectual snobbery and sense of superiority over the pathetic smerds, but then either the Virgo will not be delivered the smerds on time, or Scorpio will decide to go on a diet and devour some dietary victim - like Virgo, for example. And he will not take into account that the victim is also poisonous. Very.
Virgo + Sagittarius
“Mom, what was that?!” - the Virgo man seems to be asking us, on whom the dashing horse of Sagittarius has just trampled with all four hooves. On which, yes, that’s right, she already galloped off into the distance, laughing infernally. And Virgo, well, Virgo, she’ll shake herself off somehow.
Virgo + Capricorn
“Do it normally - everything will be fine!” - these two seem to say. And they do it normally, which is typical. And, what is absolutely surprising, it happens normally. Amazing people after all.
Virgo + Aquarius
Great union! Aquarius introduces a precisely measured, therapeutic dose of chaos and carelessness into the ordered life of Virgo; Virgo works as an impeccable navigator, ready to promptly prompt her careless rider on the best route. Love? “What kind of love? There were children" (c)
How does a man who has fallen out of love behave?
These signals should alert you!
For most women, the emotional component of a relationship with a partner is the most important. Therefore, the question: “Loves or does not love” is tormented by every representative of the fair sex at different periods of life. The most suspicious ladies, almost from the first month of a relationship, poison their lives with such doubts.
Indeed, having tender feelings for someone, it is difficult to objectively assess their reciprocity. For those who are tormented by the question: “How to understand that a man has stopped loving?” — psychologists have compiled a list of signs. Don't panic if one of them fits your recent situation just right. But, if your relationship repeats these signs, as if according to a pattern, there is a real reason to think.
Irritation at the slightest provocation
You remember that there were times when your loved one swallowed over-salted soup with a smile, and your habit of collecting soft toys only caused him tenderness. Why now does any minor mistake cause a storm of indignation?
Psychologists consider causeless irritation to be one of the surest signs of cooling. An unloved woman no longer causes a man to fear losing her, so he does not hesitate to express his true opinion on any issue.
In addition, we more often forgive sweet shortcomings to people dear to us. In order to observe the mistakes of a disgusted woman day after day and restrain irritation, rare patience is required. Therefore, if your partner is irritated with you for no reason, he may be looking for a replacement.
Nitpicking about appearance
If you are thinking about the topic: “How to understand that your husband has stopped loving you,” pay attention to his comments about your appearance. A person is designed in such a way that in a state of love, hormones do not allow him to adequately assess the appearance of his chosen one. When the chemical processes in the blood subside, all the imperfections of the face and figure are noticed.
One day, the appetizing thighs become thick, and the nose, formerly called with tenderness “pipka,” is now called exclusively “potato.” A cold man, often out loud, makes his claims about your appearance, as if justifying his indifference to himself.
Negative discussions about you with mutual friends
Pay attention to how your partner speaks about you in the company of friends. If you have strong feelings, a man does not allow himself or others to speak negatively about you. He justifies your actions, even if you were completely wrong.
A man who has fallen out of love will gladly criticize you in the company of mutual friends. Psychologists say that in this way the partner seeks approval from friends regarding the changed attitude.
Lack of tenderness and intimate relationships
When we love, we often feel the need to kiss a loved one without any reason. In a strong couple, affectionate nicknames and fleeting hugs are common. Few people will want to kiss and hug a boring partner without a corresponding request on his part.
Often, a cold man is pushed to show tenderness only by the need to resolve the conflict. The same applies to the intimate side of relationships. Indifferent sex usually includes a minimum of affection, or even none at all if a new passion has appeared.
Reluctance to communicate
A man in love consults with his chosen one on many issues that are important to him. Often he calls just like that, wanting to share what’s on his heart. Cooling down leads to the fact that you stop making plans for the future, so the desire to communicate on deeply personal topics disappears.
Another warning sign is a refusal to address the deterioration of the relationship. An indifferent person who has decided everything for himself does not feel the desire to analyze relationships that are no longer interesting to him.
Reluctance to spend vacations or weekends together
If you used to spend a long time choosing where to go on vacation or what movie to watch together in the cinema, and now he behaves aggressively at your hints about spending time together, he may be tired of you.
The desire to take a break from you speaks of the perception of your relationship as a duty. During the cooling-off period, a man often begins to plan a vacation with friends, and on weekends he disappears from home almost at dawn.
Dramatic changes in appearance
It's no secret that we want to appear our best to our loved ones. If your chosen one, who had not previously been noticed as particularly eager to dress stylishly and take care of himself, changes radically, it makes sense to think about it. At the same time, when spending time with you, he still prefers to wear a faded T-shirt.
The exception is if, after serious health problems arise, a man makes the heroic decision to get rid of his belly fat and starts going to the gym.
Hidden communication with other women
The discovery of new passwords on social networks and on the phone clearly indicates that the partner has something to hide. No matter how trivial the topic of checking your phone may be, if a man often hangs up calls in your presence and even manages to grab his phone to the toilet during an attack of diarrhea, it’s unlikely that there are any hot feelings left in your relationship.
A phone defiantly left in a very visible place is also not a reason to relax; many cheaters buy another one for this purpose.
What to do if a man falls out of love?
Suppose you are convinced that the man has fallen out of love. How to behave in such a situation? As they say, there is a way out of any situation, and in this case there are three:
- Do nothing. Only very calm and self-confident women can know that you are unloved and not try to sort things out. Most often, this is typical for arranged marriages, when love was not initially the main reason for being together. If you are both satisfied with an open relationship and you see many advantages in maintaining such a union, perhaps this is your option
- As the saying goes: “If a guy is cold, he needs to be buried.” When it is obvious that there is no more love, leave this relationship in the past. And don’t even think about rewarding yourself with complexes for the rest of your life. Most of Hollywood's beauties have experienced what it's like to be abandoned. Therefore, you should not consider yourself to be a perpetual loser.
- Fight for relationships. The strongest and most stubborn women prefer to fight to the end. It's hard to say what awaits you - the ignition of your loved one's feelings with renewed vigor or wasted years, seasoned with endless conflicts and a sea of shed tears. If you are inclined to this option, be prepared that it will not be easy.
Be that as it may, you should not make hasty conclusions. Perhaps you just screwed yourself up and are not able to sensibly assess the situation. In this case, it is best to seek advice from friends and family who see your union from the outside
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