How to love your daughter? I have completely different feelings for my son.

In the lives of each of us there are people who are endlessly dear to us. These are parents, a loved one, children, true friends. And how difficult it is sometimes to gather our thoughts and at a crucial moment say why we love them so much. Do you know what you need to do to avoid getting into trouble in the future? We invite you to play “100 Reasons Why I Love You” - this is an original and very easy to implement idea. We will help you create a list of frank confessions for every person dear to your heart right now!

“100 reasons: why I love you” to my beloved

In a relationship with your other half, sooner or later there comes a moment when it seems as if you have known this person for an eternity. He is always there, there are no secrets from him, and you love him because he simply is, so dear and unique. How to choose the words to show your loved one the full strength of your feelings? It's actually not difficult at all! We bet that all the confessions from our list of “100 reasons why I love a guy” will hit the mark?

So let's get started:

1. You have a charming smile.
2. Only you can tell such funny jokes.
3. You surprisingly subtly capture all the notes of my mood.
4. You know how to give mind-blowing compliments.
5. It’s interesting to make plans for the future with you.
6. I love hearing stories from your childhood.
7. I trust your taste in everything unconditionally.
8. I'm not afraid of anything with you.
9. I'm never bored when you're around.
10. It's nice to be quiet with you.
11. Only you can look so stylish in the most ordinary clothes.
12. Your coffee in bed is always special.
13. You conquered my friends with your charm.
14. It's interesting to watch movies with your comments.
15. You're a great kisser.
16. I like the way you gobble up my pancakes on both cheeks.
17. Only you know how to find the right words when my soul is heavy.
18. With you I feel like an exceptional beauty.
19. You are a wonderful lover.
20. When I'm sick, your hugs help as much as pills.
21. You always give me good advice.
22. You are so caring that sometimes I feel like a little girl.
23. You are a good listener.
24. I'm not afraid to be funny when we're alone.
25. You expand my horizons.
26. I trust you completely.
27. I like that you can admit your mistakes.
28. I am sure that no matter what happens, you will always be by my side.
29. I love relaxing with you outside the city.
30. I like that you understand me perfectly.
31. You always turn a blind eye to my whims.
32. I feel how much you love me, even when we are at odds.
33. You never give me a reason to be jealous of you.
34. I love all the affectionate nicknames you give me.
35. I don't have to pretend around you.
36. I appreciate that you put up with my mischievous cat.
37. You never criticize me.
38. Your signature cocktails are incredible!
39. You always kiss me sweetly goodbye.
40. Stubble on your cheeks makes you look incredibly sexy.
41. You have an unusually contagious laugh.
42. Your hastily made sandwiches are better than any delicacy.
43. It’s not a problem for you to give me flowers for no reason.
44. You always motivate me to succeed.
45. You are the most faithful friend.
46. We like the same music.
47. I can chat with you about everything in the world.
48. You always take a moment to hug me, even when you are very busy.
49. You have proven more than once that you are a man of your word.
50. Everyone around says that you and I are the perfect couple.
51. I often dream about you.
52. You don't get mad at me if I'm moping for no reason.
53. I can't stay mad at you for long.
54. After meeting you, my life became brighter.
55. I'm not ashamed to ask you about what I don't know.
56. You have almost no bad habits, and those that exist do not prevent me from loving you more every day.
57. You often call me for no reason, just to hear my voice.
58. You always notice important and interesting details in everything.
59. You introduce me to sports.
60. You are ready to support me when I am on a strict diet.
61. I really appreciate that you accept me for who I am.
62. It turns me on when you're jealous of me.
63. You are selfless towards others.
64. You are ready to go to the store even at night if I suddenly want something tasty.
65. You love sushi as much as I do.
66. You manage money wisely.
67. You are not afraid of my hours of shopping.
68. You put up with my lack of punctuality.
69. You believe that once again I have nothing to wear.
70. It's not scary to look into the future with you.
71. Loving you makes me a better person.
72. Meeting you is the most wonderful event in my life.
73. It was only thanks to you that a real woman woke up in me.
74. You're not greedy.
75. No psychotherapist in the world knows how to console as you do.
76. Sharing one blanket with you for two and listening to your favorite music on long winter evenings is real bliss.
77. Thank you for forgiving me of my shortcomings.
78. You managed to make friends with my parents - that's great.
79. You are not shy about asking for forgiveness.
80. The massage you perform is incomparable.
81. Our first date was the most romantic I've ever been on.
82. I am proud that you are the soul of any company.
83. You take such touching care of me when I am sick!
84. I love watching you drive your car confidently.
85. You have unusually kind eyes.
86. You always support me in any of my endeavors.
87. It was only thanks to you that I appreciated the beauty of forays into nature with a tent.
88. I can't imagine my future without you.
89. You respect your elders.
90. Thanks to you, all the plumbing in my house works properly.
91. In every difficult situation, you always have several backup options.
92. I know that you give in to me when we play checkers.
93. You amazingly combine the habits of a gentleman and a hooligan.
94. I love watching old comedies in your company.
95. I'm glad that you are interested in my hobby.
96. I'm ready to eat your signature dish for breakfast, lunch and dinner.
97. You always take my opinion into account.
98. You know how to cheer me up.
99. You are brave and courageous.
100. There is only one best man in the world and he belongs to me!

Ideal love

Let's start with a statement: it's easy for men to love their daughters. Why? First of all, with them they can build an almost ideal model of relationships. At first, dad “unilaterally” cares, patronizes, protects, teaches, while being the strongest, smartest and most authoritative person from the adult world. Then, when the daughter grows up, she, in turn, begins to take care of her father, and the man ceases to be only adored and needed, but becomes the object of touching and tender attention... At the same time, the established relationship allows the father from time to time to go into his life, work, leaving her daughter in the care of her mother, and not feeling either guilt or the need to sort things out. That is, to remain... free! Tell me, isn’t this the dream of all men?

Nowadays, daughters are no longer a burden that needs to be entrusted to their husband as profitably and quickly as possible. Dads no longer have to choose their life partners; they don’t have to separate from their daughter or give her to someone else’s family. Of course, to some extent, these issues still concern men, but they are not perceived as fatally and unambiguously as before.

It is easier for men to love daughters than sons, because a woman is the only creature to whom you can express your love without fear of condemnation. Moreover, a girl, unlike a boy, does not need to be taught to hide her feelings.

Moreover, Dad is not burdened with the burden of his own shortcomings. In his son, the father first of all sees himself, his continuation, and therefore his weak points. To change this attitude towards a child, you need to learn to see another person in the boy and thereby allow him to go through his own path, without being distracted by correcting the mistakes that his father once made, and not finishing what his dad didn’t finish... But even if a man treats his son correctly and wisely, he still has to put up with some of his habits, which he, perhaps, would happily not notice, but sees in his son, as in a mirror. With a daughter, a man feels freer (he does not risk facing his own imperfections), and it is easier for him to become a good father for her.

“100 reasons: why I love you” to a girl

The beautiful half of humanity loves with their ears, so compliments are of great importance for women. To make a good impression on a girl, you don’t need to spend hours practicing eloquence, just be sincere. What kind words will win the heart of your beloved lady?

1. I was speechless when I saw you for the first time - this is a sign that our meeting was not accidental.
2. You are different every day.
3. You are incredibly feminine.
4. No one has ever looked at me as kindly as you do.
5. I am thrilled by every touch of your gentle hands.
6. You smell divine!
7. Your ringing laughter always lifts my spirits.
8. You are flexible and graceful, like a wild cat.
9. You are a wonderful conversationalist.
10. You are an amazing beauty, other girls fade next to you.
11. You always find the right words to support me.
12. I'm ready to chat with you all night long.
13. You, like me, dream of traveling the whole world.
14. You encouraged me to study a foreign language.
15. You often come into my dreams.
16. I like the playful nicknames we call each other.
17. I am ready to sell my soul for your pies and cakes.
18. You introduce me to beauty.
19. I love watching you twirl in front of the mirror.
20. You enjoy my small gifts like a child.
21. You are a wonderful housewife and love cleanliness.
22. You have an excellent imagination and I am never bored with you.
23. You teach me to find compromises.
24. With you I have become more flexible.
25. You're collecting “Love is...” chewing gum inserts. That's so cute.
26. You have calligraphic handwriting.
27. You introduce me to reading classical literature.
28. I always learn something new from you.
29. No matter what happens, I will always guard your safety.
30. I love it when you rest your head on my shoulder.
31. You are the same lover of “silent” hunting as I am.
32. You follow the latest fashion trends and are always dressed to the nines.
33. You turn a blind eye to all my shortcomings.
34. You know how to very gently prove that you are right.
35. You calmly admit your mistakes.
36. When I hug you, it seems to me that the whole world is in my hands!
37. You will never pass by a hungry dog ​​or kitten.
38. You readily respond to all my suggestions.
39. I think you are my soul mate.
40. There are no more wonderful people in the world like you!
41. I am ready to admire your sweet smile for an eternity.
42. I don't doubt your loyalty.
43. I can only envy your optimistic attitude.
44. When I met you, I thought about children for the first time.
45. I'm sure you will be the best mom in the world.
46. You have no flaws.
47. I can spend hours telling my friends how awesome you are.
48. You give me fantastic nights.
49. You sincerely rejoice at my successes and achievements.
50. You take care of me like a mother.
51. I love it when you sit next to me and strands of your hair tickle my shoulder.
52. I'm glad you became friends with my parents.
53. I'm losing my head from your kisses.
54. I’m ready to watch your favorite romantic comedies 100 times with you.
55. You're not obsessed with money.
56. You don't know how to be offended for a long time.
57. You always say what you think.
58. It’s nice not only to talk with you, but also to just be silent.
59. You are fiery and passionate.
60. You prepare very tasty and satisfying breakfasts.
61. You often call for no reason and say how much you miss me.
62. You shared with me all my sorrows and failures.
63. I feel lost when you're not around.
64. You have beautiful, literate speech and I can listen to your stories for hours.
65. It seems to me that you read my thoughts!
66. You are a living encyclopedia of various interesting facts.
67. You remember important dates and always remind me of them.
68. Your beautiful figure motivates me to go to the gym regularly.
69. Makeup turns you into a femme fatale...
70. ... and without makeup you look touching and defenseless.
71. I love your culinary experiments.
72. All the wonderful moments of my life are connected with you.
73. We have many common interests.
74. When I met you, I had a lot of grandiose plans for our future together.
75. Helping others is a natural reaction for you.
76. You are a pathologically honest person.
77. You have an explosive character, but you quickly come to balance and such a “roller coaster” suits me perfectly!
78. For the first time in my life, my relationships are built on absolute trust in a person. Thank you for this.
79. I have known you for several days, but I am constantly discovering something new in you. This is amazing!
80. You are sympathetic to my outings into nature in a group of men.
81. You surround me with care and affection when I am sick.
82. You respect other people's opinions.
83. You believe in me and that’s why I’m ready to conquer any peak.
84. My whole life is not enough for me to admire you enough.
85. I love wandering around the evening city, holding your hand tightly.
86. From your lips my name sounds like music.
87. You are my most faithful friend.
88. You know how to find positive moments in any difficult situation.
89. You are my most amazing experience in life.
90. I must have done a lot of good deeds in my past life if I got such a luxurious woman like you in this life.
91. I love it when you organize parties - you have amazing organizational skills.
92. You are a born diplomat.
93. I dream that in my later life I will buy a house by the sea and spend the rest of my days with you in this paradise.
94. I remember the day I met you down to the smallest detail.
95. I want our future daughter to be an exact copy of you.
96. You keep a close eye on my health.
97. All my friends like you - I'm even a little jealous!
98. For me, you are the eighth wonder of the world.
99. Next to you I feel like a real man.
100. I want to give you my last name.

Relationship stages

At 2-4 years old, a girl begins to understand that she is a woman, that a man and a woman are not the same thing, and that there is a special relationship between them. Usually, having made this discovery, the daughter invites her dad to marry her... This is a very important point that requires the man to behave correctly. In fact, the girl tells you the following: “I am a woman, you are a man, we love each other, and a man and a woman who love usually get married.” If at this moment the father explains to his daughter that he is absolutely hopeless for her as a sexual object, but there are other men in the world who can become close to her (and this will not in any way prevent the father from still loving her), then he will thereby give her “permission” to love and happiness in adulthood. If the father avoids such conversations or laughs it off, the girl may find herself in a difficult situation: she will find out that there are other men, but she will not understand whether her father allows her to love them. By the way, if the father has serious internal reasons that prevent him from “letting go” of his daughter, then the girl will subsequently have a subconscious confidence that she can allow herself to fall in love only after quarreling with her father!

No less important moral support should be provided to the girl in adolescence, when there comes a moment of dissatisfaction with her body, face, and appearance. At this time, she expects “instrumental” help from her mother (what to say and in what situations, how to dress, why to smile), and from her father, as usual, love and tenderness. She is frightened by the changes that happen to her body, she is not sure that she will grow up beautiful, so she needs you to hug her, kiss her, touch her more often. Otherwise, the girl may be tempted to seek confirmation of her attractiveness in sexual contacts.

It often happens that growing daughters frighten their fathers with their sexual attractiveness, and, instead of showing them their admiration, men begin to quarrel with them, find fault with them over trifles, and push them away in every possible way. To avoid such a reaction, you must understand that there is nothing abnormal in the fact that you began to like your daughter as a woman. On the contrary, it is completely natural. Nature has not provided any laws that would prevent incest, but the degree of human civilization is determined not by the absence of instincts, but by the ability to handle them. A girl needs your admiration for her as a woman, otherwise she will not want to grow up or will constantly seek confirmation of her attractiveness from other men.

“100 reasons: why I love you” to my husband

A spouse is a person whom we consciously invite to be our companion in life. And if the choice is made correctly, the beloved becomes our second self. Common everyday life sometimes drowns out feelings, so confessing your love to your closest person can be oh so difficult! To make your task easier, we offer a universal list of “100 reasons why I love you” for your husband:

1. During all the time that we have been together, you have become the dearest person on earth to me.
2. Your opinion is the most authoritative for me.
3. It seems to me that your voice sounds more pleasant than any music.
4. You listen carefully to all my ideas, even if they are frankly crazy.
5. For your sake, I am ready to watch all the football matches, although I know nothing about football.
6. I'm not afraid of anything when you're near.
7. You always remember the dates of important events in our family.
8. You gave (will give) me our wonderful children.
9. I will never forget how you protected me from a bully. You are my hero!
10. You're so cute when you sleep!
11. You are very kind.
12. You are my guide in this huge world.
13. Your criticism of me is always constructive.
14. You always sincerely praise my cooking.
15. You heroically tolerate the company of my bosom friends.
16. I always melt under your tender kisses.
17. You still look at me with admiration, just like the day we met.
18. You love messing with kids. This is so touching!
19. You always know what gift I dream of receiving from Santa Claus for the New Year.
20. You convinced me of my uniqueness.
21. Together with me, you without hesitation embark on any adventure.
22. I'm not ashamed to cry when you and I watch a melodramatic film.
23. Thanks to you, my vocabulary is regularly replenished with new words: “jig”, “starter”, “underdog”.
24. You are happy to listen to my thoughts about the book you read.
25. You are open and very sincere.
26. I'm not ashamed to admit my fears to you.
27. You will never betray me.
28. We are both night owls and like to sleep longer in the morning.
29. You are happy to take on part of the care of the children.
30. You have golden hands.
31. You prefer me to your car.
32. You masterfully find compromises in any dispute.
33. I miss you madly, even if we part for one day.
34. When I think about how I would live if we had not met, I get scared.
35. You say nice words to me every day.
36. You have an excellent sense of humor.
37. Together we went through fire, water and copper pipes.
38. I know you will do everything so that I don’t need anything.
39. You are very strong.
40. I love playing board games with you for hours on end.
41. True bliss is listening to you sing with a guitar.
42. You masterfully avoid any conflict.
43. You taught me to whistle!
44. You religiously observe all family traditions.
45. I'm sure it was you that I dreamed about when I was a little girl. You are my prince!
46. Nobody understands me as well as you.
47. On our wedding day we were the most wonderful bride and groom.
48. In terms of dexterity and courage, you will give odds to any medieval knight.
49. You are the most tender lover in the world.
50. Only next to you did I understand what it was like to be a weak woman.
51. I am pleased to be in company with you.
52. You are my source of inspiration.
53. You serve as the best example to our children.
54. You always keep your emotions under control.
55. You are a very multifaceted personality.
56. You confidently solve all problems yourself.
57. You are easy going.
58. You have a wonderful figure and you look great in any clothes.
59. The books you advise me to read are the most interesting.
60. You often confess your love to me.
61. Over the years, my passion for you grows stronger.
62. I am sure that one after another we will go to the ends of the world.
63. I am flattered that you have a reputation as a caring family man.
64. You taught me to be purposeful.
65. I regret that I didn't meet you earlier.
66. I'm not afraid to grow old next to you.
67. You have excellent manners and treat me like a lady of high society.
68. With your nobility you conquered me once and for all.
69. Even after... years of family life, I instantly get turned on by your touch.
70. You try to notice only my best qualities.
71. Time spent with you always flies by.
72. You are a rational person and a good analyst. I like your objective view of the world.
73. Sometimes I can’t take my eyes off you - you’re so beautiful.
74. I enjoy walking with you in any weather.
75. If I had a chance to live another life, I would want to spend it with you.
76. You always leave the most delicious piece for me.
77. You sincerely rejoice at my successes.
78. You spoil me often.
79. I don't know how you put up with me when I'm out of sorts!
80. I love it when you make breakfast on the weekends.
81. All my thoughts are occupied with you when you go on a business trip.
82. You never skimp on replenishing my wardrobe.
83. You can fool around like a child, and that's great.
84. You quit smoking for me.
85. My parents see you as a son.
86. You are my greatest gift in life.
87. You always console me when I'm in a bad mood.
88. You saw me in different ways: not getting enough sleep, sick, without makeup, irritated, crying. But you continue to love me despite everything.
89. You take an interest in my affairs every day.
90. You are very polite.
91. I'm filled with bliss when you massage my feet.
92. You never refuse when I suggest going shopping.
93. You are open to everything new.
94. You always show interest in my hobbies.
95. You and I are an ideal couple according to the horoscope.
96. We like the same films.
97. For your sake, I want to become better.
98. Thanks to you, I don’t know what gray everyday life is.
99. Looking at you, I believe that we will live happily ever after.
100. Many people can only dream of a husband like you!

Twenty manifestations of love for your daughter

I have been planning this work for a long time - ever since we wrote “The Ability to Love,” one of the tasks of which was to write “Twenty Manifestations of Love for a Woman.” It turned out to be a great assignment - very creative and inspiring. The series about my daughter turned out to be just as interesting and useful - I recommend it to everyone who has children. And even more so for those who have them)).

Need to say. after reflecting on the task “Asian and European education”, as well as watching the film “Yours, Mine and Ours” with comments, information for reflection was added - which, in fact, helped the work to finally take shape.

So - twenty manifestations of love for your daughter. He started, of course, like a normal dad, with maternal love)). However, I also didn’t forget about my father’s, and in the end it turned out 10 to 10.

1. Tell your daughter that I love her and respond to her words of love.
2. Set aside at least 30 minutes a day for communication in various forms.
3. Respond to requests for help if there is time for this, and help is really needed.
4. Watch your speech in communication - give only positive suggestions. After NLP and Erickson, you understand especially clearly how important this is!
5. Know what your daughter likes, and from time to time buy it for her just like that, as a surprise.
6. Cooking her favorite dishes from time to time is best with her.
7. Call and write to her from business trips.
8. Celebrate and encourage the results of her work and creativity, give positive developmental feedback.
9. Give enough physical contact - hugs, touches.
10. Be sincerely interested in her affairs, mood, well-being, plans. Remember the answers.
11. Teach my daughter the skills of housekeeping, maintaining order...
12. Gently, but persistently and regularly enforce the rules adopted in the family.
13. Teach the rules and skills of communication with peers and adults.
14. Help in choosing an activity of interest and in engaging in this activity)).
15. Achieve regular physical activity and correct posture.
16. Help develop the habit of proper nutrition, monitor compliance with a healthy diet.
17. To form a healthy system of life values, to motivate for harmonious development.
18. Form artistic taste, influence the choice of books, films, music, television programs. Sing good songs together.
19. Monitor your daughter's use of the computer and the Internet.
20. Teach proper rest and help organize it.

Once again, I note that the task is extremely useful precisely by the process of its creation. Therefore, if the idea seems worthwhile to you, do not rewrite my list. Sit down and think about yours.

I think this exercise will also be useful in conducting consultations on the relationship between children and parents - it makes parents think and provides extensive diagnostic information to the consultant.

I will be glad to receive comments, feedback and suggestions on the topic.

Video from Yana Schastie: interview with psychology professor N.I. Kozlov

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