How not to die in the hospital-3: surgery.

Waiting for surgery is associated with fear, which everyone tries to overcome by any means. One plays a game on a smartphone, another reads religious literature, and someone tries to convince themselves of the professionalism of surgeons. But almost everyone needs the support of relatives and friends, who should help a person preparing for surgery to reduce anxiety and tune in to a successful outcome.

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Words of support and wishes for a person before surgery

Depending on who you are about the person preparing for surgery, you can reassure him with the following words:

Close relative (wife, husband, father, mother, son, daughter)

I have always admired your resilience and I know that you will make it this time too. It is normal to worry about the operation, but these are just empty fears, everything will be fine. When you come to your senses after anesthesia, I will be there and take your hand.
Believe in your recovery, because a good mood and optimism can play an important role. Everything will be fine! It simply cannot be otherwise!
I have always admired your courage, patience, endurance, luck and resilience... I know you can do it! Remember: you are not alone, we are all monitoring the development of the situation and are ready to help at any moment. Let your health improve, your good hopes come true, and the doctors’ positive forecast come true!
Get well soon, we miss you very much. Everyone has been waiting for you. Promise that you will do everything possible to get better soon and again delight us with your presence, radiant smile, creativity, kindness, sensitivity and other talents.
My dear little man, let your illness leave you, get well soon. Stop being sick, let's conquer this world and enjoy life, strive for dreams and realize your ideas. Sunny, get better and don’t get sick anymore.
My soul can't find a place, my bunny is sick. My beloved little man, get well soon, honey, let’s get well and boldly go into battle, go ahead - conquer this world and fly towards bright happiness!
I know it’s difficult for you now, but together we will get through it. The main thing is to concentrate and don’t let your nerves get in the way. I wish you and I to successfully cope with this episode in life and return to our favorite daily activities.
And don’t think that because you’re sick, it’s hard for you, but for all of us at this time it’s fun and good. Believe me, the fact that you are sick makes us feel not much better than you. Therefore, please get well and never get sick again, because we all suffer and we wish you to get better as soon as possible.
Beloved wife (husband), you have forever captivated my heart. Therefore, during your absence it will be very lonely and difficult for me. In this regard, I am very much looking forward to your return home. I am sure that the surgeons will do everything in their power to get you back on your feet as quickly as possible. I believe in the best and in the success of the operation. I will certainly do everything that depends on me and will always be with you in my thoughts. I hope you will always feel my support
Beloved, I wish you to move towards recovery in step with your immunity. But first, let's start preparing the battle with raspberry jam, honey and linden tea!
We must do something that cannot be avoided... Therefore, there is no point in worrying. Refusing to improve your health is stupid. Take the chance to improve your condition (health) and don’t regret anything. I wish everything to work out as planned. And I will love you all, you know.
Don't worry and try to control yourself. I wish that everything goes smoothly and with the result that you are counting on. Well, I promise not to let you go in my thoughts.
Do not think about the bad things. You are not the first and will not be the last to undergo such surgery. Thousands of people have survived this and still live happily, thanks to doctors every day of their lives. And you will do the same. Do not panic! Why should something unpleasant suddenly happen to you? Are you special, or what?
I hate your illness, I’m jealous of it... Let him go to hell and leave us alone. You are always beautiful, even when you are sick. But when you are healthy, you are not only beautiful, but also desirable. Be always healthy!
Well, there's only a little time left and your body will be better than before. Gain strength and maintain presence of mind - this is the most important thing now. I wish you strength and faith in yourself to successfully complete the changes you have begun. I believe in you, love you and look forward to a renewed you with you!
Waking up together is the best thing in life. Therefore, I wish you and I to be home as soon as possible. We will have fun remembering how we spent our time at this hospital “resort” and how great it all ended with your recovery.
It may be bad now, but then everything will be fine. Everything will change and the pain will go away. God will give you the strength to endure everything, don’t lose hope, hold on. You need to survive, wait, and then everything will work out. We believe in you and will pray for your recovery.
May your health increase every day more and more. Let your eyes sparkle again and your lips smile. I want to hear your laughter again and enjoy life with you. May despair, sadness and pain be removed forever from this moment.
I'm glad you'll finally feel better. After the operation, nothing will stop you from turning all your ideas into reality. I wish you strength, patience and excellent health. The rest of the blessings of this world will come on their own.
Our dear little man! They say that if you strive for something with all your heart, then it will undoubtedly come true. You will definitely be cured! Nowadays medicine is progressing very much. We are your family, together with the doctors, we will try to do everything possible to restore your health.
My sunshine, get better, such a kind and good person shouldn’t get sick. I am very worried and sincerely hope that you will recover quickly and be in great shape again, fully armed and fully prepared to achieve great goals and conquer peaks.
You will be cured and everything will be fine, the main thing is don’t be nervous and don’t cry. Stress and depression greatly reduce the immune system, which cannot be allowed now; the body is generally capable of self-healing, the main thing is not to put a spoke in its wheels. Despite the difficulties and circumstances, just Believe in yourself - in your strength! I understand that it’s easy to say, but difficult to do, but try anyway. We are all with you, and together we will make every effort to improve your health situation.
The main thing is to think about the good, believe in recovery, don’t give in to the disease, fight! It's difficult, but you have to stick with it! We love you and believe that together we will definitely overcome the disease.
You can't even imagine how bad I feel when you're sick. And yet, I’m scared. And sad. Please be kind, get well and stop my joyless existence without you. I wish you the best health that exists in the world.
I'm waiting for your call tomorrow. You will call and say that everything is fine... discharge soon. And I will tell you about our plans, which you have no idea about yet. Be strong, girl!
I know that you are a courageous person and are ready to boldly face the upcoming difficulties. I know what you are going through, because this feeling of anxiety is transmitted even to me. But at the same time, I know that you are strong, brave and you will succeed.
The operation will be successful, just believe in it. And after it you will become even stronger mentally. Know that I love you unconditionally and will always be by your side. I pass on my energy, all my positivity and strength to you, and I’m really looking forward to the moment when I see you again, but completely healthy!
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A colleague:

We worry about you and wish everything goes well. In the near future, many achievements await us in the professional field, and we want you to share the future successes with us.
Health gives you the strength to love, be brave, fantasize, experiment, create, create, set goals and achieve them, make excellent decisions, cope with difficulties, enjoy new discoveries, be useful and accept the gifts of fate... With all my heart I wish you to have this valuable artifact – good health and all the wonderful consequences associated with it.
Health, of course, is the most important thing in life... And I wish it for you with all my heart. But even if you decide to be unhealthy, then I wish you to be happy, joyful, active, efficient, energetic and full of ideas. And nothing more is needed. And with ill health, you can be a full-fledged mistress of life. I wish you complete control over your life!
At this stage, your personal health is of paramount importance. Everything related to professional activity fades into the background. I have always appreciated and appreciate an employee like you, so I will sincerely worry and hope for your speedy recovery.
Finally, you will be made healthy, and you will join our ranks again. We miss you very much and we are all waiting for your return. I wish you an abnormally quick correction and never “fall out of the loop” again.
Now you are going through a difficult period, you are tense, tired, all this affects your health. Rest more and gain strength, follow all the doctor’s instructions and think less about the bad. You are the best and kindest in our team, everything will pass soon.
Don't be too nervous, hang in there! All diseases come from nerves. Your health will certainly be restored. Remember that I always support you mentally and look forward to the improvement of your health.
You have no idea how much we want you to get well. Every day we only think, talk and dream about your health. Believe me, without you our life is not as joyful as with you. Therefore - good health to you, a speedy recovery and may all the troubles with your health quickly be forgotten like a bad dream and never return.
A bright and positive person like you will simply be fine! Try to follow all the advice of doctors, think only about the good, dear, because thoughts materialize!

Boyfriend/girlfriend:

I've known you for several years now. Such a confident and cheerful person can cope with any illness! I’m ready to support you with everything I can, you can count on me! If you need anything, let me know right away!
In general, from the bottom of my heart I wish you omnipotence over your condition, complete enslavement of your body by yourself and complete authority over your well-being. In short, world domination for you in your own world.
I see your health has decided to take a slight wrong turn? Don't be angry with him, forgive him and wait back. It will definitely come back. And you, don’t sit idly by, create all the conditions for him to feel good with you, take care of him, take care of him. Then your life will no longer be saddened by his absence. I wish you a speedy return to your lost one.
As soon as you open your eyes after anesthesia, I will immediately show you the surprise I have prepared. And as soon as you get back to normal, you and I will go where you’ve been planning for a long time... I’ll bring you the tickets right here. I am also interested in your opinion on some issues - I can’t wait to discuss them with you. Therefore, I wish that we implement all our ideas on time, so that everything will be as we planned.
Get well soon, may illnesses and illnesses go far from you and forever, may strength and vigor return to you, fill your soul with hope and optimism, may the energy of the sun, the power of the earth, and the support of loved ones help you recover, return to the mainstream of life events and again Have fun creating, dreaming and loving!
They say that life is striped, black and white. Apparently, you are not on the bright side right now... I wish you a speedy recovery, and I know for sure that after your illness you will become even wiser. Now you will definitely stand on the white stripe and walk along!
They say that you can never have too much health... I wish you so much health that when asked “How are you?”, without hesitation, you can always answer “Love yourself!”
Dear friend. I learned about your trouble and came to support you in such a difficult situation. I am sure that you will cope, that everything will certainly be fine for you. In turn, I express my own support to you and will try to help in any way I can. Therefore, I ask you to inform me in advance about your needs that may arise during the treatment process. I will definitely try to resolve them
Dear friend, I know about your life difficulties related to the upcoming operation. I have always had a good opinion of you and have strong feelings of friendship. Therefore, I want to see you again in our intimate conversations on various topics. In this regard, I sincerely wish that the operation goes as well as possible and that you recover quickly!
If you don’t worry and manage to suppress stress, everything will grow on you like a dog. I wish your will to come together into a fist! Let everything be as it should be. Let's break through!
I look forward to your exciting stories about dreams under anesthesia. Don’t deprive me of such an adventure... try to remember everything you dream about. I'll be burning with curiosity while I wait for you to return from the operating table. I wish you to remain as curious as always, and even be inquisitive even under anesthesia. I'm with you!
I know that you have plans, goals, dreams and ambitions. I know that you have already outlined ways for yourself to achieve all this. I wish you that your main companion and guide on the path to everything planned will return to you and never leave you again. With him, nothing is scary and everything is achievable. Of course this is health.
Well done for taking the plunge! I will follow your example when the time comes to surrender to the doctors. I’ll be waiting for your call tomorrow and your invitation to go fishing (to the cinema, to dinner, to the dacha, to pick mushrooms, etc.). Let your luck smile on you especially dazzlingly on the day of the operation!
Try not to give in to sadness and despair, or anger at the disease, because only a positive mood and a strong spirit will drive away your illness. If you need my help, just let me know, I'll be there in no time.
Let your doctors show all their skills, and let you show all your optimism, patience and resilience. Be lucky! I will pray for you and for a successful outcome of the operation.
This may sound strange, but I, as a pragmatic person, wish you not to waste time at this medical “resort” and have a good rest, accumulate pleasant memories of how you came here broken and sick, and left refreshed and full of enthusiasm finish your great deeds. Good luck!
We look forward to your return to a full life and are glad that the wait is not long... Soon you will get back on your feet and we will realize all our plans, ideas and dreams.
Now your health is primary, everything else is secondary... Therefore, focus on passing your test safely, and I will take care of the rest. I wish you peace of mind, it is the most beneficial for your health.
Tell your health not to let you down again. And also tell the diseases: “You can’t wait, you creatures!” And get well soon. Get better with all your might. I ask you very much and look forward to this bright day even more than you yourself. I will ask God, higher powers and guardian angels to keep you healthy. I miss you so much.
Make me a list of books, I will download them all for you, so that the postoperative period will be useful. Better yet, ask your doctor what you can read that is good for your health. I wish you not only to sleep and relax, but also to spend your time productively, with benefit for yourself and your health. Let the time spent within these sterile walls not be in vain!
You are an amazing person and even if you are unhealthy, you still brighten up my life. Even now, you know how to be a great friend and find the strength to support not only yourself, but also me. But still... please be healthy. After all, then we will also be able to drink beer, eat chips, pick up girls and enjoy this life to the fullest. Get well soon!
Do you remember, I always wished you all the best and high-class... A carriage of wealth, happiness, love, success, a beautiful career, the best partner in life, first-class friends, first-class housing and a luxury car. Ah, I remembered... I also wished you a fabulous housewarming, magical travels and exciting adventures... And now you are sick and I see that all this is worth nothing without health. So, now I will only wish for you.
I have always admired your courage, and I know you are strong! It's normal to feel anxious before an upcoming surgery, just don't think you can't handle it. Think of this operation as a simple procedure. You will fall asleep for a while, and when you open your eyes after the anesthesia, I want to be the first person you see. I believe that everything will be fine!
I sincerely wish you good health, and that all this hell will end as soon as possible. Let's get better together: you tell your sores to get out of you. And I will pray to all gods for you and your recovery. Together we will break through! You will see!

Bowel preparation before surgery.

There are two types of bowel preparation:

Mechanical (enema);
Oral (taking macrogol preparations - a laxative drug with osmotic properties, used to cleanse the intestines).

According to international recommendations, bowel preparation is not necessary for liver resections. During operations on the stomach and intestines, bowel preparation is mandatory.

The doctor informs the patient about the need for mechanical or oral bowel cleansing before surgery. The procedure of mechanical bowel preparation is carried out by a nurse the day before surgery and on the day of surgery before entering the operating room.

How can I help prepare for surgery mentally?

The patient's family can support him or her before surgery in the following ways:

Help you focus on positive information . Many people are in a panic looking for information about their upcoming surgery on the Internet. It’s even worse when relatives do this with them, increasing the general fear. Of course, on the Internet they find terrible stories about complications, surgical supplies forgotten by doctors in the patient’s body, etc. If the patient has already read a lot of such passions, then it is necessary to explain to him that this negative information is only a small part of the overall picture. The vast majority of people who have successfully undergone surgery simply will not write about it on the Internet and will return to their usual activities. Of course, there is risk in such a business. But a person often becomes fixated only on waiting for an unsuccessful outcome of the operation, the probability of which is much lower;
The right ways to get distracted . Usually the entertainment function in the room is performed by the TV, but it quickly gets boring. The patient’s hand involuntarily reaches for the smartphone, and the first point is repeated when the patient again reads medical forums with terrible stories. Psychologists recommend that relatives bring books to the ward. There is no such person who cannot be captivated by literature. A woman over 40 will probably like a romance novel, a man who is a hunter will be interested in books about weapons, etc. A paper book is better than an electronic one, which patients read from a smartphone. In the latter case, the screen backlight causes strain on the eyes and nervous system, which will not allow you to fully relax;
Conversation with doctors . Patients are often embarrassed to ask doctors to tell them in detail about the upcoming operation . They feel that they are distracting doctors from important matters. In this case, the patient’s relatives should ask the surgeon and anesthesiologist for a consultation. Many specialists will readily take a few minutes to answer the patient’s questions. Again, it is better for the patient’s family to be nearby during the consultation. This way they will be able to ask what the patient will forget out of excitement.

Instrumental examinations.

Before major surgery, the doctor prescribes:

Chest X-ray or fluorography;
Electrocardiography (ECG);
Ultrasound examination (ultrasound) of the abdominal and pelvic organs;
ECHO-KG (according to indications);
Gastroduodenoscopy;
External respiration function (according to indications);
Holter monitoring (according to indications)
Computed tomography (CT) (if indicated);
Magnetic resonance therapy (MRI) (according to indications);

If the disease requires more extensive diagnostics and additional examinations before surgery, the doctor informs the patient about this.

Communication as the best method of support

The more often a patient communicates with family and friends before surgery, the lower his level of anxiety. Even introverts become more talkative during such a difficult period for themselves.

You can communicate on any topic, the main thing is not to touch on the possible unpleasant consequences of the operation.

Often the patient listens with interest to news about events that he missed while he was in the hospital. For example, that his child has a new teacher at school. It seems like a trifle, but the discussion can last quite a long time and arouses keen interest.

Relatives should focus on the opportunities that open up after the operation. For example, a herniated disc will need to be removed. In this case, it is worth dreaming with the patient about how he will soon be able to forget about the bothersome pain, do household chores, try skiing, etc.

Leg binding before surgery.

In some cases, leg bandaging is required before surgery to prevent thrombosis of the veins of the lower extremities. The doctor reports this on the eve of the operation. You can use an elastic 5-meter bandage, or individual compression underwear (stockings) of the 1st degree of compression.

The leg binding is performed by a nurse. The patient should be in a supine position. The procedure is carried out immediately after a night's sleep in a lying position, or after the patient is lying down with his legs raised up for 5-10 minutes. Compression garments are put on immediately after a night's sleep in a supine position, or after the patient lies down with his legs raised up for 5-10 minutes.

If the excitement is off the charts

People with an excitable nervous system cannot pull themselves together, even if they know for sure that the operation will not be difficult and there is every chance of a quick recovery. In this case, relatives do not always manage to calm them down, and sometimes their words irritate the patient.

Don't get angry in response. If a person has not yet gone to the hospital and he spends the time before the operation at home, then it is better to advise him to go to a psychologist. A specialist will be better able to select the appropriate words that may not always come to the minds of family and friends.

In difficult cases, when the patient suffers from insomnia and a full-fledged neurosis is brewing, one cannot do without the help of a psychotherapist. He will provide not only psychological support, but will also write a prescription for sedatives.

Prayers and rituals

It is not so important what a person believes in, what is more important is what this faith gives him. If it is easier for him to place the outcome of the operation on God, then prayer will help eliminate fear. It is useful to associate certain phenomena with favorable signs.

The patient’s close circle may participate in unique rituals. You shouldn’t allow fanaticism in this matter, but an additional incentive won’t hurt. It shifts some of the responsibility onto someone else, and thereby reduces fear.

A regular trip to the doctor is very stressful for many, not to mention surgery. Fear of surgery is a protective reaction of the body, and represents the fear of something unknown ahead. At the same time, people cannot accurately express what specifically scares them: the operation itself, the rehabilitation period, the hospital walls, or something else. Having already received a referral for a surgical procedure, almost all patients ask themselves the question: how to overcome the fear of surgery?

How to support a person after surgery?

To help a person feel better mentally after surgery, family and friends should do the following:

Visit it more often . Calls and video calls via Skype cannot replace live communication. Of course, if a person is not feeling well, then the visits should not be long;
Bring cute gifts . Some people think that flowers are best, but this is not true. After surgery, a patient is more vulnerable to allergens, of which there are plenty in flowers. In addition, they take up a lot of space and will quickly wither. It is better to give a photo of them together in a beautiful frame or a box of chocolates (if the patient is allowed sweets after surgery);
Make plans . Agree that soon after discharge you will go together to an amusement park, cinema, etc. The recovering person will look forward to these joyful days.

Supporting a person before and after surgery is not that difficult. The main thing is to show sincerity and lead the patient away from anxious expectations . The more people support him, the greater the chance that he will feel more confident closer to the operation.

Diet before surgery.

As a rule, there is no need to follow a special diet unless it has been prescribed in advance by a doctor. However, according to international ERAS recommendations, it has been proven that if the patient is exhausted and his body mass index (height-weight ratio, height-to-weight ratio) is less than 18.5 points, then enhanced protein-carbohydrate nutrition is indicated for 7 days before surgery. For severely malnourished patients, enhanced nutrition is indicated 14 days before the expected date of surgery.

Wishes for recovery in prose

You can send a beautiful voice wish for get well or select and copy one of the text wishes below:

Best wishes for recovery in prose

1. Get well soon, may illnesses and illnesses go far away from you forever, may strength and vigor return to you, fill your soul with hope and optimism, may the energy of the sun, the power of the earth, and the support of loved ones help you recover and get back on track with life’s events and again have the pleasure of creating, dreaming and loving! (Author: Svetlana Sosnitskaya)

2. Get well soon, let the illness become only a short-term test that you can quickly overcome. I wish you to gain courage, follow the doctors’ recommendations, and tune in for the fastest possible healing. Think about the good, then all ailments will recede! (Author: Oksana Chernenko)

3. Illness can never be an obstacle to the feelings of loved ones, right? That’s why I continue to think and worry about you, about how you feel on the spiritual and physical plane, in your emotional world. Dear little man, I want to wish you an active recovery, because you should once again enjoy the world around you and a successful life. We will definitely make every effort to successfully eliminate the disease, which can knock you off your feet and bedridden. Very soon you will go outside again and be able to smile at the sun and think: “I’m healthy, finally!” Don’t waste a single day to successfully fight your illness, but take action. My support and care, I hope, will be useful. I believe that in the very near future we will go on an active walk, enjoying life to the fullest. Get well soon, please, dear.

How to express well wishes correctly

How to express your feelings in simple and clear words in order to convey to the patient the full strength of your desire to help? How to formulate wishes for recovery in order to help a person at the time of trial? Probably best in order

Wishes for a loved one to get well

Everything is simple here. When contact is established, it is much easier to express feelings. You just need to take into account the nuances of the situation so that instead of relieving the person, you don’t pour salt on the wound. Start with how valuable the person is to you. Say a few words of sympathy, or better yet, empathy. Now tell me how happy you will be when the illness goes away.

Beloved son! My sun! Get better quickly, and you and I will go to fabulous distances to look for magical adventures! There is no illness that could stop such a strong man like you for a long time!

Get well wishes to an employee (boss)

When you need to say a few words to someone outside your circle of close friends, you should take some precautions. If you are not entirely aware of his affairs, then it is better to speak (write) general words. Keep in mind that a careless phrase can greatly hurt a person, worsening his general condition, and therefore slow down his recovery.

Dear... The entire workforce sends you warm greetings and wishes for a speedy recovery. We are with you in spirit, supporting you in your current trial. We sincerely worry about you, we look forward to your speedy recovery! We won't be able to do our job without your original ideas! Please accept our heartfelt wishes for a quick victory over the disease! May life please you with health and happiness!

Wishes for recovery after surgery

Dear... You have faced a serious test. We empathize with you and hope that the strength of your spirit will overcome adverse circumstances. You will definitely get better! We wish you not to lose your positive attitude and optimism! Let adversity dissipate like morning fog, and the bright sun of happiness light up again on your horizon!

Fear of surgery under anesthesia

Feeling afraid of anesthesia or a surgeon’s scalpel is normal and should not be ashamed. To reduce feelings of anxiety, you can seek help from a psychologist. In many developed countries, each patient is required to be consulted by such a specialist before surgery, and if necessary, consultations can be multiple. In our country, few clinics and hospitals can boast of such an opportunity, so patients themselves sometimes have to ask their doctor for a referral to a psychologist or psychiatrist for a conversation.

It is believed that the patient’s psyche is traumatized already in the clinic, when the doctor recommends surgical treatment to his patient. Even then, fear begins to occupy a dominant position in a person’s consciousness. Anyone undergoing surgery needs the sensitivity of the medical staff.

Every patient without exception should be reassured and encouraged. If the patient shows a particularly intense feeling of fear (cries often, talks about death, sleeps and eats poorly), he needs urgent consultation with a psychologist. In the preoperative period, most patients are in dire need of preparation for surgery, not only medicinally, but also psychologically. There are several areas of mental support for patients:

training of children and elderly people;
preparation for emergency surgery;
preparation for planned surgery.

Fear is a strong emotion, which in this case plays a negative role, preventing the patient from adjusting to a favorable outcome of the operation.

Since the consequences of anesthesia depend not only on the anesthesiologist, but also on the patient, you should carefully consider your own emotional experiences and promptly see a specialist to restore mental balance. You can be afraid of anesthesia or the outcome of surgery, but at the same time live a full life, without poisoning it either for yourself or your loved ones. To do this, you should prepare for the operation psychologically and physically, controlling not only what you can eat or drink, but also what you can and should think about.

Dedicated to everyone who wants to support the sick

Letty Cottin Pogrebin, in her book “Trial by Illness - How to Communicate, Maintain Relationships and Help a Loved One,” proposed 7 rules for showing sincere support for a patient:

You can’t ask “How are you?” This will upset the patient. You can ask a question when you are ready to hear the answer and not be afraid of the details.

A terminally ill person cannot be told: “Get well!”, because he will not recover. And he understands this.
Each patient requires an individual amount of attention, some need to be led by the hand to the doctor, while for others it is enough to send an SMS once a week.
Avoid platitudes and empty consolations: “We are all in the same boat.” “Yeah, only for some people this boat leaked,” the patient will note.
Do not interrupt the patient when he talks about himself. It is important for him to be listened to.
Do not interrupt the conversation with phrases like: “My cat also had a tumor removed.” It's tactless and rude.
Did you promise help? Do it! Or don't promise at all.

How to cheer up a man, guy, person, girl during illness with words?

Everything about religion and faith - “prayer during mom’s surgery” with detailed descriptions and photographs.

Ask any person what prayer is, and everyone, without really thinking, will answer that it is an appeal to God, to the Higher Powers with a request for help in difficult moments. Difficult moments in human life are diseases, especially those that involve surgery.

And this is understandable: a normal person is always scared when he is “turned off” from life through anesthesia, even for a while. No, no, and the thought will creep in: what if the anesthesiologist makes a mistake? What if I don’t wake up? Is the surgeon experienced enough? Life shows that in such situations even the most inveterate skeptics often begin to pray. What prayer should you read during surgery?

It is traditionally believed that intercessors for the sick are martyrs-healers:

Panteleimon.
His teacher Ermolai.
Wonderworkers Cosmas and Damian.
Cyrus and John.
Canonized literally at the end of the last century, St. Luke of Crimea, who during his lifetime was both an operating surgeon and a bishop.
If an operation is performed on a child or mother, it is best to contact the Mother of God.
They also turn to other saints, to whom they are accustomed to pray on all occasions in life and to whom the soul is especially disposed - St. Nicholas the Wonderworker, Blessed Matrona of Moscow, St. Spyridon of Trimifuntsky, martyr Tryphon, Archangel Raphael.

It is very useful to read akathists to them.

However, in any case, we must remember that the saints of God do not have a “specialization”: one, they say, is “responsible” for this, that one for that. This is how they appear in folk tradition.

The saints are only intermediaries in transmitting our worldly petitions to the Lord Almighty: we bring our prayers to them, and they intercede for those praying before the Heavenly Father, in this case asking Him for healing. Therefore, it is most logical to ask the Savior for this.

Causes of fear

Most people are very wary of the work of doctors; too clear associations have developed. After all, people think about medicine most often when it’s bad and painful. Any trip to the clinic is viewed with caution and suspicion. What can we say about situations when a person is diagnosed and surgery is recommended? However, it is worth mentioning that people who voluntarily go under the knife also experience fear. We are talking about plastic surgery, when what is at stake is not the life and health of the patient, but, for example, a beautiful nose or a thin waist.

There are many natural reasons for fear of surgery. In addition to natural unconscious reactions, there is a completely natural fear of the unknown. Moreover, the unknown, for which you can pay with your health or even your life.

Any person is terribly frightened by the complete lack of control in his life. During a surgical operation, absolutely everything is in the hands of specialists and nothing depends on the patient. The thought of being unable to influence what is happening in any way forces some people to show their will by refusing to undergo the operation.

Sometimes this is extremely harmful and deadly for the patient.

In such situations, doctors force you to sign a document in which the person confirms that he is familiar with the negative consequences if he refuses prompt assistance. The fear of the unknown leaves a person, he knows that he will live for another six months, for example, but he does not risk dying today on the operating table. This is his legal choice.

This behavior is typical of people who are accustomed to controlling everything and never placing responsibility for their lives on anyone. It would seem that such a useful and healthy quality can deprive one of the opportunity to risk trusting and prolong one’s life.

Among the reasons for fear of surgery may be negative experiences, both personal and loved ones. How will the anesthesia work? Will it really not hurt? What negative consequences are possible after surgery? A lot of questions often remain unanswered.

Firstly, not everything can be predicted. Secondly, doctors, especially surgeons, are often not in the mood to educate the patient in all the details, and indeed, to take care of his psychological state. And this is not at all due to the inhumanity of specialists. It’s just not their job, their task is to carry out the operation with the greatest possible positive effect. This is especially true for urgent operations, when there is simply little time for soothing and reassuring speeches.