Ivan Vdovin
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The topic is not new, but in it I will try to talk about what tricks to use in order to please girls in everyday life. But there will be no specific examples here, since girls do not like banalities. In general, read about what girls like, do the exercises, and you will definitely be cooler than other guys .
What do girls like?
Let's think like a man, that is, logically, what do girls like? You never know what girls like, what she would like. Never even try. But I know several male qualities that girls will really like, or rather, almost 99.99% like them.
Just understand, there are different girls who, for example, were raised as boys, so they are used to taking the initiative into their own hands and if they want something from a guy, they will simply say so. It's up to you to decide whether you like these girls or not. But basically, all girls like basic masculine qualities, which we will talk about below, and then about secondary masculine qualities.
By the way, I have a separate article about how a guy can become more handsome. But this is about something else.
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Perseverance
Girls love persistent guys, it’s easier for them, since all the initiative comes from them and they don’t have to strain themselves to think about where to go and so on. And a man must offer something to a girl, for example, to meet, the girl can refuse, but we didn’t make it from plasticine, so we offer the same thing, but a day later, and so on.
Simply put, I’m just writing here about the principle of perseverance, and how to train it, it’s better to turn to specialized literature or videos.
Self confidence
Girls are emotional creatures and plus they give birth to children, and in order for their species to receive the best genes and continue to exist, this means they need a strong man who will give their offspring strength. That's why girls choose daring, brutal guys. They feel the power behind them. Another thing is that behind brutal guys there are usually insecure guys hiding, but that’s a topic for another conversation.
Therefore, the recipe here is simple: the more confident you become, the more girls like you and the more often they fall in love with you. To become self-confident, read the additional article “How to become self-confident.” To put it simply, sign up for a gym, talk more often on the street with girls or strangers, and your self-confidence will slowly grow more and more.
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Confident look
Don't feed girls bread, give them a guy with a handsome, confident look. If you are not like that, and you avert your eyes and generally cannot look people in the eyes, then start training your gaze. There are different ways, such as looking at one point without blinking or at the flame of a candle without blinking, but you can find all this on the Internet, there is a lot of information about this.
Another question is what to do if you look away from girls and are afraid to look them straight in the eyes. Psychotherapy is needed here, there is some kind of negative program, that you consider yourself guilty of them or other nonsense. I had this, but I removed it from myself, I recommend that you do the same, and then you will be able to look any people in the eyes, even stronger than you. If anything, please go to the My Services section.
Humor and charisma
These two qualities will cover all your shortcomings. If a girl is having fun with you, it means she is genuinely having a good time with you. She will find bad guys, wallets, etc. for herself, but she very rarely meets someone with whom she will feel good.
Upgrade your charisma, just like your abs; I’ll write a separate article about humor; by the way, it’s pretty easy to upgrade if you know how to do it.
Pumped up abs
Beautiful abs greatly attract girls and there is no point in arguing with that. So, if you don’t have abs, then go and pump them up at least at home. At least a little. And in general, start doing exercises in the morning, dousing yourself with cold water, this will greatly strengthen you and you will be strong and healthy.
And strength and health are qualities that girls really, really like, and therefore you will be competitive and win any girl you like.
Rule No. 7. Don't be afraid of touching.
Well, really, you’re not in school to be afraid to touch the girl you like.
The main thing is to do it correctly and carefully, so that she does not perceive it as direct hints about sex during the first date.
Be a gentleman - help her put on her outerwear, give her your hand when getting out of a car or public transport. Take her hand if you find yourself in a huge crowd of people.
Women are very sensitive to all kinds of touches and need them much more than men. Therefore, don’t be stupid and move on to direct action.
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Cloth
Be neat, clean, ironed. Girls like neat guys. Try to dress in shirts. Many girls have told me that the shirts they wear on men make them crazy. They just want to unbutton the buttons. But the shirts are not ordinary, but fitted and bright, the kind they wear to clubs.
Well, naturally, they should not dress for graduation, but tucked into jeans and over a good belt, and not from Aliexpress for 100 rubles. I’m sure finding such clothes is not a problem now, the only downside is that they have become expensive. Or look for really high-quality things on Aliexpress.
Shoes
The most important thing is shoes. The girl always looks at the shoes. It must be clean and appropriate in style. You can't wear sweatpants and oxfords, it looks very stupid. Although we went this way at school, we had no other choice, we grew up in the 90s.
Basically we wore the same tracksuit, always. Well, that’s really how life was, there’s nothing you can do about it. They survived as best they could.
Personal hygiene
Naturally, the more pleasant you smell, the less disgust there is for you (just kidding). Yes, just be washed, clean and shaved. Once again I’m talking about accuracy, girls love such guys. Don’t forget about manicure, beautiful fingers without bitten nails will delight many ladies, since very few guys get manicures.
I'm not saying that manicure is something gay, do it if you want, do it if you want, but nails should be trimmed, without hangnails. Do you know why girls don't like guys with hangnails? Here you are sitting like this in a cafe, she is all beautiful, in a dress, stockings, and you run your hand over her knee, make a puff with a hangnail and that’s it, the girl’s confidence drops, she begins to worry that her external image is suffering and this needs to be dealt with then do. Like this.
Well, it’s natural that underwear and T-shirts should be changed every day and washed every day. Dress fresh in the morning if you plan to communicate with girls.
Invite on a date
You should invite someone on a date when there is reciprocity in feelings. The meeting place should be comfortable for both. If a man has something to be proud of, then he should definitely show it. There is also no need to forget about the interests of the chosen one.
It is necessary to help her with everything: putting on a coat, carrying things, etc. It’s worth telling as much as possible about yourself, not just general information.
But not everyone likes romance. There is a category of girls who cannot be conquered by this. You should remember her habits and characteristics, even if they are strange and outlandish for some.
What don't girls like?
We got to a more interesting topic. Here we will talk about negative human qualities, but what can we do, there are those too. And you definitely need to talk about them, otherwise you will end up with a negative relationship with the opposite sex. But we don't need this.
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Rudeness
Many guys think that by being rude to girls and being such a cheeky boy, he will win a girl. To be honest, this can happen if you have the right form of charisma and self-confidence. But many guys copy this behavior and it doesn’t work out very well for them, and in order not to lose their dignity, they begin to humiliate and insult girls.
So, this behavior should not be used. For what? If you want to assert yourself, then go in for sports, and don't humiliate other people. I think the message is clear.
Impudence
Again, sometimes arrogance works, but you need to thoroughly gain the girl’s trust, and not immediately show arrogance. I have had impudence in relationships with girls and they liked it, but if a young lady I don’t know well shows impudence towards her, it is immediately perceived as aggressive and wrong.
Simply put, arrogance can be used when you already see that a girl likes you, but just like that, God forbid you do that.
Self-confidence
Excessive self-confidence is what pushes a girl away from a guy. Self-confidence, to be honest, is not something many people like. Therefore, it is better to refuse it. What is self-confidence? This is an unreasonable application to oneself of characteristics that one does not possess.
Simply put, self-confidence is a lie that a girl can sense from miles away. It is better to admit your shortcomings than to deny them.
Greed
I'm talking specifically about greed. Generosity, by the way, is also not very good, since you will be perceived as a bag of money, but greed does not make a man very attractive. It’s another matter that greed can be translated into a frame of homeliness; that’s another matter.
Simply put, being greedy is bad and throwing money away is also not good, it sucks when you are trying to buy a girl. That is, you have no personal qualities, so you do everything to buy a girl. And girls don’t like it when people want to buy them, though it depends on what kind of girls they are.
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Infancy
Infantility is immaturity in development. Simply put, a mama's boy. Until you grow up, girls won't like you. Only those who like to coo with immature guys. There are few of them. But they exist. So you have a choice.
And in fact, immaturity is not a good quality for a man. If you want heights and earn good money, then you need to separate from your parents as quickly as possible and start your own life, and not depend on parental advice and wings.
Show your feelings
The girl must know that you like her and want to date her, so that at any moment she can leave her boyfriend and try her luck with you. Naturally, if you have admitted your feelings, the girl should not know that you are friends with her boyfriend. If you confessed your crush on a girl after you became friends with her boyfriend, then it's okay.
What feelings should a girl talk about? There is no need to talk about love and the desire to have a family with her yet. There should be no snot or tears. All “snotty” approaches will only destroy your image of a confident and determined guy. It’s better to just hint that “you would like to date a girl like her,” that “she fits the image you like,” that “if it weren’t for her boyfriend, you would have already asked the girl to date.”
Do not force the girl to reciprocate your feelings, do not convince the girl to break up with her boyfriend. This won't help you for now. You're friends with her boyfriend, you've admitted your crush on her, and you're showing that you have all the qualities she'd want in a boyfriend—that's enough for now.
How to please girls using the subconscious?
In short, here you are. You have a set of negative beliefs about yourself: I'm lazy, I'm not beautiful, I'm not confident, no one loves me, etc. and so on. The trick is that these negative programs are embedded in your subconscious, but just think, if you change them to positive ones, what will happen to you then?
I will say that the world will change for you, and positive beliefs will take over and it will be easier for you to learn to please girls. I remove such negative beliefs from many people. Therefore, if anything happens, please contact my services section, I will help you with this .
Rule No. 3. Take care of your appearance.
What did you want? So that a well-groomed, fit, beautiful girl will pay attention to you when you, in turn, do not make any effort? It doesn't happen that way, friend. I have spoken about this more than once.
You have to look after yourself. These are such basic things that it’s even funny to talk about them, but many men forget about this and think that they are already handsome.
You must dress stylishly and appropriately. For example, if you go to a restaurant, then forget about sneakers. Conversely, in a movie, a formal suit will look completely ridiculous.
conclusions
In order for girls to like you, you need to develop first and foremost as a person. There is no point in buying girls, do you want them to sincerely like you or for them to perceive you as a sponsor? Again, the choice is before you. When I was young, I chose the first path of development, developed as a humorist, charisma and other joys of being a man.
And at the age of 20, I attended pickup training, and it really had a strong influence on me in terms of development. If you have the opportunity, I recommend attending this event. About how to choose a school, write in a personal message, I’ll tell you what I know, I won’t describe it here, I don’t want to be reproached for advertising.
And yet, if you don’t get your ass off the chair, then nothing will get better on its own, or you are developing. Either you degrade, there is no other option. But I know one thing, if you work hard, you will definitely succeed, maybe not right away, you will have to take in a lot of negativity, but the more mistakes you make, the stronger you will become in life.
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