Before you give up, get disappointed and give up on yourself, figure out whether perhaps your life is shortened due to errors of perception?
The human consciousness tends to accumulate information without analyzing it. We are simply adding new to old. As a result, the important becomes overgrown with “husk” and ceases to be transparent and understandable. However, only a clear guideline that is understandable to consciousness can guide life. Any vague image excites the mind, but does not lead to the goal.
What is luck from a psychological point of view?
Some work hard to achieve success, while others are helped by various circumstances that have developed successfully. Did this happen by chance or is something helping them? This is a question that has worried many people for centuries and makes them use various methods to attract luck. Even in our very enlightened and very pragmatic age, the question of how to attract good luck to yourself has not lost its relevance. Even such a clear science as psychology has been seriously studying this phenomenon for a long time.
From the point of view of the science of psychology, luck is a non-specific concept. Because everyone has their own ideas about success, determined by their personal perception of the world and needs. For some, the object of desire is money, and becoming rich for him is luck. Some people see success in successful career advancement or gaining fame and widespread popularity. For some, it is enough to have a slim figure or a beautiful face to be happy, while others are not happy with the bins full of good things and continue to dream of success. Luck is something that is inaccessible to us and what we strive for. Only this can be done in different ways. If we want to understand how to attract good luck, let's turn to the authoritative opinion of famous psychologists.
Attracting good luck with the power of thought
Lying on the couch and starting to dream is, of course, great! But this is not enough. Dreams and desires must be supported by deeds. Moreover, they must be positively expressed, real (for your reality - someone can imagine that they are holding a million dollars in their hands, while for others a hundred thousand seems like a fantastic amount) and correctly formulated. Making wishes:
- Don't use the particle "not".
- Don’t think about the path to making your dreams come true – you should only be interested in the ending.
- Think about your goal as often as possible.
A great way to attract good luck is to use affirmations. These are phrases, the utterance of which (mentally or out loud) directly connects us with the Universe, giving it specific “commands”. Affirmations should be said immediately after waking up, before going to bed and throughout the day. You can use other people’s “blanks” or create your own. Please note that phrases are constructed only in the present tense:
- I deserve good luck.
- I am worthy of success, luck and money .
- I am always lucky in everything.
- I attract luck and money.
- I thank the Universe for being lucky.
Use no more than five phrases. They can relate to any area that you want to “pump up” (success, health, wealth, love, etc.). Say affirmations like powerful, energizing prayers. The main condition for their work is unshakable faith. Skeptics who decide to test the effectiveness of affirmations have no chance of changing their lives for the better using this method.
Talismans and signs for good luck
Probably every person has a sign that he believes in. Some cross the road when they encounter a woman with an empty bucket or a black cat. Others carefully remove the spider from their clothes, which, as is known, is “for money.” Still others rejoice by accidentally breaking dishes. Still others are looking for a banknote with their initials in the serial number, or they are wearing “lucky” clothes on an important day. Why not? Belief in omens, if it brings peace and confidence in the success of upcoming events, is justified and even useful.
Talismans and amulets “for good luck” have enormous energy potential, so you need to acquire them wisely. The best amulets are those made with your own hands or received from individuals whose love for you is undeniable (for example, from your mother). When choosing minerals, a type of wood or a coin for a talisman, you should thoroughly study their beneficial and negative properties.
The most significant stones in attracting success are aventurine, olivine and lapis lazuli. A money tree grown with your own hands from a sprout taken from the home of a successful person can act as a talisman. Images of a unicorn and figurines of elephants, horseshoes over the front door and four-leaf clovers work great, but only if you put the right meaning into them and do not allow doubts about their effectiveness.
Two categories of people
It is believed that lucky people are divided into two categories. Some of them go through life easily and, without any stress, receive a whole series of favorable circumstances that lead him to his goal. People say that they were born under a lucky star and easily get what the majority of people can only dream of. Such people know well how to attract good luck and how to make the best use of it. The other category includes random lucky ones, on whom luck descended suddenly and at once - winning the lottery, a fateful acquaintance, miraculous healing, etc. Such people should not be allowed to delay and should immediately seize their chance. After all, there may not be another case like this.
So, what is success and what is luck?
At the most cursory glance, it turns out that luck is a pleasant, but unplanned, unexpected coincidence of circumstances . Luck is difficult to analyze and repeat. Along with inner delight, it causes numbness and surprise.
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It is interesting that the recipient (the recipient of the gifts of luck) almost never perceives luck as something undeserved. On the contrary, we accept luck as “compensation for all our suffering.” However, others' success causes displeasure and envy. This is due to the fact that they, those around them, evaluate other people’s luck more than soberly. They consider it an undeserved act of God's help and in their souls they firmly believe that this will not happen again to the recipient of good luck, which will be fair in itself.
Meanwhile, our envious people themselves begin to believe in their souls that luck can become their destiny, which, in general, is “very deserved! After all, how much suffering and troubles have been experienced. Who else but me!”
Examples of luck include winning the lottery, getting a good place due to a lucky coincidence, making a great find, etc. Luck is characterized by a bright appearance, and then a sharp and no less bright curtailment of potential.
Thus, the main features of luck are its unexpectedness and its inherent internal undeservedness, as well as a sharp “temperature difference” in the recipient’s history.
How to keep and repeat your luck? — the recipient never knows. After all, luck is always like a bolt from the blue - go and say it again!
Here's what we think about success. Success arises as a result of systematic and focused movement towards the goal. Success is essentially achieving a goal. When we achieve success, we internally feel deep satisfaction and self-worth. We also get a vision of the path we have passed and the path that follows, because a systematic movement involving will leads us to success.
Having overcome the path of success once, we already know it and are able to repeat it. Those around you also evaluate success as fair, unless, of course, they saw the whole path to it and did not mistake your success for simple luck.
Of course, success may involve luck, but not every luck leads to success . The ability to grab the bird of luck by the tail and make it lay golden eggs is a rare ability that can rightfully be considered talent and personal success.
And the features of true success are:
· vision of one’s path – a successful person clearly sees and clearly communicates his goals and objectives; there are no foggy areas in his consciousness, the horizon is clear. He answers questions about his goals clearly, using personally formulated theses.
· the presence of a certain range of bright inclinations and interests related to the work of life. It is difficult to imagine a truly successful person without his own business, without a business in which he is passionately engaged. He doesn't care what he does. He prefers business to everything else.
· the ability for independent, purposeful movement - a truly successful person sees and realizes his goals without attaching fatal significance to current obstacles and difficulties, avoiding them without hesitation. He does not see and does not find reasons and opportunities for himself to refuse, stop, or not continue the path.
· the ability to repeat and develop success - if tomorrow such a person is overtaken by financial ruin or is rejected by certain key figures, he will most likely be able to start from scratch and quickly develop success, and will also probably move beyond current results.
· a truly successful person comes from himself and does not depend on opinions, anyone’s favor, blessings and luck. It's like he just can't help but do his thing. His impulse to action is always stronger than any obstacles or doubts.
· a successful person, as a rule, achieves his success alone, that is, he does not need or, at least, does not depend on either support or partnership in his movement towards goals.
Psychologists' opinion
Psychologist Philippe Gabiye expressed the idea that random luck is a rather rare and unpredictable thing. But there is another type of luck that is available to anyone and can be developed and activated in oneself. He claims that there are techniques for attracting good luck, and the one who owns them looks like a constant lucky person from the outside. His theory is supported by another eminent psychologist from the University of Hertfordshire in the UK, Richard Wiseman. He devoted a significant part of his life to studying various factors of luck. According to him, luck exists in a passive form that does not depend on a person, such as winning a game. It also arises as a result of a psychological attitude, making a strong-willed decision with a conscious, clear formulation of one’s own position.
Such luck can be controlled and achieved repeated repetitions. Therefore, in the language of psychologists, it is called long-term. Only for this you need to understand how to attract luck and constantly use this knowledge. Luck has five important components:
- meet the right influential person at the right moment;
- obtain some key information at the right time;
- be ready to gain new experience and basic knowledge on attracting good luck;
- receive an unexpected request;
- become a participant in a fateful event that can change your whole life.
According to Gabiye, in order for luck to visit you, you need to prepare fertile soil for it and ensure a clear attitude towards positivity. Advice from psychologists in this matter can be an important help in preparing the necessary conditions to ensure good luck. It is very important to understand that a person himself is the creator of his own happiness and has unlimited possibilities for this.
Where does the energy go?
There are plenty of devourers of our psycho-emotional resource in the surrounding reality. However, weakness of spirit is, first of all, an internal conflict, and only then its projection onto external stimuli. Think about it, we live in an era of comfort, when most of the primary tasks relating to survival and safety have already been solved.
But here's the trick. Modern studies, the respondents of which were residents of prosperous America, testified that the level of satisfaction with the lives of citizens with less external comfort 30 years ago was higher than now of complete abundance. Does happiness really have a level of marginal utility? Not really. This is because our attention is concentrated on what takes away vitality, and not on what creates it.
These are mental criminals.
Time Eaters
These include modern sources of mass information. The overwhelming percentage of content that we receive every day is negative or promotes false ideals as a standard of life. All this is packaged in an entertaining format, which puts even a sober-minded person into a kind of trance. Anxiety about the future and disappointment about not meeting high standards takes a colossal amount of energy from us.
Unhealthy Lifestyle
A poorly balanced diet, low physical activity, and abuse of alcohol, tobacco and medications do not at all contribute to a positive attitude in life. As a result, we grow old early not only in body, but also in soul. How to think positively when feeling bad? This is an almost impossible task.
Obsession with the past
People who carry around grievances, childhood fears, regrets and painful memories lose their sense of the present moment. They feed themselves with the illusion that they still have their whole life ahead of them, so they always find time for suffering and never for growth. Sometimes they simply do not notice the prospects and opportunities that fate throws at them. And therefore they see no reason for joy.
"Benefits of civilization
We live in a crazy age of digital technology that is developing faster than our willingness to accept it. Undoubtedly, gadgets, technology, transport and other attributes of modern life are an invariable component of it. However, their harm to physical and mental health is obvious. Radiation, toxins, anthill effect in a big city. This list can be continued endlessly.
Psychological problems
There are no people who are completely mentally healthy. However, there are those who recognize their negative attitudes and fight them. The rest prefer to live with unresolved psychological problems, going deeper and deeper into them. The worst thing is that not everyone is able to recognize their presence, continuing to lose energy and look for reasons in the external environment.
Procrastination and lack of purpose
Have you noticed how much time we waste in vain? Temporary wanderings on social networks, computer games, reading useless information. All this takes away vitality, which, with the correct goal setting, could improve the quality of life and restore meaning to it. Procrastination is a consequence of incorrect prioritization and lack of personal time management. Disorganization and passivity lead to a loss of control over your own life, and, consequently, the energy of happiness turns into a resource that is practically inaccessible.
Four settings
Psychologists tell us how to attract good luck and launch a happiness generator using only four important psychological attitudes.
- Formulation of the problem. In order to program favorable conditions for success, you need to clearly formulate the task and correctly choose the direction of movement towards the goal. Canadian psychologist Albert Bandura emphasizes that it is our awareness of our own value as an individual in the structure of society that determines the direction of development of luck. If there is no clear definition in the vector of development, then there can be no talk of long-term success. Therefore, to attract her, you need a detailed project of desires, which will indicate what exactly you want and in what areas of life you need luck for this. Each desire needs to be as specific as possible, divided into stages and begin to take actions to achieve them - obtaining the necessary education or skills, meeting useful people, etc.
- Internal readiness for global changes. To understand how to attract good luck, you should tune in as much as possible to the wave of change and catch information that can advance us on the path to success. In order to grasp the prospects of any information that comes to you in order to achieve success, you need to be extremely careful and instantly process the information for its usefulness and direct this flow of information energy in the required direction.
- Making the most of failures. When taking steps that turn out to be failures, you need to be able to derive some benefit from this, working on mistakes and turning negative experiences to your advantage. While focusing on your mistakes, look for opportunities to use your failures to your advantage.
- Expanding your circle of acquaintances. According to Philippe Gabillet, the wider your network of acquaintances and contacts, the greater the likelihood of being in the right place at the right time and taking advantage of this lucky opportunity. Only this acquaintance should not be of a consumer nature, but be sincere and open. Help people in life - the more often and selflessly you do this, the more likely it is that your kindness towards people will return to you.
The “UH” effect or feeling of being deceived
A beacon in the fog scatters light and the idea of a target. A lighthouse on a clear horizon guides the movement. Therefore, clarifying the concepts that guide our movement, which become our beacons and guideposts on the path to our goals, is a task of enormous importance, which, however, we almost never pay due attention to.
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For example, let’s take the following concepts: Success and Luck . Agree, they are inextricably stitched in our minds. Not even that. They are not just sewn, but joined together, like Siamese twins “U-U”. They occupy practically the same place in the matrix of images, the same place in our consciousness.
I used to ask my clients the question, what do they see as luck, and what do they see as success? The answer often contained an obvious dose of sarcasm. By answering, the person seemed to make it clear that he had caught a paradox in the question posed.
“Ah, fox! – Mr. Sotnikov, a 56-year-old man, the owner of the Rybolov+ chain of stores, answered me, squinting, “It’s the same thing!” No, of course, you can speculate a little and find differences not only in the spelling of these words,” he smiled slyly, “But it’s a pity for time, because I’m not paying to look for differences and similarities in words starting with the letter “U”... My time will run out , and you will end our meeting with a formal handshake. And I still won’t make any progress in analyzing the issues that are more important to me. My task is to figure out what the problem is with stagnation in business. I think I'm missing something important. This is what I came for,” he smugly pulled down his trouser leg and crossed his legs, waiting for my reaction. And that time I decided to end the experiment “U-U” with an ellipsis. This often turns out to be a productive practice.
There are clients with whom attempts to bring a person out of the state of “I know this better than you, baby,” end in deaf defense. This was the option. I looked at Mr. Sotnikov and understood that he had resolved some issues for himself once and for all. Since then they have not been subject to discussion.
However, Mr. Sotnikov was able to surprise me. I was once again convinced that it is impossible to know anything about a person in advance. And you can witness any incredible miracle. So, at the beginning of the next meeting, he said that he had thought about my question in the car while driving home and ... “there really is a difference.” He began to list the differences and, in the end, dug so deeply that he ended with the conclusion - Luck and Success are fundamentally different phenomena.
This time I believed in his satisfied bliss from himself. He sat cross-legged again, stroking the stubble on his cheek with a dry palm. This time he managed to go from a stereotyped idea to a deep personal understanding and separate, as they say, “cutlets from flies.”
This was a turning point in our communication. Then progress went by leaps and bounds. It consisted in the fact that Mr. Sotnikov stopped denying himself the analysis of even the simplest concepts and phenomena that have been contained in the consciousness in an unchanged form for decades.
Today my client does not need support. He became noticeably younger and significantly changed the course of affairs and his life. He is developing and is truly prosperous and successful.
For some reason, Mr. Sotnikov became the last client to whom I asked my “U-U” question. Then, looking at his defensive reaction, I suddenly came to the conclusion that the problem of misunderstanding the nature of success is very deep. It is at the root of many of my clients' failures and wasted valuable time. At the same time, the problem of complexes and reluctance to answer “elementary” questions practically leads communication to a dead end: “Well, why are you treating me like a schoolgirl!” “Please, let’s discuss something more significant!”
My insight became the impetus for the creation of the resource THE-MIND.RU, which is now directly aimed at analyzing all the significant beacons of consciousness and giving them a new life in the minds of readers. Now, often my new clients come to an introduction meeting with their “homework” already completed - they declare that they have been thinking about the topic “U-U”. And their thoughts become the object of our first meeting.
How to attract good luck
Listening in childhood to fairy tales about good sorceresses and the miraculous transformations of useless poor people into rich and influential people, everyone would like to have their own personal fairy for their own use, who would instantly fulfill all our “wants”. But few people realize that in real life such drastic changes are also possible. When thinking about what we lack in life and how to attract good luck and luck to ourselves, we should clearly realize that thoughts also have a material basis. At a certain stage, their quantity smoothly turns into quality, materializing seemingly out of nothing.
The thing is that our desires are clots of energy of a very high level. The higher the quality of thoughts, the higher the level of vibrations they emit, the faster they are embodied in material and moral benefits. By managing the energy of thoughts, you can learn to always achieve what you want, no matter how difficult it may seem at first. Psychology has long studied the question of how to attract luck into your life. Over many years of research, I have developed various techniques that are available to anyone who can connect to the universal earthly energy field. But these practices are effective only if you enjoy the process, in other words, emit high vibrations. The process of attracting good luck is simple and easy, does not require much time and creates a good mood.
Right in the morning, over a cup of coffee or tea, set yourself in a positive mood, give the mindset that the world is beautiful and it is looking forward to you with very pleasant and joyful news. By repeating this course every day, you receive a powerful positive charge and activate vibrations that will make every morning truly kind and joyful for you. Noticeable changes for the better will begin in the surrounding space, and without much hassle you will join the lucky category.
If something negative happens that hurts your heart, you need to neutralize the negative vibrations in three seconds, switching them to the mode of calm and tranquility. To do this, you should apply a ritual to neutralize negative emotions - inhale sharply, fixing it briefly in the throat area, and together with the exhalation say: PVB, which means “get out, you idiot!” This exhalation activates the vibration of the throat chakra, which is responsible for your emotional state. This technique clears space of negativity.
Reasons for failure
Every person from childhood believes in miracles and hopes for luck, and this faith does not dry up with age. However, people often fail. What is the cause of problems in your career and personal life, total lack of money, and how to deal with them? How to attract luck and luck into your life and end a series of problems forever?
A common reason for failure is a person’s unwillingness to change his own life, open up to the world and become a talisman for others. Many people, after a series of serious problems, prefer to be content with little, not take unnecessary risks and blindly run away from their happiness, fearing another disappointment.
The reason for bad luck can be quite banal. A person plans something for a very long time, mentally sees every detail, hopes for a certain result, but does not get what he wants, as a result he decides that he is being haunted by a series of failures, and gives up everything. At the same time, several steps may separate it from the desired goal.
There are often cases when luck and happiness are seen by a person only in dreams, but he is categorically not ready to turn them into reality. He simply does not see himself in a happy life, so he unconsciously maintains in reality the image of a chronic loser and at the same time complains to his acquaintances about his lack of luck.
Luck is often associated in our thoughts with financial well-being. All people need money, but very often “chronic losers” are afraid of getting rich and consider having large financial resources to be something shameful. They prefer to vegetate in poverty and envy successful people, but do not want to change anything.
A series of failures can deprive even the strongest person of self-confidence. Often problems at work are followed by troubles in your personal life, serious illness or loss of finances. The sooner a person finds the opportunity to get rid of a series of failures, the greater his chances of finding a path to prosperity, financial well-being and happiness in his personal life. It is important not to dwell on problems and find a way to distance yourself from them, for example, go for a walk, relax, change your environment or take up your favorite hobby, let new feelings and fresh emotions into your life.
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Snapping fingers
There is a technique of snapping your fingers with both hands at the same time - these clicks create a very powerful positive vibration. Since the right hand is responsible for the past, and the left hand for the future, the simultaneous activation of positive wave vibrations removes all negativity from the past and gives impetus to happy events in the future. By strengthening the clicks with the commands “allow” and “cancel obstacles”, you can work real miracles. When giving a command, imagine that it has already happened and snap the fingers of both hands.
Love sphere
If you do not know how to attract good luck yourself in the field of love and romantic relationships, use the following technique:
- take a position that is comfortable for your body, close your eyes and relax;
- imagine a white-silver luminous sphere at chest level, which you call the sphere of love;
- mentally reduce its size to a pearl and attract it to your heart;
- imagine the light spreading from the pearl throughout your body, increasing the intensity of its radiance;
- feel yourself as the source of this light, located inside the pearl and generating love and gratitude;
- carefully come out of this state by returning to reality.
To achieve maximum harmony with the world, use this technique - relax, at chest level with your eyes open, imagine the volumetric number 8, shining with white-silver light. Throw a stream of light through it and release it into space. The entire exercise takes 30 seconds, it works in any situation. It is not recommended to do this before going to bed.
The influence of symbols
People interested in esotericism have an idea of the impact that various symbols, numbers or colors can have on a person’s destiny. Given the fickleness of luck, special symbols have always been used to attract luck to favor it. They need to be kept in the house, at work, or worn on the body in order for them to “work.” The most common ones are:
- four-leaf clover, which is stored as a herbarium;
- a horseshoe made of metal, copper or gold, which is nailed above the door in the form of an arch. It will attract good luck and wealth, protect from negativity;
- a figurine of a toad with a coin in its mouth symbolizes great luck, activates monetary energy, taking on negativity and transforming it into gold coins;
- sailboat - good luck in business. This is a very effective technique, according to which the house is a harbor, and ships are sources of income. The more of them in the harbor, the better things go and the greater the profit;
- goldfish is a symbol of abundance and harmonious family life. Keep an aquarium with goldfish and enjoy happiness - personal and family.
Magical ways to attract good luck
There is no need to go to magicians, fortune tellers and witches - this is just good advice. Try homemade spells that have been tested by millions of people over several centuries. For them to work, you need to sincerely want it, clear your head and heart of grievances, mentally apologize to everyone for your mistakes and follow the recommendations. As an example, let’s take the following conspiracy: “I opened the doors, called luck, I will live beautifully, cheerfully, happily.” They read it with three lit church candles, fumigating the room with incense.
Colors
Some colors that attract good luck are considered no less happy. Red, green and yellow are considered the most effective colors for attracting good luck. Yellow symbolizes supreme power and imperial grandeur. Red is associated with beauty, happiness, success, and green attracts finances. When people want to achieve success in one of these areas, they surround themselves with these colors - in clothes, in the interior, decorate themselves with products and accessories with a predominance of the right lucky colors - and sooner or later success comes.
Human Strength Course
A fairly reliable, powerful and effective method for developing, strengthening, and cultivating personal energy is offered by the Human Strength Course - a unique set of practical exercises and theoretical knowledge, compiled from ancient sources and based on modern technologies.
The course of the Man of Strength has been tested many times, “passed through” by many dozens of people. In each of these dozens, he helped to develop what he was looking for, to develop something for the sake of which the psychology of luck and luck appeared.
Psychic advice
There are many different ways to attract good luck. The advice of psychics on this issue is very broad and varied. Each of them has its own methodology and its own ways of achieving success. But they all agree on one thing - only positivity attracts luck, and the more of it, the more significant the luck. Psychics advise the following:
- bring positivity to people;
- live in harmony with nature and the surrounding society;
- clearly formulate your desires;
- be friendly and responsive;
- suppress the negativity in yourself.
Personal energy and the psychology of luck
8. Regardless of any psychology, luck and fortune are determined only by personal energy. You can develop personal energy in various ways, but they are all associated with certain, primarily emotional, restrictions and strict internal discipline.
To gain personal strength, it is necessary, at a minimum, to increase it. A property that is not trained atrophies. In addition, it is necessary to avoid unnecessary and useless waste of energy. Today there are many esoteric systems that are trying to solve this problem. But the common element in all similar directions is a person’s conscious desire to work on developing himself and his personality.
Stones
To enhance your vibration, wear natural stones that attract good luck, such as:
- green chrysoprase, bringing good luck to all entrepreneurs;
- agate, an indispensable talisman for traders, brokers, lawyers;
- red garnet, guaranteeing business prosperity;
- jade - for money;
- carnelian bestows family happiness;
- coral is a symbol of maternal happiness.
There are many rituals, conspiracies, and prayers that clairvoyants use in their work. But they must be carried out by an experienced and knowledgeable person, otherwise there is a great danger of harming oneself instead of attracting happiness.
Interesting ritual
However, there is one simple ritual that does not carry any risk, and any amateur who wants to attract happiness can use it:
- take 9 coins;
- assign each a name that reflects your desire - happiness, love, joy, wealth, fame, health, strength, help, luck;
- put everything in a glass jar and keep it next to the money tree;
- on Wednesdays, take out coins and, sorting through them, say their names.
The magical power of words
Many people underestimate the power of words; they cannot even imagine what power can lie in words that are spoken from generation to generation. This power is capable of wiping out entire cities from the face of the earth, but if you use it for good purposes, it will help you connect with cosmic energy and be saturated with it. It’s not just about whispers; affirmations and mantras also have their power. The power of words can change your life, bring happiness, luck, and prosperity into it. You need to believe in your success, and the power of words will help you achieve it.