How to come across as a modest and well-mannered person


Cute girl character

  • To become sweet, you must first love the life around you, people and yourself. We must learn to be happy, find reasons for joy every day, and find inner harmony. Learn to be open to the world and happy with your life.
  • A sweet girl is always friendly and benevolent towards all people, regardless of whether the person is familiar to her or not. She treats people with respect, does not gossip about them, does not try to pretend to be someone just to please them. A sweet girl knows how to carry on a conversation, is sincerely interested in people, and knows how to give beautiful compliments. She is always sincere. Of course, it is impossible to become like this in one day; you need to slowly change yourself and strive for these positive qualities.
  • To be nice, you need to learn to be positive and smiling, but in moderation. No one will like a gloomy beech, but a constantly enthusiastic fool will not arouse sympathy either. We need to find a middle ground. Optimism and a sincere light smile should be present, but if the mood is really bad, there is no need to try to hide it by force - it will feel false, and it pushes people away. Just be calm in such moments, if necessary, be alone.
  • Sweet girl is not afraid to laugh and be funny. Laughter is a powerful weapon; it helps to win people over, brings them closer together, and evokes sympathy. Laugh sincerely more often, don’t be afraid to make others laugh.
  • Modesty is another important quality of a nice girl. A sweet girl will never walk around with an arrogant look, brag and do everything just to demonstrate that she is better than everyone else, while others are far from her. If a nice girl is smart and knows a lot, she will demonstrate this in the appropriate situation, but she will do it naturally and without the desire to show how cool she is. The opportunity to praise her sweet girl will be left to others. The modesty of a nice girl is also manifested in her manners of behavior and dress, we’ll talk about this a little later.

Femininity - what is it?

We are not taught about femininity at school, nor taught in our families. But it’s never too late to acquire this quality. To become feminine, you need to understand why this is needed at all, and then take action.

Someone wants to win the favor of men, someone wants to feel attractive in the family, and someone dreams of becoming a caring and gentle mother.

We often look at femininity through the eyes of men and strive to bring our image closer to the ideal. This is sensuality, tenderness, fragility, sincerity, fidelity. You want to protect and protect a girl with such qualities, take care of her, help her. Femininity can be external and internal.

If you decide to become feminine, you need to acquire some habits that concern not only your appearance, but are also reflected in your behavior.

Cute girl behavior

How to be nice in relationships with other people?

  • As we have already noted, the sweet girl is friendly towards others. This is manifested in a kind and warm look, a smile with which a sweet girl addresses another person. It is considered cute to look at another person with your head slightly lowered or slightly tilted to the side. There is no need to lift up the selections, as this will make the person look proud and arrogant.
  • The sweet girl speaks in a soft, pleasant and feminine voice. She doesn't scream or swear.
  • To become even sweeter in the eyes of others, you need to learn to smile and laugh modestly, and react correctly to awkward situations. There is no need to laugh loudly, opening your mouth with all your might and throwing your head back. A melodious and pleasant laugh will be much better. Sometimes, if you can learn it, you can cover your mouth with your hand when laughing. Just please learn to do it naturally! There are people who are used to laughing this way, and it looks very cute. If you have never laughed like that, but want to learn, be sure to make sure it looks natural. Watch yourself laugh. If you notice that your laughter is unnatural, it is better not to try to learn to laugh this way, otherwise you will look very stupid.
  • A nice person is not prone to negativity, he does not wish harm to others, therefore he never participates in dubious events, does not humiliate others, or insults. With other people, a nice person behaves well-mannered and politely, and does not lose his dignity even in a conversation with a boor. A nice person is not angry or envious.

How to become a gentle and elegant woman

A woman's elegance manifests itself in many ways. Elegance is part of etiquette. Be careful in everything you do. Pay attention to how you eat. How well do you know the rules of etiquette? At any moment you can find yourself in a society where it is needed. It’s one thing when you know the rules of etiquette, but you prefer to ignore them, and it’s completely different when you simply don’t know them.

If you want to look elegant, pay attention not only to clothes, but also to shoes. Choose the most feminine models in which you will feel comfortable. Allow yourself occasional shoes with heels, but if they are uncomfortable for you, wear elegant low-heeled models.

Do you think that you lack tenderness in your character? It can be developed. How to do it? At the very least, start watching romantic films and reading books about love. Read articles on relationships more often, read stories with a romantic twist.

Appearance of a cute girl

To be truly nice, you need to work not only on your character and behavior, but also on your appearance, because, as we all remember, people are met by their clothes. What does a cute girl look like?

  • The sweet girl is always clean, neat and tidy. She has clean beautiful hair, well-groomed skin, neat nails, etc. Personal hygiene must always be observed!
  • She doesn’t dress in baggy or incomprehensible clothes, but she doesn’t look too open and vulgar either. A sweet girl will never wear a too short mini or a jacket with a very low neckline. She wears comfortable and beautiful clothes that fit, skillfully harmonizing those things that highlight her figure. She knows how to look beautiful and charming in her outfit without trying to make it too revealing.
  • Cute girl doing natural hairstyles. She doesn't dye her hair thermonuclear colors, doesn't try to curl it like a doll or straighten it too much. She monitors the condition of her hair, prefers it to be natural, but not sloppy, so she combs it well, cuts it on time and styles it a little.
  • The sweet girl does not overuse makeup, uses decorative cosmetics to a minimum to make her face a little brighter. For makeup, she chooses the shades that suit her.
  • If we talk in general about the colors that a cute girl prefers to use for her appearance, then these will be soft tones. Calm and pleasing to the eye pastel colors and natural ones are what you need.

We've given you some tips on how to be a nice girl. I would also like to add a few important comments. Being nice does not mean being a holy angel, a nice girl also makes mistakes, she gets depressed, and she can also experience negative emotions in some situations. The difference is that a nice girl either hides her negative feelings or shows them, but gently, not aggressively. If she doesn’t like something, she won’t tolerate it to please others, but will calmly point out what doesn’t suit her, without causing scandals.

Also, don't try to be nice if it initially contradicts you. If you don't like the image of a cute girl, don't try to become one - no one will benefit from it anyway. You will feel uncomfortable, those around you will feel false, and they will be repulsed by it. In this case, be yourself and remember that there are many people, and everyone is different. There are also those who are more attracted to slightly rude girls, but like cute ones less. Everything is individual, so you shouldn’t suddenly change yourself to please others.

How to become a more feminine and well-groomed girl

It is impossible to become feminine without taking care of grooming. How to achieve it?

  • Daily shower
    . Is this point surprising? Many women neglect him. Maintain personal hygiene at all times. Choose suitable shower products - shampoo, gel, soap. It is important that they have a pleasant, unobtrusive aroma.
  • Skin care
    . Remember about moisturizer and body lotion. Smooth, pleasant to the touch skin is associated with femininity. Apply care products to your body and face. Choose creams according to your skin type. There is no point in using a cream that leaves your skin peeling or causing acne - choose the right products.
  • Nail care
    . Many women ignore nail care, believing that men do not pay attention to it. This is mistake. The interlocutor pays attention to your hands, just as you pay attention to him. Fingers should be well-groomed. This doesn't mean you should grow your nails long and paint them a bright color. They can be short and colorless - a clear varnish or a good manicure set is enough. Manicure is not about bright colors, but about well-groomed nails. Try to match your nail polish to your entire look. Clear varnish is often a safe bet.
  • Hair Styling
    . Pay attention to this daily. Comb your hair thoroughly and massage your scalp with a massage brush for better hair growth. Remember about styling. They don't have to be fancy - that's even unnecessary. Go for simple yet elegant hairstyles. Forget about bright elastic bands and hair clips if you have already graduated from school. Do you notice by the end of the day that your hair becomes greasy at the roots? You cannot ignore untidiness - if necessary, wash your hair every day, use dry shampoo. The oiliness of the roots is noticeable to you, which means it is also noticeable to those around you.
  • Experiment with hairstyles
    : braids, ponytails, elegant buns. This will help you become more feminine and well-groomed. Don't know how to do hair? Videos on the Internet will help you.
  • Remember about perfume, deodorant
    . An important point for a person who wants to become feminine. A pleasant, alluring, unobtrusive smell can attract a man to you, even if his back is to you. You think you don't need it and you smell good without it. This is often the opinion of people who do not feel their smell (this is natural), or who are embarrassed to tell about it.
  • Deodorant must be used daily; you can choose a fragrance-free option
    . It's minimum. It would be a good idea to choose a perfume that others will associate with you. Choose a pleasant and unobtrusive scent. Go to the store and “get to know” different scents. An important rule: perfume cannot be a substitute for soul; with this approach, disaster awaits you - do not think that others will not notice your “trick”. Perfume is applied exclusively to clean body or clothing in small quantities. How to apply? On pulse points: wrists, neck, area behind the ears. The subtle aroma of perfume should be noticeable to the interlocutor only when he is directly next to you. Surely, you have heard the rule: if you smell a pronounced aroma of perfume on yourself in the evening, then others have already managed to suffocate.
  • Makeup
    . Many women want to be “natural”, so they ignore decorative cosmetics. This is not always a plus. A little makeup is enough to significantly improve your appearance. In addition, decorative cosmetics have a protective function. If you have expressionless eyebrows, eyelashes, or uneven complexion, then at least a light CC cream, mascara and eyebrow pencil will save the situation. Practice applying light, weightless makeup. If you are ready to go beyond the listed cosmetic set, then choose a shade of blush, eye shadow and lipstick that suits your color type. If you do not want to look like a clown or evoke other undesirable associations, maintain moderation in applying cosmetics.
  • Language of the body
    . Freeze right now! Evaluate your posture from the outside? Can we call her graceful, elegant, feminine? It is important to maintain posture and grace. A woman who walks with a straight back, does not slouch, does not mince when walking, does not keep her hands in her pockets, does not constantly look at the floor, makes an appropriate impression. Do you know how to present yourself correctly, move beautifully, or are you constrained and constrained?
  • Learn to control your own body and attract men with grace
    . Is the lifeless statue about you? Give up this image! Gesture, forget about static. Work on your gait and your usual postures, analyze how you look from the outside.

How to become cute?

Despite the fact that the image of a bitch is becoming increasingly popular among women, although it is attractive to the male half of humanity, it is only in the distant future. About ladies who are distinguished by their independence, bright appearance and emancipation, you often hear that you could get to know her, but, as a rule, it rarely comes to acquaintance. This is explained by the fact that women of this type have a frightening and, in a sense, even repulsive effect on the stronger sex. After all, winning the sympathy of a beautiful woman distinguished by her remarkable intelligence is quite difficult, and keeping her near you, withstanding the pressure of competitors, is even more difficult. That is why men prefer simply sweet and modest girls.

How to become cute and be the center of male attention? How can you learn to behave in such a way that men will love you and women will treat you favorably? Being nice is a huge advantage, because no one will be jealous of you, as happens with strong women. On the contrary, people will be drawn to you, because cute girls are wonderful daughters, girlfriends, and later wives.

It is generally accepted that a person can be judged by his behavior. Of course, the first impression is formed “by clothes”, i.e. by appearance. However, even the biggest shy person, thanks to her character, speech, and behavior, can be the soul of the party. In the same way, no appearance will help a smug and stupid girl take leading roles in the team.

In order to become nice, you need to learn to communicate with others without falsehood. Try to treat everyone kindly. Don't start your sentences with expressions that have strong negative connotations, such as “I'm terribly annoyed. ", "I just hate it. "and the like. Such expressions can turn people away from you. This does not mean that you should not express your dissatisfaction, just learn to do it softer and more tactfully.

Never engage in gossip. After all, in any society the attitude towards gossips is negative. Each of your friends will suspect you that behind her back you are washing her bones in the same way.

Watch your speech, diction, tone of voice. Your speech is of great importance. A pleasant and melodious female voice makes its owner more attractive in the eyes of the opposite sex. Try not to speak in a raised voice, and especially don’t break out into a scream - this will only push you away. And vice versa, everyone will try to listen more carefully to your measured, quiet speech. It goes without saying that your personal dictionary should not contain profanity or simply rude words.

Your gait, posture, and gestures deserve no less close attention. When walking, try to take small steps and avoid swinging your arms. Every move you make should be imbued with femininity. Don’t try to show off all your bulges, because it looks not only not beautiful, but also vulgar.

What else can help a girl with the question of how to become nice? Try to make sure you don't look vulgar. You should not use too bright makeup and cosmetics, and also do not allow hairdressers to conduct crazy experiments on your hair. A huge neckline and a practically non-existent skirt will also not help you. If your appearance is too revealing, it may make others wary of you.

Use these simple rules

Rule #1. A girl should not play to the public, she should be natural. You shouldn't be too modest either. Rule #2. The most important thing to consider when talking is that a girl should be able to listen and not interrupt. Thus, she will not only not lose her charm, but will also arouse the interest of her interlocutor. If a girl learns to listen, then the interlocutor will also listen to her. Rule #3. A girl can be a very interesting and multifaceted personality. This is precisely what may interest the interlocutor, and the girl in his eyes will look very charming and attractive. A girl should have some kind of “zest” that will interest a person. And if she is also interested in some kind of sport or creativity, then she can tell him about her hobbies. And if the interlocutor is interested in this, then the girl will be especially charming at this moment.

Rule #4. A girl should also be not indifferent to other people and their interests. Thus, she leaves a pleasant impression on the people around her. It is very important that the girl looks the person in the eyes during the conversation and lets him know that she is listening to him carefully. But you shouldn’t turn away and avert your eyes to the side, otherwise the interlocutor will think that the girl is not interested in him. Rule #5. It’s good if a girl is able to support her interlocutor, show sympathy, understand him and even help him in some way. Especially, support is necessary if a person has shown himself in some new activity. Rule #6. It is equally important that the man and the girl have common interests and views. After all, common topics of conversation make communication easier and more interesting. Rule #7. Don’t hold a grudge against people, all the negativity will be reflected on the face, then the girl will definitely not look charming. Why destroy your nervous system? Rule #8. The feeling of sincerity has a special charm. When a girl admires, praises, approves, and compliments another person - and does it all sincerely, then she looks sweet and good-natured.


Rule #9. How unpleasant it is to listen to a person who constantly complains about something and is always dissatisfied with something. A girl shouldn't complain about fate. Just like imagining that everything is fine with her, but in fact it’s the other way around. Rule #10. If a person criticizes himself and his actions, the girl must convince him of this. If he calls himself stupid, you need to make it clear that this is not at all true. Rule No. 11. If a girl knows how to admit her mistakes, then this is a very good and pleasant quality. Those around you will appreciate this quality and will treat the girl with great respect. There are few people who know how to admit their mistakes.

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