How to tell a girl that I like her - how to hint to a girl that I love her

What's next?

Having analyzed the methods of communicating with a girl, I would like to highlight that not all guys are ready to go directly and talk to a girl.
This is why there are letters and the Internet. More specifically, social networks and phone applications. Send a letter and confess your feelings. Many guys find it easier to express their feelings this way. You can also become original and tell the girl what you like in poetry. Choose the perfect verse that describes your feelings and send it to your beloved as soon as possible. If you write poetry personally, this act will create a huge sensation. Believe me, a girl will be pleased to read a message that says that she is a “genius of pure beauty.”

Write letters as openly as possible, without embarrassment, tell the girl about your feelings. Use unique emoticons, pictures and GIFs. You can comment on your loved one’s photo. Shower her with compliments.

One young man asked the Elder: “Reverend, I need your advice.” I like one girl. Really like. I am tormented and don’t know what to do: get married or not. - Don't get married. - But why?! “If you really wanted this, you wouldn’t ask.”

How to make a girl jealous?

Avoiding Ambiguity

Without realizing it, a guy can sometimes express himself ambiguously. The human psyche notices bad moments first, so a girl can be offended by an unsuccessful compliment, and a guy will be sure that he said a stunning phrase.

Let's say a young man wanted to sincerely praise his companion's chubby cheeks. But such a compliment may disappoint and upset her. She will not notice that her gentleman likes her cheeks, but she will definitely remember that they are plump. The same goes for compliments about hips and breasts. Many girls will take statements about them as a manifestation of the arrogance and vulgarity of a young man.

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Why are guys afraid to tell a girl that they like her?

God created men to be quite brave, strong and courageous.
This is a necessary aspect for a happy existence. But there is such an important moment as love. In matters of love relationships, men are completely helpless, practically children. The moment a guy starts to like a girl, he begins to get lost, loses control over the situation and behaves inappropriately. He becomes vulnerable and vulnerable. The guy begins to think about the girl, dream about meeting and communicating. Let's look at men's fears of the fair sex.

What are guys afraid of?

young people often lower their self-esteem, thinking that they are not worthy of a girl;
guys are scared by the great popularity of their chosen one. Timid guys are afraid of competition;
inexperience in communicating with girls;
fear of rejection in a mutual relationship;
men are terribly afraid of ridicule from friends and acquaintances;
guys may be unsure of their feelings. They are afraid that the feelings that the young man experiences may turn out to be just sympathy.

Fears may intensify if a guy is interested in a girl who has many fans.
There is no need to be afraid, try not to attach importance and overcome your fears. In most cases, fears are not justified. 10 signs a girl is in love

Advice from psychologists

For a girl to pay attention to a guy, he needs to take care of himself. We are talking not only about his behavior, but about cleanliness and neatness. Before a date, be sure to tidy up your nails, hair, clothes and shoes.

You need to work on your intelligence and self-esteem. Girls prefer self-confident and intellectually developed men. Pleasant appearance will only affect the first impression, and later your mental abilities will also come in handy. A strong man who protects his companion, helps her in solving difficulties, keeps his promises, and will not leave his chosen one indifferent. Girls love optimistic guys who don’t whine that everything is bad for them, as well as generous, attentive and proactive guys.

Thus, to show a girl your interest, you need to be sincere, confident, and not be afraid of rejection. Hints should be used depending on the situation.

Correct hints from guys to girls that will help express feelings

Do you like the girl? So tell her about it!

Have you been talking to a girl for a long time and want to let her know that you really like her? It is better to prepare the ground and find out how she treats you from close friends and girlfriends. As they say - from trusted people. Talk frankly with your chosen one's best friend and find out all the points of interest.

As practice shows, it is optimal to tell your friend about your feelings. Believe me, it won’t take long for your chosen one to start showing interest. It will become much easier for you to take the first step and talk to your loved one.

You can spend more time with your chosen one. This way you will understand how she feels about you. You can communicate during a meeting and use virtual communication. This is the use of mobile applications and social networks.

When communicating with a girl, pay attention to the reaction when communicating with you. Her eyes can give away her attitude. When communicating, the girl will look away in different directions. The chosen one will not hold her gaze on you for long. She will be overcome by embarrassment.

Attention!

Hints may not help; you will have to go all-in, as they say. Pull yourself together and approach the girl and directly ask her how she feels about you. Two possible consequences are considered: either the girl confesses her feelings and the relationship will improve. Or the lady of the heart will hide her eyes and say that you are just a friend and nothing more.

Where and how to meet a girl: tips, examples

Hints depending on the situation

Sometimes confession of sympathy depends on the circumstances. For example, how long have a guy and a girl known each other, who they were before each other, if they knew each other, who they are now. It could be love at first sight, falling in love with a colleague, classmate, someone else's wife, or an old friend.

Love at first sight

When a guy sees a girl for the first time, and he already likes her, he usually smiles a lot, looks at her closely, compliments her, and asks her to give him her phone number. He tries in every possible way to attract the woman's attention to his person.

The guy begins to automatically preen: straighten his back, suck in his stomach, stroke his hair, straighten his tie, jacket or shirt. His thumbs guide his belt. The eyes gaze intently at the companion, the pupils dilate, the gaze goes from head to toe. He throws his head back a little, proudly showing his chin.

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Feeling sympathy for a woman, a man will come as close to her as possible. This is a sign that he is shutting her off from the outside world. A gentleman in love will copy his companion’s gestures, the position of her body, and the intonation of her voice.

Colleague

If a man is in love with a colleague, he will constantly look at her. He will want to at least sneak a look at the lady, and if she notices this, the guy will immediately lower his eyes. But a more decisive and self-confident man will take advantage of this moment and come up to be frank.

A colleague who is in love will catch the employee’s eye more often. He wants to spend more time with her. It may appear that he is stalking her. A guy who likes a girl at work casually touches her arms and shoulders.

At a corporate party, a colleague in love will certainly invite his passion to dance. He will also start sending her messages on social networks, offering her a ride home, treating her to cakes during her lunch break, and offering to meet outside the office.

Classmate or classmate

When communicating with a classmate or classmate, you can discuss the qualities that a guy likes in girls and say that she has them. In the conversation, you need to mention that the gentleman is free and invites his girlfriend to dance on the weekend. A couple sits together at a desk. If you like a girl from your class or group, you should suggest this idea to her.

Old friend

It happens that a guy and a girl have been friends for a long time, perhaps they are neighbors, former classmates, or simply meet in the same group of friends. Suddenly he realizes that he has fallen in love with his girlfriend. She will guess about this if the guy looks at her more often, walks her home, asks her to step aside to chat in private. In this case, you can tell her directly about your feelings and offer to see her more.

Another man's wife

If a man likes someone else's wife, he will try to attract her attention to himself. To do this, he will show that the people around him value his opinion, love jokes and communicate with him. To achieve this, the man will become more actively in contact with employees. Communication with other ladies will force the woman she likes to compete with them and win the attention of a man who immediately begins to seem attractive to her.

The next stage is to offer help with work or something else: look at the car, go to the store with it, choose a gift for someone close to you. You can, on the contrary, ask her for help. Seducing a married woman is not so easy, so before you actively act, you need to understand: does she like her or is this just a fleeting relationship; is she ready to cheat on her husband? If it is clear that nothing serious is planned with this lady, and she is not going to change, then you should not waste your time. It's better to pay attention to available girls.

So what should I do?

What should you do if you told a girl that you like her, but she didn’t answer?
In such a situation, the main thing is not to panic and get upset. Remember, you are a man and it is not your status to insult a girl. Do not try to create scenes of jealousy, do not joke with anger at her in the company of friends in the future. You can accept this situation with dignity, then the girl will rethink what is happening and look at you from the other side. Perhaps you will be able to build a relationship in the future.

Try to meet with friends or in the office, do not avoid the girl. On the contrary, try to communicate as if the frank conversation had not happened. If a girl becomes interested in you, she will definitely share this information. Don't let yourself put pressure on a woman.

An important point in wanting to please a girl is appearance. A “hanging” tongue is a good quality, what matters is how you look. The saying goes correctly: “You meet someone by their clothes.”

To look attractive you need:

take care of your hair, get regular haircuts;
shower regularly;
mandatory brushing of teeth (morning and evening);
shaving;
take care of your hands. Trim your nails on time;
use deodorants;
try to follow the style in clothing.

Girls are attentive to the appearance of guys, not always, of course.
Try to maintain good personal hygiene. If a girl notices that you take care of your body, she will understand that you are a completely collected and neat guy, capable of taking care of yourself, and perhaps you will be able to take care of her in the future. Interesting!

You can improve your image by regularly going to the gym, this will emphasize your strength and power. The main thing to remember is that you don’t need to put heavy stress on your body in an attempt to quickly lose weight or pump up your abs. Exercise wisely. Don’t force your body, because girls are not always attracted solely by appearance.

Guy talking to girl

The right approach to training will improve your health, get you in shape and help you maintain it, and also add confidence. Dexterity and endurance will help protect feelings from rejection and add masculinity.

Develop your spiritual qualities.

Prudence, calmness and patience are highly valued by representatives of the fair sex. Don't be nervous, don't be afraid to answer questions.

Try to answer girls' questions calmly and confidently. Measured and calm behavior will surprise your chosen one and will win you over.

Try to build a relationship with your beloved girl, showing maximum respect and tact. A girl must be desirable. Let the girl feel like a free person. In friendship, build relationships out of respect and goodwill, and you will achieve success.

How can a simple guy attract a girl's attention?
How to tell that you really like a girl and how to start a conversation correctly?

First, introduce yourself. Remember, you need to speak with a smile;
ask the girl about activities in her free time;
talk about the weather;
discuss pop culture;
find mutual friends;
give compliments;
show confidence;
participate in the conversation;
show interest in your interlocutor.

Know that girls love sociable guys.
Start a conversation, and then everything will go like clockwork. Important!

Don't know what to tell a girl? The answer to the question is simple - tell the truth. However, don't be disappointed if you don't get the answer you're happy with.

How to make a girl chase you?

Modest hints

You're dating a shy girl. She rolls her eyes, smiles shyly and blushes when you take her hand, noisily rejoices at the next teddy bear presented to you and kisses you tenderly and languidly, so that your heart begins to beat faster. Can someone like this hint at sex? Almost all the men grin and shake their heads negatively. So what should we women do? How does a girl hint at sex with tenderness and a mysterious look? She can kiss a little more openly, for example, caress your ear or neck with her lips, run her hand under your shirt, play with your hair. She seems to be teasing, checking whether she is welcome here, whether she is allowed to move on. The girl touches you gently and often. She doesn't let go of you. She dresses with special care. The modesty's behavior may resemble Lolita from Nabokov's immortal novel. These pigtails, a closed dress with flirty lace and an eloquent smile. How to hint at sex to a shy woman? She doesn't have many options. Silence and nonverbal signs of attention are on her side.

What should you not do?

Do not turn before the eyes of Turgenev’s girl from a gallant suitor into a preoccupied maniac:

Don't use sex as a bargaining chip. Offering a young lady any help in exchange for sex is, to say the least, impolite. The prospect of forced intimacy will definitely not arouse any particular enthusiasm in the lady. It’s more profitable to nail a nail for a simple “thank you”: admiration for the muscular biceps of a hard-working and modest guy will do the trick. When inclining a girl towards intimacy, spare her delicate mental structure. Attempts to “cheat it like a strawberry” are definitely doomed to failure if you directly focus on the physiological side of the issue:
“How long are you going to marinate me? Not small anymore. Must understand what's what. How long can you pretend to be hard to get?”;
“I feel good with you, of course, but for complete happiness it would be nice to feel like a man.”
Don't get carried away by funny pictures. It makes no sense to film secluded places of your body in order to please your chosen one with its shape and size. Girls don't love with their eyes, and your candid photos will definitely not turn on your chosen one.
Don't let go in vain. Does pinching, tickling and spanking your friend every five minutes give you pleasure? We understand. Have you thought about the young lady? Getting out of the image of an unapproachable beauty queen is not so easy. In addition, overt advances “in between”, outside of foreplay, are perceived by the opposite sex as sexual promiscuity. You easily risk running into the classic: “You need one thing from me.” Such a verdict will delay the date of the long-awaited event for a long time.

Nonverbal hints

We have already talked about the arsenal of a shy woman, and now we will consider the behavior of a well-read and experienced psychologist. She has studied the works of all the greats, can quote Freud and sees the phallic symbol in everything. How does a girl hint at sex in this case? She looks at your lips and even licks hers lightly. She strokes herself while looking into your eyes. This is how she makes it clear that she wants to feel your hands on her.

She shakes her head and tugs at a curl of hair. Hair for a girl is pride and a symbol of sexuality. She wants you to admire them, but she shows them off unconsciously. The girl understands that the man is excited by her breasts, and therefore breathes deeply and evenly. She looks into the eyes and listens carefully, because she knows that not only women love with their ears.

Hints with humorous overtones

We analyzed verbal and non-verbal. The time has come to consider hints through messages. Do you want your lover to come home in the mood for sex? Send her pictures with hints of sex. Intimate photo - your own or taken from the Internet. If you liked it, then your significant other will too. Do you have some free time? Then try writing poetry with a hint of sex. They shouldn't be long and vulgar. Several lines connected by rhyme and general mood. You can even limit yourself to blank verse or come up with haiku. Present your other half with your creation or send an SMS with a hint of sex. A girl can call her lover in affectionate words, in a joking manner evaluate his masculinity, talk about what she is wearing and how she wants her lover to strip her.

Through the eyes of a man

When a girl wants sex, she becomes a little different. From the outside, it seems to the man that her smell even changes and her voice becomes rougher. A woman's movements around the waist and touching the groin area excite and stimulate sex. A man is concerned about a woman’s chesty laughter, the demonstration of the fullness of her lips, décolleté, and pelvic area. Men unanimously say that sexual desire is caused by a woman in a dress, and in a dress of medium length, since not everyone is aroused by a mini. To persuade a man to have sex, choose deep, rich colors, such as red, provided that red suits you. Don't get carried away with too provocative manicure. If a girl wants to hint at sex to a man, then she must understand that he will not tolerate sharp long nails next to her body. And finally, the hairstyle. We have already said that shaking your hair and languidly biting a curl would be an excellent hint of sex, but “Babylons” on your head are absolutely unsexy. Let the hairstyle be as natural as possible, and the hair shiny, so that a man would want to stroke it and even get entangled in it after a sleepless night.

A hint at first meeting

Now we will consider another situation. You come to a club or party, where you notice a beautiful stranger. She is inclined to make acquaintances and is sexually attractive. How does a girl hint at sex in such a situation? She starts a conversation about him herself. This is already a clear sign. Follow her conversation. Is she talking about her fantasies? Asks provocative questions? Perhaps he compliments you, and the compliments show interest in your status? She is clearly interested in continuing the relationship. Treat her to a cocktail and invite her for a walk, and then nature will tell you. But in fairness, we note that such relationships rarely continue.

conclusions

Having chosen a way to subtly hint to a girl about sex, place the emphasis in the relationship correctly:

Don't miss the opportunity to take the initiative. Alpha males hover in predatory flocks around the fatal beauties. While you are sadly picking at the ground with your shoe, not daring to talk to the girl about the most important thing, your opponent is already typing an obscene proposal for her on VK.
Find a smart approach. Some people understand everything from their eyes, like in a song, but for others, French kisses are not enough. Try different options to bring what you started to a victorious end.

No matter how beautifully you try to hint to a girl about first sex, get ready for the fact that the siege of an impregnable fortress may take some time. Not all ladies are easy-going in this matter. Being too persistent will get you nowhere. The last word remains with the wayward beauty.