Payment for emancipation or “all men are assholes”
We watch how you take your wheels off the road and open your doors. And, even when we are nearby, you call the waiters in the restaurant. Thus, you kind of make it clear to everyone: he is not able to do even such a basic thing.
And we ask ourselves: why do you need a man if you get along just fine without us?
When you want to protect yourself from a woman
You require our care and protection. But we, hearing streams of accusations from you, like “all men are goats,” want to defend ourselves from you...
You sometimes deprive us of such a basic right as courtship. Get straight to the point of sex.
You show a democratic modern approach to gender equality, what else. We are, of course, happy.
True, then we don’t understand why you demand from us a relationship at a different level. After all, according to the rules of the game, sex is just sex.
And again, “all men are assholes, they only need one thing from us”...
It's important to be yourself
The question is not what quality you need to develop in yourself. In fact, for every woman there is always a man who will love her exactly as she is.
And if you are a strong woman, then most likely a man who knows how to support will suit you. The most important thing in a relationship is harmony, mutual understanding, trust, respect.
Most often, women do not have enough knowledge of how to build relationships correctly, they do not have enough self-love in order to competently apply this knowledge.
“Well,” you say, “self-love again!” Yes it is.
The point of self-love is to accept yourself as you are. See the qualities that help you, and also those that hinder you.
If you know yourself, you can consciously manifest and enhance what helps you and minimize what prevents you from achieving your goals.
Why is it easier for you “I myself”, and for us - with phytonyas
“I myself”... You so actively demonstrate to us men your independence.
Then why do you feel lonely and complain?
Who can compete with successful women?
The Internet is full of articles by women flaunting their strength, with lots of enthusiastic responses from fans. It is discussed how petty and primitive men are, how they do not reach the level of modern, worthy women.
And over a bottle of wine with the same strong-worthy-lonely people, you make fun of men with all your might. After all, those “out of weakness” choose domestic lapdogs.
And these are not particularly educated girls, often not burdened with intelligence. Their only advantage, in your opinion, is their beautiful appearance.
“I bought it and I’m riding it” - is this something that interests thinking men?
Objectively, it must be admitted that due to low self-esteem, men really often choose phytonyash.
Like an expensive car, expensive watch and other attributes of success - “I bought it and drove it.”
But normal, thinking men are not interested in such primitive girls. Just like you - complex, strong, successful women. Why? Too difficult...
She knows how to communicate
The ability to communicate is one of the most interesting qualities of strong women.
They are not afraid to face difficult life situations and are not silent about their feelings.
Such women speak confidently and directly. It seems that they are ready for absolutely any reaction. They seek solutions through intelligent dialogue.
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Listen to what you say about us?
- “The man has gone the wrong way.”
- “All men are assholes and weaklings.”
- Or is it a humiliating “man”...
Do you really think that, feeling this disdainful attitude, a man will rush to convince you: I’m not like that? No, honey.
It is much more pleasant to communicate with someone who is naively waiting for a prince. It’s better to prove to her that I am her prince. “What do you call the ship,” you know?
Independence that kills
You not only don’t know how to ask a man for help, you don’t even give him the opportunity to show initiative and care.
You carry the weights yourself - sometimes you can’t even tear the heavy bag out of your hands!
- You are desperately trying to make money on equal terms, you are fighting with us in the harsh conditions of a male business.
- Don't believe in your man or think you can do it better?
And if our woman doesn’t believe in us, our wings drop.
Besides, it’s very convenient - why, if you do everything yourself.
Look, you're just robbing us of our right to feel powerful.
Changed? Don't worry - let's do it again
A strong woman forgives her husband for infidelity and, gritting her teeth, drags her life and children on her shoulders. Do you know that while you forgive us for cheating, we shamelessly cheat?!
This is low and does not justify us. But impunity inspires!
If you had put out your husband’s suitcases after the first betrayal, there wouldn’t have been a second time! Remember, you endure, we use...
Will there be a strong man next to a strong woman?
You nag and itch. You insult people. You interrupt and prove that you are right in public.
This is disrespect and neglect!
And you want SUCH a man to be strong, your protection and wall?! You, like a flag, carry your strength, you drink alcohol just like us. And then you bite your teeth into treating yourself like a weak girl?...
I'm sorry, but you don't make me want to protect you, rather, to protect myself FROM you.
When your choice is life behind barbed wire
Out of pain and loneliness, you convince everyone around you and begin to believe yourself: it’s SO more comfortable for you to be strong. And we believe you. And you fence yourself off with an even larger fence with barbed wire.
- You are self-sufficient in your strength.
- You work like a man.
Remember, even if you are dressed femininely, your “strength” is betrayed by a prickly look and a man’s fast gait.
They forgive but never forget
Women know better when to forgive. They understand that forgiveness is a gift, but they give it not to the person who hurt them, but rather to themselves.
Like from an expensive coffee shop: making an orange Frappuccino
I turn a juicy melon into a refreshing drink: healthy and very tasty
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Strong women see forgiveness as the key that helps them release their anger. Without this, they would have to remain in their prison created by this anger, and this leads to unhappiness. They learn from their mistakes, but do not step on the same rake twice.
Women will be saved by... harmony
Harmony in a feminine way is not a search for compromise, where one gives in and the other tolerates or attacks.
This is a search for a balanced solution that benefits both.
This is how your, female, thinking differs from our, male, linear one. It is so important when initially contradictory energies coexist harmoniously. It's in your nature
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find harmony and balance in everything!
Strength is in your weakness!
When you purr like a cat, you control us more powerfully than any whip! And at your “women’s” trainings they convince you that this is primitive...
A woman, due to the maternal instinct inherent in her, is tolerant of contradictory character. She knows how to harmonize the polar elements.
Listen, you, as a mother, always find an approach to “different” children.
Look at yourself through the eyes of a man
You are smart, educated and knowledgeable from diverse trainings (not always successful, believe me).
Your abs, brains and chakras are pumped up.
You are young at any age, you meditate, at the same time you win tenders and buy cryptocurrency.
Well, tell me, how can WE get to you?!
Amazons have no place here - the path of least resistance
Of course, it’s easier to take a girl without special mental abilities, who will look into our mouths. Next to this we will feel like gods.
Look, it’s all about a man’s reluctance to see an Amazon next to him and endure daily sparring with her.
And let's be honest, almost all of us are complicated little boys inside. We crave recognition and admiration.
Instead, next to someone so strong and smart, you need to always be “at your best,” while you want to relax and breathe out, even at home.
And “on you, like in war”...
Don't be a mommy
But turning into a mommy is the other extreme. They don’t sleep with their mothers and don’t take care of them... Although this is very convenient for us.
We are happy to enter into such relationships. But when you nag us like mothers, we avoid communication and turn our attention to the “girls.” After all, with them you feel like a man.
A strong woman is an insecure man
And one more important point, born of self-doubt.
We are tormented by the question next to such a self-sufficient “all by myself”: “Can I pull it off? But won’t she look at someone else, more successful and stronger?”
Why strong women are not afraid of loneliness
This question really worries most ladies who cannot boast of this character trait. As a rule, almost everyone is not only frightened, but horrified by lonely old age and we are ready to connect our lives with anyone. A strong lady has a time-tested saying: “It’s better to be alone than with just anyone!” It cannot be said that a lady with a strong beginning is a man-hater. And she has a very positive attitude towards the institution of marriage and love moments. After all, he is a person like everyone else. She also dreams of being happy, having children, spoiling grandchildren, living with one person for the rest of her life and being a worthy match for him. But understanding the fact that such a turn of fate is very rare, but rather a retelling of a Hollywood touching melodrama, they try not to get involved in romantic stories. A strong woman knows that most romances are quarrels, resentments, betrayals, mistrust, etc.
Also, do not forget that many ladies get married to ensure their future and children. Here everything is already there, and such a lady can easily rely only on herself.
Why does she need an extra burden in the form of a man with whom she can meet 2-3 times a week and come to her “citadel” and sleep freely in silk sheets. She doesn’t need to resolve financial issues with him, wait for a salary, cook and wash his socks and underpants, or wait for a bouquet on March 8th.
Distinguished by intelligence and intelligence
A strong lady will never do something she doesn’t like, and won’t buy into cheap ads like “Place a bet and you’ll get a million!” Thanks to her intuition and erudition, she remembers that all this is complete nonsense and a trick to empty the pockets of stupid users. Rather, she will act differently - create a profitable business online, without deception and scams, and will be able to live with dignity on the income she receives.
Has a sense of individual style
The strong lady is sure that following fashion is funny, but not following it is stupid! So, she never blindly follows modern trends, in which you can see things that simply become scary. The pre-apartment screenings give you the feeling of being in a circus or a chamber of horrors. And a woman with a powerful beginning is style, impeccable taste. But at the same time, she puts her work, activities and successes in the professional field first. She values people with whom she knows how to get along and communicate. And as for the world of perfumes, mirrored display cases with the latest couture products, shades of lipsticks from a leading cosmetic company - all this is there, beyond reality. And here there is an early rise, full employment, interesting work, and late rest.
It's easy to avoid loneliness
So what should you do? To remain successful, because... I don’t want it any other way, and I don’t want to be weak and feminine. How to encourage the man next to you to be strong and care? To be a little girl...
Remember, it is important to realize that by making your man weak, you risk ending up in splendid isolation.
A normal man is simply not interested in such a “woman” bursting with masculine energy.
Are you looking for reasons to be happy? Well, you have to be happy in any case, right? When you're alone. So what’s stopping you from being joyful and happy NEAR your beloved man?!
Woman, calm down your male ardor
Find harmony and balance of Yin and Yang energy within yourself.
- Meditate.
- Cultivate feminine habits.
- Quit smoking (it's not sexy, we don't like it!), pamper your body with relaxing treatments.
- Also, stop swearing and gossiping - a real man doesn’t respect that.
Just be grateful
Communicate with men—any kind—with respect. Learn to see the merits in any man.
This does not mean that you need to give up your inner strength and acquired social, sometimes masculine, skills. But do it like a woman.
Don't forget about your feminine nature.
When we let you go ahead, open the door for you and offer physical assistance, agree and thank us! Sincerely.
Thank the men around you and, especially, your man for the advice, help and care they offer.
With gratitude for every little thing and feminine weakness “I can’t handle it on my own,” you provoke men to want to be strong next to you and perform feats every day.
The man's world wants to help you. Are you ready?
Forget your usual “oh, I’ll do better anyway”, “you won’t get much out of them.” You can not?
Train yourself with simple requests. Ask a colleague to help you carry a heavy bag from the store, or a colleague to accompany you to your car.
A man is designed in such a way that, having received a “command” to do something, he must pass it through his internal analytical center. There he tries to understand “what is happening - how to do it better - or maybe it will resolve itself - why bother.”
And don't be mad that we don't fulfill your requests instantly. We often simply don’t have time to get involved in the task!
Don’t immediately rush to do everything yourself with a poisonous, accusing look.
Ask calmly, react without offense to non-inclusion, repeat your request.
