How to cheer up a guy - ways to switch your loved one to the positive

Author: Maxim Potashev

Your beloved guy, like any living person, cannot always be in a good mood. He is susceptible to depression and stress. Of course, I don’t want to leave it in this state. Obviously, the question arises - how to cheer up a guy? There are several ways to please your loved one when you are near him or when you are away from him.

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Due to a difficult work schedule, two people in love are forced to communicate by correspondence on a social network. And in this case, there are 5 surefire ways to help cheer up a young man:

Try to make him laugh
. Don't know how to do it yourself? The Internet will help you! Find a joke that you like in the vastness of the World Wide Web and send it to his wall;
If your boyfriend is a romantic, then send him a photo of you together by private message
. Be sure to write how much you love him and are happy that he appeared in your life. Wait for his answer, then remember together the best moments of your relationship. After a few minutes of such dialogue, he will forget that he was recently in a bad mood;
Do you know what your boyfriend likes to listen to or watch? Let this be your main “trump card” in an attempt to cheer him up. Send to his wall on VK or Fb several compositions
by your favorite artist, a film with an idol, or a selection of the best football goals;
Arrange an erotic photo shoot at home
. Send him the best shot in a private message. He will forget to think about his problems;
Invite him to take a walk
and unwind, come up with an interesting program for him.

If you feel that your boyfriend is in a bad mood, then do not try to find out what happened to him. Better distract him and make him forget about his problems.

Answers to any questions

How to cheer up via SMS?

Not everyone has the opportunity to visit a social network. In this case, it is enough to send one SMS to your lover, it will make him look at life differently. To achieve a good result, you need to use the right phrases. Here are a few of them:

“Come visit today, take a good mood with you. This will be the best gift for me";
“Remember, beloved, your envious people are in a state of torment when they know that you are in a good mood. Don’t give them a reason to rejoice”;
“Do you want me to smile today? Then give me your good mood!”;
“I love you madly when you are attractive. But you only become like this when you are in a good mood!”;
"You are the best man! Smile, because a smile suits you!”;
“Even if everything is bad for you now, remember, I will always be there”;
“Smile more often, then you will make me happy.”

Be sure to add a lot of funny emoticons to your message. You shouldn’t bombard his phone with messages; one or two phrases are enough.

If you are far away

Unfortunately, it is not always possible to be close to your loved one. For this case, there are modern technologies - the Internet and telephone, they allow you to feel closeness even at the longest distances.

Cheer up via SMS

The best way to cheer up a guy on the phone is to make him laugh. So let's get started. Open the messages, write one of the following funny phrases and click “send”.

“What if our world is an illusion, and nothing really exists? Then I wasted my money on this carpet...”
“Most men who fall in love with a dimple make the mistake of marrying the girl entirely.”
“In order to make love, a girl needs a good reason, and a guy needs a comfortable place.”
“Beer is further proof that God loves us and wants us to be happy.”
“The boss is exactly the same person as the others, only he doesn’t realize it.”
“Young people rule the world. When they get old.”
“They learn from their own mistakes, and build a career from others.”

Phrases from the category of black humor

If your betrothed has everything in order with imagination and humor, then you can use not the most banal phrases to lift the mood:

“A nail is a strange thing. From frequent changes of holes, it bends, and, remaining in the same one, it will immediately rust”;
“Do you want your day to go smoothly? Eat a raw toad in the morning. Trust me, this will be the worst thing that will happen to you today”;
“Even mice, when they are in pain, still continue to eat thorny plants”;
“Are you thinking or did the genius just awaken in you?”;
“Nothing is known about the real truth, but there are rumors that there is definitely none in the legs.”

There are still a lot of original phrases, but you should use them only if you are sure that your man is truly gifted with a sense of humor.

How to cheer up a guy if he's nearby?

It is much easier to cheer up your loved one when he is nearby. But here too there are some peculiarities.

Do you think a man is a strong creature who does not need affection and care? You are wrong! If your lover is feeling bad, just hug him and tell him how much you love him. Do it sincerely and sincerely;
Take advantage of your feminine sexuality. Seduce him, invite him to play pranks. Such a proposal will make him forget about his bad mood;
Men love to be admired. Reminding him of his virtues will instantly boost his self-esteem;
Plan an entertaining program for the two of you. It should include activities that are interesting to your significant other. Does he like fishing? Great! Spend your Saturday evening on the shore of a pond. Is your betrothed a football fan? A trip to a sports bar together will give you a lot of new emotions;
If a man likes to have fun, then create a party in his honor right at your home for no reason. Invite friends, set the table, in a big company he will forget about his problems;
Everyone already knows what the path to the heart of any male passes through. Prepare a delicious, romantic dinner from his favorite dishes. Although this will not last long, it will cheer him up, and besides, he will be able to feel the care of the woman he loves;
Give your loved one a surprise. Such a gift will bring a lot of positive emotions not only to him, but also to you.

It is strictly forbidden to leave a man alone when he is under stress. Of course, he will be able to cope with his problems on his own, but he will feel more comfortable with you.

How NOT to support a man

⛔ DO NOT demand that he tell you everything urgently. When he came as black as a cloud, don’t think that if you ask him and he speaks out, he will feel better. This usually works for women, but usually not for men. He looks for a way out of the problem in silence and does not blame it on the weak (although this may be because the “weak” suddenly begin to come in with advice and teachings). If he doesn't want to talk, then you just need to mind your own business. And don't be offended! This is not a stone in your garden, he just doesn’t want to talk NOW, and that doesn’t mean anything else. Leave him alone, just be nearby; if he wants to, he’ll come up and start a conversation.

⛔ DO NOT solve his problems. You are not a mommy or a hen, you don’t need to babysit him, otherwise he will turn into a child. The big one will handle it himself as soon as he comes to his senses, and in this process he will become stronger. Therefore, there is no need to give him money, look for a job for him, arrange interviews, get a job yourself (especially the second and third), and so on. Respect his strength, because for a man, love is in respect.

How to cheer up over the phone?

Not only an SMS or a post on a social network wall, but also a call on a mobile phone can lift your spirits. Hearing your voice, a man will feel support and understanding from his beloved woman, this will undoubtedly cheer him up and make him look at his problems differently.

You should not impose yourself, if you feel that your partner is trying to avoid this conversation, it means that at the moment he is not yet ready to open up to you, you should wait a few days, after which you can repeat the call.

What can you do to make your man always happy?

If your man often comes home from work or school in a depressed mood, then it’s time to take action. There are several secrets that, if you apply them, your man will always come home in a good mood:

There should always be a calm and friendly atmosphere in the house. Men love silence, they have no desire to return after work to that house where there are always scandals;
Your loved one should see that he is always welcome and welcome, so always greet him with a smile and a light kiss;
Before his arrival, you should prepare a delicious dinner and set the table beautifully. This will boost your partner's morale;
Regular sex life is the key to a good mood for any man. Even if you are tired all day and you have to get up early, at night you need to set aside time for affection for your partner;
Plan an active weekend for your family. He will walk around in a good mood all week, anticipating the onset of happy days.

If you follow the rules given above, then you will never be tormented by the question of how to cheer up a guy.

Options for SMS and DM correspondence

If you are far from each other, there is no need to wait for an opportunity to meet. You can also support a person from a distance by sending him an SMS or a personal message through social networks. You can use ready-made SMS examples. And if you add your own words to them, it will be even more pleasant for the man.

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With a hint

What lifts a man's mood best? Without a doubt, good sex! But if you're far away and can't make love to your boyfriend right now, then cheer him up with messages hinting that a hot girl is waiting for him in the near future:

Honey, are you in a bad mood? Come home soon, I will lift your spirits and everything else that has fallen...
I am completely exhausted to wait in the position I asked for.
Dear, I really need you tonight. So stop getting upset and wasting your energy.
Any plans for Saturday evening? No, don’t think anything like that... And if you suddenly thought about it, what do you think of this idea?
I see that you are completely upset... You know, come in the evening... let's lie down like adults!

Such SMS with a hint of quick sex will occupy the thoughts of a young man and distract him from his problems, at least for a while.

funny

If you understand from a telephone conversation or correspondence that your lover is upset about something or is simply sad, then try to cheer him up. Send short SMS to your beloved man that will cheer him up at work or anywhere else where he is now:

Come today for a cup of tea... I cooked the meat in French...
Look at the sky. Now the clouds will clear and the sun will wink at you!
Today I bought a kilogram of oats at the store for the best stallion. Please don't be late for dinner!
Darling, I'm proud of your taste. After all, you chose me!
Would you like some delicious buns? They are waiting for you at home after work!

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You don’t necessarily need to be nearby to distract a man from sad thoughts. It is important to make it clear that the guy is valued and loved, then his mood will certainly improve.

From a series of black humor

If your lover understands dark humor and such jokes amuse him, then you can make the guy laugh in this way. Choose good jokes or short anecdotes and send them at the moment when your lover is sad or upset:

The corridor ahead was so long and brightly lit that the old man checked his pulse just in case.
Curious Katya licked the Ferris wheel in 30-degree frost and took a free ride 5 times.
The crime boss's mistress is very worried every time she is taken to a barbecue.
I bought toilet paper with holes - let everything be in our hands.
A chocolate bar that accidentally fell out of a coach's trousers caused panic in the pool.

Fans of dark humor will appreciate such funny SMS. They will help them relax, take a little break and improve their mood.

Creative ideas

When looking for a suitable SMS, be creative and look for non-standard options that a man will appreciate. For example, if you order sex toys from a store with delivery, you can send this type of message: “Dear customer! Your order - a whip and handcuffs - was handed over to the neighbors, since you were not at home. Thank you for visiting our store."

If a guy thinks that you are a bad driver, cheer him up with a message like this: “It’s been a long time since I drove. Everyone around is bored: they are shouting, waving their hands... They are greeting.” A good option is SMS with continuation. First you send the phrase “I want to give you...”, and after a couple of minutes - “... read an interesting book.”