Envy is an unpleasant feeling of annoyance associated with the experience and knowledge of “other people’s” successes. The object of envy is not only an object that someone has - a car, an apartment, a computer. The shadow of envy falls on the relationships of those with whom you were unable to establish contact in time. The object of feelings of envy is considered to be great opportunities for someone (for example, you do not envy a friend’s financial success. But you think that you would have used the money more wisely - opened a store or something else). Psychology gives the answer to why negativity is created and how to get rid of envy of people.
Operational counteraction
In order not to become a victim of an ogling person, you need to talk about yourself as little as possible, and also share your happiness. You won’t even think that you can be seriously jinxed when you are shining with happiness! In the old days, it was advised to spit three times over your left shoulder (there supposedly is a demon sitting there) and then knock on a wooden object three times. This applies to the case when you recklessly boasted about something.
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How to protect yourself from envy and ill-wishers? If you are communicating with an unpleasant person who can easily do harm on an energetic level, keep your fingers in the shape of a cookie behind your back. You can also keep your hands in your pocket. While you are talking with a person, do not straighten your fingers.
Another way to protect yourself from energetic lightning is to touch a metal object. Just hold your keys or anything metal in your hand, you can grab an iron railing or a door frame. Whatever comes to hand, hold on to it. Metal has the property of recording information into its crystal lattice - the energetic lightning will remain there. It will pass through you and be written on the metal.
The simplest method is to cross the limbs. Cross your arms (fingers together) or legs. Or better yet, both. This action will close your energy cocoon and make it inaccessible to black thoughts.
When you get home, you should immediately wash your face and hands under the tap. Splash water in your face and imagine that the black energy of the evil eye is being washed away from you. You can take a shower.
How to protect yourself from envy? When communicating with an ogling person, you need to do the following. Look at the area between your eyebrows and say the following to yourself:
The ringing of bells drives away any infection and cleanses the subtle bodies of a person from negativity. If there is a church near you, come when the bells are ringing and stand while the bells ring. At this time, you can read the Our Father. The aura will be completely cleansed of energy dirt.
If you managed to jinx yourself, you can immediately correct the situation. Light a candle, stand in front of the mirror and look into your eyes. In this case, you need to say the following words three times:
Place the candle near a mirror or on a windowsill and let it burn completely. Remember that it is better not to boast about your successes and not to be overly happy when your desires are fulfilled. Sometimes this is the trigger for events to turn in the opposite direction.
Where does vice come from?
Psychologists consider envy to be a deep psychological property of an individual, which is characteristic of all people since ancient times. It manifests itself on three levels:
- conscious;
- at the level of emotional experiences;
- in real behavior.
The main driver of this feeling is the spirit of competition. But this is not the only reason for envy. It is formed from a whole cocktail of “ingredients” that directly or indirectly affect people’s lives:
- Subconscious or conscious desire for equality. If a person believes that all people on earth deserve approximately the same living conditions, then he will be irritated and outraged by the achievements of others.
- Heightened sense of justice. If a person adheres to the idea that everyone will be rewarded according to their deserts, then she will not be able to be calm if someone is successful.
- The presence of certain aesthetic attitudes can cause wild envy in an opponent. If in childhood a child’s parents constantly told him “It’s impossible to make a big fortune honestly” or “You won’t be able to achieve anything in this life without cronyism,” then, growing up, such a person cannot rejoice at the successes and wealth of others.
- Jealousy gives rise to the development of envy. If the person you like pays attention to someone else, along with a feeling of possessiveness, aggression and hatred towards the “homewrecker” arise.
- Excessive faith in fate gives rise to a person’s feeling that others are luckier in life. Such people refuse to take responsibility. They try to blame higher powers for all troubles. They prefer to enviously hate those for whom fortune smiles.
- Low self-esteem is the most common cause of envy. To people who are insecure, everyone who gets in their way seems more successful, more beautiful, smarter, richer. Objectively, such conclusions may be erroneous, but in this case, envy becomes an important component of an inferiority complex.
Salt baths against the evil eye
If you feel unwell, lack of strength or have a headache of unknown origin, you need to quickly correct the situation with salt and water. Salt is an excellent absorbent - it absorbs any dirt, including energy dirt. You just need to first give her a task to remove the negativity.
Pour a pack of salt into the bath (or just 9 handfuls) and fill with warm water. Stay in the bath for 10 minutes and then rinse off in the shower. You can’t stay in the salt solution any longer, as it begins to draw out positive energy. In 10 minutes, the salt will take away everything negative, and you will emerge from the bath as reborn.
If you visit the steam room twice a month, no evil eye is scary.
In the old days, the evil eye was driven out with a birch broom. If you have the opportunity to visit a Russian steam room, then you can easily expel any dark energy. The main thing is to rinse with cool water after entering the steam room. How many times should I go to the steam room and for how long? It is enough to sit there for 3 minutes, you should enter the steam room 3 times. Do I need to read prayers at the same time? No no need.
Stages of formation
In psychology, envy is a phenomenon that manifests itself in the form of hostility, irritation, hostility and a strong feeling of annoyance. When negative emotions arise, no reasonable arguments can stop their flow.
It may seem that envy forms at lightning speed. In fact, the formation of this unpleasant sensation occurs in stages.
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Idealization of an object
The first stage in the formation of envy is the idealization of another person. A distorted perception of personality is expressed in the fact that the individual begins to downplay the opponent’s shortcomings and, on the contrary, exaggerate his advantages.
In the case of white envy, such behavior can push a person to self-improvement. But more often, idealization deprives a person of the right to make mistakes. People who turn a blind eye to the shortcomings of others are sensitive to their own mistakes, and therefore demand that they perform all tasks perfectly. But achieving perfection is impossible. As a result, these people always remain dissatisfied with themselves.
Self-devaluation
Watching the object of envy, a person begins to ignore his own merits. Constant comparison with an idealized person ends in self-disappointment.
Against the background of imaginary competition, a feeling of hatred develops. A person devalues his own victories if they are not on the same level as the achievements of the object of envy. The individual develops self-doubt, an inferiority complex, and loses the desire to act further.
Projection of deficiencies
The envious person not only ignores his own merits, endowing them with the idealized person, but also appropriates all his shortcomings to himself. After such a metamorphosis, the individual develops a strong feeling of resentment and irritation towards the object of envy.
In order to somehow calm his own ego, a person begins to project his own shortcomings onto the idealized object. In such a state, a person can be so consumed by hatred that he is capable of committing a lot of unproductive actions.
Energy protection
This method is suitable for those who are familiar with the human energy structure. When you feel something is wrong, begin to rotate your aura in a spiral. When rotating, your biofield is cleared of black energy and renewed. How to rotate the biofield? You need to start from the feet and end with the top of the head.
You have to bandage your body with energy. The first layer of energy lies close to the body, the second - slightly at a distance, the third - even further, and so on. You can apply 20 or 30 layers, as you decide.
Remember that the world around you reflects your own thoughts and intentions. The more positive energy you radiate, the more good will come back to you. Do not succumb to the provocations of anger and envy - protect your mind and soul from destructive black energy.
Why you can't be jealous
It has been proven that envy is the primary source of constant depression and dissatisfaction. Prolonged stay in this state leads to negative consequences.
A person becomes disappointed in himself and has health problems.
At the initial stage, you may experience difficulty falling asleep and insomnia. Lack of proper rest leads to impaired blood flow and cardiac dysfunction, which negatively affects health and can provoke the occurrence of various diseases.
If a person is jealous, this condition will negatively affect the immune system, which is why the likelihood of infection and the development of physical pathologies will increase significantly. Doctors assure that envious people more often than others suffer from mental, emotional disorders, and emotional impotence.
Living your life is important
If you constantly monitor the events happening in the lives of others, the likelihood that a person will miss his chances increases. He will not be able to build a full-fledged relationship and career due to the fact that he will focus on what is happening around him.
From the gypsy evil eye
Many people are justifiably afraid of gypsies, as they have a black eye. The gypsy evil eye is considered the most powerful and difficult to remove. Therefore, it is better not to start a conversation with representatives of this tribe and not look them in the eye. Go your own way, no matter how the gypsy clings to you.
If you nevertheless talked to the gypsy, and even refused her request to tell your fortune, you need to take urgent action. A person may feel sudden weakness, headache and even heart pain. Therefore, when you arrive home, pour tap water into a cup and read the special spell:
Having said the spell three times, drink water and sprinkle the room. The spell must be read by bringing a glass of water close to your lips so that your breath touches the surface of the water. You cannot simply read spell words into space; they must seem to be immersed in water.
If you are a believer, read a prayer appeal to the Mother of God and ask for her protection. You can simply read the Lord's Prayer 9 times, placing the sign of the cross at the end of each reading.
You can read another plot, a longer one.
What is envy?
Have you ever felt upset for no reason when a friend achieved something you always wanted? If someone else's happiness or achievements bother you, even if it has nothing to do with you, you are likely feeling jealous.
At work or in classrooms, you have had to deal with people who always had happiness while you had the short end of the stick. Self-doubt, feelings of loss or fear of losing something or someone, envy, anger and other ugly emotions collectively constitute jealousy. Therefore, it is very important to learn to control such emotional imbalance and know how to stop being jealous.
If you feel like you are obsessed with other people's successes or failures, it means that you are jealous of that person.
