What is a temperamental person? What qualities are inherent in temperamental people? It is believed that temperament is given from birth, but life observations suggest that this is not so. It all depends on what environment a person is placed in. Then, under the influence of external factors, temperament and character may change. For example, if a child was melancholic in childhood, but had very active parents who broke his character, forcing him to obey, but he did not want to, they unwittingly developed in him leadership qualities more characteristic of choleric and sanguine people. This means that society and the team can only support and consolidate these character traits. This is how, in the process of struggle, one temperament can change to another. What does a temperamental person mean? What qualities are inherent in temperamental people? This is what we will talk about.
Leaders are loved or hated
A temperamental person is usually a very bright, extraordinary personality. He literally radiates energy. Some people get tired of such people, others feed off them. Temperamental people are leaders, they can be entrusted with leading a team, but they are not always punctual, so it is better to entrust phlegmatic people to delve into the little things. Those are more scrupulous, they are not annoyed that everything needs to be double-checked.
Since a temperamental person is interested in everything, most often he directs his activities in one direction and achieves excellent results. Or he scatters himself, looking for himself.
The first option can easily become a politician, public figure, or leader; the second option can simply become a drunkard, since he does not know how to set goals.
Of course, this does not always happen, but temperamental people are usually very “hot” in everything, including relationships. They can love very much and also hate very much. You should not quarrel with a temperamental person, especially if it gets personal, as you can hear a lot of unpleasant things about yourself.
Positive traits
Temperamental men take on the role of protector of the family and solver of all problems. They always have their own opinion and willingly share it with others, try to make their contribution to any issue, and instantly find solutions to complex problems.
Their brains work faster than other people's. Delay is like death. Aggression should not be confused with temperament. They may react in a calm manner, but act instantly.
If you are dating a temperamental man, you will rarely stay at home. Deciding such things as where to go on a date, where to spend a vacation, or what to do with your free time will not be a problem. A young man always has a hundred offers.
At work, temperamental people, as a rule, occupy leadership positions, or at least their opinions are taken into account by their superiors. They will not sit on the sidelines, even if the working moment does not concern them at all. In any case, they will try to speak out and influence the situation.
Temperament and choice of profession
A temperamental person is a receptive and impressionable person. He can quickly respond to a changing situation, he likes to participate in some urgent events. If he fails to become a leader, then he may be attracted to emergency services, such as the police, the Ministry of Emergency Situations or ambulance, and special services.
A temperamental person needs to act; he is bursting with energy and ideas. Usually friends adore such people, because you never get bored with them. They are quite bright in character, even despite their ordinary appearance. And they are looking for the same person as a mate. A temperamental person gets bored with someone who is slow-moving.
Depending on their capabilities and finances, such people like to play sports and various extreme sports. They are eager to try and experience everything on their own skin. Men can be fascinated by motorcycles, cars, diving, gliding, and women are not far behind them.
There are four types of temperament:
- choleric;
- sanguine;
- melancholic;
- phlegmatic person.
Choleric and sanguine people are considered the most attractive for communication, as they are more emotional and lively.
Yes, a choleric person often has breakdowns, he can be rude and starts screaming, but in any case he is more energetic than a melancholic or phlegmatic person.
Communication techniques for a temperamental person
Despite their energy and liveliness, people with violent temperaments have significant disadvantages . They do not perceive other people's point of view, are too explosive and demanding, domineering and stubborn, and can even be intimidating, especially for people with a softer temperament.
Typically, temperamental people get along better with non-temperamental people, since the latter manage to react to outbursts calmly and not demonstrate mutual aggression. But it may also be that you want to shout back. It’s difficult for those who have a temperamental spouse or boss. Dealing with so much energy and emotions is extremely difficult. What should you do for this?
- Remember that temperament is a type of nervous activity. The person is not behaving aggressively on purpose. Don't take it personally. Even if you are to blame for something, such an over-emotional reaction is caused by physiological characteristics, the inability to control emotions.
- Don't react with aggression. If you find it difficult to control yourself, try to walk away, or think about something distracting. You should not aggravate the situation, especially when you see that the interlocutor’s emotions are out of control and this can lead to insult. By the way, about how to respond to insults competently, read the link earlier.
- Talk when the interlocutor (husband/wife, friend) calms down. Calmly, without pressure, indicate your point of view and position. Show that your personality demands respect.
Temperament at work
A temperamental person is even good, since he is not only active in work, but also in life, and manages to do much more than others. This is a kind of energizer that pushes others to do some things and manages to do them yourself. Depending on your temperament, you can also be assigned tasks at work.
Sanguine and choleric people will always be a priority in the team, precisely because of their leadership qualities and ability to quickly make decisions. They are excellent at communicating with people, they have a lot of ideas and different methods for their implementation.
Phlegmatic is suitable for calculations, calculations, analysis, and fairly routine work. He is in no hurry and will always take into account the mistakes of a sanguine person and a choleric person. Melancholic as a performer also has its place. The main thing is that he must be stimulated all the time and certainly praised, otherwise he will quickly become limp.
What is temperament?
Nature gives us innate properties - desires and temperament, but does not provide them with development and implementation. You can be born with a visual vector and a high temperament, but never go to art school, don’t start drawing, and spend your whole life with the feeling that something is missing
14 48840 July 24, 2011 at 02:07 Author of the publication: Maria GRIBOVA, specialist in international law and international relations
We tend to play with this word: she is such a temperamental actress, he is such a temperamental man, I have such a bright temperament! What are we really talking about? Temperament - what does it mean and what is a temperamental person? First of all, we need to clarify the definition itself: what the word temperamental means.
In this article we will not talk about the definition of temperament and the classification of its types accepted in psychology. We will talk about the everyday understanding of the word “temperament”. The explanatory dictionary of the Russian language by S. I. Ozhegov defines temperament as follows:
- The set of individual mental properties of a person, characterizing the degree of his excitability and manifested in his attitude to the surrounding reality, in the strength of feelings, and behavior.
- Vital energy, the ability to rise internally.
What mental properties are we talking about when we talk about temperament? And what does this mean - a temperamental person has a large amount of energy - where does it come from?
Systemic vector psychology gives a shorter definition: temperament is the degree of expression of the properties of a vector, the strength of its manifestation. In other words, the vector given from birth determines the direction of our desires, and temperament determines the strength of this desire. That is, the most temperamental person is the one who has the maximum strength of desire in his natural properties.
But by what criteria in system-vector psychology can this quality – temperament – be determined? How to measure temperament? Devices, as we understand, do not exist. However, thanks to system-vector psychology, we can measure temperament on a conventional scale from 1 to 10. So, I am an anal-visual boy. From ancient times to this day I have been an artist. A simple craving for drawing, under favorable developmental conditions and with a sufficiently high temperament, develops into the creation of real works of art. What does it mean to be a temperamental person with such properties?
Temperament 1 . I loved to draw as a child. I'm not drawing now. I love looking at pictures and traveling.
Temperament 2. I was good at drawing as a child and at school I was good at drawing. Sometimes the thought occurs to me: “Perhaps I should have become an artist.” But I became a lawyer.
Temperament 3. As a child, I drew so well that my mother sent me to art school. He graduated from art school, but did not continue drawing, but went to work as a designer.
Temperament 4. I drew very well at school, graduated from art school, and became an artist. My paintings have never been exhibited at exhibitions, no one has ever bought them. But all my friends and relatives know that I am a talented artist who is simply unlucky - he does not sell anything or exhibit.
Temperament 5. I drew very well as a child, graduated from art school, and became an artist. I tried to break through, but it didn’t work out, but I had a couple of exhibitions. True, no one bought anything, but friends buy to support.
Temperament 6. I exhibit at exhibitions periodically and sell some of my works.
Temperament 7. I constantly exhibit at exhibitions and sell my work.
Temperament 8. I am a brilliant artist. Everyone is talking about me. My works are in great demand.
And so on up to 10. The higher the temperament and the more favorable the conditions for a person’s development, the higher his achievements in a particular area. So, is a temperamental man or woman a given from birth? Or is being temperamental a result of a certain upbringing? Let's take a closer look at what the word temperamental means through the prism of systems thinking.
Temperament is a property given from birth; it does not change throughout life. Today you rarely meet single-vector people; most of us have 3-4 vectors. The temperament for all these vectors, properties, desires is the same. It cannot be said, for example, that a person has a high temperament in vision and a low temperament in anality. This is not true. The temperament is the same, but different vectors within one capsule of living matter (one person) can be more or less developed and implemented. If this is a temperamental man with an anal-visual ligament of vectors, then the strength of desire in each of the vectors of his psyche is approximately the same.
You also need to understand that nature gives us innate properties, desires and temperament, but does not provide them with their development and implementation. In other words, you can be born with a visual vector and a conditional temperament of 5, but never enroll in an art school, do not start drawing, and suffer all your life that something is missing: “The soul wanted something else from life.” The given temperament will remain unused.
The System-Vector Psychology training confirms: temperament is only a potential that requires development and application.
You will learn more about innate properties and desires, temperament and how to better realize yourself at the training on system-vector psychology by Yuri Burlan.
Author of the publication: Maria GRIBOVA, specialist in the field of international law and international relations
The article was written based on materials from the training “System-vector psychology”
Mixed psychotypes and the possibility of motivation in family or work
What does a temperamental person mean? Is there only one type of temperament inherent in a person? No, a mixture of psychotypes is more common, because there are no purely choleric and sanguine people, but by finding a convenient combination of temperament, you can get an excellent lover or worker, depending on who is looking for the person for what purpose.
It’s hard to pass by a bright personality; in any case, she attracts. If a person's abilities are used correctly, he can create miracles. The most important thing is motivation.
How does a man's temperament affect his behavior during sex?
It is easier for a woman who knows what her chosen one wants in intimacy to satisfy his needs and adapt to his temperamental characteristics than for one who acts at random. Thanks to such an important science as psychology, it is quite possible to become familiar with the behavioral characteristics of men of different temperaments during sex. All that remains is to find out which of them your chosen one belongs to.
If your loved one is choleric , he can be described as an anxious extrovert, strong and active, emotional, loud, gesticulating energetically, unable to sit in one place for a long time, constantly on the move. You should not expect a tendency towards self-sacrifice or charity from the behavior of a man of this type. But eccentric actions and spectacular antics await you. You won't be bored with him.
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As for sex, he will need to be constantly surprised. He does not accept having sex in pitch darkness or hiding under a blanket. A choleric person has a desire to demonstrate himself in all his glory. He expects admiration and compliments from you. The more praise he hears from you, the more he will try during intimacy. He longs to hear that you find him beautiful, gorgeous, sexy. He wants assurances that you have never had a better experience with anyone else than with him.
To win him over and keep him interested in you for a long time, you need to impress him in sex. You will have to constantly learn something new and surprise him with your extraordinary abilities in the love game. However, do not forget that the leading role should belong not to you, but to him.
Don't forget to create the right mood. Thanks to the romantic surroundings with candles, stimulating aromas, music, beautiful linen, you will tune him in to the right wave. The surroundings are no less important to him than sex.
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Your chosen one will like it if you give him a striptease before starting the sex scene. He wants to feel like a hero in a movie. Therefore, he will welcome the idea of having sex in an unusual place, as shown in the movies. Do it under the moon on the roof or on the seashore, give him hot sex in the pool or even in the elevator. He likes to experiment with changing the environment, with new positions or games during intimacy.
Is your loved one sanguine? Men of this type are classified as extroverts with low anxiety. They are characterized by insensitivity to other people's emotions. They have a sober mind, prudence, high efficiency, and ambition. Such men make excellent leaders. These are very power-hungry individuals.
As for sex, a sanguine man can be called a real gourmet with a penchant for “gluttony.” You will have to try very hard to win such a man. Show him all your skills and abilities, knowledge of many techniques.
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Sanguine people like women who love oral sex and master its technique perfectly. If you lack experience and knowledge in this matter, then you will have to try and learn if you want to be with your chosen one. He is very technical and resilient, he can give you a sex marathon that will last more than one hour.
To impress a sanguine person, you don’t need extravagant antics, romantic surroundings or concern for the aesthetics of sexual intercourse. He is too practical to pay attention to such nonsense.
A sanguine man will appreciate a hardy and skillful partner. Therefore, you have to work on developing these qualities in yourself. Engage in sports, dancing, training intimate muscles, plasticity. This will be useful to you to impress him in sex.
Since it is quite difficult to understand him, as well as to be understood by him, you have to make a lot of effort. You may even need to attend special psychological training. It will be especially difficult for a woman with an active psyche, since communication with this type of man can damage her self-esteem.
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If your chosen one is phlegmatic , then you should know that you are dealing with an introvert with low anxiety. Such men are not the life of the party, but they are absolutely non-conflict and are distinguished by the fact that they are ready to take responsibility.
You shouldn’t expect a phlegmatic man to take decisive action towards you. If you want to connect your life with him, then be prepared for the fact that you yourself will have to propose to him and take him to the registry office. He expects maternal care from his chosen one. He will be a faithful husband, especially if he feels comfortable at home with you. His conservatism and laziness prevent him from moving to the left.
In sex, the most important thing for a phlegmatic person is his own pleasure. He is committed to the same scenario of intimacy. Changes do not appeal to him. It is important for such a man to feel that sex with him is unforgettable for you.
A phlegmatic man is very clean. A sloppy woman can discourage him from having sex with her.
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Is your man a rare type - melancholic ? You should know that you are dealing with an anxious introvert. Melancholic characterizes vulnerability, sensitivity, and emotionality. He may appear calm on the outside, while on the inside he is in deep emotional turmoil.
Visually, a melancholic person is calm, leisurely, uncommunicative and shy. His movements and gestures seem sluggish. He has an internal fear of being offended and misunderstood, so he does not seek to get close to strangers.
He behaves completely differently in an environment where he feels confident that he is loved and accepted for who he is. He feels good in the company of close people and alone with himself. This is a very unselfish person who cares that other people around him feel good and comfortable. He easily yields to his loved ones and shows a keen interest in them. Ready to make sacrifices for the sake of loved ones.
Most of all he wants love. Sex without love is unacceptable to him. He will appreciate intimate conversations, hugs and tender kisses. He likes long foreplay.
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Despite his calm image, he is quite capable of spontaneous actions. He is distinguished by the fact that he knows how to understand his chosen one and adapt to her desires. He is concerned about the woman’s feelings, her sensations. Receiving attention and love in return, he can become an ideal partner.
You can impress him in sex not with extravagant antics with handcuffs or a whip, but with sensuality and tenderness. He likes oral sex, intimate massage. He is in the mood for romance and tenderness.
Whatever type your chosen one is, you should not blindly follow the advice of psychologists. Rely more on your intuition, especially if there are sincere feelings between you.
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Temperament and human capabilities
A lot depends on temperament. For example, a sanguine person and a choleric person will go to the end and fight, which cannot be said about a melancholic person. In life and in their attitude towards people they will also differ from each other.
Temperament influences one’s position in life; active people want to achieve more, they have a stronger will, and they don’t give up. Even after making a mistake, they will not cry like a melancholic person, or think and delve into themselves like a phlegmatic person, but will simply move forward.
How to determine the temperament of a woman and a man
You can determine a person’s temperament using special techniques and tests. Although the psychological tools are universal for different sexes, psychologists have identified some differentiated criteria by which the temperament of men and women can be determined separately.
A choleric man is identified by sharp facial features, sweeping gestures, and sudden movements. This does not mean that a choleric woman does not have these traits. But for her, these manifestations will be smoothed out by grace, femininity and concern about how the movements look from the outside, whether they make her attractive.
Temperamental choleric
In contrast to choleric people, phlegmatic men tend to slowly carry out their work duties and think about decisions for a long time. They are silent, calm, their facial expressions and gestures are meager. Phlegmatic women behave in a similar way, however, due to their feminine nature, they feel the need to communicate, but not to a large audience, but in solitude with their best friend.
A sanguine man quickly gets excited about a new idea and just as quickly loses interest in it. After some time, he may again show passion for a particular topic. Such people are easy to communicate, their mood is high, and they do not tend to worry about certain failures. They are able to charge others with their positivity. They are often informal leaders in the organization and the soul of the company. Men and women with a sanguine temperament have virtually no differences in social interaction.
There is a widespread belief among astrologers that temperament is determined by one or another zodiac sign. So, for example, among Sagittarius, Taurus or Scorpio there are many temperamental ladies.
Interesting fact. A temperamental man can be recognized by his secondary sexual characteristics. Such gentlemen have a pleasant low timbre of voice, thick hair not only on the face, but also on the chest, and a strong physique. External signs of a temperamental girl are plump lips, contrasting appearance, and extravagance in her image. The temperament of girls is more noticeable in their behavior rather than in their appearance.
Temperament and sex
The more temperamental a person is, the brighter the sexual sensations. It’s hard to call him a log; he will be constantly looking for something new. Men can sometimes be a little cruel and rude, but this is also a strength of temperament. Women are usually very creative and active lovers.
Cholerics and sanguine people are rarely introverts, they are very sociable, so their sexuality attracts many people to them. Charismatic by nature, smart enough and able to attract people to themselves, such types rarely remain lonely.
Love relationships are often like a bonfire, so you can choose either a calmer person or an equal in temperament as a couple. It all depends on preference.
Content
- Temperament in psychology
- Household aspects
- Positive traits
- Negative qualities
Hello, dear readers! Sometimes psychological terms begin to be actively used in everyday life and lose their original meaning. This is what happened with the word “temperament”.
A temperamental man is, as it seems to us, an energetic, passionate, active guy. Although in psychology everyone has a temperament. All people are divided into 4 types. I think you are familiar with them or have at least heard them once - “choleric”, “sanguine”, “phlegmatic” and “melancholic”.
How to use temperament for good
A temperamental person is good, but it is necessary that he is not stupid, knows how to restrain his emotions when necessary, and uses his capabilities in the right niche. Otherwise, temperament may fail.
If a person is stupid and hot-tempered, then he will be constantly persecuted by the law for his antics. Most often these are emotional people who do not know how to control themselves.
A very temperamental person is very passionate about his work, so you just need to direct him in the right direction, then he will not only become a leader, but will also bring a lot of benefit thanks to his energy and ability to lead.
Negative qualities of a temperamental man2
If he has developed such qualities as wisdom, the ability to control himself, and willpower, then negative qualities can be avoided. However, not everyone succeeds; temper and haste interfere with this.
Temperamental men are stubborn. They are always confident that they are right and do not decide to take into account the opinions of others. The wishes of others are rarely taken into account. A temperamental man will stand his ground to the last.
Sometimes a man's temperament is not characterized by restraint and high emotional etiquette. Therefore, an immediate reaction will not always be rational. It can be accompanied by outbursts of rage, anger and thoughtless actions.
A temperamental man can be compared to an active volcano. At any moment he can “explode” and not every girl is able to withstand and understand such male behavior.
He wants all women's attention to be directed only to him, and if he suddenly feels that he is not receiving the maximum amount of attention, he will become suspicious. The man will doubt his partner’s feelings and begin to look for a rival or other reasons that led to such female behavior.
If a man with a temperament occupies a leadership position, they may say unnecessary things and make a decision without thinking through its consequences in advance.
But if a man knows how to control his emotions and behavior, then it is quite possible to learn to turn negative qualities into positive ones.
