How to find your soulmate and where to meet your destiny - a psychologist will tell you

How to order your soulmate

Finding your happiness is not an easy task, especially for a woman. The weaker half is often looking for a man that nature has not yet created: it must be either a prince, or a pumped-up macho with two, or better yet, three higher educations, a fat wallet, and he must also be flexible, kind, generous, etc.

The universe will be able to find you a mate if you imagine a real person with weaknesses and shortcomings, and not someone you have imagined. Ask the Universe for a person close to you in energy and spirit, so that you enrich each other and not suppress each other.

On a piece of paper write: My future husband should be... and list real earthly qualities. Try to imagine it. Re-read the qualities twice, then burn the paper. Scatter the ashes so that the Universe begins to look for a mate for you. Sooner or later this ritual will bear fruit.

Steps

We offer two methods that will help answer the question of how people find their soulmate. To complete them, you must go through certain steps.

Method 1: Finding a loved one

To find a truly kindred soul, you need to look for it, and not just wait for a chance meeting. For this:

• Enjoy the state of freedom. Any girl should feel complete and happy even in moments of loneliness in life. To do this, you need to like yourself and learn not to get bored in your own company.
• Become your own ideal. Write on a piece of paper what you want in a partner. Then consider whether this applies to you. If so, develop these character traits, it is much more likely that a relationship will begin when two similar personalities meet.
• Don't get hung up on the image you've created. You may be looking for your athletic blue-eyed blond and not notice nearby a reliable, loving brunette whose soul is like you in a pod.
• Don't become a couple's breaker. If he left his wife for you, then he can leave you too.
• Expand your circle of acquaintances. What if you find him at this party?
• Flirt, but don't become outright vulgar.
• Become a riddle that is fun to solve, don't reveal all the cards at once.

Method 2: How to turn a potential partner into a soulmate

Now that you have already found the “victim” of your love, you need to make him a permanent lover, or even better, a groom. To do this you need:

• Constantly get to know each other, be interested in hobbies and interests, work, social circle, family.
• Listen to your heart and don’t contradict it.
• Accept its shortcomings and look primarily at its advantages.
• Try to become not only lovers, but also friends.
• Go on dates as a foursome. Communication only in private can get boring, besides, it is sometimes useful to look at other couples and see their “tricks” for maintaining relationships.
• Hug and kiss often. Intimacy is not the only way to show your tenderness and passion.
• There is no need to shout “we are breaking up” after every trivial quarrel. One day he might just answer “ok.”

How to start looking for a girl

To find a mate destined for you, you need to follow several rules of attractiveness.

1. Watch your appearance. A sloppy girl will be pestered by equally unkempt guys.
2. Wear accessories that will add zest to your look. Change your image more often to choose your style and find a suitable image.
3. Get rid of your complexes, stop whining and complaining.
4. Love yourself for who you are. Smile, don’t walk around gloomy with your head down.
5. Become self-sufficient, believe in your strength.
6. Never say that you are very happy alone! It is not true!
7. Do not reject the advances of that guy who is far from the ideal you have come up with.
8. Visit places where you can meet young people more often.
9. Correct your shortcomings, be a feminine, sweet, smiling girl.
10. Set yourself realistic goals. Never “swing” at a married man.

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For each of us, there comes a period in life when we ask ourselves rhetorical questions:

Why am I living? What will my life be like? Who will take part in it? How happy will I be? What is happiness? Where to look for it? And should I look at all? Will my other half find me? And where will she find me? What will it be like? And will she? And if she does, will we be happy? And how long will we be happy? Will we die on the same day? Or maybe I will be a lonely person? What kind of people will surround me? Will they be evil? Or kind? Am I a kind person? Exactly what kind of person am I? And am I human? Will I ever find answers to these questions?

The answers come to each of us in due time. You can search for them yourself, through trial and error, you can study the experiences of other people, explore ancient teachings and books. There are many options, and one of them is to find out what ideas our ancestors had about the purpose of life and happiness.

It turns out that to all the questions listed above, our forefathers had one simple answer, the meaning of human life is to find your soul mate and, uniting with her, develop, achieving spiritual perfection.

You can argue and disagree with this, you can argue that happiness and meaning are hidden in completely different things.
Any opinion you have will be correct. Since the soul of each of us is at its own stage of development and needs diverse experience, but the goal of this experience, our long journey, is to become a creator
in the highest sense of the word. After all, we are all sparks of the original divine consciousness.

This is how Vedic teachings describe the soul's desire to find its soul mate.

“The beginning of everything was and is the unity of two halves of one whole - God. And the souls descended to the Holy Land, divided into two halves - women and men. (Remember the famous symbol of yin and yang, masculine and feminine, which, while simultaneously being a single whole, is still divided)

And it was planned by the Gods so that they could find each other based on their main spiritual qualities. In the man’s heart they left part of the flame of his woman’s feelings, so that when they meet, his heart would burn with eternal love, with kindness and love he would warm her, and by that love she knows him. And in the woman’s heart the Gods left a part of the man’s mind. Then he will see that a woman’s soul is full of wisdom, and by that wisdom a man will recognize his mate.”

Our ancestors believed that each of us must have a soul mate. And this half is the only one, since it is part of your own soul, once divided into male and female. Only by finding your true spiritual soul mate can you find integrity and harmony. Reach the level of the Creator in your development.

You and I are so accustomed to looking at the world dually that we often see a struggle of opposites in everything: good and evil, black and white, night and day, summer and winter, man and woman...

Our ancestors perceived the world more holistically and harmoniously. Understanding at the same time that in nature, day never fights with night, black only complements white, and even evil and good are united and necessary for the full development of the human soul. Moreover, the relationship between a man and a woman has never been considered as a struggle of antagonistic elements.

If each of us has our own only half, how can we feel it and distinguish it from someone else’s?

The Slavs divided the relationship between a man and a woman into three types:

1.
Karmic connection.
In such a union, we work out the mistakes of our past lives. Our soul learns and polishes itself.

A close karmic connection means that we met more than once in our past incarnations, were in close relationships and, perhaps, were somehow to blame before the person or he before us. Perhaps we have caused great misfortunes for him in the past and now we are paying for our cruel mistakes by being forced to serve this man, fulfill his whims, listen to complaints. If we are placed by fate in such circumstances, then there is a reason for this. The greater the distance of the karmic connection, the less we have met and had energy contacts in the past, and the less we will have in this life.

2.
Soul mates.
This is the family life of souls - comrades, classmates of the School of Life, who are companions on the path of life. With your classmate partner, you have common ideas, a common understanding, and respect, you go through life together... but you just constantly feel that it’s a little different. In this pair, you limit your purpose, learn new qualities, but calmly, without strain. And yet there is no flame that, like the sun, illuminates the path for you and the people around you. If you are in such a relationship, do not rush to break it. This means that your spiritual couple is not ready to accept you now, she still needs to go through her, often cruel, life (she got lost somewhere and is making her way through the thicket to you). If you do meet her and she extends her hand to you, don’t waste your chance. This means that she is ready, and your life together with someone else’s half will soon become unbearable for you. Don't wait until you can't live in that family for your other half to leave you.

3.
Spiritual (star) halves.
Because the Creator, having divided us into two parts - male and female, left in each of us 10% of the qualities of our half. That distance means nothing for souls: even if you are very far from each other, you are still connected by an invisible, but very strong thread. There is a constant exchange of energy between the two true halves. They influence each other: it is impossible for one of them to be brilliant, and the other to be stupid and stupid.

The first meeting with your spiritual half can never be forgotten, just like the first night of marriage. You can live with your partner in any conditions and anywhere, together you will find a way out of any situation. All difficulties can be overcome if your soul mate is next to you. But you need to be prepared for the fact that not all spiritual halves can unite. In life we ​​meet our soul mate three times! If we refuse her three times, then she no longer comes to us...

A meeting with one’s soul mate occurs when a person suddenly internally realizes that without his spiritual half he does not need anything (money, fame, career). The meeting occurs when the realization wins that in reality we live only for the sake of our soul mate. Why? Sacred knowledge says that once upon a time we were all one. And the moment came when souls (you can call them a family) descended into the manifested world from the womb of a common mother and began to divide into parts. Have you seen how a cell divides? From the common “family”, kindred souls first separated, and the last division was the division of the common soul into HE and SHE. And to connect again is a natural desire. The path to each other can be very difficult. Never think that as soon as you meet your spiritual soulmate, a romance will begin that will last until the end of days. After all, there is a lot of things that need to be untied, passed through, understood TOGETHER - this is a common work. It happens like this: for one of the halves, life is going well (a good family, a full house), while the other has problems and instability. Why is that? There should always be an impulse for development in a couple. Unfortunately, if a spiritual couple does not live together, then conditions are created (from a philistine point of view, unfavorable) for balance, so that the development of the couple moves forward. Remember about constant energy exchange? And such halves often refuse each other, citing various reasons, because they are not yet ready for union. What does it mean “spiritual couples are ready”? This is when a woman loves and respects a man as a manifestation of male energy, as God. And a man sees a Goddess in every woman! And then HIS woman will come to the man, and HER man will come to the woman. Because every partner with whom fate brings us together teaches us to accept our true soul mate, leads us by the hand to her, the only one. And there is a second way to connect spiritual halves - when a couple faces an important mission given by God and the Universe. And their soul mates gather around such a star couple... What kind of soulmate is she? A sure sign that you have found your soul mate is that you are doing similar things

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Often such couples, who were ready to meet each other, or business in related fields, have any interests and aspirations about the same thing. There is a common goal. And at the same time, your spiritual soul mate is always your opposite! The inner world of your star half is different from yours. She loves the kind of work that seems hard to you. She sees things in the world that you never knew existed. You know her thoughts, and she knows yours.
In these relationships there is no leader - leadership constantly passes from one to another. And most importantly, your weaknesses do not suffer, because your other half is the strongest in them.
Work, rest, and communication are the highest pleasure. It seems that it is impossible to talk enough, there is always a need to communicate, to be close, but this has nothing in common with addiction. They don’t look at their soul mate as an idol
;
on the contrary, they become kings next to her.
The constant desire to direct their energy and strength somewhere moves the couple towards new achievements.
After all, only together can we achieve the highest states of spiritual surge (if we work on it). When you have found your soul mate, you don't need to adapt to it.
Your soulmate just needs you exactly as you are. If you live on this Earth, then your spiritual soul mate is still alive. And she, just like you, is waiting to meet you. They say that if you die, then within 5 years your significant other will leave the Earth. Because, no matter where you are, you are one and you will feel and attract each other.

I wish with all my heart that each of us meet our soulmate

and find the fullness of love!

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When writing the article, we used fragments of the book by Lada and Vladimir Kurovsky “How to teach your daughter to be happy in love”

Wish card

will help you find your destiny :

• Take a blank sheet of Whatman paper.
• Stick your photo in the center.
• Take magazines and cut out pictures with your desires.
• Cut out a photo of the man you like, a car, wedding rings, a house, and definitely a child or two.
• Next to you, stick a photo of a man, and around it what you would like to have.
• Hang it in a visible place so you can see this poster more often. Soon your wishes should come true.

Develop yourself: personal growth

Both men and women prefer to see smart and accomplished people next to them. However, there is a saying: “If you claim, live up to it!” You don’t have to pretend, but from the very beginning you become the best for yourself in order to correspond to a spiritually developed personality. What you need to do for this:

1. Read books. The success of musician Jim Morrison lay in his erudition and erudition. And not only him. Even David Bowie had at least 100 books in his collection that everyone should read. The main thing is that you enjoy doing it yourself.
2. It doesn't matter what kind of literature you prefer. After reading a couple of books, you will learn to express thoughts correctly and become an educated person.
3. Discover a new hobby. For example, you can carve wood or travel. Your companion will probably share your hobby if he likes it. Listen to different music. This is not a requirement. But thanks to the diversity of the media library, you can discuss with your girl the artist she likes. Let this be an additional incentive for self-development.
4. Get involved in art. There is no limit to perfection: theater, cinema, exhibitions, museums. Girls don't like men who are not interested in anything in life except work and home. And they will avoid homebodies.

Are you still having difficulties? Do you want to know how, when and where you can definitely meet your soulmate? Personal growth training to help you. Research information on the Internet: do similar events take place in your city? If yes, then sign up quickly!

How can a man find his chosen one?

It is just as difficult for a man to find a mate as it is for a woman. To get results, often imagine the woman of your dreams next to you. Remember, searching is normal. There is no need to despair. If you're unlucky today, you'll definitely be lucky tomorrow!

Recently, people have been looking for each other on the Internet. Online dating can end in marriage if you write about yourself honestly, but mysteriously, without revealing yourself completely.

Agree to a date, because only on a date can you understand whether this is your person or not. Don't look for the perfect girl, there are no perfect people. You also have shortcomings.

How can a guy become a family man? Any bachelor dreams of starting a family, but does not know where to start. And you need to start with a positive attitude that everything will work out. You also need to be prepared for difficulties along the way.

It’s also a good idea for a guy to make a list of the qualities of his future wife. Then burn it, releasing the desire into the Universe.

Visit places where your heart beats faster: sporting events, stadiums, fitness clubs, cinemas. The main thing is not to be idle!

Advice from psychologist Daria Milai on how to find your soul mate for a girl

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Set a goal

Motivate yourself for marriage and relationships, rather than setting yourself up for celibacy and self-sufficiency alone. Very often what we think about materializes because on a subconscious level your behavior reflects your attitude.

Develop positive character traits

It's easy to do. First you should do some self-analysis. Write down your pros and cons on a large sheet of paper in two columns. To expand the list, turn to your loved ones for help, but choose them carefully - they should not envy you or deceive you, but want only the best. Now think about what shortcomings you can correct and advantages you can improve. Set a plan for improvement and stick to it.

Stop looking for the ideal

Each personality has its pros and cons, there is no prince on a white horse. It may very well be that a monster, like in a fairy tale, is endowed with a heart of gold, and only your love can turn him into a real handsome man. Or there are bad habits that you can help him get rid of. Or maybe at first the style of his clothing, which is unusual for you, then you will like it, and the imaginary flaw will become an individual trait, an advantage.

Talk to people more

Don't become a recluse, because this way you won't be able to increase your search radius. In addition, with constant communication, you improve yourself, your communication skills, charm, sense of humor, and also gain new knowledge. You can try:

• Sign up for a club, hobby club, dance hall.
• Become a volunteer at some event.
• Go on a trip with an unfamiliar team.

Agree to blind dates

Why not try it? Especially if this is the brother of your colleague or a friend of a good friend, that is, a person who is recommended to you. It is quite possible that pimping will lead to good results, the main thing is not to make too big plans for it.

Don't lie about yourself

You are who you are. Maybe not ideal, somewhere dissatisfied with herself, but on the other hand, unique. People are attracted, oddly enough, not only by their advantages, but also by their disadvantages. Maybe you will sing obscene ditties together at parties with a guitar. And deception about love for a symphony orchestra will only lead to constraint. Besides, any lie is revealed sooner or later.

Meet where the heart rate is higher

It is an interesting medical fact that people are more prone to feelings of love and euphoria when their heart beats faster. Therefore, it is not at all surprising that young men invite girls on their first date to the cinema to watch a horror film.

Work on your relationships

Another recommendation for those who have already found their soulmate, but doubt whether he is “the one.” Many people cannot answer this unequivocally even after 30 years of marriage. Doubts are a natural accompaniment of any relationship. I advise you to take a closer look at your partner, and not immediately dismiss him at the first difficulties. Remember that even the most ideal couple has quarrels and disagreements.

Is there life after divorce?

After a divorce, it is difficult to become happy again. There is a fear in the heart that you might step on the same rake again. Psychologists give 3 pieces of advice.

1. Heal from your old feelings so you can look for love again. Come to terms with what happened, understand yourself.
2. Let the person go. Free yourself from resentment, anger, forgive that person and yourself too. Mentally ask for forgiveness. Get rid of all negativity so that when you meet again, bitterness, resentment, and sarcasm do not creep into your conversation.
3. Don't sit at home, go to public places. Take a walk in the park, go to exhibitions, go to the cinema, tune in to new love.

How to fall in love at 40

After 40 years, life is just beginning. And indeed it is. You already have life experience, you know what you want. The main thing is not to consider loneliness as your achievement.

Most likely you have your own life story. Learn lessons, work on mistakes. Don't linger in the past, go to the future! If you meet a person, don't tell your story. Not everyone can accept this. There will be no end to jealousy! It’s better to say that you were looking for and found your one and only.

Don't focus on appearance. Appearances can be deceiving. After the first date, agree to the next one.

Age of the potential partner? Today no one thinks about him.

Be prepared that this person has children. Are you ready to accept them and love them? Find a hobby where there are men (women). No one has canceled online dating. Just don’t rush into the pool right away, find out what kind of person he is. There are many different scammers today!

Know how to listen! This advice is useful for people of any age. When a person is listened to carefully, he will tell more than he wanted. And you will judge: is this your destiny or look for another.

Where to start searching for a woman

You need to know that representatives of the fairer sex react to their own needs differently than men. Women are ready to see a betrothed in anyone who at least slightly corresponds to her ideas about the ideal. Loyalty, devotion, determination, unbending will and strength of character are usually valued. You can search for your loved one for a long time. It is important to know what to rely on in your search.

You should pay attention to your own needs: some are attracted to romance, others to generosity and generosity, others need a strong partner who they can rely on in difficult times. They often pay attention to wealthy partners who have something to offer: a beautiful trip, a vacation, expensive gifts. If a woman gives priority to material values, she should not hide this from potential partners. Such circumstances cannot be discounted, since the implementation of plans adds strength, raises one’s self-esteem, and increases vital energy several times.

Ask the Almighty and the Saints

There are prayers that will help you create a family and have children. Are you tired of loneliness? Pray, believe that God will hear you. How to pray correctly:

• First, repent of your sins.
• Next, thank the Almighty for what you have, for the fact that he hears your prayer.
• Place a candle near the image, then say the prayer three times. If you don’t know it by heart, then ask in your own words. But the prayer must be sincere, coming from the heart.

Ask the Lord to grant family happiness based on love and respect. Your soul mate must be earned through good deeds and prayers coming from the heart. It happens that a person prays, but the Lord does not allow him to meet his loved one. So it's not time yet! Pray, wait in humility and faith.

Who should you pray to to find a family? Say prayers to the Savior for love, fidelity, and reciprocity at dawn and before bed. Write a prayer on a piece of paper and wear it as a talisman on your chest. You can even describe in your own words the spiritual qualities of your future soul mate.

Think about why you need married life. If only for status, the Higher powers may not send a soul mate. Even relatives of someone who dreams of finding a loved one can read prayers for marriage.

You need to ask not only for the gift of a spouse, but also for patience, wisdom, the ability to pacify your anger, selfishness for the good of the family.

Men can address St. Andrew the First-Called, St. Tatiana, Anna, Seraphim of Sarov, saints by name. Prayer requests instill hope for happiness in people's souls.

Actions of a man

There is a stereotype in society according to which representatives of the stronger sex must have an unbending will and strong character. Most guys try to live up to these standards. But men also have periods when they need support and understanding.

If a guy does not learn to accept this in himself, then his other actions are doomed to failure. It is necessary to behave clearly, consistently, without fear of losing face. A lot depends on the psychological attitude: whether a young man will be able to realize his plans, dreams, and what he will focus on.

Usually young people adhere to a similar pattern of behavior. In society, to this day, it is believed that a guy should take the first step, take full responsibility for what is happening. Sometimes points may vary slightly:

1. Search for a suitable candidate. This is the time of meetings and the emergence of sympathy. The young man is in search of someone who will accept him with all his strengths and weaknesses, will be able to reciprocate, and share his life goals and dreams. A guy sometimes pays attention to many, but with his heart he searches for only one.
2. Courtship period. Lasts as long as the relationship between a couple develops before marriage. A man must show his best side, demonstrate the seriousness of his intentions. To this end, he takes care of the girl: giving flowers, taking her to restaurants, scattering compliments. This is a pleasant period that is pleasant to remember after many months and years.
3. Moment of proposal. Proposing marriage is an important step that every woman in love is waiting for. This indicates seriousness of intentions, a desire to take responsibility for the well-being of the woman he loves. The guy makes an offer with trepidation and bated breath, hoping to receive gratitude and respect in return.

READ How to understand that a man likes you, but he hides his feelings: secrets of male psychology

To help the desperate

Never resort to black magic so as not to spoil your destiny. You can use conspiracies to attract a free, unmarried person. Don’t tell anyone that you have performed the ritual of attracting love.

Before performing the ceremony, fast for 3 days. This is not only a refusal of meat, but also from intimacy, quarrels, bad thoughts, everything bad.

• After sunset, light a church candle, close all windows and doors.
• Look at the flame, imagine your betrothed.
• Imagine your meeting.
• Read the plot three times:

“God the Lord himself will gather me on the road. He will give me a blessing for a relationship, for a meeting with the servant of God (name), he will give me confidence, he will give me the opportunity, he will bestow his strength. The Lord God will save me from vain expenses, from unnecessary meetings, from evil eyes, my heart will not worry, there will be no fear in my thoughts, a love connection will arise between me, the servant of God (name) and the servant of God (name) and it will only grow , yes to multiply. I will pray to God so that the necessary meeting will take place. Let it be so. Amen. Amen. Amen".

Will white magic help? They say that when performing white magic rituals, light forces help. They do not destroy a person's will, as dark forces do.

So, in order not to destroy a person’s will, white magicians offer to cast love spells. Here is one of them:

• cut a ripe apple in half,
• cut out the core, put a note with the name of your loved one,
• say the spell: “As this apple dries in the sun, so let the servant of God (name) dry for me.”
• saying the last words, tie both halves with threads, leave them in the sun, but so that no one can see.

As soon as the fruit dries, your suitor will immediately be inflamed with love for you. Just think a hundred times, do you need it?

Block one: start with yourself

Start with yourself and everything around you. Remember: everything that happens outside is a broadcast of your Self into the world around you.

№1. Practice attracting! Different traditions have different practices for attracting a soul mate. The most powerful time to energetically attract your soulmate is the full moon. It is at this time that a woman has enough strength to attract. Energetically, your man is somewhere, it is important to show the world that you are also ready to meet.

Where can I get an internship? For example, at the Academy, club lesson “Full Moon. Attracting your soulmate."

№2. First, determine who exactly you are looking for! There is a wonderful technique described in Larisa Renard’s book “Elixir of Love”. It is important to understand who you need, down to the smallest detail! The Universe does not see uncertainties, if you yourself do not understand what you want, who will decide for you? Now is the time to turn on adulthood and awareness, this is your life and your future.

№3. Turn to your experience, namely your relationship with your father. We all subconsciously look for men who are like our fathers. Dad wasn’t there, the relationship wasn’t close, you were over-loved by your father - all this resonates now. Working with a psychologist will help you understand how your relationship with your father affects you. Remember, now you are the creator of your life, you have the power to change everything.

Where can I work on my relationship with my father? At the training “The beauty of love. Condition: Girl.

№4. Arm yourself with a notepad and pen! Write down the scenarios of your relationships with men, find patterns, think about how you can avoid repeating mistakes, how not to deviate from the course of family well-being. Write your plan down on a separate sheet of paper and re-read it every day.

№5. Work on increasing your energy. Remember, strong men come from strong feminine energy. A woman attracts with her energy and fills space only from excess! Perhaps you don't have enough energy to live on your own. For example, you often get tired, nervous, irritated, sleep poorly, and so on. In this case, you do not have the energy to attract. Do filling practices to recover.

What activities will help you fill up with energy? Training “The Nature of Femininity: The Power of Feminine Energy” and master class “9 Ways to Fill Yourself with Energy.”

№6. Fill the second chakra, it is responsible for the Lover state. It is the fullness of this part of you, this state that is responsible for attraction, which means it will help you meet your soulmate faster. A man comes precisely to this state.

Work with the second chakra takes place in the training “Radiance of Passion. State Mistress.

№7. Get rid of blocks on the second chakra. Unsuccessful sexual experience, prohibitions, restrictions, strict upbringing and much more block the energy in this chakra, which means the energy of the Mistress is closed. You can work through the blocks using bodily practices, for example: “Orgasm reflex.”

№8. Learn to flirt. Flirting is an innate female characteristic. We all know how to do this. We know how to send signals to the man we like on an unconscious level. Yes, so that he catches the message and reacts to it. This is a formula for success. It's always the woman who starts flirting. You choose a man - you flirt - he is yours. Everything ingenious is simple! You can reveal your flirting talent at the “Flirting from A to Z” master class.

№9. Learn to seduce. Activate your energy, experience and flirting skills. At first he will appreciate you as an interlocutor, but, as you know, conversations alone will not satisfy you. Further according to the scenario, he will see you as a Mistress. But you need to be prepared for this. When he appears, there will be no time to study, and to study with the man of your dreams is, at the very least, a failure!

№10. Take care of your development! Practice shows that when a man appears, there will be less time for this. Explore new directions. This could be sports, art or reading books. Know that the wider your area of ​​interest, the better. More places where you can meet a man. More topics to discuss on first dates. And in general, by expanding your space, you become more interesting.

№11. Focus on your appearance. It is within your power to be stylish and well-groomed. The main thing is to be organic and special. After all, the first thing a man sees is your image, your gait. Be yourself, don't try to seem like someone else. Remember, men see in the big picture and rarely look at the details. The external conveys the internal; the more the appearance is congruent with the internal state, the more attractive the woman.

№12. Be self-sufficient! A man must understand that you need him not to solve financial and other problems, but for pleasure, to improve your life. A man, at the level of intuition or energy, feels why he is attracted to you. Believe me, no one wants to be a problem solver. I always attract interesting women with their own hobbies and professions. Self-realization and self-sufficiency are your ace in the hole. But be careful not to get too carried away.

№13. Learn to dream! A dreaming woman has a fire in her eyes that is noticeable from afar. A woman who knows how to dream can show a man what he can achieve with her. He will appreciate it. Men have always valued women's intuition and the ability to dream. Everyone knows that behind every great man there is a great woman. You can learn to dream and see the path in the club session “Gaining Clarity”.

№14. You know, to change the world around you, you need to start with yourself! Find your negative attitudes and beliefs about relationships, write them down in a notebook and start changing them. Every day, opposite one of the settings, write its positive interpretation. For example, change “I am not worthy of love” to a positive af. Of course, this is not an easy job, it is better to do it with a specialist. But you can try. If you want a deep study, come to the training “Why there are no relationships.”

№15. What are you afraid of? Our inner fears often control the outer space. For example, on the one hand, you want to find your love, but on the other, you are terribly afraid of it, because it hurts. At least you are sure of it. At this moment, the subconscious begins to protect you: “Why go where it hurts? It’s better to be alone, it’s safer,” it whispers. Do you know what I mean? We all have fears, but we can and should work with them. To begin with, it is important to see them and write them down on a piece of paper. Then you can contact a practitioner or specialist.

№20. Learn to be different, but harmonious in everything! Four elements rule the earth: fire, water, earth and air. Four states rule over a woman: Lover, Mistress, Girl and Queen. Learn to feel harmonious in all states. Reveal your true woman. Don't know where to start? Come to the first training on the six states - “The Nature of Femininity. The power of feminine energy."

№21. Learn to give thanks. Be truly grateful for everything. Learn to thank any man - a janitor for cleanliness, a concierge or security guard for safety, a taxi driver, a locksmith, any man. This is how you develop a skill. Men are dependent on the emotions that a woman conveys in sincere gratitude even for a small thing. He senses such women and strives to choose her.

№22. Let go of old connections! If the place in your heart is occupied by the former, where will the future come? If you are stuck in a past relationship, regret what didn’t work out, analyze the reasons and connections, look for a reason to meet, get upset when you learn good news about his life - you have no room inside for a new and happy life. It's hard to do, I know. Therefore, I recommend you special methods at the club lesson “Liberation from unnecessary connections” or at the transformation game “Radical Forgiveness”.

№23. Remember your past relationships and answer the question: “Are there any repetitions there? In events, people, images? If there are negative patterns, you need to avoid repeating them in the future. Now you know where the traps are placed, all you have to do is get around them. There are two options here. First: realize and see what happened. Sometimes it is possible to destroy a pattern simply by recognizing its existence. Second: work through negative scenarios with a specialist, because for some reason you are doing the same thing for the hundred and first time?

№24. Turn to your family, ask for blessings on your happy female destiny! Often we carry some kind of problems, unprocessed connections and experiences. It is important to receive the blessing of the family, and from there the energy for happiness. You can do this at the training “The Power of Confidence. State of the Mistress.”

№25. Find the love within. Feel in yourself and your body where your love lives. See how she looks, how she feels, talk to her. Ask what she wants now. Learn to hear it, listen and feel it. This will bring inevitable harmony, as well as many self-discoveries.

№26. Learn to love yourself. Increase your own importance in your own eyes and in the eyes of others. “Love your neighbor as yourself” is one of the most important covenants. We are loved as much as we love ourselves. If self-love does not live in us, we begin to demand it from others, getting upset and offended if they do not give it to us. But in this case, you are responsible for your love, there is no point in shifting it to someone else. A man is only a reflection of your love for yourself. Yes, don’t confuse self-love with selfishness! If you want to take this seriously, I recommend the Self-Esteem Course.

№27. Learn to love all people, and men in particular. The more love you give, the more you will receive! There is a wonderful practice: “I love this man.” The point is that you say this phrase to yourself when you meet anyone, even a man passing by. This is how you learn to look at anyone with love. Do this consciously for twenty-one days.

№28. Open your heart! Resentment, mistrust, betrayal - all this blocks the normal flow of energy at the level of the fourth chakra (heart). A woman with a closed heart does not give or receive love. The woman with a closed heart is similar to Kaya from the fairy tale “The Snow Queen,” but the one you are looking for is definitely not Gerda.

№29. Learn to be yourself! Nothing attracts men more than naturalness. Deliberately reproducing memorized phrases, poses and images has never helped anyone. Men feel unnaturalness and perceive it as deception. Therefore, even before meeting your prince, learn to naturally engage in a seductive state and be harmonious in it. Practice, practice and more practice.

№30. Study your body, learn to have fun and enjoyment! The woman is responsible for her pleasure, and the man takes this as his victory. This is aerobatics. And you can achieve it at the training “Radiance of Passion. State Mistress.

№31. Dive deeper into sex techniques! When it comes to relationships, your task will be to show a man your art, but this must be done gradually. Let him know that you are the best lover in the world, and there is no limit to this. Many people know how to give a man pleasure, but you are special, and your sex should be unique! You should start learning this right now, because when it appears, you will not have time for techniques, you must be ready. The Academy has a series of practical master classes, for example, “Body-Body Massage”.

№32. Learn to maintain a “take-give” balance. Having acquired this skill, you can not only become happy, but also preserve yourself without giving too much or, conversely, without being overwhelmed by what you have gained.

№33. Learn to smile. A sincere smile is a green traffic light for a man. A smiling girl is like a magnet: she attracts glances and attention. Even the saddest person will respond with a smile. Use this simple but effective tool everywhere.

№34. Pay special attention to your relationship with your mother. We unconsciously reproduce mother’s scenarios: her connection with men, her experience. It is mother who shapes our behavior strategy with men. Whether you like it or not. Therefore, it's time to sort everything out.

How to make a runic stave

With the help of runes you can also attract a mate. And the right bets will enhance each other’s effects. Now figure out what you need and choose a combination.

Becoming Kano-Gebo-Laguz helps girls meet a worthy man.

Kano-Gebo-Inguz formula is suitable only for men who want to build a long-term relationship.

Turisaz-Gebo-Vunyo - becoming an accelerated search for a suitable partner with whom you can have a long, happy relationship.

The combination Evaz-Gebo-Odal will help you get your husband back from your rival .

Numerology to help lonely people

How to know when you've found your person. Try by date of birth. Add up all the numbers for your birthday. Add the day of the week. This can be found on the Internet.

Let's take January 24, 1993. This date falls on Sunday. Add: 2+4+1+1+9+9+3+7 (seventh day) =36=3+6=9. That turns out to be 9. Now read its meaning.

1. Your soulmate has been around you for a long time, but you consider her a friend. She will be with you soon.
2. Meet your match on the road or at the hotel. At first you won't like the person. But then love will break out.
3. You will meet your person in the company of friends, at first you will just communicate, then you will date, then you will start living together.
4. You will fall in love either with the attending physician or there will be a relationship between a passenger and a conductor. The novel will be very beautiful: with romantic trips, a sea of ​​flowers, etc.
5. A friend will introduce you. You have already seen him, but did not suspect that this was your man.
6. The meeting will take place at some kind of special event or someone’s wedding. But the relationship will not develop so quickly.
7. Your person will not be free, you will have to fight for love.
8. The acquaintance will be via the Internet, then there will be dates. This man lives nearby.
9. This will be a strict boss. But an event will happen when you see complete compatibility with him.

How did you find your soulmate? There are a lot of stories on the Internet where you can learn about beautiful novels with continuations. The main thing is to believe and not lose hope.

Listen to Marina Targakova's lectures. Marina Targakova will help you find the right person and sort everything out. Very useful conversations!

In parting: there are many ways to find your soulmate, don’t despair, keep searching!

What not to do

The lack of personal life or the presence of a psychologically unsuitable person nearby can drive you into panic and push you to rash and thoughtless actions. Living, constantly focusing on finding a worthy couple, leads to neuroses and complete degradation of the personality, from whose life all the joys begin to disappear, and the attractive light from the eyes. Therefore, it is necessary to stop focusing all your activities around one topic.

Men can hang out in clubs all day long, chat on dating sites and flirt with all the girls; women are more likely to read a lot of advice and attend all available trainings on this topic. The outcome of such actions is the same - the tension in the context of personal relationships is so great that it scares away all potential candidates, and those who miraculously lingered soon discover that there is nothing to talk about with such a person.

Also, when searching for candidates, it is worth remembering to expand your circle of contacts, but at the same time strictly control this area. It is impossible to meet a quiet and obedient woman in nightclubs or a wealthy husband in a hippie party. Remember that when starting a relationship in a work environment with a person who spends most of his time at work, it is stupid to then demand increased attention from him.

When communicating in alcoholic groups, you should not be surprised that any problems that arise (which are normal for the development of relationships and when getting to know each other) will not be solved, but will be washed down. The optimal places will still be those where you are directly interested - this creates a common field of interests and predetermines some of the common values.

Having found a suitable candidate, many stop looking at the others, as if making a promise of fidelity in advance, often even before the start of the affair. This way you can ensure yourself long evenings of waiting, with a complete misunderstanding of the object that you gave yourself to him. The degree of seriousness should increase gradually, as should the degree of rapprochement, level of trust, amount of information and other development milestones.

By rushing to the first one you like, you can see those with whom you are really on the same path, so only a gradual rapprochement, while noticing others, can guarantee that you do not blindly plunge into the first, comfortable relationship. This also includes sudden weddings with insufficient understanding of who is in front of you. The reasons for the rush are varied - from a crazy surge of hormones to the logical understanding that age is not youthful and there is nowhere to wait. Such quick marriages are not only more likely to end in divorce, but do not even lead to a wedding, since the other person feels the need to move away, or even stop communicating with the one who is organizing such a fast and furious marriage.

Prayers

Prayer to the Lord:

“I bow to the ground to you, Lord, I resort to your help, I trust in you. Forgive me my sins and vices. Give pure, mutual love. I'm confused in a huge world, I can't find my betrothed among people. I hope in you, Lord, I ask for your help and assistance. Do not ignore my request. Amen".

Prayers of Xenia of St. Petersburg:

“Oh, all-blessed mother Ksenia! Having endured hunger and cold, thirst and heat. Living under the protection of the Lord, she is led and strengthened by the Mother of God. Forgive all my sins that I committed, voluntarily or unwittingly. Help, Saint Xenia, heal the sick, send down family happiness. I ask you, fill my heart with earthly love. Send a life partner who can illuminate our path with light. Bless, Mother Ksenia, our relationship, as predicted by heaven. In the name of the Father, and the Son, and the Holy Spirit. Amen".

A prayer to Nicholas the Wonderworker will lead to a meeting with your soul mate.

“Oh, Saint Nicholas, saint of the Lord, our intercessor in troubles and sorrow. Before your face, I ask you to grant forgiveness of my sins. Help me, the accursed one, ask our Lord to save me from ordeal and despondency. I ask you to grant your spouse a long life, to be treated with love and joy, and to take care of the children. Pray for us, Saint Nicholas, our Lord, to grant us a peaceful life and the salvation of our souls. Amen".

Prayer to Matrona of Moscow:

“Mother Matronushka, look into my heart. Help me find my betrothed, who is looking for me and toiling without love. Help me find someone I love and who will love me. I ask you, who have suffered, to humbly fall at the feet of our Lord, Jesus Christ. Ask him to grant me a family life. May the grace of God not leave us in our long-suffering vale. In the name of the Father, and the Son, and the Holy Spirit, now and ever, unto ages of ages. Amen".

Prayer to Peter and Fevronia - patrons of family and marriage.

“Oh, faithful Prince Peter and Princess Fevronia! I pray with hope and resort to your help. Offer prayers to our Lord and ask for goodness for me. For your intercession, I ask that our heavenly King grant prosperity in good deeds, unshakable piety, good hope, unfeigned love, and right faith. Amen".

Prayer to Paraskeva Friday will help you find a long-awaited couple and bring peace and love to the family:

“Mother Paraskeva, cover me as soon as possible!” “Holy bride of Christ, Great Martyr Paraskeva! You loved the Heavenly King with all your soul and heart, you were disheartened by our Savior, having distributed your property to the poor. Your chastity and piety shine like a ray of sunshine among the infidels; you fearlessly brought them the word of the Lord. I look at your icon with tenderness, I greet you, long-suffering Paraskeva. Pray to the Savior, the Lover of Humanity, that He may grant salvation and good mercy, patience and complacency in troubles. May you, through your intercession and intercession, grant prosperity and peaceful life, health and affirmation in the faith, and speed up your help in finding your betrothed and loved one. May He cleanse us sinners from filth. And, having secured salvation, through your prayers, intercession and representation, bride of Christ Paraskeva, let us glorify the most pure and wondrous name in the saints of the true God the Father, and the Son, and the Holy Spirit, always, now and ever, and unto the ages of ages. Amen".

Block two: find it

You already know yourself, you know what you need to be happy, you know how to be yourself and captivate men with just your glance. All that remains is to find HIM. We have already told you what helps to attract a successful man, but all this is meaningless if you close the door to happiness. Be open and ready for something new!

№35. Register on a dating site! This is a modern and relevant way to find your soul mate. Yes, yes, most candidates are not what you want. But. Firstly, this is training “on cats”. Secondly, what the hell is not joking. I know many couples who were created on such sites. Thirdly, men are lazy, and they don’t have time to search, so many prefer to meet people online. Do you want to close this door? Keep in mind, you have one less door.

№36. Create the right online image. Your profile should say a lot about you, but not everything. Tell us about your preferences and interests, what kind of relationship you are interested in. The more complete your information, the greater the chances of meeting him. If you can’t cope on your own, come to the master class “School of Flirting or Pick-up with Love.”

№37. Go on dates, even if you understand in advance that this is not your man. It is important to learn to communicate and exchange energies. The more men around you, the more attractive you are to others. Keep yourself on your toes. What if he’s the one who comes to the 101st date, and you’re not there!

№38. Don't refuse invitations to go on dates. This way you will show the universe that you are ready. Ready for something new, interesting and unusual. If you say “No” three times in a row, the universe will perceive it as a final “No”. Just remember this. Make yourself safe, comfortable and go!

№39. Always have business cards with you. Suddenly he suddenly appears, and there is nowhere to write down the phone number. A story from personal experience. One day I met him, the perfect man. I knew it was him, but I didn't know what to do. Then I gave him my business card and left. Now we are together!

№40. Be brave! There are no grades for this, and your life may be at stake. Remember, the first signal of readiness is always given by the female. Forget what mom said about those girls who take the initiative. Initiative within reasonable limits has never hurt anyone. If you want to learn how to do this environmentally, come to the “Dating in the Big City” master class.

№41. Make useful contacts - he will definitely appreciate it. Not all encounters lead to a loving relationship, but some of them can be rewarding. We already talked about a self-sufficient woman, remember? Be her, have useful contacts in stock. They may be useful to you, or they may be useful to him in the future. Remember in the movie “The Wedding Planner”? The main character always had in her purse what he needed at the right time. What if you have to save him, and this is how your relationship begins?

№42. Learn to manage your boundaries. Say “no”, don’t let just anyone into your life, leave room for the one you are waiting for. But remember, everything should be in moderation.

№43. Don’t create boundaries: handsome, smart, rich. Try it! After all, without trying, you limit your choice. An ugly person can turn out to be beautiful at heart, a stupid person can just pretend, a poor person can really surprise you. Every man has potential, but not every woman has the energy to develop it.

№44. Write a letter to your happy relationship. What are they like for you? Describe in detail. Just write with your heart, not your mind, and remember that thoughts are material. Start with: “Hello, my happy relationship! I am so glad that I have you! When I'm with you, I feel freedom, lightness and love. I am grateful to you for being so real.” Remember that any letters must be written in the present tense. Use descriptions of feelings, emotions, tastes, smells, sensations. Get creative!

№45. Place paired symbols in the southwestern part of the apartment. These could be elephants, kittens or any other animals, perhaps your totem ones, if you have any. By the way, mandarin ducks are said to bring love. It could also be a picture of a couple in love. The list is limited only by your imagination. It is necessary to remove all single objects from this area. No one has yet canceled the ancient techniques of Feng Shui. Try it.

№46. Go out into the world. No need to sit at home! Parties, cafes, meetings with friends, gyms, parks, walks - anything, as long as it’s in society. He himself will not come and ring your doorbell. But he may notice you among the others.

№47. Determine the places or communities where men of your category are most often found. It could be a restaurant, business club, gym, yacht club and much more. Remember, it’s unlikely to meet a doctor of science at a biker party, unless he’s a punk in his free time. Sign up or get to where the man of your dreams might be.

№48. Communicate more with your married friends and friends in relationships. Try on this energy, draw conclusions about what kind of relationships you want and which ones are best avoided. But don’t blindly transfer other people’s scenarios onto yourself. Your task is to receive an energy boost from observing happy families.

№49. Determine a strategy: note everything that needs to be done, how to prepare for the meeting with your other half. Let this be a detailed checklist with deadlines. Set your mind to make your dreams come true! Remember: everything has its time. Don't rush, don't rush yourself and events. A man will be found exactly at the moment when you least expect it.

№50. Reduce the importance of meeting your one and only. Of course, this does not mean that you should give up everything and not pay attention to your desire. This means that the more often you ask yourself, “Where is he,” the further away you are from your goal. This is how the laws of attraction work. You shouldn’t think every day that today he will come into your life. You set your own limits, and we have already said that this is not our topic. Work on yourself, live brightly, develop, be happy, don’t stand still. Sometimes it is important to let go of your desire and accept that everything will happen at the best time.

№51. Watch your thoughts. It is important to be in agreement with them, not to try to impose on yourself what you do not need. If you have painted yourself an image of an ideal man and written a plan, but mentally (or even out loud) you doubt that you can achieve this, then you risk greatly delaying the achievement of the result!